Best Non Monogamous Podcasts (2025)

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the ethically non-monogamous marriage 39:20

2h ago39:20

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Helloooo! Today’s secret sharer is dabbling in ethical non-monogamy; her husband is fine with it, too. But what happens when you start a fling at work… with a younger, extremely hot co-worker? We also polled the wider shooshie community on their experiences in ENM relationships. What were the best parts, the challenges, and the non-negotiables? Big…

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S13 Ep. 3: "Facials," Orgasms without Vibrators, and Asexuality 22:07

18h ago22:07

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In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’ve just started seeing a guy who is really into giving ‘facials.’ I’ve done it before, and don’t honestly mind, but what’s the psychology behind it? Why do so many guys like doing it, and is it degrading to agree? 2) I’ve only ever had an orgasm once without a vibrator…

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Episode 46: Rapid Fire with Justin Kaufmann ( PART 2) 🔥 16:34

23h ago16:34

16:34

Send us a text He’s back by popular demand—and we’re not holding back. Shelly and Angela hit Justin Kaufmann with a rapid-fire round of the spiciest dating questions out there. We’re talking dating outside your race, who cheats more (men or women?), and the fan-favorite: does body count actually matter? It’s bold, it’s raw, it’s a little unhinged… …

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Episode 155 - Re-Release Hierarchies and Ethics 28:17

5d ago28:17

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Prioritising a long term marriage is unethical to many people, but what do you if that’s genuinely what you want to do? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Che…

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he slept with his ex's mum 36:24

6d ago36:24

36:24

Omggg hiii Uhhh, today’s secret is inexcusable. What do you do if you find out your best friend has been betrayed by her ex… and her Mum in THE most messed up way possible!!! And, we discuss how soon is too soon to flaunt your single life online post-break-up. Big thanks to Hommey for making this episode possible! Hommey robes are made from 100% co…

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S13 Ep. 2: Sex Pests, Sex Ed for Teens, and Why Am I Reliant on Porn to Climax? 29:42

8d ago29:42

29:42

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I love my husband and I’m very attracted to him. But for some reason, I have to picture a scene from porn to reach orgasm with him. I’m very much in my head when having sex in general, and find myself thinking about a million things that aren’t related to sex during it. …

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Episode 45: You’re Asking the Wrong Questions 16:01

8d ago16:01

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Send us a text Think you're nailing those first date questions? Think again. 😬 In this episode, we sit down with Cat, The Scottsdale Matchmaker, to uncover the questions you shouldn't be asking on a date (yes, the ones you probably are). She breaks down the real ways to connect—by observing, not interrogating—and shares her secret 3-question check-…

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7:34am! 1:24:54

9d ago1:24:54

1:24:54

Why don't UK artists sample uk legends more??? Is there a creative problem??? #HCPOD Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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S13 Ep. 1: Practical Tips to Cure Best-Friend Sex, an Unexpected Offer, and Is Faking It OK Now? 26:23

14d ago26:23

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In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) Kelsey recently said she faked many orgasms while married. What is the general feeling about faking it now? How do most people react when they find out their partner’s faked it? Surely men think it’s a betrayal in the relationship? 2) Help! The inevitable has happened: s…

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diary of a divorce 46:18

13d ago46:18

46:18

Happy Friday!!!! We’re back with another shooshie survey – welcome to a diary of a divorce. In our latest poll, we asked you to share your divorce stories and the results were verrrry interesting. What’s the most common reason for divorce… how messy do they get, aaaand on average, how long are our shooshies’ marriages lasting? We'll share a story f…

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Episode 44: Single at 40? Here's Why — And How to Fix It (with Cat Cantrill, The Scottsdale Matchmaker) 23:31

16d ago23:31

23:31

Send us a text Still single at 40+? It's not bad luck — it's bad strategy. In this no-fluff episode, we sit down with Cat Cantrill, the Scottsdale Matchmaker who actually knows what it takes to find real love after 40. Forget outdated dating advice and soul-sucking apps. Cat delivers the brutal truths, smart moves, and insider matchmaking secrets t…

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The Last Ye Offering 1:21:06

18d ago1:21:06

1:21:06

Really this podcast should be called ' The Last Time We Talk About. Ye'. because it will be. We also discuss Spray vs Pound Sterling fight, crooked churches and more... Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Episode 154 - Sharing Home With A Metamour 18:07

