Board-certified family law attorney Jaime Davis and her guests provide information and tips for getting through a separation and divorce without destroying family relationships or finances. From marriage therapists and financial planners to private investigators and parenting coordinators, learn how to navigate divorce without destruction.
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Divorce Financial Planning: Essential Tax Tips You Need to Know, with Hubert Johnson
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32:20In this episode, Jaime talks to seasoned tax attorney Hubert Johnson about the financial complexities of divorce. Hubert dives into the tax implications of divorce, from filing status changes to the proper handling of alimony, child support, and asset divisions. He emphasizes the importance of getting informed early to avoid costly mistakes and pro…
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Reclaiming Power After Betrayal: Finding Healing, Freedom, and Self-Worth with Lora Cheadle
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34:47Betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker Lora Cheadle is joining Jaime to explore how to transform feelings of betrayal into empowerment. Lora shares her story of healing after discovering her husband’s long-term infidelity and reveals the practices and mindset shifts that helped her rebuild her life. They discuss the importance of griev…
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Overcoming Divorce Trauma with Dawn Wiggins
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40:08Dawn Wiggins is a divorce recovery coach and therapist and, in this episode, she shares her personal journey of healing from trauma and divorce and the transformative techniques she uses to help others, including EMDR, EFT tapping, and homeopathy. Jaime and Dawn explore how childhood attachment issues and unresolved trauma can impact relationships,…
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The Financial Playbook for Divorce with Victoria Kirilloff
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35:28In this episode, Jaime's joined by Victoria Kirilloff, a certified divorce financial analyst and mediator with a passion for empowering individuals during the divorce process. Drawing from her own challenging divorce experience, Victoria created the Divorce Impact Analysis Report, a comprehensive tool designed to provide financial clarity for those…
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How financial preparedness empowers your divorce, with My Divorce Solution
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34:31Jaime's joined by Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew, co-founders of My Divorce Solution, a divorce financial preparation service. They share how financial preparedness can make or break a divorce settlement, highlighting the importance of financial clarity and separating emotions from financial decisions. Learn how their innovative approach empo…
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Navigating Custody and Relocation: What Parents Need to Know with Theresa Viera
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34:07Jaime and fellow family law attorney Theresa Viera, founder of Modern Legal, are tackling relocation in custody cases. As separated parents contemplate moving to a new city, state, or country, what happens to the children? Jaime and Theresa explore the factors judges consider, the impact of relocation on a child's well-being, and potential changes …
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Personal Transformation Through Divorce with Karen McMahon
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42:53In this episode, Jaime sits down with Karen McMahon, founder of Journey Beyond Divorce, to explore how divorce can compel a profound personal transformation. Karen, a seasoned divorce coach, shares her personal journey from a tumultuous divorce to finding serenity and purpose. Discover how embracing personal growth, setting boundaries, and emotiona…
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Fair Play in Marriage & Divorce: Creating Harmony and Accountability with Tami Hackbarth
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45:07Jaime's talking with Tami Hackbarth, a certified life and work coach, author, and host of the 100% Guilt-Free Self-Care podcast. Together, they explore the Fair Play system, a revolutionary approach to dividing household tasks that promotes equity and clear communication between partners. Tami explains how Fair Play can help both married couples an…
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Do I need a private investigator for my divorce case?
