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Are you playing whack-a-mole in your polyamorous relationships? A problem pops up. You knock it down. It’s immediately replaced by a different problem. And you never actually get to that peaceful, passionate, secure relationship you’re working towards. That sucks. So how can you stop playing the game and build the relationship of your dreams?…
 
Are you playing whack-a-mole in your polyamorous relationships? A problem pops up. You knock it down. It’s immediately replaced by a different problem. And you never actually get to that peaceful, passionate, secure relationship you’re working towards. That sucks. So how can you stop playing the game and build the relationship of your dreams?…
 
If you’re getting started with polyamory, then you probably have a burning question: Does polyamory work??? Well, it’s entirely possible to build a thriving non-monogamous relationship. But there are a lot more ways to fail and blow up your existing relationship. Here’s what you should know if you’re getting started with non-monogamy.…
 
What would it be like to completely reset your relationship? To have, as we teach our clients, a "day zero?" To put the arguments and history behind you and to move forward together as a team? That's exactly what Chris and Lelly did. They had patterns that had been festering in their relationship for YEARS. But now they have FINALLY put the past be…
 
It's all good and well to talk about consensual non-monogamy... But what if you've been cheating? How do you tell your partner? How do you rebuild the relationship after you've come clean? If you've been wanting to move into honesty but are terrified about what comes next, this episode is for you.By Cassie Fuller and Rigel
 
When your relationship isn't going well, the first thing people do is spend more time together. But if you're like most people, you likely found that more time together just means more time to argue. More time to sit across the room from each other engrossed in your phone. More time to reflect on how much spending time together SUCKS. Here’s why “s…
 
When your partner discovers they’re non-monogamous after you’ve been together since high school? That's tough. But what about when it’s four years later, you thought it was over... and now your partner has fallen for someone? That can seem impossible. Here’s how David and Brandy overcame that barrier and got back to the thriving relationship they u…
 
Here's the cold, hard truth that all non-monogamous folks in struggling relationships need to hear: Waiting for your partner to be “ready” to work on your relationship is a complete waste of time. It might even be the thing that destroys your relationship. When Julianna came to us, her relationship had taken her to a dark place. She wasn’t eating. …
 
Your partner has it BAD! They met someone new a few months ago, and are head over heels. The sparks are flying. The sex is hot. Life is good. For THEM. But you’re feeling lonely. And you might even be wondering if you are going to be left behind. Sound familiar? If you want to know what to do when your partner is in NRE, listen to this episode.…
 
What’s the problem in your relationship right now? What’s that one thing that’s keeping you from the thriving, loving relationship(s) you deserve? No matter what your answer is, that’s not the real problem. In fact, 99% of people (including experts) don’t understand what’s REALLY going on. Underneath the surface, the real problem is something we ca…
 
What does it take to move a relationship from the brink of collapse to loving, intimate, and secure? Ask our client Ivette. When Ivette first called us in 2019, she wasn’t ready to put in the effort true transformation requires. But when she and her husband Daniel called back 1.5 years later, it was a completely different story. Now? Ivette can’t s…
 
How would your life change if your relationships were just 10% better? When our relationships don’t suck, our first instinct is to focus on something else. But when we do that we’re living our relationships… and lives… at a fraction of their potential. So, what WOULD your life look like if your relationships were 10% better? Let's find out.…
 
Does it feel like you've been stuck in the same cycles and arguments in your relationship for years? The reason you're stuck is simple: You haven't learned to harness a vital principle. This principle is the Power of Now. But the people who get this down? They're able to transform their relationships and get back the love, passion, and security in …
 
How many people does it take to transform a relationship? It’s one of the most common — and vital — questions we get. And if you’re arguing, or feeling alone, or have fallen out of love, it’s a question you might be asking yourself. In this episode, we answer that question once and for all.By Cassie Fuller and Rigel
 
What do you do when your to-be husband’s master denies your request to unlock him on your honeymoon? How can you stop acting like a dick towards your metamour? Are couples looking to date masculine-presenting folks non-existent? In this episode, we answer these questions and more.By Cassie Fuller and Rigel
 
How long does it take to fix a broken relationship? Most people will tell you to expect at least nine months of therapy before seeing big changes in your relationship. But we know from experience that drastically shortening the time frame makes it EASIER to make the big shifts that allow you to get back to a happy, loving relationship.…
 
Building an amazing polyamorous relationship is never a walk in the park. But It’s even harder when folks are telling you that you’re doomed to fail. What should you take to heart? What should you ignore? How should you respond? And most importantly, how can you stay positive in a world that’s trying to drive you down?…
 
What does it take to open up a relationship that’s monogamous? Or to transition an open/swinging relationship to a polyamorous one? In this episode we discuss what sets the folks who create loving, fulfilling relationships apart from the ones who stay stuck and miserable.By Cassie Fuller and Rigel
 
