Best Jay Dee Marriage Educator Podcasts (2024)

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#127: Why Avoiding Negativity Isn't Enough to Build a Successful Life 12:56

7h ago12:56

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Growing is better than weeding! In this episode of Habit Masters we discuss the importance of focusing on growth and positivity in your life rather than fixating on eliminating negative habits. We use the metaphor of a garden to illustrate that while weeding is necessary, the primary focus should be on planting and nourishing the good fruits you de…

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SWM 133 – Loving your spouse where they are 10:27

7d ago10:27

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SWM 133 - Loving your spouse where they are. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. I often give beginner homework to my coaching clients. A few of them will likely read this and think, “He was talking about me.” You’re not wrong, but you’re also not alone. I give it out frequently because it helps combat some fundamental problems…

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#126: Why You Need a Scorecard: The Power of Tracking Habits 14:01

8d ago14:01

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The Power of Tracking: Progress Not Perfection In this episode of Habit Masters, we dive into the importance of tracking habits to bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be. We'll share our own struggles with maintaining new habits and the impact of tracking on motivation and progress. Forming news habits can be tough, that's wh…

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SWM 132 – Breast implants and body image issues 9:59

14d ago9:59

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SWM 132 - Breast implants and body image issues. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. This episode I'm answer a question I received back in February that I forgot to answer. Here's the question: Hi! To start, I just wanted to say thank you so much for what you do! Your podcast has been immensely eye-opening and helpful! Now, to …

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#125: How Simple Daily Habits Can Help You Achieve Your BIG Goals 11:04

16d ago11:04

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Ever wondered how some people achieve their biggest life goals while others struggle? It's all about the power of daily habits! In this episode we uncover how simple daily habits can help you achieve your BIG goals. From small actions to grand aspirations, we'll uncover how consistency can transform your life. Ready to make progress on your dreams?…

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SWM 131 – Tips to fight more effectively 8:56

21d ago8:56

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SWM 131 - Tips to fight more effectively in your marriage. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. Last week, I shared a list of ideas our Couple’s Night group had that helped build a resilient marriage. At the end of the call, we still had some time and started discussing fighting more effectively. Again, the group came up with so…

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SWM 130 – Building resiliency in marriage 9:51

28d ago9:51

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SWM 130 - Building Resiliency in Marriage. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. On the first Tuesday of every month, Chris from TheLionWithin.us and I co-host "Couple's Night." Couples from our communities get together to talk about marriage. We discuss struggles, share ideas, tips, and a lot of funny stories. It's an absolute b…

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SWM 129 – AQ – Swingers, chastity devices, sex headaches, uncomfortable conversations, flavoured lubes and more 15:46

1M ago15:46

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April 2024 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Can Christians be swingers? Chastity devices Sex and orgasm headaches Wife only wants one oral sex position, which he hates Worried about stamina Trying to spice things up Here are th…

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SWM 128 – Relationships require recalibration 13:34

1M ago13:34

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SWM 128 - Marriages require recalibration. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. There’s an old quip about how men get married expecting their wives to stay the same, and women get married expecting to be able to change their men, and neither gets what they want. It’s funny because often, there’s an element of truth to this, whic…

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SWM 127 – AQ – Not interested in sex, are men infatuated with ejaculate and many more questions 18:12

2M ago18:12

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March 2024 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Why am I not interested in sexy any more after having a baby? How do I get my wife to rest without guilt? Why does my wife dismiss my advice when she asks for it? How do I get my wife…

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SWM 126 – Unspoken Nuances of Understanding 7:24

2M ago7:24

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SWM 126 - Unspoken nuances of understanding. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. Marriage is a cosmic tapestry, a constellation of souls woven into the fabric of time, where vows echo in the heart's language, shaping a journey of shared whispers and laughter. It's a dance of compromise and compassion, a symphony where individua…

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SWM 125 – Rethinking “Duty Sex” 15:06

3M ago15:06

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SWM 125 - Rethinking Duty Sex. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. I've had a lot of conversations with couples as well as husbands and wives individually lately about what often gets called "duty sex" or "pity sex." For those who don't know, duty/pity sex is when one spouse gives in to sex, not because they desire it themselve…

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SWM 124 – My daughter’s speech – A vaccine against the epidemic of transgenderism 9:19

