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Remodeled Love

Jessica Daylover

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Remodeled Love is a podcast whose mission is to help expand the cultural narrative on healthy relationships, polyamory, parenthood, and love. It is produced and hosted by polyamorous mama, Jessica Daylover, and most often co-hosted with her husband and babydaddy, Joseph Daylover (and beginning in 2024, her whole polycule!) You can find Remodeled Love on all major social media platforms, @RemodeledLove, and online at www.remodeledlove.com.
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A continuing education podcast where two therapists talk more than they listen. Each episode I have conversations with other therapists where we tackle topics with equal parts thoughtfulness and levity and the result is practical strategies to improve your practice and your everyday life. Why not listen and get CE credits at the same time? Visit the link in the show notes for details.
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Home of: Your Judgemental Friend (a comedy, society & culture podcast) & Polyhood (adventures in polyamory and parenthood). Plus archives from: PSA TODAY (a public affairs radio show), Jes & Ian (short live radio breaks on 100.1 The X), and WHAT'S UP (an improvised podcast by Reno-Tahoe's #1 Comedy Troupe, The Utility Players). Learn more at www.homesliceproductions.com
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In this episode Jes and Joe sit down with Dr. M's parents, who, after 43 years of monogamy, recently discovered the joys of swinging...and now they're both big ol' bisexual sluts! Prepare yourself for an episode that's somehow as pumpkiny as it is DIRTY. *** Support us on ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ and get access to exclusive content and a behind-the-scenes loo…
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Can we perfect perfectionism without succumbing to anxiety? Join us for an enlightening episode as we sit down with Dr. Eddie O'Connor, a renowned expert in sport psychology, to explore how becoming the "perfect perfectionist" and shifting our perspective on failure can lead us closer to peak performance in all aspects of life without the burden of…
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What is childhood alarm? How are some traditional approaches to childhood anxiety developmentally inappropriate? Does CBT work for kids? What can we do instead? All of this and more in this episode with the holistic family psychologist, Ashleigh Warner. Ashleigh has spent over a decade working with families in various settings. Ashleigh has a Maste…
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Hey everyone, thank you for listening to This Hour has 50 Minutes. After much deliberation, I have made the decision to end the podcast for a host of personal and professional reasons. There are two more episodes coming out before we end. Be sure to check those out. CE credits are available until the end of April 2024. We will reach out to annual m…
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Alternative episode title: Famous Last Words In this episode, The Daylovers (Jes, Joe, and Ash) talk about: *what Datty is learning in polyamory (fear of trying and failing at finding compatible partners), *what Ash is learning about parenthood and co-parenting (letting go of attachment, not trying to immediately nip things in the bud or cast judgm…
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In this episode: Joe finds out Ash is having an affair with Dr. M('s pores), we talk about our journey to get Ash qualified for FMLA as a polyamorous family, and we discuss, in depth, our favorite punctuation. We also talk about what Jes and Joe are individually learning in the world of parenthood right now, and Ash shares what they are learning in…
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This is by far the best and most unhinged episode we've ever recorded and we're worried we may never top it. (We will.) It's honestly all over the place and we're not sure how to summarize it, but we talk about: age gap relationships, sleeping arrangements, Jes's new orgasm discovery she calls "bass orgasms", how Ash loves to listen through the ven…
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In this episode The Daylovers (all 4 of them!) try to catch you up on everything that happened in 2023, which was both the best and worst year of their lives. This is the first episode recorded as a nested polycule, including the notorious Dr. M! *** Support us on ⁠Patreon⁠ and get access to exclusive content and a behind-the-scenes look at our lif…
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When we left off 6 months ago (holy shit), it was right before Jessica's birthday orgy and Joe was about to meet his long distance lover, Ash, for the first time. Well, now it's 6 months later and YOU get to meet her...cuz she lives here now. And she's the best thing to ever happen to our little family. *** Support us on Patreon and get access to e…
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Many adults seek services for struggles in their lives that may be the result of undiagnosed or overlooked ADHD. Often these challenges become more apparent when significant changes in their lives throw off their coping. In this podcourse, Dr. Jessica Stern joins Dr. Tamara to discuss what brings these adults to therapy, how to differentiate ADHD f…