19d ago18:07

18:07

Feeling like you have to make yourself scarce in your own home can get old very quickly. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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march theory madness 39:53

21d ago39:53

39:53

Hiiiiii! We were inundated with your March theory dilemmas, so we’ve dedicated an entire episode to the theory. What happens if a past love unexpectedly shows up at your new workplace? Orrrr when you put a ‘love spell’ on your ex... Big thanks to Kiehl’s for making this episode possible! You can shop their Cream-to-Powder Deodorant and In-grown Int…

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Episode 43: Dear Diary... WTF?! 18:20

23d ago18:20

18:20

Send us a text Ever had a moment so messy, chaotic, or just plain wtf that only your diary could handle it? In this episode, we’re cracking open anonymous Dear Diary entries and reacting in real time. We read. We roast. We reflect. And of course—we offer some unsolicited but well-meaning advice along the way. So grab your wine, your popcorn, or you…

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Do You Dig Dat???? 1:44:48

25d ago1:44:48

1:44:48

There's a whole lot going on in this weeks episode... #HCPOD Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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my fiancé's best friend is my soulmate 38:33

27d ago38:33

38:33

It’s another f***ing cheating scandal. We’re shook. What happens when you fall deeply in love with your fiancé’s best friend? And, it’s the end of March, so we ponder the TikTok “March theory”. To new beginnings!!! Big thanks to Vodka Cruiser for making this episode possible! Life is a lot more fun when you live with confidence and make a bold choi…

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Playing Simz!!! 1:23:03

1M ago1:23:03

1:23:03

When is too far TOOOOOOOO FAR???? Anyone had sleep paralysis?? Little Simz loaned out 1.7 Mill to producer (Cleo Sol's husband) which is hasn't paid back, how is this going to end? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Episode 42: The D*cksand Dilemma 19:00

1M ago19:00

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Send us a text Welcome to The D*cksand Dilemma with your hosts, Shelly & Angela! In this candid and often humorous podcast, we dive deep into the complicated and messy world of relationships, dating, and the traps that keep us stuck in toxic cycles. Ever found yourself in a relationship that’s clearly not good for you, but you can’t seem to break f…

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Episode 153 - Childhood Trauma and Polyamory 35:43

1M ago35:43

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How long should a partner wait for you to work through childhood trauma until you are “ready” for polyamory? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate…

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he wants me to go on the pill 33:28

1M ago33:28

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Hiiii! When does a kink in the bedroom go too far? What if it compromises your partner’s needs, wants and desires? And we share our live shooshie confessions from The Sydney Vault Tour. Big thanks to Vodka Cruiser for making this episode possible! Vodka Cruiser is here to remind us that life is a lot more fun when you live with confidence and make …

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Episode 41: Part Two with Courtney & Irwin - Inviting Thirds & Navigating the Chaos 20:47

1M ago20:47

20:47

Send us a text In this wild follow-up episode, Shelly and Angela sit down once again with Courtney and Irwin—a married couple who openly invites other women into their relationship. But is it all fun and games? This time, they dive deep into the downsides, the jealousy, and the WTF moments that come with opening up their bedroom. From unexpected em…

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Screw Face!! 1:53:12

1M ago1:53:12

1:53:12

On the couch this week we have Biggz - a former prison guard. We go through exactly what its like to be a prison guard, the misconceptions, the things the see and the things they have to deal with. Its a interesting one #HCPOD Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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the WAG confessions 44:33

1M ago44:33

44:33

Hello hello! Today, we’re joined by the wonderful Dee Salmin, co-host of The Hook Up on Triple J!!! Together, we unpack three WAG confessions – a sister’s life-long quest to become a WAG, a cheeky airport meet-cute, and, worst of all, a professional cheater. We’re so excited to have Dee in the vault to weigh in on everything—it’s a juiiiiicy one! K…

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A Clash Of Cultures 1:41:24

2M ago1:41:24

1:41:24

Culture Clash happened. It's been nearly 10 since the last one. Some very sick moments have happened previously. We break down this most recent one. But first....should we be talking about porn differently now??? #HCPOD Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Episode 40: Unconventional Love: The Non-Monogamous Path of Irwin & Courtney 21:33

