Best Susan Stageman, Morgan Jobe, James Lusk, and others Podcasts (2024)

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EP # 80 Sleep Oh Wonderful Sleep! 50:47

1M ago50:47

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I’m receiving more and more requests from people to help them with their lack of ability to fall asleep, stay asleep, and get restful sleep. So that they can wake up rested. Sleep is difficult because of the things we keep track of or have to take care of. Sleep is a big part of calming your nervous system to manage stress (EP 79). Hosts discuss wh…

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Ep # 79 Calming the Neurological Storm Using NLP 1:07:05

2M ago1:07:05

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Morgan recently started a coaching and training business that focuses on helping corporate leaders, professionals, and entrepreneurs control and reduce stress. This episode covers the problem with stress in society, what stress is, how it affects our body, and how to use NLP and other processes to reduce stress. It is estimated that 75-90% of all h…

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Ep #78 What's the SCORE? A Pathway from the Cause of the Problem to Your Outcome 37:10

3M ago37:10

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Podcast #78 1. What is the Score? The score is a process developed by Todd Epstein and Robert Dilts that creates an established pathway for change. It is part of the unified field theory developed by Robert Dilts. It is nestled between defining the problem state SOAR (State, operator, results) and the TOTE (test, operate, test exit), checks and bal…

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Ep #77 Rodger Bailey, the Master of the LAB Profile Interview 53:42

5M ago53:42

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We are starting this new year with a star-studded program featuring none other than Rodger Bailey, developer of the LAB profile! If you are a student of NLP you will recognize this name. Rodger developed a training program for managers to recognize a person's functional capabilities and motivational triggers using a simple linguistic interview, so …

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EP #76 Holiday Survival Kit 36:12

6M ago36:12

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Here is my prescription for a happy holiday if not a tolerable one… Set an outcome to have fun and enjoy the holidays. Get plenty of rest Sugar and alcohol place a huge strain on your biological system. Taking care of yourself might also include meditation and prayer. And exercise – even a walk every day or every other day brings positive benefits.…

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EP #75 From Conflict to Creativity: Using Conflict as a Resource 49:12

7M ago49:12

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Conflict is a part of life. But how we deal with it and resolve it is what helps us maintain harmony. NLP has an outstanding process to reduce or eliminate inner conflict at any logical level. 1. Where does conflict occur? Areas in which conflict manifests Understanding conflicts of beliefs and values There are many types of conflict. Conflicts of …

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Ep #74 The Most Misquoted Communication Idea in the Universe! 49:07

8M ago49:07

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Have you ever sat in a seminar or a talk about communication and heard the speaker use these statistics about communication? · 7% are the words, · 38% is the way the words are said (para verbals) and · 55% of the communication is non-verbal (body language) These often yet misquoted, out-of-context figures came out of the work of Albert Mehrabian, s…

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EP # 73 Light a Fire Under Your ______! Motivation and the System of NLP 59:02

9M ago59:02

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How can NLP address motivation? Motivation is the desire or willingness to do something. A major complaint of many clients is that they aren’t motivated. The Keys to getting yourself to do something can be addressed in a system using the model of NLP. These include 1. Submodalities – compelling future; contrastive analysis 2. Meta programs 3. Belie…

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Ep # 72 Relationships 201: Are You on the Right Track? 44:05

11M ago44:05

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Safe to say most human problems stem from other humans. Lately, I’ve been coaching a number of people who are starting relationships or are reaching a place where it is obvious that something has to change. Here is a short list of relationship characteristics that I think need to be there for a lasting bond. 1. Do I feel safe? Does my partner feel …

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EP #71 Using NLP as a System for Weight Loss (or other goals) 57:55

1y ago57:55

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NLP contains many powerful concepts and techniques that can be transformative on their own, but when utilized as an entire system, NLP can make change almost effortless and sustainable. When we try to change something about ourselves or our actions simply through willpower, we often find it difficult to create and maintain motivation, develop and f…

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EP #70 The Truth About Lying With Stan B. Walters 52:05

1y ago52:05

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This is a real treat! Stan B. Walters is our guest on this episode. Stan is known as “The Lie Guy®” and has appeared on ABC, CBS, CNN, Fox News, NBC, France Channel One, and Australia Today. He was the host / technical adviser on National Geographic's “The Science of Interrogation.” He is a Certified Speaking Professional by the National Speakers A…

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Ep #69 When You Feel More Like a Firefighter than a Business Owner 1:03:02

1y ago1:03:02

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Sometimes we have so much to do that the more we 'try' to get done, the less we actually do. We stop planning and jump from crisis to crisis, putting out fires, and never seem to accomplish anything. The feeling of overwhelm sets in and if left to itself will insure that the system will go into chaos. It is a very stressful place to be. You never s…

