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Comedian Chloé Hilliard returns with her solo podcast, Social Misfit, where she takes cues from today's social media and tries to make it make sense. The former journalist has written for The Village Voice, Huffington Post, Essence, The Source, VIBE Magazine and more. Her debut book "F*ck Your Diet" and comedy album "Big Dick Energy" are available everywhere.
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Comedian Erica Spera brings on a guest each week to talk about dating and relationships. In 2019, Erica publicly came out about having herpes, and how that has affected her dating life. Since then, no topic is off limits. She takes a sports mentality when it comes to dating, and instead of throwing in the towel she breaks down different relationship books, research, tricks and tips with her guests to see what is real and what is B.S. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/s ...
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Stand up comedian Ian Lara joins Erica Spera to talk about what really makes a short king, how much attraction matters to men, why some men don't "like like" women, and much more...Use Promo Code SGS20 for 20% off ⁠⁠SunsetLakeCBD.com⁠⁠ Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…
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Former host of the Finding Mr. Height podcast & current lawyer Roark joins Erica Spera to talk about her time as a contestant on the show Survivor, what law terms apply to dating, her set of dating rules, why being there for an emergency isn't that valuable in a friendship, and much more... Use Promo Code SGS20 for 20% off ⁠SunsetLakeCBD.com⁠ Join …
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Comedian Chloe Hilliard joins Erica Spera to talk about her book "F Your Diet", dating at 40, what she's learned from past relationships, her comedy career, how to avoid men looking for a sugar momma, and much more... Use Promo Code SGS20 for 20% off SunsetLakeCBD.com Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patr…
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Comedian Natalie Cuomo joins Erica Spera to talk about her f**k yes or f**k no mentality, some sex tips, what really brings intimacy to a new relationship, mistakes she's made in the past, and much more... Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot⁠⁠⁠ Watch Natalie's standup special "S…
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Comedian Elle Orlando joins Erica Spera to talk about her muting move, the "you're really great..." speech, long distance relationships, knowing your crazy & much more! Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: ⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot⁠⁠ Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: ⁠⁠https://www.…
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Comedian Liz Miele joins Erica Spera to talk all about the business of comedy, what she's learned from her past long term relationships, why having higher self esteem can make commitment harder, & much more! Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot⁠ Watch full episodes and clips on our…
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We're back with another solo episode of Honesty Hour! The fans submit their questions for advice from host Erica Spera, and she gets brutally honest. Submit your questions or dating TikToks of us to discuss on the show @shootersgottashootpod Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watc…
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Comedian Ali Kolbert joins Erica Spera to talk all about coming out, being the pursuer, if lesbians feel the same "attraction can grow" pressure that straight women feel, & much more! Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: htt…
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Sebastian Conelli & Robbie Nunes from the Loud About Nothing podcast join Erica Spera for a fun crossover episode! Promo Code SGS20 for 20% off SunsetLakeCBD.com Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c…
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Get 20% OFF Manscaped + Free Shipping with Promo Code: SGS at MANSCAPED.com! #ad #manscapedpod Check out Meghan's new album: https://badpassword.lnk.to/MeghanHanley Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.co…
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Comedian Rafi Bastos joins Erica Spera to talk all about his journey from starting comedy in Brazil, getting divorced, then moving to America solo. They also talk about how herpes is viewed in different countries, sharing custody, getting your first and second wife to get along, and if women can have two different types of orgasms. Submit your dati…
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Comedian Ariel Elias joins Erica Spera to talk all about having herpes, how she used to disclose to partners, and much more. At the end, they debate some TikTok dating advice. Submit your dating TikToks of us to discuss on the show @shootersgottashootpod Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgo…
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Comedian and former Preacher Justin Smith joins Erica Spera to talk about his journey from being married, pursuing ministry, dating as a preacher, getting divorced, and then pivoting to pursuing standup comedy. At the end, they debate some TikTok dating advice. Submit your dating TikToks of us to discuss on the show @shootersgottashootpod Join the …
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The fans submit their questions for advice from host Erica Spera, and she gets brutally honest. Submit your questions or dating TikToks of us to discuss on the show @shootersgottashootpod or Erica's Instagram stories on Sundays. Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Join the P…
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Comedian Kevin Ryan (Are You Garbage Podcast) joins Erica Spera to talk about why wearing a wedding ring doesn't matter, dating someone in a different country, how he used to shoot his shot, and the marriage fights you repeat over and over. At the end, they debate some TikTok dating advice. Submit your dating TikToks of us to discuss on the show @s…
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Comedian JC Mendoza (@peachfuzzpapi) joins Erica Spera (@spericaa) to talk about what it means to be the "best" someone's ever had, how we don't always perform to a high level, body counts, slut shaming, how he shoots his shot and much more. At the end, they debate some TikTok dating advice. Submit your dating TikToks of us to discuss on the show @…
