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Best Dr Rhoberta Shaler podcasts we could find (updated November 2019)
Best Dr Rhoberta Shaler podcasts we could find
Updated November 2019
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The Save Your Sanity podcast offers episodes filled with the expert insights, validation, strategies, and support you need to recognize, manage, and recover from relationships with the relentlessly difficult, toxic--and often disturbing--people host, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, calls Hijackals®. Invaluable help to stop the second-guessing, undermining, and crazy-making traits, patterns, and cycles you have encountered. Understand the ways, whys, and hows that verbal abuse, emotional abuse, and spir ...
 
Your go-to source for life-changing shifts in how you think about --and create relationship with--yourself and other humans. Discover new options for building the strength, assertiveness, resilience, boundaries, and balance needed to develop healthier relationships, ones based on equality, reciprocity, and mutuality. Listening to these in-depth discussions with expert guests on a broad range of relationship topics can open your eyes, heart, and mind to new possibilities for creating the heal ...
 
Dr. Rhoberta Shaler and special guest experts discuss the finer points of getting along. Please note, this podcast has been folded into the new season of our show "Emotional Savvy: The Relationship Help Show" which you can find here: https://shows.pippa.io/the-relationship-help-show
 
TracyAMalone has started a Narcissist Abuse Support channel to help victims understand and get educated on what narcissist abuse is. Many victims like myself did not know what a narcissist was because we were raised by one and the behaviors are similar. This is a journey of healing, sharing, exposing, teaching and learning to be vulnerable. Together we can heal. VISIT MY WEBSITE NarcissistAbuseSupport.com and find over 650 free resources state by state that offer free counseling, and services.
 
The Jodi and Jess Show: A MAD (Mom and Daughter) Podcast is designed to inspire, uplift, and add a little motivation into your busy day. Our episodes touch on topics that impact your life, such as a positive mindset, relationships, career, finances, health & wellness, parenting, simple living, and self-love. We are experts in helping people use their unique stories to create stand out personal brands that position them as the go-to experts in their industry. More than 60 million people from ...
 
Join the conversation live every Wednesday! Globally syndicated Having it ALL Radio with MarBeth Dunn explores all manner of health, wealth, relationship and spiritually related topics with top experts so you CAN have it ALL. Having it ALL placed #1 on iTunes New and Noteworthy in 2015.Your host, MarBeth Dunn has a deep passion for sharing fascinating, uplifting content. As a miracle consultant, educator, and TV Happiness Coach, she loves to share how you can shift your perspective, and reso ...
 
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You've divorced a #narcissist, a #Hijackal®. That was difficult, no doubt. Now, you're settling in--or trying to settle in--to some kind of reasonable co-parenting model. That's tough, too. I know, I've done it. It's not easy to co-parent with a #narcissist. It's not what you expected to have to do. You're still resentful about the relationship ...…
 
You've divorced a #narcissist, a #Hijackal®. That was difficult, no doubt. Now, you're settling in--or trying to settle in--to some kind of reasonable co-parenting model. That's tough, too. I know, I've done it. It's not easy to co-parent with a #narcissist. It's not what you expected to have to do. You're still resentful about the relationship ...…
 
Subscribe in a reader 5 Destructive Things that Pause your Healing from Narcissistic Abuse . Are you doing any of them? How do I heal? When will the pain after narcissistic abuse go away? Why can’t I let go of the hurt? These are such common questions that every survivor asks. SO what is the answer? That is a bit of a loaded question because wh ...…
 
Subscribe in a reader How do you get closure after a narcissistic person has been in your life? normal closure like the kind that they apologize, make amends, or do the right thing is not something that is possible. http://ia601401.us.archive.org/31/items/thequestforclosureafternarcissisticabuse.howtogetclosure/The%20quest%20for%20closure%20aft ...…
 
BAIT-AND-SWITCH! That's an illegal activity in the U.S. and many other countries, when it comes to advertising great deals. It would be SO good, if it were illegal when it comes to #Hijackals everywhere, too. In advertising terms, bait-and-switch is described as a scam that entices people with a great product of high quality at a very attractiv ...…
 
BAIT-AND-SWITCH! That's an illegal activity in the U.S. and many other countries, when it comes to advertising great deals. It would be SO good, if it were illegal when it comes to #Hijackals everywhere, too. In advertising terms, bait-and-switch is described as a scam that entices people with a great product of high quality at a very attractiv ...…
 
HUGGING? Love it? Hate it? Only for really close people? Hug everybody? Big questions! Hugging has had a renaissance in the last twenty years, and has even found its way into corporate culture. Should it be there? Is it appropriate? I know people have some strong feelings about hugging. How about you? This conversation with Dr. Stone covers all ...…
 