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Brain Language Podcast Short: Stress Hormones Ride Again 8:50

1y ago8:50

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This is a 10-minute "short" on the possible reason some people snack unconsciously while stressing, concentrating, or creating something new. Support the Show.By Susan Stageman, Morgan Jobe, James Lusk, and others

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EP #68 But is there evidence? 35:29

1+ y ago35:29

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Watching my favorite genre of TV series, the detective show, I am reminded about the importance of evidence. The seasoned detective uses a lot of intuition because they have seen it all before and they develop tacit knowledge of criminal patterns that play over and over again. But when it comes to charging and convicting a criminal for a crime, evi…

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EP #67 NLP Presuppositions as Life-guiding Principles 36:23

1+ y ago36:23

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Although the end-of-year holidays have passed, it is always a good reminder the review how the NLP Presuppositions can make interactions with others easier. Presuppositions, in general, act as guiding principles that are assumed as true for any model. NLP, Neuro-Linguistics Programming is no exception. To understand and engage the model of NLP, tho…

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Ep #66 Belief Installation Procedure using a Time Line 52:12

1+ y ago52:12

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Episode addresses: 1. What is difficult about making changes 2. How are beliefs important to making changes 3. What are some of the important tools for facilitating a change? Verbal affirmations, Mentors, Systems, Timeline, Beliefs to support 4. What is the timeline installation belief procedure and how does it work? When we have a desired outcome …

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EP #65 NLP: A business Must-Have featuring James Lusk 50:39

1+ y ago50:39

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James and I talk about how he using his NLP skills in his new business. He uses many more than three things, but here are his top three; Told from his point of view! 1. Rapport skills I am intensely dialed into whom I am speaking with in my driver roster and configure my interactions with them to match and pace the conversation. When addressing gro…

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EP #64 ACHOO! A Sneeze at Allergies! 38:27

2y ago38:27

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By Susan Stageman & Alex Tollen

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EP #63 Tips and Tricks To Make Changes Using NLP 51:28

2y ago51:28

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Kinesthetic anchoring, reframing, and conflict resolution are some of the NLP processes people can use for mental and emotional changes. There are many more but these are processes that people can learn how to use themselves and are simple change techniques. It is most important to develop a wellformed outcome before using any process to resolve an…

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EP #62 Using NLP with Illness 38:41

2y ago38:41

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This is an inspirational story of a Master Practitioner of NLP who used NLP processes while undergoing cancer treatments. He mentions some of the processes in NLP he used, such as the Outcome Frame (sensory-based), anchoring, submodalities (pain management), the structure of questions, presuppositions, and beliefs (his and others). Other topics inc…

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Ep #61 Rapport Isn't Just About What You Do -- Visual Rapport 58:27

2y ago58:27

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Julie Thurburn, as guest host, and Susan Stageman discuss visual rapport -- What are you wearing for the conversation you want to have? Julie is a Certified Image Consultant. In a slightly different format, they talk about rapport from a different angle: how our appearance can make or break rapport from the outside to the internal feelings we have.…

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Ep #60 What is the Score? 49:08

2y ago49:08

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The Score is an approach to solving problems and getting outcomes developed by Robert Dilts and Todd Epstein in 1987 to describe the process they were intuitively using to define problems and design interventions. They realized through teaching a series of seminars that they were systemically organizing the way they approach a problem differently t…

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EP #59 The Kid Approach and NLP 48:07

2y ago48:07

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Many parents ask me about NLP training or help with their child’s self-esteem. This episode includes The important stages of Childhood development Sense of self around age 2 The approach a parent should take if they think a child would benefit from NLP Teaching the child the NLP presuppositions and helping them apply them to life situations will he…

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Ep #58 What's True or What's False: Decisions and The Psychology of Doubling Down 38:49

2y ago38:49

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Decision-making is a complex process – some processes are more complex than others. How you arrive at a decision is a process of taking in information both externally and internally and then taking action. To double down is to take a further risk in a situation or passionately re-commit one's efforts to a cause or course of action. Summary Decision…

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Ep #56 Talking to Two Minds - Permissive Language 47:22

2+ y ago47:22

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In this episode, we talk about Permissive or Indirect Language or The Milton Model. Indirect language or permissive language it is called sometimes is vaguely worded communication designed to bypass the conscious mind and speak to the unconscious. Phrases of permissive language or the Milton Model are often used to soften communication. Instead of …

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EP #57 Don't let your inner critic get the best of you - there is another way! 47:06

