Explore my journey as a millennial swinger in non monogamy, sex work, sex positivity and relationship advice. Listen every week as I interview people from across the spectrum of sex work, non monogamy and sex positive people. I hope I can provide a safe space for all individuals within the sexual freedom community to inspire others to continue on the culture of inclusivity. Ride along on the Pineapple Express with us!
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Calling all alternative adults and other like-minded humans! Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success so this is one show you won’t want to miss. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with ...
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The One and Only Kiley - Sexyswingerchic Part 2
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Part 2: The one and only Sexyswingerchic host of The Pineapple Express Podcast. She is a powerful mind sharing her influence within the Ethical Non Monogamy world. In this two part episode, we dive into Kiley's journey, sharing the ups and downs and all the growth that came with it. She is one educator you absolutely want to follow. Check her out a…
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67: Navigating Swinging as a Newbie with Jess Nonmonogamous_newbies
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The One and Only Kiley - Sexyswingerchic Part 1
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The one and only Sexyswingerchic host of The Pineapple Express Podcast. She is a powerful mind sharing her influence within the Ethical Non Monogamy world. In this two part episode, we dive into Kiley's journey, sharing the ups and downs and all the growth that came with it. She is one educator you absolutely want to follow. Check her out at www.se…
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66: The Ultimate Guide to Naughty in Nawlins with The Accidental Swingers Podcast
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What is Naughty in Nawlins? "Naughty in Nawlins" is a well-known swingers and lifestyle convention held annually in New Orleans, Louisiana. It's one of the largest events of its kind, attracting couples and singles from around the world who are interested in alternative lifestyles, open relationships, and sexual exploration. For anyone interested, …
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Single to Married - Jim's Lifestyle Journey Part 2
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Welcome to part two of Jim's journey navigating the lifestyle as a married man. This episode starts out discussing his birthday threesome proposition and how it lead to where they are within the swingers world today. As mentioned, he will be a permanent co-host throughout this season, so If you have any questions, let us know. MizzyBender@outlook.c…
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65: Uncovering Shame in Sexuality as a Swinger with Sex and Intimacy Coach Deborah Kat
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Single to Married : Jim's Lifestyle Journey Part 1
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Part 1 of 2: I am so excited to bring my bestie Jim on as a permanent co host throughout the next season of The Mizzy Bender Show. You may remember him from some of the early episodes of the podcast. At this time, I think it is really important to start sharing the male perspective within the Swingers - Ethical Non Monogamy world and he is just the…
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64: Sex Work and Human Design with Samantha Zagar
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Trigger Podcast: I wasn't expecting this to be so emotional, but you always receive the true me, so here we are. I discuss the journey of my hysterectomy, my anxiety and where I am today. I hope you find comfort in my words if you are managing through difficult times. Please know, you are not alone. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to …
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63: Embracing Inclusion in Non Monogamy Communities with DEI expert ThatInclusionLady
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In this episode of the podcast, we talk about all things inclusion within the non-monogamy community, featuring the expertise of Ama, affectionately known as "That Inclusion Lady." A renowned Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) Coach, Ama brings a wealth of knowledge, insight, and passion to our discussion, shedding light on the challenges, triu…
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61: ED Solutions For Men in the Swinger Lifestyle with Dr. Elliot Justin
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In this episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast Kiley talks with Dr Elliot Justin about Firmtech, Elliot Justin, MD, FACEP is an Emergency Medicine specialist, telemedicine expert and sex toy enthusiast. His goal is to help all men and women sustain their sexual fitness, and if they develop ED to reverse or impede its progression. This will be ach…
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60: Human Design and Spirituality in Swinger Settings with Aycee Brown
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59: Body Positivity in The Swinger Lifestyle: A Candid Heartfelt Conversation With Em from Voluptuous Vixen