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Natalie Brunswick joins Dr. Tamara Soles to discuss high sensitivity. Natalie shares the definition of high sensitivity and sheds light on the core features and how they relate to fear responses and heightened anxiety. As an OT and a psychotherapist, her insights on the sensory processing piece are incredibly valuable. The hosts also tackle a commo…
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In this episode, Jessica and Joe talk about how hard it was to get this episode made, the chaos created when you move two partners into your small home within a year, how hard it is to purge your home, and what the fuck is a Roth IRA. Enjoy the full episode, as well as a bunch of other exclusive content, on our Patreon (www.patreon.com/remodeledlov…
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Earn Continuing Education Credit for This Episode Become a Member and Get Unlimited Continuing Education Credits for a Year Allyson Dinneen joins me to discuss embracing vulnerability, and boundaries and making space for even our most uncomfortable emotions. Allyson shares how to transform childhood patterns of fixing people’s problems and making p…
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Enroll for 1 hour CE credit Become a Member and Get Unlimited Continuing Education Credits for a Year Today I’m joined by Dr. Ashley Miller as we talk emotion-focused parenting and her book What to Say to Kids when Nothing Seems to Work. Dr. Ashley Miller is a child and adolescent psychiatrist and family therapist at BC Children’s Hospital with 15 …
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Get 1 Hour CE credit for this episode How do we help kids with intense anger when their parents say they "refuse" to try the strategies they have been taught? Guest Jessica Sinarski shares her trauma-informed strategies to teach children about their brain and help them understand and regulate their emotions. Whether it is helping them strengthen th…
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Earn 1 hour CE. Register to take the post-test In this engaging podcast episode, host Dr. Tamara Soles invites esteemed psychologist Dr. Helen Ofosu to shed light on her career as a work and business psychologist. Together, they explore Dr. Ofosu's practical approaches to helping individuals navigate workplace barriers and discuss the common concer…
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Earn 1 hour CE. Register to take the post-test Dr. Liz Angoff joins host Dr. Tamara Soles in this enlightening episode as they discuss the transformative potential of collaborative co-construction in psychological assessments. Explore how actively involving children in shaping assessment questions and engaging in feedback dialogues enhances their u…
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You may know Emily, Dedeker, and Jase as the hosts of the world-renown podcast, Multiamory. And now you can officially add 'authors' to their bio lines! Dropping May 23rd, 2023 (though available for pre-order today), "Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships" is a curated collection of the most popular communication tools, advice, and w…
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Enroll to earn 1 hour of CE Do you get overwhelmed at tax time or find yourself digging through faded receipts that you intended to keep track of month-to-month? Self-proclaimed accounting nerd and CEO of Heard, Andrew Riesen joins me to help therapists master their finances! Whether you're a seasoned therapist or just starting out, we've got the f…
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Get CE credits for this episode Highlights The unique mental health risks for African American Children How the false narratives around African American Families impact therapy Factors contributing to shame for African American Families Steps therapists can take to reduce shame Implicit bias and how it impacts therapy Shame proof parenting Parental…
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Get CE credits for this episode Whether you're a therapist in private practice or growing your side hustle, this episode is for you! Listen as we discuss mental health marketing, how to rethink your messaging and why your message needs to reach the top of the bleacher seats! Steve Turney is the executive director of the Mental Health Marketing Conf…
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Breaking up is hard to do. In this episode of Remodeled Love, Jessica talks with one of her favorite polyam podcasters, ashe danger phoenix of the Dear Jessamyn podcast. They discuss why lesbian breakups take so long, and is there a way to make them shorter; can we discuss breakups with someone before entering into a relationship with them, the dif…
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Get CE credits for this episode Ready to bid a final farewell to procrastination? In this episode, guest Dr. Hayden Finch shares the psychology of procrastination! From exploring the different types of procrastination to decoding the fascinating neuroscience behind it, we'll equip you with the knowledge and tools to help your clients (or yourself!)…