Emotionally Impaired? There's no breathalyzer for that! So, how do you know some is? Every now and then, each one of us may be a little incapacitated by life events. There can be temporary emotional impairment. Where the real problems come is when a person is often emotionally impaired, or more difficult, usually emotionally impaired! You canno ...…
 
Emotionally Impaired? There's no breathalyzer for that! So, how do you know some is? Every now and then, each one of us may be a little incapacitated by life events. There can be temporary emotional impairment. Where the real problems come is when a person is often emotionally impaired, or more difficult, usually emotionally impaired! You canno ...…
 
No contact is the most powerful tool for a victim of abuse to heal. So why is it so hard? Why do they go back to their abusers seven times? Today I am speaking about the five things that happen that make it easier for no contact to fail. Lets learn together how we can build our armor and get healed. Subscribe in a reader http://ia601406.us.arch ...…
 
We are grateful for a woman's service in the military. We need to consider the issues a woman faces when leaving the military, and re-entering civilian life. Those of us who have not served need to understand these issues because we can help. I asked my guest, Ariel Shivers-McGrew, what the greatest benefit she received from being a woman in th ...…
 
Are you with someone who is empathy deficient? Someone who shows almost no interest in your thoughts, feelings, needs, or wants? That could be a parent, partner, ex, sibling, or co-worker. It's so hard to comprehend when someone doesn't seem to have the interest or the bandwidth to take you into account, right? Empathy deficiency! I've done a l ...…
 
Are you with someone who is empathy deficient? Someone who shows almost no interest in your thoughts, feelings, needs, or wants? That could be a parent, partner, ex, sibling, or co-worker. It's so hard to comprehend when someone doesn't seem to have the interest or the bandwidth to take you into account, right? Empathy deficiency! I've done a l ...…
 
Were you brought up with the underlying understanding that, if you were a good person, everyone would like you? Most folks are. So, you do your level best--even once you're an adult--to be pleasant, agreeable, and interesting so that will happen. Sometimes, you go the extra mile in hope, right? And, after you turn yourself into a pretzel, they ...…
 
Subscribe in a reader Do you think you may be codependent? Has this come up over and over in your recovery? I hate the link that just because you were abused that you automatically are codependent. My guest today is Jack Blackwell a gifted healer and therapist here in Colorado. Last month he was kind enough to host my support group and educate ...…
 
The #Hijackal Trap usually closes slowly. At first, everything seems rosy, wonderful, and just what you've always longer for. Then, it starts to close. Narcissistic behavior is crafty! You want to believe what you fell in love with was true, so you rationalize, justify, and excuse red flag behaviors. Did you do that? Are you doing that? That wi ...…
 
The #Hijackal Trap usually closes slowly. At first, everything seems rosy, wonderful, and just what you've always longer for. Then, it starts to close. Narcissistic behavior is crafty! You want to believe what you fell in love with was true, so you rationalize, justify, and excuse red flag behaviors. Did you do that? Are you doing that? That wi ...…
 
HAVE YOU EVER FELT BETRAYED? HAVE YOU EVER FULLY BEEN ABLE TO TRUST YOURSELF OR ANOTHER AGAIN? This episode looks at different forms of betrayal, including infidelity. Who typically betrays? One of the questions I had for my guest, Dr. Debi Silber, was on the topic of parental betrayal. Often, a person doesn't want to think or believe that they ...…
 
Have you heard the term, coercive control? You may not have as it's just slowly coming to awareness. And, it is SO important that it does! Coercive control is life-sucking! That's why I've chosen to give you an understanding of the many aspects of coercive control in today's episode. Evan Stark, PhD, coined the term "coercive control" and he de ...…
 
Have you heard the term, coercive control? You may not have as it's just slowly coming to awareness. And, it is SO important that it does! Coercive control is life-sucking! That's why I've chosen to give you an understanding of the many aspects of coercive control in today's episode. Evan Stark, PhD, coined the term "coercive control" and he de ...…
 
Ever feel overwhelmed? That's all too common, right? Does it seem to happen too often? Life is busy. Expectations are high. You feel pushed and pulled by different needs of different people and roles in your life. STRESS! Today, take a breather and listen in. With my guest, Brianna Wilkerson, a holistic health coach, we're giving you some great ...…
 
Subscribe in a reader Victims of narcissistic abuse often end up with PTSD or CPTSD because of the trauma they have endured. We must start to learn about what is the trauma response, The autonomic nervous system, Responding to trauma and returning to baseline. Distressing behaviors after a traumatic experience. Today I am so happy to interview ...…
 