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58: From Couple To Throuple: Exploring Non Monogamy in the Media with InfinitePolyAm
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57: Exploring Body Diversity and Inclusivity in the Swinger Lifestyle with Cara Turnquist
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Kiley and Cara delve into the beauty of body diversity within the swinger lifestyle, on the latest juicy episode of the Pineapple Express podcast! Find out more about Cara by following her on her social media https://www.instagram.com/caraturnquist?igsh=MXZpcjkwZGU4eHdkaQ== All My Links To Learn More About Me https://sexyswingerchic.net/ Onlyfans h…
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56: A Sit Down With The Mind and Storyteller Behind the New Book Entwined: Essays on Polyamory and Home: Alex Alberto
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Listen as Kiley and Alex discuss their book Entwined Essays on Polyamory and Home. This book is about Alex’s’ personal experiences with non monogamy. Alex and Kiley get candid about the journey of non monogamy and you will even see how alike their journeys truly are. If you wanna get your hands on a copy of the book or learn more about Alex visit t…
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55: All About Sexual Health Stigmas Associated With The Swingers Lifestyle and STI's with Dr. Shieva G
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Kiley sits down with Dr Shieva G and they talk about the stigmas associated with swinging and sexual health. For more in dr shieva g make sure you’re following their socials. https://www.drshievag.com/?fbclid=PAAaZ8jfngRp6zGVw8KT8z-8RMGAxPqZYly054MqZ1452zAHEyUJHDhu4x7tY_aem_AWxtv23W55bZmCngaZvvOE3ehRRq3TVCFki0EEVrarWrZnN3j0diape0XmnCrgNN5JY To find…
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54:Stigma and Non Monogamy with Ro Moed 'Unapolygetically'
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On this episode of the Pineapple Express podcast Kiley sits down with Ro Moëd, a relationship coach in non monogamous spaces, a writer and content creator. Kiley and Ro dive into the controversial topic of toxic monogamy and stigma associated with non monogamy. To learn more about Unapolygetically and find out more about them visit their website ht…
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Navigating the First Date in an Adult Lifestyle
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Are you trying to figure out how to navigate swinger - adult lifestyle dates? This is the episode for you! Listen is as Mizzy Bender shares her thoughts with the SDC community while engaging back with the listeners. There are some great starter tips that we should all keep in our swinging toolbox. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for S…
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53: Sexual Diversity and Neurodivergency with Tanja Diamond
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Tanja Diamond is a polymath, Tantra Lineage Holder, Business and Life Strategist. Her 45 years of unique worldwide education, extensive knowledge in thousands of subjects, and certifications in hundreds of modalities, make her the go-to for everyone who needs solutions and results quickly. Tanja is a five-time #1 International best-selling author, …
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Kathy is a bad ass female who interviews alternative lifestyle humans who share their stories anonymously. I had the privilege of being a guest on Strictly Anonymous in 2023 as my true self and it was such an amazing experience. Now its Kathy's turn to share her journey on how her podcast began leading us all the way to current times. She is such a…
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52: Sex Work and Stripper Appropriation With Poler.Rosie
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Follow poler Rosie on social media https://www.instagram.com/poler.rosie?igsh=dmU0cjJzMzE1Nzk5 All My Links To Learn More About Me https://sexyswingerchic.net/ Onlyfans https://onlyfans.com/sexyswingerchic Find me on social media IG https://www.instagram.com/thepineappleexpresspodcast?igsh=MWdhZ2owY3d0dDhlNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr TikTok https://www.t…
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Last year I was thrilled to be a guest on Two Wolves in the Woods Podcast. Joey and Brenda are an amazing example of how to navigate, build and learn through various avenues of the alternative lifestyle. They are captivating, knowledgeable and fun to listen to due to their relationship chemistry. They take us on their journey, sharing who introduce…
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51: DEI in Swinger Spaces with Professor.Playtime
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In this compelling episode of the Pineapple Express podcast we explore the complexities of non-monogamous relationships through the lens of diversity, equitability, and inclusion. From illuminating personal stories to thought-provoking discussions, we delve into the multifaceted ways in which non-monogamous communities navigate equality, representa…
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Listen to this ridiculous episode recorded with Spencer as we recap Winterland, our Swingers Lifestyle event from this past weekend. We laugh and get sassy, like we usually do as we wait to board the ferry. I also tried something new with this episode so I hope you like the way it all came together. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for …
