Marriage Counselors, Adam King, MA and Karissa King, MA talk with couples, pastors, and therapists about marriage as a busy couple: communication, sex, finances, parenting, and building trust.
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So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode will make it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.
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Ready to experience a life of confidence, success, and sexual integrity? Unleash The Man Within provides principles, tools and practical insights that help professional men unlock their potential by developing a bulletproof inner life. If you want thriving relationships, a strong connection with God, and freedom from sexual misbehavior, this podcast is for you. With 5 episodes per week featuring leading experts, real-life stories, research-based findings and Bible-backed teachings, UMW is th ...
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The Rob Velivis Show The show took form in 2010 when Rob and Glenn Tenor started broadcasting using a cell phone for two or three friends. Shortly thereafter Rob moved the show to the Toil Inc Studios and became the first syndicated broadcast to join the Gashouse Radio line-up (to be followed shortly by Toil Studios roommates Into the Pit and Toil Rock Radio). In June of 2011 Gashouse Radio was on hand to broadcast for the first time ever the Perkiomen Valley Twilight League All-Star Game, R ...
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803 - Adam & Karissa King on Resuscitating Your Sex Life After Porn
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Adam and Karissa King help young married couples create a marriage that's intimate, adventurous, and purposeful. Karissa has a Master's degree in Counseling Psychology and a PhD in Theology and Biblical interpretation. She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Adam has a Masters degree in Philosophy and Christian Apologetics and is a Certifi…
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811 - Larry Hagner On The Spirit of Fatherhood
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We're excited to have Larry Hagner back on the show! Larry is the founder of The Dad Edge, and is one of the leading voices on all things fatherhood. He's got 4 kids between the ages of 18 and 8, and has been podcasting and helping other dads for nearly a decade. This was a really cool conversation because it comes as Larry prepares to launch a new…
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I had a profound realization recently...God definitely laid something on my heart related to who I am, why I'm here, why DeepClean exists, and even why this podcast exists. I'm convinced that the world going to crap is directly related to men staying on the sidelines. Whether it's society "forcing" men down, or men opting out of the leadership of t…
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6/11 - I SHOULDN'T Feel This Way w/ Dr. Alison Cook, Therapist/Author
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Have you ever felt guilty for feeling some of those big emotions we label as “bad?” Today, we chatted with Dr. Alison Cook, an expert on this topic. Dr. Cook is an author, therapist, & clinician. We really dove into not only naming these emotions, but what to do about them from a Christian perspective. At DYMC, we’re dedicated to producing material…
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It's Good To Be Aroused (with Sam Jolman)
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"There is nothing inherently wrong with an aroused man." What is arousal? Why is it good? Sam Jolman helps us reclaim the heart of masculine sexuality for the purpose of awe, play, and worshipping God. You'll learn how arousal always has a script, why evil hates arousal, and the difference between sexuality and sensuality. At the end, you'll receiv…
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809 - Q&A with Live Coaching! Christian Emotions, Relapses, and Sexless Marriages
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Join us for our first live-coaching episode! We're excited to bring two courageous men on the show who we'll coach LIVE here to help them get to the root of their issues and find freedom. Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link. Before we get into the live coaching, Sathiya and Shawn discuss John MacArthur's r…
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Let me get a little personal with you guys today...I want to share what God has been (painfully) doing in my life, because I think He's telling me to share it with you in case you can relate. Not every season is going to be one of growth and spaciousness. Sometimes God trims the fat in our lives. It doesn't mean He's not with us...it just means we …
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807 - Dr. Josh Axe on Developing a Life-Changing Mindset That Helps You Heal (Physically AND Mentally)
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Dr. Josh Axe, DC, DNM, CNS, is a doctor of chiropractic, certified doctor of natural medicine and clinical nutritionist with a passion to help people eat healthy and live a healthy lifestyle. He is a huge proponent of getting to the root of our health problems, not just applying a bandaid pharmaceutical solution. In this episode, he shares his harr…
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806 - Artificial Intimacy (The Real AI Crisis)
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Today we talk about the REAL "AI" threat to our society, and no, I don't mean Artificial Intelligence. I'll break down the even scarier threat of Artificial Intimacy...perhaps the CORE reason why men are drawn toward pornography in the first place. We have to talk about this, because if you can figure this out, the rest of recovery usually follows …