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32:56Cat Flowers, the founder of Cat's Eye Private Investigations, discusses how and when private investigations can help in family law cases. With a background in law enforcement and a dedication to meticulous investigation, Flowers emphasizes the crucial importance of uncovering hidden facts that can significantly impact legal proceedings. As the land…
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Tips for Appearing in Family Court with Judge Brian Ratledge
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48:08Join Jaime and the Honorable Judge Brian Ratledge, a seasoned North Carolina District Court Judge overseeing trials and motions in domestic, criminal, civil, and domestic violence courts. As the lead domestic court judge for Wake County, N.C., Judge Ratledge shares how individuals can best prepare themselves when appearing in front of a judge for f…
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Navigating Dating After Divorce, with Relationship Coach Laurie Gerber
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34:11Jaime's joined by life and relationship coach Laurie Gerber to explore the exciting, yet scary topic of dating post-divorce. From breaking free from past relationship patterns to rebuilding confidence and self-esteem, Laurie offers practical strategies to overcome common fears and challenges individuals face when re-entering the dating scene. Find …
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How to have a good divorce, with Sarah Armstrong
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47:14Jaime is joined by Sarah Armstrong, VP of Global Marketing Operations at Google and author of "The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce." In this episode, Sarah shares her personal journey of navigating divorce while prioritizing her daughter's well-being and focusing on the mindset of divorce being a positive life change. From managing day-to-day logisti…
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In this episode, Jaime Davis and her colleague Melissa Essick delve into the intricacies of asset division during divorce proceedings, dispelling common misconceptions and offering expert guidance for navigating the process effectively. They discuss defining marital assets and debts, exploring crucial factors considered by the courts, and provide i…
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Navigating Substance Abuse, Addiction, and Divorce
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40:44In this episode, Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, known as The Divorce Doctor, shares her expertise on navigating divorce when substance abuse is a factor. Uncover the unique challenges and crucial insights when divorcing someone with substance use issues. Dr. Cohen combines clinical psychology knowledge with personal experience, offering a compelling guide fo…
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How to Know When to Leave Your Marriage, with Kate Anthony
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37:25In this episode, Jaime's talking with Kate Anthony, author of "The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage." Together, they explore the often terrifying topic of deciding whether to stay or go when facing challenges in a marriage. Kate, a certified high-conflict divorce coach with over 12 years of experience, sheds light on common …
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How to Build a Strong Co-Parenting Alliance, with Co-Parenting Coach Al Huntoon
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30:27In this episode, Jamie's talking with Al Huntoon, an experienced social worker, former custody mediator, co-parenting coach and founder of Coparenting Connection. Discover the distinctive approach Al takes to foster harmonious co-parenting relationships, focusing on communication, conflict management, child-centered principles, and the importance o…
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Co-Parenting with a Narcissist: Strategies for Protecting Your Children and Your Sanity
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31:05In this episode, join Jaime as she delves into the complexities of co-parenting with a narcissist with the renowned social psychologist, Dr. W. Keith Campbell. As a distinguished expert in personality and narcissism, Dr. Campbell provides valuable insights into navigating the challenges of co-parenting, whether dealing with narcissistic traits or N…
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In this episode, Jaime sits down with Lisa Zeiderman, managing partner at Miller Zeiderman LLP and renowned divorce financial analyst. Together, they delve into the intricacies of prenuptial agreements, shedding light on why every couple, not just the wealthy, should consider this crucial legal document. Lisa breaks down the myths surrounding prenu…
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Is there a relationship between menopause and divorce?
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38:14In this episode, we delve into a profound conversation with Claire Gill, the founder of the National Menopause Foundation (NMF), as we explore the often-overlooked connection between menopause and divorce. Over and over again, in conversations, webinars, and group meetings with the NMF, women often reference feeling convinced that they were going t…
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Designing a Holiday Child Custody Schedule for Divorcing Couples
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31:42In this episode, Jaime and family law attorney Melissa Essick delve into the complexities of crafting a holiday schedule that takes into account the unique needs of your family. With the holiday season fast approaching, Jaime and Melissa provide expert insights and practical tips to help you navigate the challenges, emotions, and unique complexitie…
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Empowering Domestic Violence Survivors and Navigating Divorce
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31:28To honor Domestic Violence Awareness Month, Jaime and fellow family law attorney Meredith Cross are delving into the sensitive yet critical issue of domestic violence within the context of divorce. Domestic violence can complicate divorce proceedings, exacerbating an already complex situation. Hear more about the legal aspects, challenges, and pote…
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The Hidden Financial Benefits of Divorce You Need to Know
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28:31In this episode, Jaime's joined by Rick Salmeron, a Certified Financial Planner and Founder of Salmeron Financial. Rick specializes in guiding individuals through the often-overlooked financial advantages of divorce, and he's seen the hidden silver lining within this life event and the powerful opportunities it can bring. From taking control of you…
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Supporting Friends and Family Through Divorce with Family Law Attorney Lynn McNally
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32:29In this episode, Jaime sits down with board-certified family law specialist Lynn McNally, a partner at the Smith Debnam Law Firm in Raleigh to discuss practical ways to support your loved ones navigating divorce. Lynn and Jaime discuss the vital role that support persons can play during the process of divorce, including considerations for legal con…
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Open Marriage & How it Can Impact Divorce
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33:15Join us as we tackle the intriguing and often taboo topic of open marriages and their potential effects on divorce cases. In this episode, Jaime is joined by fellow Gailor Hunt attorneys Melissa Essick and Grace Massarelli to discuss the legal implications that arise when couples have consensual non-monogamous relationships. Interestingly, they hav…
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Infidelity: Why People Cheat and Its Impact on Divorce