3M ago9:19

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SWM 124 - My daughter's speech - A vaccine against the epidemic of transgenderism. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. Today I've got something a bit different than the usual fare. Last year, for our 100th episode, I had my eldest daughter present her 4H speech as I felt it fit the scope of this blog. This year, she wrote a par…

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SWM 123 – AQ – Enjoying anal sex, periods and vacation, aging and orgasms, fantasizing, and condoms for handjobs 15:20

3M ago15:20

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January and February 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: The monthly masturbation challenge How do I make anal sex enjoyable for her? Periods and vacations and sex Aging and orgasm struggles How do I know if I’m in right? Doe…

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#124: How to Get Back on Track When Life Throws You Off 28:01

3M ago28:01

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Has life ever knocked you out of a long-time routine and you weren't sure how to get back on track? In this episode, Jeff shares his recent struggles with maintaining his long-time fitness routine after a a few unexpected life challenges. We discuss the difficulty of consistency, highlighting the importance of empathy, mindset, and the concept of u…

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SWM 122 – How to make your spouse more attractive to you 18:48

3M ago18:48

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SWM 122 - How to make your spouse more attractive to you. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. If you look online, you can find tons of videos, articles, podcasts, products and more about how to make yourself more attractive to your spouse or potential partners. I mean, it's everywhere. You can also find resources to help you ma…

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#123: Can You Become a Runner, a Writer, or a Loving Spouse by Accident? 23:33

4M ago23:33

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Can you become successful by accident? In this episode we answer that question and dive into how the power of identity and the stories we tell ourselves can influence who we become and the results we achieve. We break down how our beliefs shape our actions and we share simple ways to transform your life through intentional daily habits. So, if you'…

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SWM 121 – Why marriage should be hard work 16:06

4M ago16:06

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SWM 121 - Why marriage should be hard work. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. I made a post on social media some time ago saying, “Marriage is hard, divorce is hard, choose your hard,” and someone asked me if I then disagreed with some other bloggers and podcasters who say that marriage is and should be easy. This post expand…

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SWM 120 – How you may be making your birth control methods ineffective 12:10

4M ago12:10

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SWM 120 - How you may be making your birth control methods ineffective. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. A few years ago, I was talking to a client during a coaching call, and we got off on a bit of a tangent about condom use. I explained a few ways that people tend to lower the protection of condoms when they use them. He w…

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SWM 119 – Vibrators & dildos, roleplay, talking to your kids about sex, and more 19:36

5M ago19:36

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November and December 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: How do you use a vibrator? Is roleplaying marriage a sin? Will a dildo make me unsatisfied with my husband? Wife makes excuses about everything When to start talking t…

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SWM 118 – In sickness and in health 11:16

5M ago11:16

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The traditional wedding vows go something like “I take you to be my wife/husband, and I do promise and covenant, before God and these witnesses, to be your loving and faithful husband/wife in plenty and in want, in joy and in sorrow, in sickness and in health, as long as we both shall live.” Unfortunately, I don’t remember my wedding vows. I rememb…

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SWM 117 – Why do I want sex when I’m sick?

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SWM 117 - Why do I want sex when I'm sick? Check out the blog post here for more details and links. Well, it’s winter here, which means cold and flu season. So, of course, the last couple of weeks, it’s been rolling through our family of 7. Christina and I were the last to get it, and it seemed I got it worse than her. She complained about being si…

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#122: Ultimate Kids Gift Guide: Our Families' Top Picks for Unforgettable Fun 59:52

6M ago59:52

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Ever wondered what makes a kids' gift totally awesome? In this special episode we're sharing our families' all-time most successful gifts. We're straying from the usual formula for a bit to bring you the ultimate gift guide packed with unique kids gifts and guaranteed family fun. Listen in to see if you find any golden nuggets your family can enjoy…

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SWM 116 – Why do I always have to tell my husband how to help? 12:21

7M ago12:21

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SWM 116 - Why do I always have to tell my husband how to help? Check out the blog post here for more details and links. Lately, I've noticed a trend on social media where famous creator couples make videos of the wife telling the husband that visitors are coming over and they need to prepare. In response, the husband goes and starts cleaning out th…

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#121: What Makes a Great Presenter? Montana von Fliss Reveals the Secrets 1:12:37

7M ago1:12:37

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Ever felt the shivers before public speaking? Or stumbled through a presentation wishing you could command the room? This episode is for you... We sat down with the incredible Montana von Fliss to crack the code on effective communication. Imagine conquering your fear, nailing presentations, and becoming a storytelling maestro. Montana, a top-notch…