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ASK: When You Have a SEXUAL HISTORY Before Your Spouse
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We had someone submit a question this week about having a sexual history before your spouse. What is your spouse entitled to know? Is there such a thing as sharing too much detail? How can one approach this conversation with grace & understanding? Tune in to hear our reply. Resources: Meet us in Biloxi this summer? 🤝☀️ https://www.dearyoungmarriedc…
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Why do I struggle with gay porn? What does freedom look like? How can I stop using gay porn? In this episode, I answer these questions based on years of research and helping hundreds of men achieve lasting freedom from gay porn. Recommended resources (including paid links): Healing And Recovery: Perspective For Young Men With Sexualized Attachments…
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805 - Q&A: Childhood Trauma, Sleep Issues, and Impulse Control with Sathiya and Shawn
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Join Sathiya and DeepClean Head Coach Shawn Bonneteau on today's Q&A episode, where they answer listener-submitted questions! Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link. We go deep today talking about the insane and under-discussed impacts of how our early childhood can impact our future lives and recovery...we'r…
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804 - Does Your Wife Need To Be On Board With Your Recovery?
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This is a huge topic, and can sometimes be the difference between a man who takes action to get free and a man who stays stuck. Sathiya uses an example to help you understand the path forward here in a way that sets you up for the most success not only in recovery, but in your marriage moving forward. In this episode, we discuss: 0:52 Quit pornogra…
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802 - Should You Use An Internet Filter Ever?
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Internet filters didn't help me in my recovery, so at the beginning of DeepClean I was actually against using them. They can actually be a bit of a crutch and may stop you from going deeper to get true freedom. BUT...I've noticed that they're not always bad. It just depends where you're at in the journey and what kind of help you're getting. In thi…
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Healing Your SEX LIFE After TRAUMA w/ Dr. Margaret Nagib
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Did you walk into marriage with unaddressed past trauma? Did you know this can manifest in your marriage as painful sex, lousy sex, or even avoiding sex altogether? Today, Karissa had the privilege of talking with Dr. Margaret Nagib. She is a clinical psychologist who specializes in Christian counseling. She comes to the table today with such wisdo…
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Episode 482: Episode 484 Of The Rob V Show (Addyson James)
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Episode 484 of The Rob V Show was a special Memorial Day edition! Thank you to everyone that have served in the Military and for the people that didn't make it back. With out them I would not be able to do this crazy radio show every week. Addyson James joined the program and she was a lot to of fun to have on. We found out that she is a Navy Veter…
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How Childhood Experiences Shape Sexual Development (with Drew, Doug, Eddie, and Matt)
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What's the point of processing childhood experiences? In this special episode recorded live at the Sexual Integrity Leadership Summit, Drew, Doug, Eddie, and Matt share insights and stories about how processing childhood experiences can help you outgrow porn. Drew Boa (MA, PSAP) a Certified Unwanted Guide and Inner Child Recovery Specialist. Drew i…
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801 - Q&A: How Long Recovery Truly Takes and Software Recommendations with Sathiya and Shawn
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Join Sathiya and DeepClean Head Coach Shawn Bonneteau on today's Q&A episode, where they answer listener-submitted questions! Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link. We go deep today talking about why social media seems to be THE gateway to watching pornography, what that means for us as individuals AND as pa…
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800 - Why Humility Is The Most Superior Human Quality
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✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Some say that pride is the root of all sin. I've seen too many guys struggling in their recovery journeys and in life because of pride (myself included). Today I want to…
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799 - Dr. Trish Leigh on Using Science To Quit Porn
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✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Dr. Trish Leigh is a cognitive neuroscientist who specializes in helping people with sexual arousal dysfunction. Her work helps to heal, educate, and empower people to o…
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Episode 481: Episode 483 of The Rob V Show (Karissa Koxx)
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Episode 483 of The Rob V Show Karissa Koxx joined the program she was a lot of fun to have on. I tired to talk her out of being a cowboys fan but I don't think it worked. We talked about how she got into the business and her love for going on cruisers. I hope we can get her out to Philly this summer! Check the whole show out right here!…