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Comedian Orlando Leyba joins Erica Spera to talk about what he's learned to make his marriage better, the importance of therapy, and much more. Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Join the Patreon to support the show: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Follow us on I…
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Erica Spera gives a recap of her LA trip to tape her James Corden standup set and reveals some more exciting news. Join the Patreon to support the show: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Erica Spera: https://www.instagram.com/sper…
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Comedian Graham Kay joins Erica Spera to explain why he bailed as a wedding date 5 years ago, some shooting his shot stories, and they debate some TikTok dating advice. Promo Code: SGS20 for 20% off www.SunsetLakeCBD.com Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Join the Patreon t…
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Comedian Jourdain Fisher comes back on the podcast to join Erica Spera in debating some dating advice from TikTok. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Follow us …
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Comedian Mark Normand joins Erica Spera to talk about shooting his shot, what to say when your man can't get it up, if "the box theory" is true, how to DM slide, what really catches a man's attention, and why you need to give your partner space. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show: http…
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Comedian Ashley Gavin (We're Having Gay Sex Podcast) joins Erica Spera to talk about lesbian dating rules, why more gay women need to shoot their shot, why moving too fast can end your relationship and for some "Gay Woman's Opinion" questions. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show: https:…
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Friend of the podcast Stephanie Andrew joins Erica Spera to talk about leaving her midwestern life for the big city, being engaged at 18 to an older man, religious trauma, going on a date with a homeless man, why live mixers are better than dating apps, and what she's learned in grad school to help you find the right therapist. The end of the episo…
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Comedian Phil Duckett joins Erica Spera to debate the article "16 Sex Tips for Women" to figure out what really makes someone good in bed. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon preview. Promo Code: SGS20 for 20% off www.SunsetLakeCBD.com Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGott…
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Comedian Andrea Allan joins Erica Spera to talk about getting sober, how sobriety changed her dating life, navigating bipolar disorder, ALANON, sober dating app tips and tricks, the downfalls of a scarcity mindset, dating mistakes, and much more. Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShoot…
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Comedian Christian Jackson joins Erica Spera to teach her "How to Hoe". They talk about if kegels really work, how to know if you can "hoe", why having faith makes you a better hoe, and how being married changed Christiana's perspective on dating. Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShoo…
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Comedian Raanan Hershberg joins Erica Spera to talk about dating someone with herpes for the first time, what made him feel comfortable with it, why he thinks the stigma should be eliminated, and much more. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon preview. Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.co…
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Dating coach Finding Mr. Height (Ali Jackson) joins Erica Spera to talk all about shooting her shot. The two share some cringe worthy attempts at trying to get men's attention, games they used to play, "subtle" moves they've made, and how some methods worked while others blew up in their face. Ali also shares what keeps her motivated in the dating …
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Comedians Chris Cheney and Rob Haze join Erica Spera to talk about "Fifteen Ways to Keep The Romance Alive in Relationships; According to Men" chapter of the book "Why Men Love Bitches". The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shoote…
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Comedian and Riley Lassin joins Erica Spera this week to talk all about Vaginismus and PCOS (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome); what signs her gyno missed, how she couldn't even wear a tampon without experiencing pain, going to physical therapy for her vagina, losing her hair, wearing wigs, and much more. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patre…
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Comedian and writer Dan Perlman (Flatbush Misdemeanors) joins Erica Spera this week to talk all about going to couples therapy, regular therapy, what makes a good therapist, switching to an open relationship, why you should be the "bad guy", if mysterious women are more attractive, and much more. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon…
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Comedian Dustin Nickerson joins Erica Spera this week to talk all about getting married to his high school sweetheart, keeping his kids off social media, what made him get a vasectomy, why you shouldn't visit your family during the holidays, the real marriage fights, his book about marriage, and much more. The end of the episode features an exclusi…
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Mike Coscarelli joins Erica Spera this week to talk all about how to slide into someone's DMs, the pros of getting on Lexapro, if thirst traps really work, why women should go to more sporting events, and much more. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: h…
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Comedian Jon Laster joins Erica Spera this week for a funny and insightful conversation all about how men think in relationships. Why are men terrified of weddings? What "freedom" do men need in relationships? What "privileges" being a college athlete meant with dating, Why you can't change a man, and much more. The end of the episode features a Pa…