So often, clients and members ask me if the relentless difficult, toxic people in their lives are that way on purpose. Followed closely by the question: does s/he want to hurt me? Have you wondered if your mean, blaming partner wants to hurt you? Did you have a #Hijackal parent who told you you were unwanted, or never good enough? Are you in a ...…
 
So often, clients and members ask me if the relentless difficult, toxic people in their lives are that way on purpose. Followed closely by the question: does s/he want to hurt me? Have you wondered if your mean, blaming partner wants to hurt you? Did you have a #Hijackal parent who told you you were unwanted, or never good enough? Are you in a ...…
 
Oh, a little--maybe, an understatement--controversy here! You'll want to weigh in in the comments, I'm betting. Elliott Katz, today's guest, suggests that today's man is confused about his role in a relationship. Could be. What do you think? Of course, we talked about this at length. When I read Katz' book, Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants, I ...…
 
Subscribe in a reader Who has the Power to Destroy your Marriage, your Narcissistic In-laws? Narcissistic in-laws You are not crazy; your in-laws are! When we fall in love and find the perfect person of our dreams, most of us don’t stop to evaluate their family. Sadly, the man or women of your dreams can have parents that can literally derail y ...…
 
Stop playing these shady, passive-aggressive games! Right? It's not that easy. In this episode, you'll hear three better ways for you to bring clarity to a conversation that is going down that shady, #passiveaggressive path. If you have a relationship with someone--a friend, parent, sibling, partner, co-worker--whose weapon of choice is a passi ...…
 
Stop playing these shady, passive-aggressive games! Right? It's not that easy. In this episode, you'll hear three better ways for you to bring clarity to a conversation that is going down that shady, #passiveaggressive path. If you have a relationship with someone--a friend, parent, sibling, partner, co-worker--whose weapon of choice is a passi ...…
 
Subscribe in a reader I am so happy for my friend Carolyn and her daughter Caitlyn after 8 long years, mom and daughter reunite. Parental Alienation is a tool abusers use to hurt the other parent. Today I am honored to interview the two of them after they got back together. What was life like at Dad’s house? Were you able to talk to mom? Were y ...…
 
Is positive self-talk always positive? is it effective? Does positive self-talk have any downsides? Can it always work? Important questions, and today's guest, Dr. Marcia Reynolds, has given this a tremendous amount of thought and consideration. Such valuable work! Dr. Reynolds says, "Rationalizing and defending your behavior keeps you nestled ...…
 
I know. You don't want to be accused, or accuse yourself, of abandoning a person. You especially don't want to be accused of abandoning a person in need. #Hijackals are always in need: in need of you to use, misuse, and abuse. Does that make you want to stay? I hope not. Would you tell your best friend to stay in a situation like yours? Hmmmm.. ...…
 
I know. You don't want to be accused, or accuse yourself, of abandoning a person. You especially don't want to be accused of abandoning a person in need. #Hijackals are always in need: in need of you to use, misuse, and abuse. Does that make you want to stay? I hope not. Would you tell your best friend to stay in a situation like yours? Hmmmm.. ...…
 
Subscribe in a reader http://ia601505.us.archive.org/19/items/when_your_friend_is_a_narcissist_what_do_you_do_interview_with_babita_spinelli/when_your_friend_is_a_narcissist_what_do_you_do_interview_with_babita_spinelli.mp3 When someone has a narcissistic personality disorder, they need an audience of people that will illuminate their self-perc ...…
 
Subscribe in a reader http://ia601504.us.archive.org/35/items/when_your_adult_child_is_a_narcissist_how_to_navigate_the_grandchildren_and_spouse/when_your_adult_child_is_a_narcissist_how_to_navigate_the_grandchildren_and_spouse.mp3 When your adult child is a narcissist – how to navigate the grandchildren and spouse When a parent saw the signs o ...…
 
Parents who were emotionally available, perceptive, and responsive to you, to your needs and mental states, are a great gift! They tend to provide you with attachment that is secure. This is an excellent foundation for a healthy emotional life. Parents who were emotionally unavailable, or inconsistently available, perceptive or response to your ...…
 
Parents who were emotionally available, perceptive, and responsive to you, to your needs and mental states, are a great gift! They tend to provide you with attachment that is secure. This is an excellent foundation for a healthy emotional life. Parents who were emotionally unavailable, or inconsistently available, perceptive or response to your ...…
 
