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Past Chaos

April Kirk & Roy Farner

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April and Roy, stars of TLC's "You, Me & My Ex" and the hosts of Past Chaos, take you on a journey through marriage, divorce, coparenting and so much more! Listen as this ex-wife and ex-husband discuss the trials, tribulations, and triumphs they encountered while they built a positive relationship and productive communication after divorce. These two exes can be like oil and vinegar, but at the end of the day they share a very strong bond - parenthood. Together they want to build a community ...
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In this podcast, Allie and Nathan Hooper provide a resource to help you build a rock-solid foundation for your marriage from the ground up! They provide specific, actionable advice to help you get one step closer to that dream marriage! You will not only learn from the mistakes and challenges of a couple who was just in your shoes, but also will hear from some of the leading relationship experts who will give you the tools you need to navigate pre-marriage life and enter your marriage both e ...
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It's time for more EX-tra Chaos? Here is your recap of "You, Me & My Ex" Season 2 Episode 5! April is joined again by special guest host - Caroline Hines. We open up with De'Andre and his jewelry line party it. He admits maybe he wasn't at his best when he was with Rowan, and that's why he wants her to be included in his success now. Rowan admits i…
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Are you ready for some more EX-tra Chaos? Here is your recap of "You, Me & My Ex" Season 2 Episode 4! April is joined again by special guest host - Caroline Hines. We start out with Matt, Kenzie, & Chelsea. Matt discusses the pressure of getting engaged, and maybe he had a poor choice of words to describe the situation. We find out that three is a …
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Are you ready for some more EX-tra Chaos? Here is your recap of "You, Me & My Ex" Season 2 Episode 3! April is joined again by special guest host - Caroline Hines. This week, we start off with Matt, Kenzie, and Chelsea. Matt drops the bomb to Chelsea that Kenzie's parents are coming over for a BBQ. No need to unpack your bags, Chelsea, you need to …
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Are you ready for some more EX-tra Chaos? Here is your recap of "You, Me & My Ex" Season 2 Episode 2! April is joined by special guest host - Caroline Hines. This episode is a little late because April received some terrible news last week. Her grandmother passed away, so she rushed back home to Tennessee to be with her family. Things are getting b…
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Are you ready for some EX-tra Chaos! April and Hayli dive in to the Season 2 premier of "You, Me & My Ex". After a wild weekend of full mom-mode - soccer tournaments and prom night, April gives details about her trip to Florida for the premier party. In episode one, we meet a new group - Elodie, De'Andre, and Rowan. De'Andre's mom is still rooting …
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We are happy to be back...again! After an emergency trip to her hometown, April has time to reflect on a BIG question. "What really matters in life?" This week, the women talk about reflection and forgiveness. In life, we face so many obstacles. At the end of the day, we have to focus on what's most important. April discusses her feelings on the pr…
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We are feeling better after a stomach bug wreaked havoc on most of our family! This week, April's son-in-law gives the podcast a review. That opened up a whole can of chaos. It made us think, why do we mostly review things we don't like instead of making sure people know when they are doing something good? There have been a lot of unforeseen change…
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Do you ever wonder if you are hindering your child's ability to be themselves? This week April is joined by her oldest daughter. They discuss allowing your children to have individuality, while still maintaining the reigns as a parent. April asks her daughter if she feels that she was allowed to have a voice as a child and how that affected her bec…
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This season of Past Chaos is coming in hot! Thank you for the love you have shown us with all the new changes. We appreciate it so much! BIG NEWS...our TLC show, "You, Me, & My Ex" was renewed for a Season 2. The show will premiere April 17th at 9pm on TLC! Last week April and Roy pondered whether or not they were good parents. This week, their two…
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Welcome to Season 4! It's been a LONG time coming, and worth the wait. This week, there are some new things happening on Past Chaos. We have a new co-host joining the show. When one door closes, another door opens. April got a new job and is entering a new phase of life and she couldn't be happier. BIG NEWS - Roy has joined the conversation! April …
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There was so much to unpack, we didn't even have time to unpack it all! During this busy week, we celebrated a birthday for one of our middle children. Find out what people do in pictures that really bugs the women. Loren has a confession for April. This leads to a discussion on Loren's habit of running from her relationships, and why April thinks …
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This week has left us feeling like we were on autopilot! There's always something crazy going on in our home. Right now, April is scared for her life because Loren is trying to quit a bad habit. Are you superstitious? Find out if the ladies are and which superstitions they believe in most. April and Loren have a strong discussion on whether or not …
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After a rough start, April and Loren are back and ready to take on this new year! Are we a shit show? We are really questioning ourselves, especially after finding out what some of our neighbors think of our lifestyle. This revelation makes Loren reveal what an ex referred to our house as. April had an epiphany that has her rethinking the way she h…
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After surviving the world's longest week, the women are preparing for the holidays. While attending their child's orchestra concert, the ladies were recognized as "the girls from TLC". April shocks Loren by telling her that she was pulled over by the cops this week. To kick off the weekend, the women attended a concert that gave them high school no…