2+ y ago47:06

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Guest host, Brad Costanzo, and Susan Stageman talk about the Disney Strategy. The brilliance of Disney comes out in this strategy he used to build an entertainment empire during the depression. We talk about what it is, how to use it. Your inner critic has a job to do. Give it the right job. When you organize your planning around the Dream, the Pla…

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EP #55 To Ask or Not to Ask: That is the Question? Having fun with Guest Host James Lusk and the Meta Model 56:13

2+ y ago56:13

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Susan and Guest Host, James Lusk, explore the Meta Model, Process-Oriented Questions. What is the Meta Model? We review the Meta Model and its categories: deletions, generalizations, and distortions. How do the language patterns of the Meta Model relate to our mental maps? Finally, James talks about some of his outstanding applications of the Meta …

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EP #54 What is the meaning of what you are asking for? Leadership 101 42:07

2+ y ago42:07

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Many people think they know what they want but haven’t taken the time to discover what they are asking for. It is easy to say, I want to be a great leader or business person or salesperson or wife, husband, chef, manager, etc. but do not have criteria or even what values or beliefs or behaviors a leader, etc. would have or what they would demonstra…

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Ep# 53 Tongue Fu - Sleight of Mouth Part 2 45:07

2+ y ago45:07

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Part 1 of Sleight of Mouth Patterns is Episode #51. In episode # 51 we did SOM patterns REDEFINE, COUNTER EXAMPLE, HIERARCHY OF CRITERIA, AND INTENTION. In this episode we are going to try to finish the patterns. CHUNK DOWN, CHUNK UP, APPLY TO SELF, REALITY STRATEGY, MODEL OF THE WORLD, ANOTHER OUTCOME, CHANGE FRAME SIZE Support the Show.…

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EP #52 Time is On Our Side: Getting Things done 28:10

2+ y ago28:10

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Time is an elusive concept. Yes, Time is a concept. It doesn't exist the way we think it does. We can keep track of time on a clock. Because of that people tend to quantify time, having too much time on their hands or too little time. We have dozens of linguistic metaphors around time, i.e. Time flies or Time is money or you are running out of time…

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Ep #51 Tongue Fu or Black Belt of Tongue: Sleight of Mouth 48:35

3y ago48:35

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In 1980, Robert Dilts modeled the patterns of such esteemed communicators as Abraham Lincoln, Gandhi, Milton Erickson, Plato, and Socrates (to name a few.) These individuals were superb at influencing belief systems and effectively persuading with these quick verbal reframes. Dilts called these language patterns Sleight of Mouth, named after sleigh…

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EP #50 Forgive the Unforgivable 47:24

3y ago47:24

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Forgiveness is an often misunderstood concept. You can use NLP to help yourself truly let go of things that you cannot change. In the first segment, we talk about what is misunderstood about forgiveness. People oftentimes think that forgiving someone for what they did is condoning it. It is not. Learn what the difference is between condoning and le…

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EP #49 Relationships 101 46:34

3y ago46:34

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Significant Patterns in NLP for harmonious relationships: Unless you happen to find your soul mate (what is that mean anyway?) you are probably going to have ups and downs in your relationships. And even soul mates aren’t perfect. NLP offers effective processes for keeping you and your partner or family member, boss, employee, etc. on the right tra…

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EP #48 How Come I'm Not Doing the Things I Want to Do - Part 2 50:25

3y ago50:25

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In EP 42 we talk about – How come I am not doing the things I really want to do? In that episode we talked about some things that stop us: 1. Modal operators: must, have to, want, need, should 2. Submodality maps 3. Don't know how or missing information 4. Lateral or mismatched criteria 5. Values 6. Confusion with goals and tasks In today’s episode…

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EP #47 - If You Want Confidence, You May Be Asking For the Wrong Thing! 49:50

3y ago49:50

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When many people start out doing something new, they ask for confidence to do it. They are wanting to motivate themselves to do something new. What makes people think they can be confident doing something they have never done or done enough to get good at it. The episode discusses the Bandura Curve (the study of performance versus expectation) and …

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EP #46 Transforming Negative Parts into Super Allies 56:24

3y ago56:24

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A part is a metaphor that can be thought of as a collection of beliefs, ideas, abilities, and states that have less connection with other states. You could think of them as subsystems that operate in people more or less independently of the whole or other subsystems. For example, a person may think of themselves as confident but in one area have a …

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EP #44 Could I Ask A Better Question 1:05:52

3+ y ago1:05:52

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Why do people ask questions? To get information. Have you ever left a situation thinking, I wished I had asked more questions? Questions are a valuable part of conversations and communication in general. Yet, most training will focus on using the right words and listening rather than asking good questions. The conversation, meeting, or presentation…

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EP #44 The Power of Flow 1:04:23