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Running a club comes with it's ups and downs, just like anything in life. When we have to say goodbye to something so close to our hearts, it hurts. But, there's always a reason and perspective. In this episode, we are going to talk through some of the thoughts and feelings that lead to the closing of the Paradise Club. This did get emotional at th…
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50: How To Join The Swingers Lifestyle with Kiley
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A previously posted podcast: The tale of two single men coming out of a recent event. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=clJoin SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Winterland: www.mindbenderparties.com Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the …
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49: Safety Tips For The Swingers Lifestyle with Kiley
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Are you trying to figure out how to introduce a new play partner or partner into the swingers lifestyle but not sure where to start? Listen in as Mizzy Bender shares her thoughts with the SDC community through this live educational piece. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Wonderland: www.mindbenderparties.com Background:Who doesn’t l…
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48:The Parallels Between Swinging And Sex Work With Kiley
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On this episode of the Pineapple Express Podcast Kiley talks about her experience as a sex worker and the parallels it has to her swinging lifestyle. She talks about elements of consent, negotiation, boundaries, communication, and the exploration of sexual desires. She gives stories and opinions that some may not like hearing, but these are perspec…
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Listen to Mizzy Bender in the raw as she talks through a community submitted question in regards to body insecurities. We all have them, now lets hear the thoughts and perspectives on how to navigate them. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Womderland: www.mindbenderparties.com Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everyth…
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47: Event Hosting and Swinger Influencer Power Dynamics with Mizzy Bender
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Today on…The Pineapple Express Podcast we are talking about event hosting and power dynamics in the swinger lifestyle. Join host Kiley and her guest Mizzy Bender, seasoned content creators, as they dive into the world of event coordination, explore the intricacies of power dynamics, and share insightful tips for thriving in the swinger lifestyle. G…
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Happy Holiday thoughts from Mizzy Bender. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=clJoin SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to…
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46: The Nuances Of being a Cuckquean with Kink and Intimacy Coach Julieta
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The term "CuckQuean" refers to a woman who experiences sexual arousal from watching her partner engage in sexual activity with someone else. The term is typically used within the context of consensual non-monogamous relationships and is often associated with BDSM dynamics. Are you a CuckQuean or curious about cuckqueaning? This is the podcast for y…
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How Do I Get My Wife to Join this Lifestyle
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Mizzy Bender goes LIVE on Facebook to discuss the following community submitted question: "My wife and I are very new to LS. We’ve been discussing it for years. We had a G/G experience about 5/6y ago. This years Halloween party we had a single male experience. Both went amazing. What would you do or say to help my wife not be in her head about doin…
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45: Relationship Anarchy with Annie Undone
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Meet Annie Undone a writer and relationship anarchist and they are deconstructing normatively in all relationship structures Follow them on IG https://instagram.com/annie_undone?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA== Here are some resources from the podcast https://theanarchistlibrary.org/library/andie-nordgren-the-short-instructional-manifesto-for-relationship-a…
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Event Thoughts - Specifically Single Gentlemen
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Coming out of an event weekend, Mizzy Bender has many thoughts that need to be heard. Most of them are directed towards single men, but applies to everyone. Listen in to learn about the tale of the 2 single men and a community submitted question that all ties together. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=clJoin SDC: https://www…
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Listen to Mizzy Benders LIVE SDC/Facebook session, gaining a new perspective on "the couples we think are out of our league." We zig zag all through the lifestyle sharing so many great points of view. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=clJoin SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com Background…