Renee and Jerry had been married for 23 years when she told him she was non-monogamous. Five years later they were on the verge of divorce. But now? Renee and Jerry both have other partners. They spend more time together than they have in YEARS. Their intimacy is through the roof. And they know that whatever life throws their way, they’ll tackle it…
 
The other day we were talking to a client who’s known us personally for years. He’s listened to every podcast episode. And yet a day into the program he realized he had no idea WTF we do! He had heard “it” (whatever it was) works. But he was shocked at the lengths we go to help people turn their relationships around. And he wanted to know: Why don’…
 
We talk a lot about poly parenting on this show. And we’ve even had our teenager on to share his viewpoint. But what if you’ve wanted to hear the perspective of someone who grew up in a polycule and can look back with an adult’s experience?In this episode Cassie talks with Koe Creation, a self-described second-generation queerspawn about their book…
 
Before Matt and Elizabeth got married, she had him promise that they’d be married for 70 years. Just like her great-grandparents.But years later, they were in a desperate spot.They were arguing. A LOT.There was broken trust.They had put their relationship on the back burner, and the connection was suffering.Then they opened their relationship up.Ma…
 
How do you tell a mono partner you want to be poly? How much should you tell your partners about each other? How can you navigate sharing a community with your ex? In this live episode of the TOF podcast, we answer 13 of your questions about polyamory and relationships.By Cassie Fuller and Rigel
 
In this episode, Cassie and Shay Tiziano reflect on the tribulations and rewards of topping as a femme. They discuss their stories, how femme tops are viewed in the scene, thoughts on topping larger bottoms, tips for femmes contemplating topping for the first time, and more.By Cassie Fuller and Rigel
 
In the current situation, there’s a HUGE opportunity hidden in this crisis. A chance to make your relationships better than they’ve ever been. In this episode, we break down why this is the perfect time to build an amazing relationship, and exactly how to do it.By Cassie Fuller and Rigel
 
Every week we talk with polyamorous folks who believe their relationship is doomed because they’re facing an insurmountable challenge. But they can’t see past the challenge to the real problem: they’ve set themselves up to fail. The result? They break up without ever giving their relationships a real chance.In this episode, we discuss how to set yo…
 
Our little one has arrived! In this episode, we sit down with Amanda to debrief our poly birthing experience. We talk about the birth itself, how the hospital staff reacted to our unique family, and what our first week raising a newborn with three parents looked like. We also discuss what we learned and what other soon-to-be poly parents should kno…
 
You know jealousy is toxic. And every "expert" out there has tips on how to overcome it. So why are you still struggling? Simple. There are two distinct types of jealousy, but people only ever talk about one of them. You need to learn how to distinguish between the two, and how to tackle each type. Until then, you'll stay stuck.…
 
Our poly family is having a baby! Which may not surprise you. In fact, dozens of our listeners already picked up that Cassie was pregnant, and they had a few questions. In this very special episode, Amanda joins us to answer 18 baby and pregnancy questions, including: How do Rigel, Amanda, and Mancub feel about the pregnancy? Will Amanda be on the …
 
If you’re like a lot of people, you made a resolution to improve your relationships this year. We’re 3 weeks into 2020. How’s that going? Has anything gotten better? Have things gotten WORSE? In this episode, we discuss the four things you must do differently to turn your relationships around in 2020.…
 
Is it “undomly” to eat submissive pussy? Why do (some) women like degradation? Are there ways to be happy as a secondary when you’ve lost your primary relationship? What should you do when you’ve broken up with your partners to work on your marriage, but 9 months later things haven’t improved (and now you’re resentful)? We answer these questions, a…
 
We spend hours each day coaching polyamorous folks on how to stop fighting, fall back in love, and build amazing relationships. We learn something new about polyamorous relationships every single day. In fact, there are 10 things we learned this past year that EVERY poly person should know. In this episode, we pull back the curtain and reveal what …
 
The most frequent complaint we hear from polyamorous folks is that they feel disconnected in their relationship. But there’s good news. Not only can you get that spark back. But you can get back to a place where you’re every bit as much in love with your partner(s) as when you first met. And if you’re still feeling the connection? There are ways to…
 
Do you wish you could walk into a dungeon and negotiate a scene with a sexy human you’ve never met before? In this episode, experienced playsluts Shay and Stefanos reveal how to pick up a new partner and keep them coming back for more. We talk about the best events for pick-up play, how to approach someone and ask them to play, negotiation tips, wh…
 
We all know that a classically bad relationship is loud — full of screaming, crying, slammed doors, and emotional breakdowns. But did you know that silence can be just as dangerous? In this episode, we reveal when the calm in your relationship is actually a warning sign and how you can resolve the conversations you’ve been avoiding and heal your re…
 
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