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24:32In this episode, Jaime delves into the topic of infidelity and its implications in divorce cases with Michelle Chiaramonte, a clinical social worker and therapist specializing in marriage and couples counseling. They explore why people cheat, the changing dynamics of infidelity across genders, and how individuals can navigate the aftermath of an af…
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Navigating High Conflict Divorce: Expert Strategies with Bill Eddy
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25:47In this episode, Jaime's talking with Bill Eddy, therapist, lawyer, mediator, and co-founder of the High Conflict Institute. Discover the key differences between high-conflict divorces and typical divorces, common behaviors exhibited by high-conflict individuals, and effective strategies to protect yourself and your children during the divorce proc…
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Unique Legal Issues Faced by LGBTQIA+ Couples During Divorce
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27:30In this episode, Jaime's joined by Jonathan Melton, Board Certified Specialist in Family Law, certified mediator for family financial cases and fellow attorney at Gailor Hunt, to discuss same-sex marriage and the challenges LGBTQIA+ couples may encounter during separation and divorce. Discover the legal implications that same-sex couples faced prio…
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Tools for Men Going Through Divorce: Rebuilding Prosperity and Well-Being
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30:58In this episode, Jaime talks with Steve Schleupner, Certified Divorce Coach and Financial Planner, about his personal experience with divorce and how it inspired him to become a divorce coach. Steve shares his journey of navigating divorce as a single father and the challenges he faced in balancing his career and responsibilities. He introduces Sto…
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Empowering Women Through Divorce: Overcoming emotional challenges with Divorce Coach Beverly Price
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38:32In this episode, Jaime talks with divorce and empowerment coach Beverly Price about the emotional challenges that women often face during the divorce process. In her work as a coach, Beverly helps women feel empowered to have a better life. Whether contemplating divorce, going through the legal and financial process to divorce, or struggling with n…
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What's the difference between physical and legal custody?
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34:28In this episode, Jaime's talking with Melissa Essick, a fellow family law attorney and mediator, about legal custody in divorce with children. The discussion includes the differences between sole legal custody and joint legal custody, what information parents are entitled to about their children and what decisions typically need joint agreement bet…
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Healthy co-parenting strategies for divorced parents
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25:50Johanna Lynn, a relationship specialist and founder of The Family Imprint Institute, has over 20 years of expertise in resolving inherited family patterns and helps her clients dismantle unhealthy patterns, restore relationships, and create resilient boundaries. In this episode, they discuss common relationship issues couples face during and after …
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How to get your financial information in order without a forensic accountant
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23:50Marriage is about love, but divorce is about money. In this episode, Jaime talks with Gabrielle Clemens, a certified divorce financial analyst. Gabrielle talks about how she helps men and women navigate the divorce process by ensuring that their divorce agreement is sustainable and viable for their lifestyle, and she emphasizes the importance of ap…
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Do you need a forensic accountant for your divorce?
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31:17Do you think your spouse is hiding money from you during your divorce proceeding? You might need a forensic accountant like Robert Nordlander! Forensic accountants are experts in financial records and statements, and an attorney can hire them to testify about things like your former spouse's all-cash lifestyle, unusual spending, and unexplained pur…
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Season 5 Episode 4: Valuing the Family Business for Divorce During an Uncertain Economy
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31:06Determining how much the family business is worth during a divorce is a fairly common issue. If separating spouses cannot agree on the value of their business, an expert is normally brought in to perform a formal business valuation. In this episode, CPA and Certified Valuation Analyst David Amiss shares his expertise about valuing a family business…
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Season 5 Episode 3: Divorce and Children with Special Needs
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29:01Separation and divorce can be difficult enough, but when a couple has a child with special needs, separating can be even more complicated. In this episode, attorney Linda Malone shares some of the things a couple should consider if they are planing to separate and they have a child with special needs. Topics include, establishment of special needs …
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Season 5 Episode 2: Divorcing a Narcissist
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26:48An inflated sense of self-importance, a need for attention from others, and a lack of empathy are some of the hallmark behaviors of narcissism and sound like what not to look for in a spouse or dating partner. In this episode, Michelle Chiaramonte, LCSW and owner of Lumina Counseling Associates shares her expertise about navigating the divorce proc…
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Season 5 Episode 1: A Child's Perspective on Divorce
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26:10In this epsiode, host Jaime Davis interviews author Kimberly Ewertz about her first book Family Redefined: Childhood Reflections on the Impact of Divorce which is a collection of testimonies by adult children of divorce. In 1990, after twelve years of marriage, Kimberly filed for divorce propelling her and her then ten year old son into a journey o…
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Season 4 Episode 5: Reunification Therapy
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21:19Thriving during separation can be difficult when you have a child who refuses to spend time with either you or your co-parent. In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the process of reunification therapy with Dr. Tina Lepage, a forensic and clinical pyschologist and founder of Lepage Associates Psychological and Psychiatric Services. https://le…
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Season 4 Episode 4: Why You Should Consider Individual Therapy During Divorce
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22:39During separation and divorce, you can become your own worst enemy if you allow the stress of the situation to change who you are and how you present. It can be difficult to make important legal decisions that may impact the rest of your life if you are not managing your stress. In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the benefits of seeking in…
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Season 4 Episode 3: Helping Your Children Thrive During Separation
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31:37In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses how to help your children thrive during separation with child psychologist Dr. Lori Thomas. Dr. Thomas provides guidance and insight into issues such as how and when to tell the children about the separation, what not to tell the children, and what to expect once the children know about the separation. ht…
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Season 4 Episode 2: Is it Time for Divorce or is it Just COVID?