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Mizzy Bender shares her personal experience in regards to boundaries and really understanding the right time to communicate them. Through this Facebook live show, Mizzy spills all the details! Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=clJoin SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com Background:Who doe…
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44: Non Monogamy and Spirituality With Clara from Conscious Polyamory
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Meet Clara from Conscious Polyamory Resources Teachings on Love, by Thich Nhat Hanh https://amzn.to/40Xtyma When things fall apart, by Pema Chodron https://amzn.to/47tjhR4 Spiritual Polyamory https://amzn.to/3SWXNrb Conscious Polyamory Blog https://consciouspolyamory.org/ My coaching website is LIVE https://www.consciousloveconnectioncoach.com/ Swi…
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Happy Thanksgiving thoughts from Mizzy Bender. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=clJoin SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life h…
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43: Swinger Talk: Being Grateful for your partner and Non Monogamy and Swinging
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My coaching website is LIVE https://www.consciousloveconnectioncoach.com/ Swinger Websites : SDC Kasidie https://theswingnation.info/?fbclid=PAAaYO8_1ww28dTbwC3Er2SAU5vVTlx03z8GlHhRKMdIDrbdcfCgnNnYfqDRA_aem_AeXcQC8qqYgu9PP6dqg_ely-fVnpo9L6-uLCZw5t48pki8IFoQ35pgiER-SSaFvHnhY SLS https://www.swinglifestyle.com/ 3fun https://www.go3fun.co/ad/TK10098 C…
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Mizzy Bender goes live on Facebook to discuss the following community submitted question: "I am interested in finding out how one navigates themselves in the lifestyle, when the dynamic of their relationships changes but they still want to be in the lifestyle. I am a "single bi cis gender female." When going to LS parties/events, there are times wh…
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42: Swinger Education: How to Join The Swinger Lifestyle And Find Success As A Single Male
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Swinger Websites : SDC Kasidie https://theswingnation.info/?fbclid=PAAaYO8_1ww28dTbwC3Er2SAU5vVTlx03z8GlHhRKMdIDrbdcfCgnNnYfqDRA_aem_AeXcQC8qqYgu9PP6dqg_ely-fVnpo9L6-uLCZw5t48pki8IFoQ35pgiER-SSaFvHnhY SLS https://www.swinglifestyle.com/ 3fun https://www.go3fun.co/ad/TK10098 Club Eros CLEVELAND https://cluberoscleveland.com Email us at: thepineapple…
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A Journey of Swinging, Plant Based Medicine and More!
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Kandace and Gregory's extraordinary journey began when they crossed paths as children in Sunday school. Little did they know that their innocent encounter would blossom into a lifelong partnership filled with love, creativity, and exploration. Their unique bond would stand the test of time, enduring for over four and a half decades. Listen in as Mi…
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41: Let’s Talk About Swinging: How to approach your partner about joining the Swinger Lifestyle with Swinger Lifestyle Coach Lauren
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Welcome to another exciting episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast. . In today's episode we'll be discussing how to initiate a conversation with your partner about exploring non-monogamy in your relationship. So get ready to open up your minds and hearts as we embark on this exciting journey. Find out more about Lauren and what she offers here ht…
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Welcome to Octobers recap with Mr. Mindbender. Its always a fun episode full of giggles when talking with him! I love hearing his thoughts on life and our adventures overall. This episode is all of that and more. Listen in as we travel back from Boo, A Mindbender Production, recording in the car. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w…
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40: Swinger Education 'Tips for dealing with jealousy and insecurity in Non Monogamy' with Professor Playtime
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On this episode of The Pineapple Express podcast Kiley talks with relationship and trauma informed intimacy coach Professor Playtime about jealousy and insecurity in non-monogamy .They provide valuable discussions and insights for individuals navigating open relationships and the swinging lifestyle. On this episode explore the complex emotions of j…
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Talking Adult Profiles and More with Ash
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Mizzy Bender interviews Ash, an amazing female entrepreneur in the swingers world. The first part of this episode is learning all about Ash and her journey. The second half is discussing what kind of information you should include within your swingers profiles. Its a fun and sassy listen! To learn more about Ash:Instagram: Ash_lovespineapplesTIKTOK…
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