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146: Taming Your Parenting Triggers w/ Jen Lumanlan
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Ever been triggered by your child’s behavior? It can feel uncontrollable. No matter how hard we try to hold ourselves back when our child behaves a certain way, it immediately puts us into triggered mode.
Jen Lumanlan addressed this in her talk at my recent Parenting is Revolutionary conference. Jen holds an MS in Psychology (Child Development) and is the host of the Your Parenting Mojo podcast. She is an amazing reference guide for parents of young kids and shares great parenting advice based on scientific research and the principles of respectful parenting.
In this episode, I’m sharing a snippet of Jen’s talk from the conference. She shares a little more about her background and experience with parenting triggers and teaches us how to tame these emotions when they come up. This topic is extremely important for parents at this time so tune in to learn from Jen.
Show Highlights:
- Where triggered feelings come from.
- The window of tolerance.
- Big T trauma and little T trauma.
- The many different fronts we have to heal on to tame our parenting triggers.
- How to get more of your daily needs met.
- How to widen your window of tolerance.
- Physical habits you can implement to remind yourself to pause.
- Why it’s important to share our authentic feelings with our children.
- The different triggers that come with having toddlers, adolescents, and teenagers.
- What it means to feel flooded.
Links (affiliates included):
Jen’s website - https://www.parentingmojo.com/
Parenting is Revolutionary Conference Recordings: https://www.parentingforwardconference.com/2022-sessions
Parenting After Religious Trauma Membership - https://cindy-brandt.mykajabi.com/partmembership
Help keep the podcast going by joining the Parenting Forward Patreon Team - https://www.patreon.com/cindywangbrandt
Parenting Forward, the Book - https://amzn.to/3g0LJPn1Little
You Are Revolutionary - https://www.beamingbooks.com/store/product/9781506478302/You-Are-Revolutionary
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EPISODE CREDITS:
If you like this podcast and are thinking of creating your own, consider talking to my producer, Emerald City Productions. They helped me grow and produce the podcast you are listening to right now. Find out more at https://emeraldcitypro.com Let them know we sent you.
129 episodes
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When? This feed was archived on August 07, 2024 00:39 (). Last successful fetch was on February 26, 2024 22:16 ()
Why? Inactive feed status. Our servers were unable to retrieve a valid podcast feed for a sustained period.
What now? You might be able to find a more up-to-date version using the search function. This series will no longer be checked for updates. If you believe this to be in error, please check if the publisher's feed link below is valid and contact support to request the feed be restored or if you have any other concerns about this.
Manage episode 329404044 series 2364808
Ever been triggered by your child’s behavior? It can feel uncontrollable. No matter how hard we try to hold ourselves back when our child behaves a certain way, it immediately puts us into triggered mode.
Jen Lumanlan addressed this in her talk at my recent Parenting is Revolutionary conference. Jen holds an MS in Psychology (Child Development) and is the host of the Your Parenting Mojo podcast. She is an amazing reference guide for parents of young kids and shares great parenting advice based on scientific research and the principles of respectful parenting.
In this episode, I’m sharing a snippet of Jen’s talk from the conference. She shares a little more about her background and experience with parenting triggers and teaches us how to tame these emotions when they come up. This topic is extremely important for parents at this time so tune in to learn from Jen.
Show Highlights:
- Where triggered feelings come from.
- The window of tolerance.
- Big T trauma and little T trauma.
- The many different fronts we have to heal on to tame our parenting triggers.
- How to get more of your daily needs met.
- How to widen your window of tolerance.
- Physical habits you can implement to remind yourself to pause.
- Why it’s important to share our authentic feelings with our children.
- The different triggers that come with having toddlers, adolescents, and teenagers.
- What it means to feel flooded.
Links (affiliates included):
Jen’s website - https://www.parentingmojo.com/
Parenting is Revolutionary Conference Recordings: https://www.parentingforwardconference.com/2022-sessions
Parenting After Religious Trauma Membership - https://cindy-brandt.mykajabi.com/partmembership
Help keep the podcast going by joining the Parenting Forward Patreon Team - https://www.patreon.com/cindywangbrandt
Parenting Forward, the Book - https://amzn.to/3g0LJPn1Little
You Are Revolutionary - https://www.beamingbooks.com/store/product/9781506478302/You-Are-Revolutionary
***
EPISODE CREDITS:
If you like this podcast and are thinking of creating your own, consider talking to my producer, Emerald City Productions. They helped me grow and produce the podcast you are listening to right now. Find out more at https://emeraldcitypro.com Let them know we sent you.
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