1M ago21:33

21:33

Send us a text Join hosts Shelly and Angela as they explore the complexities of Irwin and Courtney’s non-monogamous relationship. In this candid podcast, Irwin and Courtney share how Courtney introduced the concept of open love, the challenges they've faced, including jealousy and navigating relationships with others, and the growth they’ve experie…

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Episode 152 - Reddit Ashes 12:53

2M ago12:53

12:53

Responding to the r/relationships question: My boyfriend wouldn't go with me to spread my father's ashes That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link …

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the job he doesn't know about 27:07

2M ago27:07

27:07

Hiii hunnies Today’s secret sharer is considering spilling something she’s kept hidden for years. She’s unsure whether she should tell her new date about her work in the sex industry. And, we discuss how to avoid a hangover shooshie style. Big thanks to Hommey for making this episode possible! Iconic bedding, luxurious robes and stylish bathroom es…

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Episode 39: Rapid Fire - 40 & Never Been in a Relationship 16:59

2M ago16:59

16:59

Send us a text In this rapid-fire episode of Dating Exposed, Shelly and Angela sit down with Quinton, a man in his 40s who has never been in a relationship. Is it by choice? Bad luck? Or something deeper? We ask him the tough questions—Has he ever been in love? Does he even want a relationship? And is this a red flag or just a different way of livi…

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I read my partner’s journal 34:42

2M ago34:42

34:42

Happy Fridaaaay! It’s a code red in the vault today. Imagine reading through your partner’s journal. Yeah imagine that, and brace yourselves. Big thanks to Keihls for making this episode possible! Check out Kiehl’s Ultra Facial Cream and their new Ultra Body Moisturiser for soft, smooth, and ultra-hydrated summer skin, top to toe. Got a secret to s…

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Episode 38: Single in Your 40s: Quinton Greene on Dating, Partner Must-Haves, and More 14:47

2M ago14:47

14:47

Send us a text Join hosts Shelly and Angela in this fun and insightful episode as they chat with Quinton Greene, a regenerative detoxification specialist and iridologist. Quinton opens up about his experiences with dating in his 40s, sharing his personal "must haves" when it comes to a partner and what catches his eye on dating apps. He reveals why…

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Why Not A Salad??? 1:27:46

2M ago1:27:46

1:27:46

Can you love your child but not yourself? Did Stormzy make a mistake??? Did You enjoy the MOBO's? We discuss these plus more.. #HCPOD Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Episode 151 - Cold Metamour 22:44

2M ago22:44

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If your metamour is a little cold to you, when do you decide to tell your partner?That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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my best friend's dad (the latest update) 44:22

2M ago44:22

44:22

Hiii shooshies Take a deeeeep breath - we have another update from my best friend’s dad. It’s so damn hard. And we hear back from the 10-year hiccup. Plus, Annabelle and Louis debrief on their big night out. Check out Kiehl’s Ultra Facial Cream and their new Ultra Body Moisturiser for soft, smooth, and ultra-hydrated summer skin, top to toe. Big th…

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Drake & The Man Dem! 1:31:01

2M ago1:31:01

1:31:01

Craig Mitch is back on the couch again so it could only be a pure music conversation. We revisit the Super Bowl performance, we discuss Drake & PartyNextDoor's new album and we also go through the new Wireless Festival line up. #HCPOD Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Episode 37: Rapid Fire with Dennis Gable 15:58

2M ago15:58

15:58

Send us a text Get ready for an episode like no other! This week on Dating Exposed, Shelly and Angela put Dennis Gable in the hot seat with a mix of totally random, unexpected, and thought-provoking questions. No topic is off-limits, and his answers? Unfiltered, insightful, and downright entertaining. Hit play and get ready for the chaos! To find m…

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Non Monogamous!!! 1:23:46

2M ago1:23:46

1:23:46

Chuckie & Savage Dan have a non monogamous couple on the couch who break down why having an open relationship works and the do's/don't at an adult party! Happy Valentines... Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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the shooshie dating special 33:41

2M ago33:41

33:41

Happy loooooove day! Love is in the air, so we’re bringing you our shooshie dating special. First dates are meant to be fun, right? Mmmm, not if you end up getting scammed (literally), or dating a distant… family member. Oooop. We’ve got a bit of smut for ya too! Bridget Jones: Mad About The Boy hits screens on February 13th. Bridget’s story is imp…