3+ y ago1:04:23

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Flow is a powerful concept for aligning yourself, life, and values to create serendipity. Serendipity is the process by which things happen - synchronistic events where things come together as if by magic. This concept was originally put forth by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi in his book, Flow: the psychology of optimal experience. NLP helps a person to …

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EP #43 What do you when you cannot decide 48:09

3+ y ago48:09

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Indecisiveness is something that seems to plague a lot of people. It can be appreciated because it has a positive intent. I say this because being indecisive is a strategy unto itself. How do you decide to be indecisive? Well, you have to decide not to decide. It’s the same as no response is a response. You are making a decision not to make a decis…

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EP-#42 How come I am not doing the things I really want to do? 1:02:21

3+ y ago1:02:21

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What are some of the things we put off doing, don’t do, think about doing but don’t do even though we know how to do them? It can be as simple as reading a book, fixing something in your house, taking a class, returning that shirt. or changing the oil in your car. This isn’t even taking into consideration big things: moving, changing jobs, changing…

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EP #41 Words, Words, Words. Which One Do I Use? 56:53

3+ y ago56:53

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We live in a world with words surrounding us like we are fish in the water. We are aware of words but not necessarily conscious of their meaning or how they affect others. This episode is about the power of language. Words inform, and they also influence. The study of NLP is about how language affects our emotions and, therefore, our nervous system…

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EP #40 Meta Programs: Working Organization, Self/Other, Rule Structure, Convincer 1:00:17

4y ago1:00:17

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In our 40th episode, we discuss for each pattern, what it means to exhibit a certain pattern, how to determine a pattern and the influencing language for each pattern. We repeat working organization, the patterns of how people sort their world - people, place, thing, activity, or information. At work, if a person is a high people-sort, yet they are…

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EP #39 Meta Programs: Working Organization (Primary Focus repeat) and Working Scope 52:00

4y ago52:00

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We visit Working Organization (primary focus) again (People, Place, Activity, Thing, Information; see EP #38) and Working Scope: General or Specific. Since Working Organization is explained in EP #38, we go to General or Specific. General or Specific whether a person likes the big picture or overall design of something or if they want the details. …

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EP #38 Working Style, Working Organization, Stress Response 55:02

4y ago55:02

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This episode continues our journey through the Meta Programs (LAB Profile). We discuss a person's working style - how a person does their best: do they like to work alone, with others around them, or work in a true team. With many people working from home these days this is useful information to help them discover why they are continuing to keep th…

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EP #37 - Meta Programs Part 3 - Motivation Source, Reason and Decision 57:29

4y ago57:29

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In this episode, we continue exploring the sorting patterns of humans to determine where our motivation comes from, our motivation reason, and motivation decision. Each of these patterns determines whether we store our standards inside of us or outside, whether we like to follow set procedures or like generating alternatives and how long we will go…

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Ep #36 - NLP Tips & Tactics For Navigating The Effects Of COVID-19 1:13:03

4y ago1:13:03

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In this episode, we discuss the nature and effects the coronavirus is having on on us all. Regardless of what you're situation may be, stressed or not, you are having to deal with the impact COVID-19 is having. The underlying truth is that like any negative experience, there is a structure and a method to effectively navigate it. We provide some NL…

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Ep #35 - Meta Programs Part 2: Level of Activity & Direction 1:03:24

4y ago1:03:24

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In this episode, we talk about two Meta Programs that describe why we do what we do. The pattern identified as level of activity is all about when a person is proactive or reactive. Another way to think about level of activity is when we initiate or wait. The other pattern that we discuss is motivation direction and this refers to move away from or…

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Ep #34 - Meta Programs: The What And How To Use Them 1:18:38

4y ago1:18:38

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In this episode, we work to explain what Meta Programs are in terms of NLP and the subconscious mind. Meta programs are the deeply rooted neurological processes that manage and direct other mental processes. What we pay attention to, how we feel about money, and how we respond to change all stem from our subconscious programming. This is the first …

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Ep #33 - How to Enhance Your Sensory Acuity For Improving Your Communication 56:40

4+ y ago56:40

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In this episode, we work to define sensory acuity and deliver practical methods to employ it into your communication skills. Sensory acuity boils down to how well you use your five senses (VAKOG) to observe other people with curiosity instead of judgment. In NLP, sensory acuity refers to using our senses to make accurate observations about ourselve…

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Ep #32 - Using NLP & Submodalities for a Change 1:06:30

4+ y ago1:06:30

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In this episode, Susan explains what submodalities are in terms of your brain's operating system and how you can use them to incite change in our behavior. Humans are meaning-making machines and we anchor pictures, sounds, feelings, and words to our thoughts. Tune in to find out how this affects how we feel about what has happened and what we're go…

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