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After listening to the start of last week's episode we realized it sounded like we were having our toenails plucked. Sorry for that, because we are in fact not miserable! This week we brought our positive attitudes and good vibes. Do you drunk shop? One of the women admits they do, while the other shops enough sober. Also, are you aware of your sur…
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The ladies are in rare form this week. How do they feel about accents, and which ones do they think they have? Do you wish life had a "try-on" option? If so, what would you like to exchange? April and Loren talk about the magic surrounding the holidays. They discuss the importance of family time and holiday traditions. Find out why Loren sent an SO…
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April and Loren discuss their personal experiences with anxiety and depression. Is it hard being positive for others when you are not feeling yourself? How about dealing with anxiety in motherhood? If given the chance, would you look through your best friend or significant other's phone? Find out which one of the women did and what she found out! A…
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Are you ready to unpack a whole lot of family drama? We sure hope so, because that's what we are doing in this episode. Roy, aka Papa Gator, is in town for a visit. What better way to get the scoop than from the horse's mouth. April and Loren put Roy in the hot seat this week. They find out what's been going on since the show aired. What were his t…
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After surviving a house full of sick children, the ladies were ready for the weekend. Loren had a first time experience...she attended her first body building show. April was glutton for punishment and chose to stay home and play monopoly with the kids. It was not a tragic ending like most monopoly games. This week, April and Loren discuss helping …
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After a two week break, the women are back! April and Loren admit that even though they see each other every day, their lives are still so hectic that they sometimes only have time for a quick hi and bye. Why has April been feeling 'mom failure' lately? What do the ladies have planned for Halloween? In this episode, April and Loren discuss being in…
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Our lives are so chaotic that even this episode was unplanned! The topic we were supposed to discuss got lost in the mess. However, you are in for a treat. You're invited to listen in on one of our regular, day to day conversations. April admits that she actually does need help in one area of her life, after Loren calls her all the way out. Listen …
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After a couple of hectic weeks, the ladies are getting back to their routine. All the house guests have left the building, which means it is back to business as usual. This week, the women answer the age old question..."Where do you see yourself in five years?" The ladies also talk about what they feel is one of the more difficult aspects of blende…
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It's been a long week! From surviving another week of school, to remaining calm amidst the slew of house guests we've had, it is amazing they are still somewhat sane. In this episode, April and Loren discuss giving unsolicited mom advice. They are all for accepting help, especially from good, seasoned moms. The issue is getting unwanted wisdom from…
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In this episode April and Loren share an exciting goal they reached together. The women survived another week of school, but which one of their children decided to raise Hell? The ladies talk about having tact and agree on the one that has a tad more tact than the other. The big discussion this week is breaking old relationship habits before gettin…
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In this episode, April and Loren discuss the first week of back to school for their kids. They also talk about whether or not they would recycle a previous romantic partner. The women dive deep into the topic of open relationships. Have they ever been in one? Would they ever be in one? Are there rules or boundaries? Also, is a "vanilla" sex life ok…
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In this episode, April and Loren discuss several topics in motherhood and coparenting. There's a lot of chatter in Hollywood surrounding coparenting. What do the ladies have to say about that? Do you think it is ok for someone to call out your child on social media or a public forum? Hear what the women have to say about a situation that recently h…
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In this episode, April and Loren finally discuss Loren's most recent breakup. After giving a brief update on what's been going on in their lives, the women realize they left out a big chapter of their story. So, April put Loren in the hot seat and asked very personal questions about the relationship and why it ended. Listen as Loren shares very int…
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In this episode, April and Loren give an update on what's been going on this summer. They have a lot to catch up on after their "mental vacation". The ladies will answer some burning questions. Also find out why they have been causing such a stir on TikTok. The big secret...Loren updates us on her dating life. Who, What, When, Where, and Why is she…
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In this episode, April and Loren interview a very special guest. Sarah and her husband made a big decision to go against the grain. After her husband's retirement from the military, Sarah decided they should purchase a giant RV and take their 3 daughters and pet children on the road for a year. Listen to the interesting details of her travels and h…
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In this episode, April and Loren unpack A LOT! School is out for the summer, and the ladies contemplate whether or not they are bad moms because summer with a house full of boys is maddening! Also, would they choose their moms all over again, given the chance? Find out what "wild" thing each of the women did when they first left home. The women dis…
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In this episode, April and Loren discuss authentic friendships, and the undying love they have for their true friendship. The ladies are also joined by one of their very best friends, Heather. Heather has recently celebrated a very important anniversary - she has gone an entire year without sex! Loren is baffled, and April is perplexed. The women a…