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✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. God calls us to steward what we are given...but it's not the easiest thing to do, and I don't think many of us are crushing it in this area of life. Today I'm going to b…
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The Silent KILLER: The Ripple Effect of Your PAST on Your PRESENT w/ Dr. Gary Lawrence
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Do you feel stuck by issues in the past that hold you hostage? Today, Dr. Gary Lawrence guides us through not only his story of breaking through the chains of rejection, but how he’s helped thousands of people heal their marriage and live a life of freedom. It was a true privilege to sit with him as he shared his wisdom. Resources: Meet us in Bilox…
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Why We Sexualize Emotions And How To Desexualize Them
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Why do we sexualize emotions, and how can we desexualize them? In this episode, I explain what it looks like to "right-size" sexual energy through processing emotions and releasing trauma. Free tools to process emotions: Feelings And Needs Wheel Feelings And Needs Inventory Ready to release some trauma? Come to the Husband Material Retreat in Color…
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797 - Q&A: Unintentional Viewing, Emotional Insecurity, and Purposelessness with Sathiya and Shawn
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✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Join Sathiya and DeepClean Head Coach Shawn Bonneteau on today's Q&A episode, where they answer listener-submitted questions! Submit your questions below by clicking on …
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796 - How To Quit Porn In The Next 120 Days
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✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. I know for a fact that you can quit porn in the next 120 days, because that's exactly what we help our clients do. Today, I want to give you my 6 step framework for quit…
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795 - Joel Sikha on Stress, Addiction, and The Love of God
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✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Pastor Joel Sikha grew up in India and is now the pastor of Living Church Boise in Idaho. He and his wife have 5 children, and he considers himself a missionary, bringin…
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794 - Why Law Changes Won't Help You Quit Porn
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✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. There's been a lot of encouraging news out of a handful of states in the US that are passing legislation that will require age verification in order to access porn websi…
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Do you love God and know you need to pray, but you’re just not sure HOW to pray? Maybe you do pray, but you just don’t prioritize it the way you should… This is exactly what Pastor Luke St.Clair addresses in today’s episode. He guides us through a prayer process that anyone can follow & also talks about the right MOTIVES for prayer. This wonderful …
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Overcoming Sexual Entitlement (with Noah Filipiak)
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What happens when you feel entitled to sex and treat your wife like a replacement for porn? In this episode, Noah Filipiak tells his story of overcoming sexual entitlement and objectification. Along the way, he unpacks the false promises of purity culture, what love really looks like, how God's grace changes us, and the power of gratitude. Noah Fil…
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793 - Q&A: OCD, Recovery Timelines, and Triggers at 100+ Days Sober with Sathiya and Shawn
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792 - How To Win The Spiritual Battle Behind P*rn Addiction
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✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. In this episode I talk about the main principle we teach our clients when it comes to spiritual warfare. This is something that I think can transcend denominations...som…
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791 - Tony DiLorenzo on the Six Pillars of Intimacy and Building One Extraordinary Marriage
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✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Tony DiLorenzo runs One Extraordinary Marriage with his wife Alisa. At a crucial turning point in their marriage, they decided to get radical rather than get divorced, a…
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99% Success Rate for STOPPING DIVORCE (shocking study)
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Ever wanted to just escape and do another honeymoon together? In 2010, a Malaysian study was conducted around this very concept! Some participants in this study were on the brink of divorce, and you won’t believe what happened after they were sent away on this “second honeymoon”. But you don’t have to be on the brink to benefit from this kind of ge…
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790 - The Shocking Link Between Porn and Sex Trafficking
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✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. I've never talked about this particular angle of how sex trafficking and pornography are linked. While I don't believe in shaming you or scaring you into quitting pornog…
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Hope And Healing For Sexless Marriage (with Adam and Karissa King)
