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“How do I talk to you?” Three ways to strengthen your patient communication
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A nurse educator shared a question that was on her students’ minds as they approached patients: “How do I talk to you?” Learn three ways to improve your patient communication.
How do I talk to you? A question like that is probably on a lot of our minds when we’re going into an important conversation. I was talking with a nurse educator, and she knew that question was on the minds of a lot of her students. I’ll share what we talked about, and end with three things you can keep in mind during your next patient encounter.
Hi everybody, I’m Dr. Anne Marie Liebel, and this is 10 Minutes to Better Patient Communication, recently ranked number 20 of the Top 100 Podcasts in the Social Sciences by Goodpods. If you want to take your communications to the next level, we’ve got the way. BRIDGES is our continuous improvement process. We evaluate your communication on seven important dimensions to help you reach more people. For more information visit healthcommunicationpartners.com or message me on linked.
This nurse educator had asked me my thoughts about the stress that she was noticing from her students, in kind of two dimensions. One was how difficult it was to learn the specialized language of medicine. And the other was talking to patients who didn’t use that specialized language. She put it like this. She said, Because this is a different language. It's very difficult for a student to come in and talk urination.' They're used to saying pee.' And yet their patients aren't going to say, I urinated today.' They're going to say I peed today.' [So students wonder] how do I talk to you, how do I talk to you?
I’ll tell you what I shared with that nursing educator, and we’re going to turn to a previous episode. I’ll end with three things to remember in your next patient encounter so you can make some progress on that question, how do I talk to you?
Now, we all use language every day in complex ways. We are often unaware of the sophisticated uses of language in our everyday lives, as they are habitual or unconscious. So let's stop for a moment and think about some things we tend to take for granted when we speak.
The groups we're a part of have an enormous impact on the words we use. They shape what counts for us as normal or common language. The way our words have been used by people in the past and by whom influences how we use them in the present. Think of language as something in our human tool kit. It's one of our most powerful tools, and we're always using it to make things happen. We make our words do work.
The nurse educator and I continued to talk about the shift in the work, and the thinking, and the context, involved in the shift in language from pee' to urine.' She added that there's another, potentially earlier, step here, isn't there? She pointed out that parents may teach children the term pee-pee' in the context of potty training.'
So let's think about pee-pee for a moment. In a language sense, pee-pee does specific work. It gives a label to a body function that, for the child, has been unnamed until now. But now, this body function needs a name! Because it's an important topic in the household!
So the child transitions from diapers to toilet use, through learning to be aware of and monitoring this body function. And that monitoring, that awareness, is supported by talk. Namely, everyone's very pointed use of the term pee-pee.
The word does its job. The child is potty trained! Eventually, though, the word pee-pee outlives its usefulness, as the child learns, maybe when they're in school, that big kids don't say pee-pee. When it ceases to be useful for the child, it's dropped in favor of the grownup version, pee.
Like pee-pee, pee works just fine. Unless you go into medicine. It's not that there's anything wrong with the word pee. And it's not that non-medical professionals couldn't understand the word urinate. It's more that we will use a term that does the work we need it to do, until we have a good reason for changing it.
The Discourse of Medicine was published about 30 years ago, and it underlined the significance of the ways people use language in health-related interactions. The author Eliot Mishler says:
The point of departure for this research is to treat medical interviews as a form of discourse, that is, as meaningful talk between patients and physicians. Further, this discourse is viewed seriously; it is not mere' talk, but the work that doctor and patient do together as an essential and critical component of clinical practice.
We all have been socialized into various ways of thinking about and talking about health, well-being, and health care. It can be easy to take for granted that the people around us share our linguistic and cultural practices. In health care, the people you work with use the same kinds of language you use, for the same reasons you use it (more or less). So when it comes to your patients and their families, it can seem natural to compare their ways of talking, thinking about, and doing health with yours. Or maybe with your idea of the average' or mainstream' patient.