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SWM 115 – Strapons, Exes and Foreskins 8:38

7M ago8:38

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October 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Can I use a strap-on on my wife? My husband’s ex-girlfriend What’s a foreskin for? Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Intimacy Advent Calendar Hollow strap-on at Mar…

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SWM 114 – Understanding and Navigating Sexual Obligations in a Christian Marriage

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SWM 114 - Understanding and Navigating Sexual Obligations in a Christian Marriage. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. I had a wife ask, Sex should be a gift given freely, and if I don’t have veto power, am I really giving freely? This is my response in light of 1 Corinthians 7:4-5 and the role model Jesus was for us dying on t…

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#120: Spark Your Marriage: Unlock Communication and Intimacy with Coach Jay Dee 54:40

8M ago54:40

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Discover the secrets to thriving relationships in this episode with special guest Jay Dee from Uncovering Intimacy. Learn how to bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be in your relationship, with expert insights on communication, finances, and reigniting the spark of intimacy. Jay Dee, a Christian relationship and intimacy coa…

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SWM 113 – Orgasms and age, calling your spouse daddy, guilt from initiating 11:08

8M ago11:08

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September 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: A husband's changing orgasms Can widowers masturbate Husband won't stop masturbation habit Calling husband "daddy" Feeling guilty about initiating sex Here are the links I mention…

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#119: Change Your Mind to Change Your Life: The Power of Positive Self-Talk 31:43

8M ago31:43

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Can changing how you talk to yourself change your life? Discover the hidden power of transformative self-talk, essential for high-performers stuck in a cycle of self-criticism. Learn actionable strategies to reframe negative thoughts and supercharge your performance. By the end of this episode, you'll have two SUPER tools you can practice immediate…

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SWM 112 – Do men have it harder when it comes to sexual expectations? 17:25

9M ago17:25

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SWM 112 - Do men have it harder when it comes to sexual expectations? Check out the blog post here for more details and links. This podcast episode is answering this question I received from our anonymous Have A Question page: Hi Jay, I've noticed a dichotomy when it comes to expectations for male and female sex drives and what's considered desirab…

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#118: Living Contract-Free: The Path to Freedom and Impact 20:02

9M ago20:02

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Are invisible contracts holding you back from living life to the fullest? In this episode, we explore the transformative power of selflessness and the profound impact it has on our personal growth and success. Join us as we dive into practical ways to recognize and break free from self-limiting contracts and embrace a life of purpose and fulfillmen…

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SWM 111 – Sex in heaven, oral sex positions, recovering from affairs, wanting to be a mom 11:14

9M ago11:14

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August 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Sex in heaven Oral sex positions How to recover from an affair I want to become a mom Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: SWM 039 - Anonymous Questions from January 20…

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#117: Small Changes, Massive Impact: The High-Leverage Way 18:18

9M ago18:18

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Ever wondered how tiny changes can lead to massive life transformations? In this episode we share how small changes in action can spark massive transformation. Though seemingly insignificant, these small changes hold the power to revolutionize various aspects of your life. We'll explore high-leverage practices for personal growth, and uncover the p…

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#116: Get Unstuck: 15 Ways to Close Loops and Ignite Progress 27:36

10M ago27:36

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Are you ready to break free from the loops that hold you back? A ‘loop’ can be any unfinished business that consumes mental or emotional energy and prevents you from making progress. In this episode we dive deep into the art of closing loops— powerful strategies to get unstuck and ignite your progress. Just like a glitch in software can disrupt ope…

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SWM 110 – Noticing other women, forgotten anniversary, disconnecting during foreplay and more 32:30

10M ago32:30

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July 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: My wife feels disrespected because I notice other women Wife is hurt but not healing after years Wife disconnects during foreplay What can we do during fertile days Oral sex questions …

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#115: How to Give Great Apologies Every Time: The 6.5 Step Formula 28:53

10M ago28:53

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Can a bad apology really be worse than no apology? Yes. An insincere apology can actually do more damage than good. In this episode we'lll break down the key steps for mastering the art of giving sincere apologies every time. But just hearing these steps once won't be enough for them to sink in. So along with this episode we've created a free, down…

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SWM 109 – Crossdressing, reframing duty sex, wife gets sex when she wants, but he doesn’t 10:08