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Dee Guerreros joins Erica Spera to talk about the pressures of being the breadwinner when her husband lost his job, what the keys are to a happy marriage, why couples tend to stop courting each other, and some photography and self care tips. PROMO CODE: SGS20 for 20% off Sunsetlakecbd.com Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive…
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Rachel Wright (and one of her partners) joins Erica Spera this week to talk all about their Polyamorous Quad of 4; How do you raise kids in a polyamorous relationship? Is polyamory technically cheating? Can you ever Veto someone your partner wants to sleep with? How do you handle jealousy? and much more. The end of the episode features an exclusive…
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Comedian Jeff Wright joins Erica Spera this week to talk about; Do Men ever like their girlfriend's friends? What are the "stages" of dating? How long does it take a guy who's interested to ask you out? How has life changed since becoming "TikTok Famous"? and much more. We finish the episode playing the viral "Scale of 1-10 Game" and an exclusive P…
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Comedian Jourdain Fisher joins Erica Spera this week for an exclusive Patreon Preview. The second half of this episode is available on Patreon only, join here for extra episodes, discounts, giveaways and NSFW content. Join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.…
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Comedian Emma Willmann joins Erica Spera this week to talk about; What is the real reason people cheat on their partners? Why ADHD people are more likely to cheat? Where is the line in lesbian friendships? Why are lesbians friends with their exes more often than straight people? and much more. We finish the episode with Emma sharing one of her "sho…
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Andrew Licout joins Erica Spera this week to answer all your questions. Could you see yourself in an open relationship? Do men compare you to your ex? How should you Shoot Your Shot? What are the top 3 qualities men value in women? and much more. We finish the episode with Andrew sharing one of his "shooting his shot" stories and an exclusive Patre…
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Comedian Anthony DeVito joins Erica Spera this week to share one of the craziest cheating stories we've ever heard. They also talk about first kiss nightmares, why a nice guy isn't necessarily the right guy, if you should tell someone they're being cheated on, and why Anthony likes that his partner is territorial. The end of the episode features a …
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Comedian (and new Dad) Yannis Pappas joins Erica Spera this week to debate the book "101 Things your Dad never told you about Men". They discuss the real reason for why men lie, why time alone is important, how your sex life changes after a baby, why you should pretend to like the gift your partner buys you, what really makes your "husband" happy, …
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Comedian Casey Balsham joins Erica Spera this week to discuss going through the IVF process, how your fertility declines as you age, the importance of finding the right doctors, what the hormone shots and recovery is like, if you should freeze your eggs, and much more! The end of the episode features a Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support t…
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Comedian Jaye McBride joins Erica Spera this week to discuss her process of becoming a woman, when she knew she wanted to transition, what you should and should not say to transgender people, how things have changed since she transitioned 15 years ago, and what she thinks about transgender women playing sports. Join the Patreon to support the show …
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Comedian Jared Freid joins Erica Spera this week to discuss Steve Harvey's advice on Nagging, how to get your partner to do the things they don't want to do, and a man's opinion on how to prep for a beach vacation with your significant other's family. The end of the episode features a Patreon Preview as well. Join the Patreon to support the show an…
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Comedian Lev Fer joins Erica Spera this week for more of a "Patreon Style" episode. They debate what boundaries you should have with your exes, if you can still be emotionally available while being friends with your ex, where the line is between needy and narcissistic, and they debate if who's apartment you spend time at more holds the power in the…
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Comedian Oscar Aydin joins Erica Spera this week to discuss the blowjob chapter from the book "Sex Tips for Straight Women from a Gay Man". Oscar shares some of his own tips and tricks, how much you should communicate with your partner, and why it's ok to ask your partner about their hygiene habits. The end of the episode features a Patreon Preview…
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Author Amy Chan joins Erica this week to discuss her book Breakup Bootcamp, and how to rewire your brain and your heart after a breakup. They talk about the Sunk Cost Fallacy theory, the differences in how men and women fall in love, if you should give someone a heads up before calling it quits, how to deal with shame in dating, and so much more. T…
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Comedian Jon Fisch joins Erica this week to discuss his journey into fatherhood, and how life isn't always what you planned. They talk about his initial reaction to the news, telling your parents, the financial pressures of settling down, what online dating opener hooked his fiance, and much more. The end of the episode features a Patreon preview. …
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Comedian Chris James joins Erica this week to discuss Matthew Hussey's "11 Signs He’s Serious About You". They talk about what gestures really mean something, what men consider important in relationships, how men will put up with inconveniences when they like you, what makes men want to settle down, and much more. The end of the episode features a …
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