I help "nice guys" become the sovereign men that they are meant to be, the sovereign men that women are looking for. I take a stand for men, finding their ways in the world. This is not like the other episodes, but an important topic -- sexual assault. I think you may be surprised so give it a listen, even if you are uncomfortable. I like to encour…

The world of Pick Up Artistry is still going strong. Guys are lining up to learn this craft. Why? Because they are some "average frustrated chumps" who want to get laid! So what are the pros and cons for Nice Guys in this world? I'll speak about 3 pros and 3 cons that every "nice guy" should know before investing fully into the pickup world. And I'…

4 flavors of "nice guys" to choose from. They all like to help others and can put others first, but they are not created equal. The more clear you can be about seeing yourself clearly, the more your relationships and life will improve. Which one do you relate to? The Stereotypical Nice Guy The Conflict Avoidant Nice Guy The Anxious Nice Guy The Per…

Andrew Tate is everywhere. The alpha male is everywhere. And it's hard not to compare yourself to these guys, but what's really going on here? Is that who "nice guys" should aspire to me? What motivates these men? How are these men similar to the "nice guy"? As always, I analyze shit like this to support the nice guy. When you can see yourself and …

I'm amazed at what people will do to avoid having a tough, honest conversation..... some may think it easier to kill someone. What does this have to do with being a nice guy? Well, everything. Let me explain. When nice guy, Cody married Jordan, he would have never guess what would happen just 8 days after his wedding. But if we examine the story le…

I finally got my very good friend Josh on the show.. my very first guest. Josh was a well-known cryptographer with a successful career + marriage --> which ended in a divorce. So Josh found himself single and dating yet again, only with less confidence about how to be in a healthy relationship. Josh thought if I can get good at cryptography, can I …

When you do this one thing, it's clear to everyone that you are stuck in the nice guy dilemma. You know... trying to do the best you can helping others, being a gentleman, and what do you get in return? Lonely nights and longing for connection... oh and the resentment. Life ain't fair. Especially if you are in the nice guy dilemma. Check out this w…

So many nice guys aren't sure what they are doing wrong with women. They often think -- "why isn't being nice good enough?!" Alright, I want to help you out here, because that's what I do. I help nice guys connect to their authentic power and I want to share about this huge blind spot many nice guys have. Follow, subscribe, and if you want to take …

Figuring how to approach women is something many nice guys struggle with. What do I say? Where do I put my hands? Where do I look? Or not look? There are so many ways you could fuck it up! This is the first of many episodes covering the topic -- HOW TO APPROACH WOMEN. There are many aspects of this and in this episode, I paint some pictures that I …

Kim Kardashian and Pete Davison Breakup – from bad boy Kayne West to nice guy Pete Davidson, let’s walk the journey by analyzing both relationships, their archetypes, and potential growth or benefits from the experiences. Not in a celebrity gossip sorta way, but in a – what can be wall learn about relationships by looking at this - sort way. Pete h…

A self-proclaimed nice guy has taken his younger, female co-worker under his wing and supports her at her new job and they become friends. But then, out of nowhere, he finds out... She has a boyfriend! How dare she not tell him. He has done so much for her?! Well, that's just the beginning of this (Reddit) story with twists and turns -- it's a trai…

Let's talk about one of the most important terms as a nice guy --> Codependency. No, it doesn't just mean "dependent" or "clingy." You want to understand this term and how it shows up in your life. Getting this will change your life and relationships. Follow, subscribe, and if you want to take our relationship to the next level already — there is a…

I'm Janelle Klander. I help nice guys (often introverted) access their authentic power and become the sovereign man that women are looking for. I have 13 years of experience working with clients and working with various aspects of self. I have a no-BS approach. This episode lays the groundwork for the podcast journey we have ahead of us. You want t…

This is for the nice guys —- if it’s not clear how to have goals, stick to them, help others, know your value, set boundaries without being a selfish asshole, ALL while being a strong, independent man that women are looking for you are in the right place. Being a nice guy can be confusing as hell. You are doing the best you can. You fear being reje…