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S12 Ep. 10: Hotwife Fantasies, Making a 30-Year Marriage Non-Monogamous, and Sex Acts We've Never Done But Would Love To 29:26

2M ago29:26

29:26

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My wife and I communicate well about sex, but lately I’ve become extremely turned on by the thought of watching her have sex with a stranger. I think it’s called ‘hotwifing.’ It’s just a fantasy, and I’m not sure how I’d feel if we acted on it. Usually, anytime we have a…

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Episode 36: Dating in your 40's with Dennis Gable 23:55

2M ago23:55

23:55

Send us a text In this episode, we sit down with Dennis Gable, a man with a unique perspective on love, dating, and personal growth. Dennis opens up about his experiences navigating the world of dating in his 40s, sharing why he finds himself drawn to dating younger women. But it’s not just about age—Dennis dives deep into the importance of doing t…

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Wickedness!! 1:42:05

3M ago1:42:05

1:42:05

We lightly break down Krept & Konan's project, Kanye West's outburst and the passing of Irvine Gotti.....amongst other things. Indulge! #HCPOD Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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my girlfriend's family 35:03

3M ago35:03

35:03

Well hiii! Today’s secret sharer has uncovered her girlfriend’s family secret, and it’s eating away at her. But is it in her right to spill it? Also, Annabelle shares a story about a very recent, very awkward encounter between her and her friend. Bridget Jones: Mad About The Boy hits screens on February 13th. Bridget’s story is imperfect, beautiful…

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S12 Ep. 9: Cross-Dressing, Painful Sex, and How to Speed Him Up 23:34

3M ago23:34

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In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’m a 24-year-old woman and have never enjoyed sex because it hurts. I’ve been checked out by my doctor and there doesn’t seem to be anything anatomically wrong, but sex is never pleasant for me. Can you help? 2) I’m a 36-year-old man and have been secretly wearing women…

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Episode 35: The Controversial Conversations You Need to Hear 18:49

3M ago18:49

18:49

Send us a text In this episode of Dating Exposed, Shelly and Angela dive into the dating topics that spark debate, divide opinions, and make people real uncomfortable. We're talking body count—does it really matter?, dating multiple people—fair game or shady?, and what would you do if you caught your friend's partner cheating? Oh, and let’s not for…

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It's STUPID! 2:19:24

3M ago2:19:24

2:19:24

A whole load of debating going on today. We debated about buying a house, Central Cee's album and the ASAP Rocky case. Plus a whole lot more. Was it stupid???? #HCPOD Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Episode 150 - Q&A 43:43

3M ago43:43

43:43

Questions for this week's Q&A episode include:- Any tips for long distance polyamory? - How do you deal with guilt over having a stronger romantic connection with one partner? - Could space away from a partner calm down polyamory related anxiety attacks? - How to deal with conflict of NRE when your partner takes so long to process feelings? - Any t…

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the 10-year hiccup 44:05

3M ago44:05

44:05

Hiiiiya! Today’s secret has layers, complexities, and rules (and everyone is losing). A secret high-school romance, turned long-standing affair is weighing down on our secret sharer, and we think it’s time for a new chapter!!! Speaking of new chapters… Lou is back in his sharehouse era, which we looooove! Big thanks to Moonpig for making this episo…

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S12 Ep. 8: Anal Sex, Older Lovers, and How to Stop Being Distracted During Sex 15:15

3M ago15:15

15:15

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I like having sex with my partner, but get so easily distracted. One minute I'm into it, the next I'm worrying about something or spend the whole session thinking, 'Don't forget to do this or that' afterwards. It interferes with my enjoyment. How do I turn off my busy br…

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Episode 34: Rapid Fire with Justin Kaufmann 19:38

3M ago19:38

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Send us a text In this episode of Rapid Fire, we sit down with straight shooter Justin Kaufmann, as he faces a barrage of rapid-fire questions on everything from dating younger vs. older, the secret behind his single status, to his take on sex on the first date and threesomes. Nothing is off-limits as Justin spills the tea on his personal life, pre…

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The Big 4% 1:39:22

3M ago1:39:22

1:39:22

Chuckie & Dan on the couch this episode. Did Krept & Konan false advertise? Could Trump be the best thing to happen? Brits snub Potter Paper??? #HCPOD Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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