Don't let that difference become an obstacle in your relationship. Their words work for them in the context of their lives, just as surely as yours do for you.
Sure, pee-pee, pee, and urine are different terms for the same thing, at least on a surface level. But they do different work. They are used for different reasons, for which they are entirely adequate. One is not better than the other.
I want to return to what the nurse educator said when talking about her students' concerns: how do I talk to you? how do I talk to you?
Here are three things to remember, and some phrases you might consider, in your next patient encounter:
- Your patient's language
Approach your patient as someone who uses language in sophisticated ways in their everyday life. Speak to them with this assumption in mind. An important approach in patient communication is connecting the health information you hold, to what the community you are trying to reach already values. And that includes the language they already use.
- Your language
In whatever wording feels natural to you, mention that you're aware medicine has some of the most unusual language out there, and that it took you years to learn it. Now, you're surrounded all day by people whose jobs require this specialized language use. This can be a drawback in conversations with people whose jobs don't depend on speaking this same language. But you're doing your best to be aware of when you're using insider terms.
- The work you're doing together
Looking at patients' knowledge and language use as a gap' between you, can imply that your position is the one to be reached. In this view, progress counts as how far patients can make it in your direction. Mention that, as you talk together, you the practitioner are drawing on all your medical experience and education. And they the patient are drawing on a lifetime of experience with their body. You both have your areas of expertise. Assure them these are complementary and not competing knowledge bases. Because both of them are necessary for this to work.
The benefits to paying attention to your language are that you can make adjustments. So that you can speak in a way patients will understand. Build those bridges, you've heard me say that before. The benefits of paying attention to your patients' language includes learning what matters to them, and therefore, where you can start to build the bridge between you.
I'm Dr. Anne Marie Liebel. This has been 10 Minutes To Better Patient Communication. Audio Engineering and Music by Joe Liebel. Additional Music from Alexis Rounds.
The post “How do I talk to you?” Three ways to strengthen your patient communication appeared first on Health Communication Partners.
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Manage episode 424732740 series 3043796
A nurse educator shared a question that was on her students’ minds as they approached patients: “How do I talk to you?” Learn three ways to improve your patient communication.
How do I talk to you? A question like that is probably on a lot of our minds when we’re going into an important conversation. I was talking with a nurse educator, and she knew that question was on the minds of a lot of her students. I’ll share what we talked about, and end with three things you can keep in mind during your next patient encounter.
Hi everybody, I’m Dr. Anne Marie Liebel, and this is 10 Minutes to Better Patient Communication, recently ranked number 20 of the Top 100 Podcasts in the Social Sciences by Goodpods. If you want to take your communications to the next level, we’ve got the way. BRIDGES is our continuous improvement process. We evaluate your communication on seven important dimensions to help you reach more people. For more information visit healthcommunicationpartners.com or message me on linked.
This nurse educator had asked me my thoughts about the stress that she was noticing from her students, in kind of two dimensions. One was how difficult it was to learn the specialized language of medicine. And the other was talking to patients who didn’t use that specialized language. She put it like this. She said, Because this is a different language. It's very difficult for a student to come in and talk urination.' They're used to saying pee.' And yet their patients aren't going to say, I urinated today.' They're going to say I peed today.' [So students wonder] how do I talk to you, how do I talk to you?
I’ll tell you what I shared with that nursing educator, and we’re going to turn to a previous episode. I’ll end with three things to remember in your next patient encounter so you can make some progress on that question, how do I talk to you?
Now, we all use language every day in complex ways. We are often unaware of the sophisticated uses of language in our everyday lives, as they are habitual or unconscious. So let's stop for a moment and think about some things we tend to take for granted when we speak.
The groups we're a part of have an enormous impact on the words we use. They shape what counts for us as normal or common language. The way our words have been used by people in the past and by whom influences how we use them in the present. Think of language as something in our human tool kit. It's one of our most powerful tools, and we're always using it to make things happen. We make our words do work.