10M ago10:08

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June 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Crossdressing Reframing "duty" sex Wife gets sex when she wants, but he doesn't Afraid to have more children Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Is it wrong for Christia…

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#114: How to Turn Tension into Fuel for Growth 18:29

10M ago18:29

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Can creating tension actually help you reach your goals faster? In this episode, we unravel the idea that progress doesn't come from getting comfortable with discomfort, but from embracing tension as a catalyst for transformation. Using the metaphor of the bow and arrow, we'll help you harness the energy of positive tension and propel yourself towa…

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SWM 108 – What does the Bible say about hell? 42:09

10M ago42:09

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SWM 108 - What does the Bible say about hell? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. This podcast episode is a Bible study about the topic of hell. One of the most confusing subjects in Christianity is the topic of hell. I think it's so confusing because most base their beliefs on a handful of passages and then a heavy dose of po…

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SWM 107 – Wife wants too much sex, repeat unproductive fights, boundaries during dating and sexy underwear for men 12:01

11M ago12:01

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May 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Wife wants too much sex Couple needs counselling Keep having the same unproductive fight Make boundaries before you start dating Sexy underwear for men Here are the links I mentioned du…

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#113: Survival to Freedom: The Life Flip Method Part 3 - The 80/20 Rule 22:10

11M ago22:10

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With this simple three step model, you can flip from a life of survival to one of freedom. In part three of this series we explore the power of the 80/20 rule! Learn how to escape the status quo by shifting your focus to the vital 20%. Unlock your next level by focusing more on your unique ability and eliminating, delegating or outsourcing the 80% …

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SWM 106 – Nude pictures, sex toys, asexual wife, wife not in love with me, wish my wife had a bigger butt 23:06

11M ago23:06

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April 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Is it okay to take nude pictures and videos of each other? Limon by Minna discount Asexual wife? Wife loves me, but isn’t in love with me Wife isn’t interested in improving our sex li…

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SWM 105 – Threesome temptation, aversion to manual and oral, penis size, falling asleep during sex 14:36

11M ago14:36

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March 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Threesome tempations Aversion to receiving manual and oral sex Penis size Falling asleep during sexy time Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Melt - Couples Massage Cou…

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#112: Survival to Freedom: The Life Flip Method Part 2 - Create Vs. React 10:02

11M ago10:02

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With this simple three step model, you can flip from a life of survival to one of freedom. In part two of this three part series you'll learn the second step to flip your life from mere survival to true freedom. By choosing to take a creative rather than reactive approach in your life, you can throw off the shackles of circumstance and become the d…

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#111: Survival to Freedom: The Life Flip Method Part 1 - Approach & Avoid 12:29

12M ago12:29

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With this simple three step model, you can flip from a life of survival to one of freedom. In this episode of Habit Masters you'll learn the first step to flip your life from mere survival to true freedom. Discover the secrets of shifting your mindset, setting 10X goals, and unleashing your full potential. By adopting the approach mindset, you can …

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#110: Golden Nuggets - Summer Quotathon, Part 2 16:18

12M ago16:18

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It's summer and we wanted to share some of our favorite quotes with you for you to enjoy. This is the second and final part of our summer quotathon. Enjoy! In this episode we share some of our favorite quotes that have had a profound impact on us. Over the years we've collected hundreds of quotes and we've handpicked a few golden nuggets to share a…

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#109: Golden Nuggets - Summer Quotathon, Part 1 23:32

1y ago23:32

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The summer time always seems to throw off the routine. The kids are out of school, more people are vacationing, etc. So we created a summer episode. In this episode we share some of our favorite quotes that have had a profound impact on us. Over the years we've collected hundreds of quotes. So in order to keep this episode under six hours, we've ha…

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SWM 104 – Do women control men, beauty vs lusting, playlist for sex, and are men polygamous by nature? 18:46

1y ago18:46

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February 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Women use sex to control men, so men should be allowed to masturbate Appreciating beauty vs lusting Playlist for sex Tenuto Squeamish about handjobs Another question about masturba…

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#108: How to Master Your Attention and Take Control of Your Life 19:46

1y ago19:46

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Do you ever feel like you work hard but aren't seeing the progress? "Where your attention goes, energy flows and so goes the direction of your life." - Darren Hardy In this episode we dive into three areas to help you take control of your life by mastering your attention to turn your efforts into massive progress. After today, you'll know how to ma…

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