Don't kid yourself! Your "silences" speak volumes! I work with people whose relationships are in crisis for so long, and their hope that not speaking up about things that are bothering them mostly does more damage than anything. Suffering in silence can be the exact opposite of healthy living. It's a poor--and often highly toxic--approach to re ...…
 
Don't kid yourself! Your "silences" speak volumes! I work with people whose relationships are in crisis for so long, and their hope that not speaking up about things that are bothering them mostly does more damage than anything. Suffering in silence can be the exact opposite of healthy living. It's a poor--and often highly toxic--approach to re ...…
 
Subscribe in a reader http://ia601406.us.archive.org/7/items/whatisnarcissisticghostingtracymalone/What%20is%20Narcissistic%20Ghosting%20Tracy%20Malone.mp3 Has your boyfriend or girlfriend gone dark? Do they disappear to “find themselves”, to they disappear when you are being punished for some weird thing they say you did? Ghosting is when the ...…
 
Kids don't always grow out of things. They grow through things! And, you need to be there to see it, understand it, and know what to do to help when things seem to be going sideways! Today's guest, Dr. Brian Licuanan, and I talk about the difficulties in seeing problems kids want to hide from us, whether we're their parent, grandparent, teacher ...…
 
Subscribe in a reader http://ia601503.us.archive.org/13/items/impossiblecoparentingwithanarcissistsolutionparallelparenting-karencovy/Impossible%20Co-Parenting%20with%20a%20Narcissist%20-%20Solution%20Parallel%20Parenting%20%E2%80%93%20Karen%20Covy.mp3 Co parenting with a narcissist is never easy. In some cases it becomes impossible to coparent ...…
 
Any chance you've been walking on eggshells around someone in your life? A parent, partner, sibling, friend, ex? If so, there a good chance you're going to recognize some of their abusive behaviors in today's episode. In fact, you may learn--and you may not want to--that, you're experiencing what I call an "emotional terrorist!: You need to kno ...…
 
Any chance you've been walking on eggshells around someone in your life? A parent, partner, sibling, friend, ex? If so, there a good chance you're going to recognize some of their abusive behaviors in today's episode. In fact, you may learn--and you may not want to--that, you're experiencing what I call an "emotional terrorist!: You need to kno ...…
 
Subscribe in a reader http://ia601408.us.archive.org/13/items/whenanarcissistgetsoldstrategiestohandleagingnarcissistsdr.stephaniekriesberg/When%20a%20narcissist%20gets%20old%20-%20Strategies%20to%20handle%20aging%20narcissists%20%20-%20Dr.%20Stephanie%20Kriesberg.mp3 What happens to a narcissist when they get old. They lose their looks and the ...…
 
Wow! Does thinking of yourself as being UNSTOPPABLE light you up? Then, you'll love today's episode! Connie Phieff was adopted--but she didn't know it until later in life--and lived her young life a bit like Cinderella. Now, you know that's not good, right? Cook, clean, take care of the kids, repeat! How Connie overcame the pain of her past tox ...…
 
Do you have a feeling that what's going on in your relationship is less than honest, and yet, you feel strangely like you're not doing enough? You may well be with a covert narcissist! Even for me, working with couples all over the world, it takes longer to identify covert narcissism in a person, and in a relationship, than with other demonstra ...…
 
Do you have a feeling that what's going on in your relationship is less than honest, and yet, you feel strangely like you're not doing enough? You may well be with a covert narcissist! Even for me, working with couples all over the world, it takes longer to identify covert narcissism in a person, and in a relationship, than with other demonstra ...…
 
Abuse in any form is bad news: verbal abuse, emotional abuse, physical abuse, financial abuse, spiritual abuse, sexual abuse. All bad! And, you need to know what intimate terrorism is because it has the most dire consequences. Domestic violence is a term you're likely familiar with. You may not think of the verbal abuse as domestic violence, or ...…
 
Abuse in any form is bad news: verbal abuse, emotional abuse, physical abuse, financial abuse, spiritual abuse, sexual abuse. All bad! And, you need to know what intimate terrorism is because it has the most dire consequences. Domestic violence is a term you're likely familiar with. You may not think of the verbal abuse as domestic violence, or ...…
 
Subscribe in a reader http://ia601407.us.archive.org/27/items/thecostofemotionalabuseisyourhealthfeeelingsburiedaliveneverdie/The%20Cost%20Of%20Emotional%20Abuse%20Is%20Your%20Health%20Feeelings%20Buried%20Alive%20Never%20die.mp3 We know abuse hurts, we know we get depressed, we know it affects many parts of our life like sleep and that it caus ...…
 
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