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Get CE credits for this episode Learn the science-backed tools that therapist and author Risa Williams created to help clients boost their self-esteem and ultimately heal her own. Risa shares how surviving the highly competitive worlds of professional ballet and the Hollywood film industry and shifting into motherhood as a therapist helped her deve…
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Enroll Now for 1 hour CE credit How do we end deficit based-educational systems that disproportionately harm minoritized students and move from what's wrong to what's strong? Dr. Kelsie Reed and Dr. Byron McClure join me to reframe deficit thinking and provide practical strategies to move toward strength-based, equitable schools. Dr. Byron McClure,…
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Get CE credit for this episode Dr. Tamara Soles welcomes guest Dr. Jen Blanchette who breaks down how psychologists may be better equipped to support TBI than they think. She shares how to leverage the core pillars of brain health and dispels myths around treatment for TBI’s. Dr. Jen highlights the importance of understanding the emotional “trauma"…
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Continuing Education Credits Dr. Tamara Soles is joined by Dr. Bibi Pirayesh to explore learning differences through a social justice lens and to understand how clinicians can better advocate for their clients. We also discuss ways to improve the recommendations of a psychological assessment report and the difference between unpacking a diagnosis v…
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Natalie Brunswick joins Dr. Tamara Soles to discuss high sensitivity. Natalie shares the definition of high sensitivity and sheds light on the core features and how they relate to fear responses and heightened anxiety. As an OT and a psychotherapist, her insights on the sensory processing piece are incredibly valuable. The hosts also tackle a commo…
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In this episode The Daylovers catch you up on all things Remodeled Love, including some yummy new support groups. changes in the structure of their personal+professional life intersections, and some exciting visions for the future. They also share some Hot Goss (the hottest goss they've ever had), aka: Jes's upcoming birthday orgy, and some delicio…
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Get CE credits for this episode What is authenticity? How do therapists both show up authentically while creating safe space for their clients to do the same? Can authenticity exist without self-disclosure? Should we be encouraging clients to be authentic in all spaces? These questions and more are explored in this episode with guest psychologist, …
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Get CE credits for this episode Risa Williams returns to the podcast to discuss time management. Risa has compiled her favourite time management and productivity Tools for Adults with ADHD and Chronically Busy People. Listen to find out how to get in (and out!) of the flow state, how to get past the wall of resistance and the best ways to hack your…
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Earn Continuing Education Credit for This Episode Become a Member and Get Unlimited Continuing Education Credits for a Year Amanda Petrik-Gardner joins Dr. Tamara Soles to discuss Body Focused Repetitive Behaviors. Amanda describes the different BFRB’s including Trichotillomania (hair pulling disorder) and Excoriation (skin picking disorder). We di…
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In the kickoff to Season 3 of the "Remodeled Love" podcast, Jes chats with the creator of and artist over at @Shrimpteeth, Sam. There are several arguments against the presence of the "peer support" model in the polyamorous digital sphere:the potential for the abuse of power, the fact that there's no board to report abuse to, no official training o…
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In this episode of Remodeled, Jes chats with a brilliant and diverse group of polyamorous men, some of whom you may recognize as popular content creators in the polyamorous digital sphere. Joining Mr. Daylover at the table is our good friend Wade (remember him from Season 1??), Albert of @Polymananswers & @Albah.Love (and Jes' comet partner in Sacr…
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Earn Continuing Education Credit for This Episode Become a Member and Get Unlimited Continuing Education Credits for a Year Dr. Susan Campbell joins Dr. Tamara Soles to discuss her new book From triggered to Tranquil: How Self-compassion and Mindful Presence can Transform Relationship Conflicts and Heal Childhood Wounds. Dr. Campbell shares her pro…
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Earn Continuing Education Credit for This Episode Become a Member and Get Unlimited Continuing Education Credits for a Year Dr. Tamara Soles and therapist and advocate Lauren Tetenbaum discuss the Fair Play Method and how to promote gender equity in the home. Lauren shares the impact of emotional and cognitive labor on women and the ways to use com…
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In this episode of Remodeled, The Daylovers enjoy deliciously upscale recording accommodations and talk about their new book, "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children". They offer a brief overview of their new book, and share a little of the behind-the-scenes process. Jes also shares some show feedback--mainly t…