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33:54Most people think it’s conflict and argument that lead to divorce. In fact, it’s the decreasing affection and the lack of emotional responsiveness that lead to separation and divorce. In this episode host Jaime Davis discusses the impact of COVID on marriages with licensed marriage and family therapist Caroline Landen. https://awakeningscenter.org/…
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Season 4 Episode 1: When is Family Therapy a Good Idea for a Family going through Divorce?
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29:23This season the podcast will highlight themes with the purpose of not only helping you survive your divorce but to also thrive while you are making your way through the process. Most of the episodes this season will concentrate on self-care and therapy related subjects. In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses when family therapy might be a good…
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Season 3 Episode 8: Buying and Selling a Home During Separation
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1:08:42Buying and selling a home during separation can present a unique set of challenges. In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the process with listing agent Julie Bell, buyer's agent Christina Cataldo and mortgage loan officer Deon Bradford- the team at Julie Bell Real Estate Divorce Specialists. For more information, you can visit their website …
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Season 3 Episode 7: Protecting your Electronic Devices and Data During Divorce
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34:42People often have questions about how to best protect their children and their assets during a divorce, but one area that they often overlook is protecting their data and making sure that their spouse can’t access their devices accidentally or otherwise. In this episode host Jaime Davis explores this topic with Rusty Gilmore, a Security Consultant …
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Season 3 Episode 6: Evaluations in Child Custody Cases
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33:19When you are involved in a child custody case, there are several types of evaluations you may encounter including custody evaluations, psychological evaluations, and substance abuse assessments. In this episode host Jaime Davis and fellow family law attorney Melissa Essick discuss what these evaluations entail and offer practical tips for parents w…
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Season 3 Episode 5: Tips for Working Effectively with Your Family Law Attorney
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37:12For many people, divorce may be the first and sometimes only time they will work with a lawyer during their lifetime. Not knowing how to work effectively with your lawyer can lead to unnecessary frustration and dissatisfaction. In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Carrie Tortora discuss tips related to five different areas of worki…
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Season 3 Episode 4: Separation and Divorce During COVID
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29:45If you are contemplating separation or divorce, you may be worried about how the COVID-19 pandemic will affect your ability to physically separate from your spouse, as well as your ability to negotiate and finalize agreements about child custody, child support, the division of your assets and alimony and what will happen if you find yourself needin…
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Season 3 Episode 3: Navigating Child Custody and COVID-19
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30:02Being separated or divorced and dealing with child custody is hard enough on a good day. Divorced parents often wish to avoid interacting with one another if possible, but the coronavirus pandemic is presenting new challenges and is requiring more communication. In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Carrie Tortora discuss tips for n…
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Season 3 Episode 2: Introducing A Year and a Day the Book
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27:02In this episode, host Jaime Davis and colleague Lynn McNally discuss Jaime's newly released book entitled A Year and a Day which is based largely on this podcast. In 2017, Jaime decided to create the podcast to provide tips and information for getting through a separation and divorce without destroying family relationships or the family finances. T…
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Season 3 Episode 1: Can I Represent Myself in my Divorce Case?
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32:46People going through a separation often want to know whether they can represent themselves in connection with their divorce case. While the short answer to this question is yes, in this episode host Jaime Davis and fellow family law attorney Lynn McNally delve deeper into the issue and discuss times when it may be ok for you to represent yourself a…
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