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In this episode, April and Loren discuss the behaviors of their children and ponder the question...is it a reflection of their parenting? April talks about an incident with Tanner on the soccer field that opened her eyes to a different perspective. Loren reveals a parenting mishap with Jagger and how she stuck with her consequences for his negative…
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In this episode, April and Loren discuss what's been going on lately. They took a hiatus; they were on a break! But why? Don't worry, they always kiss and tell! The women give a bird mom update. You will also hear some really exciting news that involves a new family member. Which child has been giving them a run for their money lately? Also, find o…
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In this episode, April and Loren discuss taking accountability. Both women recall the time in their lives when they began taking accountability for their actions, behaviors, and choices. Sadly, some people never learn this art or do it far too late in life – which causes their ability to have healthy relationships nearly impossible. Hear the women'…
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In this episode, April and Loren discuss living a fulfilling life. However, this is not what they were supposed to be discussing this week. This was supposed to be a break-up episode, but that is a tale to tell for another time. Are you fulfilled? Listen to what the ladies have to say about their lives and where they find fulfillment. Also, get an …
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In this episode, April and Loren discuss relationship cons. It's like being catfished, but worse! Both women admit to their biggest relationship con. They also reveal who they feel was the one man that brought the biggest con to them. Loren announces a major scare she recently had. She brings us up to speed on her dating life, while reminding us to…
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In this episode, April and Loren discuss self-destructive behaviors. The ladies are vulnerable as they divulge their individual patterns they experienced when going through their divorces. April opens up about her vices while attempting to heal from heartache. Loren talks about the scary truth behind her healing from the pain of her divorce. Rememb…
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In this episode, April and Loren talk about birthing stories. Loren goes into detail about all 3 of her births, including the shocking conception of her first child. Hear the scary details of her second and the almost home birth of her third. April tells us all about her first teen pregnancy, and if that wasn't enough, she manages to do it all agai…
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In this episode, April and Loren discuss what they think women really want. What do they want out of life, relationships, or just for themselves? You are sure to learn a lot, and you are sure to relate a lot. April reveals that she had a procedure done this week and gives a PSA on what lead to the decision. Loren gives an update on her dating life.…
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In this episode, April and Loren discuss how to survive raising teenagers. They have six children, they have successfully raised two teen daughters, but will they survive these boys? April confesses something that she is sure she will be mom-shamed for. Loren divulges a secret from her childhood that she feels bad about now. In this week's dating e…
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In this episode April and Loren talk about giving up. More specifically, what they have given up for marriage, motherhood, and careers. Listen as the women discuss things they missed out on in order to have a happy marriage, be great moms, and have a successful career. Loren rates her date! Hear the most recent date Loren went on and they outcome. …
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In this episode, April and Loren discuss the reasons they got married. Loren talks about both of her marriages and what made her decide to take the plunge of matrimony. April divulges the reasons she got married each time. The women are celebrating one of their children getting married this week. In honor of the event, the ladies give advice on wha…
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In this episode, April and Loren discuss dating disasters. The women each talk about a past date that did not end well. They also tell us how they feel about being set up on blind dates. For research, the ladies took to the dating scene at their favorite bar. Listen as they describe their mission in detail! Did anyone get lucky? Find out and hear t…
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In this episode we interview BYU professors and married couple Loren and Sandra Marks about their experiences with religion and it’s benefits for marriage and families. Loren Marks shares about his extensive research on the topic, and both Loren and Sandra share their thoughts and personal experiences on the matter. You won’t want to miss it!…
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In this episode, April and Loren discuss fate. Do you believe in fate? Is it written in the stars? Is our path mapped out before we know it, or do we make decisions as we go that set the stage for the rest of our lives? Could one mistake take you down the wrong road, altering your life forever? Listen as the women introduce their beliefs on the top…
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In this episode, April and Loren discuss a woman's intuition. To start, the women tell us their first impressions of the ex and current meant in their lives. What did Loren first think about John? How did April first feel about Roy? Do you have a strong intuition? Find out what the ladies think about intuition and how it has helped them in their re…
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In this episode, April and Loren discuss getting closure from your past. April reveals some big family news, while Loren divulges some huge upcoming changes in her relationship. Can you ever run away from past mistakes and experiences? Find out what the women think as they take a deep dive into their former lives. What has Loren been running from? …
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In this episode, April and Loren discuss setting intentions for the new year. Do they have a New Year's resolution? Not so much. But they do have intentions set for 2022! The ladies recap 2021 by indulging in what they learned and how they've grown. They talk about what they want to bring into this new year and what they hope to leave behind. Also,…
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