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What is the definition of sexless marriage? Why do couples experience this? Sexless marriage is often a symptom of deeper psychosomatic issues. Adam and Karissa teach practical tools to build a sexful marriage through vulnerability, intimacy, and safe touch. This episode can also help couples for whom intercourse is painful or not possible. Adam an…
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789 - Q&A: Oversharing, Finding Someone To Trust, and Helping A Teen Brother Make Better Choices with Sathiya and Shawn
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✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Join Sathiya and DeepClean Head Coach Shawn Bonneteau on today's Q&A episode, where they answer listener-submitted questions! Submit your questions below by clicking on …
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788 - How To Convince Your Husband He Needs Help
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✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. One of the most common questions I get is from wives asking how they can support their husbands in recovery. Usually they're asking, "How can I convince my husband that …
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787 - Lila Pisor on Betrayal Trauma and Healing Marriage After Addiction
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Free Call With Lila for The Women Listening, or Your Significant Other: https://calendly.com/lilap-2/30min --- ✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Lila Pisor is a betrayal trauma expert. We spend most of o…
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786 - Identity Is Discovered, Not Achieved
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✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. One of the most tragic things in the culture today is that so many of us think that our identity is something we have to achieve. Something we get from our performance. …
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Why You're DEPLETED and How to Find a Healthy Rhythm w/ Pastor Caleb Adams
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Are you stressed, depleted, or over-extended? Today we talk to Rev. Caleb Adams about how to create a healthy margin for your life. Caleb Adams is the pastor of Christian Life Church of Memphis, Tennessee. He has a Masters degree in Christian leadership & is a doctoral candidate at Corban University. He’s studied extensively around the idea of rest…
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Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: How To Respond To A Story (Part 4)
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How do you respond to someone else's story with curiosity and compassion? In part 4 of this 4 part series, Marcus Spaur shares his story: "If I Only Could Have Been..." If you love story work, you'd love Husband Material Groups. Apply to join a group at husbandmaterial.com/group Drew Boa (MA, PSAP) a Certified Unwanted Guide and Inner Child Recover…
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785 - Q&A: Past Relationships, Libido Reduction, and Supporting a Struggling Son with Sathiya and Shawn
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784 - Is Sexual Sin Worse Than Other Sins?
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✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Time to open up a can of worms. On the one hand, sexual sin is equal with other sins insofar as they fall short of God's perfection. However, I'm going to dive into 1 Co…
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783 - Greg Oliver on Recovering From Addiction and Healing Your Marriage After Being Exposed
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✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Greg Oliver’s sexual addiction was exposed in 2009, bringing severe consequences, but also hope for a future free from addiction. God graciously used this exposure to tr…
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782 - How to Mend Relationships Damaged by Pornography
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✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. One of the worst consequences of pornography addiction is the toll it takes on our intimate relationships. We've worked with too many clients who come to us after their …
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Addicted to PORN and from a GOOD Home w/ Sathiya Sam
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Are you feeling a bit stuck with your unwanted sexual behavior? If you’re like most people who really want to recover from porn addiction, you’ve likely tried all the things – willpower, accountability software, counseling, praying… but you keep relapsing. Today, we interviewed Sathiya Sam, a porn recovery coach + speaker. He’s the creator of a pro…
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Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: How To Write A Story (Part 3)
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How do you write a story about your trauma and sexual experiences? In part 3 of this 4-part series, Wendell Moss shares his story: "Sex & Sexuality" If you love story work, you'd love Husband Material Groups. Apply to join a group at husbandmaterial.com/group Drew Boa (MA, PSAP) a Certified Unwanted Guide and Inner Child Recovery Specialist. Drew i…
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781 - Q&A: 3 Mainstream Porn Recovery Tactics We Don't Love, Emotional Overwhelm, and Confession Boundaries with Sathiya and Shawn
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780 - Unmasking the Lies - Debunking Myths about Pornography
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✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. Pornography is still such a socially acceptable thing in our culture that the lies and myths surrounding it get perpetuated without nearly enough push back. In this epis…
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