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Earn Continuing Education Credit for This Episode Become a Member and Get Unlimited Continuing Education Credits for a Year In this episode, I talk to therapist, Tiffany McLain about charging premium fees and earning what you're worth in private practice. Tiffany McLain, MFT is a therapist & consultant whose mantra is, “Full fees are the new black.…
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In this episode Jes chats with @coach_shor on the intersections of compulsory monogamy, compulsory heterosexuality, compulsory cis-ness, and fatphobia. And, as always, they dive into the semiotics of it all. Sponsor for this episode is the good folks from Beducated!: Click here or copy past this link (http://beducate.me/pd2206-remodeled-couples) to…
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Earn Continuing Education Credit for This Episode Become a Member and Get Unlimited Continuing Education Credits for a Year What is Geek therapy and is it just “geeking out” in session? We answer these questions and more in this episode of This Hour has 50 Minutes with guest, Elizabeth Sanchez Arvizu. We discuss what geek therapy is (and isn’t), ho…
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In this episode, Jes and Joe catch you the fuck up on their polyamorous lives. SO MUCH HAS HAPPENED SINCE THEY GOT BACK ON THE APPS! They share some exciting new connections, some tragic lessons, and a hilarious anecdote that only polyamorous parents can truly understand. 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Pa…
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Earn Continuing Education Credit for This Episode Become a Member and Get Unlimited Continuing Education Credits for a Year Struggle with staying on top of writing therapy notes? You’re not alone. Many clinicians struggle with documentation. Dr. Maelisa Hall joins me to discuss why clinicians struggle with writing progress notes (and it’s not just …
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Earn Continuing Education Credit for This Episode Become a Member and Get Unlimited Continuing Education Credits for a Year Dr. Nick Wignall and I talk about meaningful ways to experience less stress over the holidays including how to set boundaries AND uphold them. Nick shares why people have difficulties holding boundaries and shares strategies f…
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In this extremely vulnerable episode, The Daylovers "come out", and share with you the raw details of their evolution into a beautiful, asexual, polyamorous marriage.They lay out every piece of their journey: Jes's fearful confession of her asexual feelings toward Joe a few months ago, how that landed in Joe's world, Joe's processing of those emoti…
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A brief update about what's to come and highlights from previous episodes. Highlights from: Ep. 22- Allyson Dinneen- Notes from your Therapist Ep. 14- Dr. Joel Schwartz- Neurodiversity and Social Justice Ep. 16- Dr. Cameron Caswell- Understanding Teens Ep. 26- Gabrielle Ferrara- Therapists in Therapy Ep. 5- Dr. David Paul- Treating PTSD Ep. 10- Dr.…
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In this interview we chat with @lavitaloca34 — she shares her backstory, the character arc of her life so far, her polyamory origin story, how she became a content creator, her critiques of the polyamorous community, and some deep wisdom that everyone needs to hear. TIP US! 👇🏼 CashApp: $lavitaloca35 PayPal: easawyers24@yahoo.com Venmo: Evita-Sawyer…
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Earn Continuing Education Credit for This Episode Become a Member and Get Unlimited Continuing Education Credits for a Year Dr. Mitch Abblett joins me to discuss his new book Prizeworthy: How to Meaningfully Connect, Build Character, and Unlock the Potential of Every Child. We talk about the difference between praising and prizing, how to see behin…
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[CW: Brief mentions of trauma, intimate partner violence, and sexual violence] In this episode, Jes chats with fellow Instagram content creator, Sydney Rae Chin. Sydney (they/she) identifies as a queer, non-binary, East Asian, anti-capitalist femme. They talk Sydney's critique of the social media space: the entrepreneurial culture, the problematic …
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In this highly anticipated episode of "Remodeled", Jes chats with clinical psychologist Dr. Antonia Jurkovic about her perceived and experienced correlations between ADHD and Polyamory. They dive into: how much Dr. Antonia thinks Polyamory and ADHD are related to one another, how the identities are inherently intertwined, and the growing observatio…
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Earn Continuing Education Credit for This Episode Become a Member and Get Unlimited Continuing Education Credits for a Year Dr. Anya Griffin joins me to talk about helping children change their thoughts, experiences and behaviours related to chronic pain, ultimately reducing pain and leading to a more functional life. Anya shares the gold standard …
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