The nurse educator and I continued to talk about the shift in the work, and the thinking, and the context, involved in the shift in language from pee' to urine.' She added that there's another, potentially earlier, step here, isn't there? She pointed out that parents may teach children the term pee-pee' in the context of potty training.'
So let's think about pee-pee for a moment. In a language sense, pee-pee does specific work. It gives a label to a body function that, for the child, has been unnamed until now. But now, this body function needs a name! Because it's an important topic in the household!
So the child transitions from diapers to toilet use, through learning to be aware of and monitoring this body function. And that monitoring, that awareness, is supported by talk. Namely, everyone's very pointed use of the term pee-pee.
The word does its job. The child is potty trained! Eventually, though, the word pee-pee outlives its usefulness, as the child learns, maybe when they're in school, that big kids don't say pee-pee. When it ceases to be useful for the child, it's dropped in favor of the grownup version, pee.
Like pee-pee, pee works just fine. Unless you go into medicine. It's not that there's anything wrong with the word pee. And it's not that non-medical professionals couldn't understand the word urinate. It's more that we will use a term that does the work we need it to do, until we have a good reason for changing it.
The Discourse of Medicine was published about 30 years ago, and it underlined the significance of the ways people use language in health-related interactions. The author Eliot Mishler says:
The point of departure for this research is to treat medical interviews as a form of discourse, that is, as meaningful talk between patients and physicians. Further, this discourse is viewed seriously; it is not mere' talk, but the work that doctor and patient do together as an essential and critical component of clinical practice.
We all have been socialized into various ways of thinking about and talking about health, well-being, and health care. It can be easy to take for granted that the people around us share our linguistic and cultural practices. In health care, the people you work with use the same kinds of language you use, for the same reasons you use it (more or less). So when it comes to your patients and their families, it can seem natural to compare their ways of talking, thinking about, and doing health with yours. Or maybe with your idea of the average' or mainstream' patient.
Don't let that difference become an obstacle in your relationship. Their words work for them in the context of their lives, just as surely as yours do for you.
Sure, pee-pee, pee, and urine are different terms for the same thing, at least on a surface level. But they do different work. They are used for different reasons, for which they are entirely adequate. One is not better than the other.
I want to return to what the nurse educator said when talking about her students' concerns: how do I talk to you? how do I talk to you?
Here are three things to remember, and some phrases you might consider, in your next patient encounter:
- Your patient's language
Approach your patient as someone who uses language in sophisticated ways in their everyday life. Speak to them with this assumption in mind. An important approach in patient communication is connecting the health information you hold, to what the community you are trying to reach already values. And that includes the language they already use.
- Your language
In whatever wording feels natural to you, mention that you're aware medicine has some of the most unusual language out there, and that it took you years to learn it. Now, you're surrounded all day by people whose jobs require this specialized language use. This can be a drawback in conversations with people whose jobs don't depend on speaking this same language. But you're doing your best to be aware of when you're using insider terms.
- The work you're doing together
Looking at patients' knowledge and language use as a gap' between you, can imply that your position is the one to be reached. In this view, progress counts as how far patients can make it in your direction. Mention that, as you talk together, you the practitioner are drawing on all your medical experience and education. And they the patient are drawing on a lifetime of experience with their body. You both have your areas of expertise. Assure them these are complementary and not competing knowledge bases. Because both of them are necessary for this to work.
The benefits to paying attention to your language are that you can make adjustments. So that you can speak in a way patients will understand. Build those bridges, you've heard me say that before. The benefits of paying attention to your patients' language includes learning what matters to them, and therefore, where you can start to build the bridge between you.
I'm Dr. Anne Marie Liebel. This has been 10 Minutes To Better Patient Communication. Audio Engineering and Music by Joe Liebel. Additional Music from Alexis Rounds.
The post “How do I talk to you?” Three ways to strengthen your patient communication appeared first on Health Communication Partners.
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