How do we connect? What makes a mutually satisfying relationship? What are other people into? This is not erotica—these are real human stories. Guests share details of their personal lives and/or work to add emotional context to the confusing experience of attempting to relate to other human beings. The goal? To learn from and more deeply understand one another through exchanges of personal wisdom and experience. The focus is always connection and intimacy in our modern world: relationships, ...
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Amy is a Sex and Relationship Coach and Sex Educator with a passion for promoting unabashed, pleasure-focused sexuality education. April is a motivational speaker, sex toy mogul, as well as one of the leading women in the sex-toy industry. April and Amy combined forces to create the Shameless Sex Podcast, inspiring radical self-love, sexual empowerment, and shame-free intimacy with a playful twist sharing real life experiences and tell all details. Visit www.shamelesssex.com for more. Shamel ...
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#374 Kiss Like a Pro - with Erwan and Alicia Davon
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This episode is all about kissing, smooching, making out, and doing the nasty tongue dance. Repeat guests and relationship experts Alicia and Erwan Davon teach us all about the skills needed to be a great kisser, how to match your lover's kissing style, what to do if your partner is just so so in the kissing department, as well as hickeys, spitting…
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257 | Body Part Buffet: Roxanne’s Stories
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Roxanne (39 pansexual submissive cis w f, partnered 20+ years ENM for two) shares how 10+ years of chronic pain led to hotter connection than ever with her partner through swinging, adult toys, phallic worship, exploring and pleasing her partners, and how she broke through the societal stigma of being in “the lifestyle.” Her masturbation exploratio…
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#373 How to Get (or Not Get) Pregnant - with Lisa Hendrickson-Jack
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What non-hormonal options are available to prevent pregnancy OR increase fertility/support getting pregnant? What are some of the most common issues or health risks from using hormonal birth control? What is missing in the common fertility nutrition advice out there today, and why can it be problematic? What do both ancestral practices and modern r…
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256 | Brunch & Munch Swingers: Max’s Stories
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Max (39 bi-comfy married cis w m in an ENM open marriage) comes on to share how his 20+ year relationship just keeps getting better, his secrets to improving marital communication, why relationship labels aren’t his thing, and why he agrees with Wyoh—it’s more fun to have play parties during the day. We learn how his wife’s ten-year-long debilitati…
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#372 Soft Cock Play (and why we love them) Round Two - with Michelle Renee and Erica Leroye
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This is a continuation of episode #338 Soft Cock Play and Why We Love Them (which is also our top viewed video on YouTube!). You asked, so we are answering by responding to the following questions: why are “you” women able to talk about soft cocks and penis owners' bodies in general? Why is reframing sex so important when it comes to soft cocks? Wh…
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Bonus: Keeping the Spark Alive in Long-Term Relationships featuring the Sex Ed with DB Podcast
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This bonus ad-free episode is a 10 minute teaser from one of our favorite sex-ed podcasts Sex Ed with DB. DB sits down with Dr. Lexx Brown-James, therapist and sexologist, to shed light on maintaining healthy conflict resolution, intimacy, and communication in a long-term relationship. They also dive into Dr. Lexx's work in the world of sex-positiv…
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255 | Unicorn on Porn: Laura Ramadei’s Stories
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Laura (39 w f bisexual/pansexual non-monogamously partnered) is a writer, producer, intimacy coach, and co-host of the podcast Girls On Porn—and comes on to share what she’s learned about dirty talk, sexting, erotica, pegging, switching, meditative flogging, sharing Hitachi magic wands, and sexy psychedelic experiences. Details include losing her v…
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#371 Domination and Anal Training - with King "Daddy" Heff AKA the Duke of Debauchery
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Learn why King "Daddy" Heff says “In submission there is freedom. In dominance there is responsibility”. King Heff also teaches us how to be more dominant in the bedroom, how to master the sensual art of impact play (spanking), as well as the in's and outs (pun intended) of anal training. About our guest: King Heff is a sexual enhancement product s…
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254 | Opportunistic & Intentional: March Bucket List Wishes
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It’s an update episode: tune in for a bucket list report, listener messages, and celebrations! 03:36 Wyoh’s February Recap 21:47 Questions of Love 😍 30:52 March Bucket List Wishes 41:14 Lovely Listener Messages 41:23 Opening up our marriage—how do I talk to the other woman? 46:27 II: Will you fly across the world to do me? 57:21 Celebration! 57:58 …
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#370 Circumcision and How to Repair Sexual Function - with Dr. Castillo and Remy Paille
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Trigger warning! This episode is about genital mutilation, female (and male) and circumcision, healing after physiological trauma in and around the genitals, and most importantly how to repair sexual function. Repeat guests and sexual health specialists Dr. Castillo and Remy Paille, NP teach us about the modern day medical technology and tools that…
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253 | Tattoo Worship: Mikaela Witwicky’s Stories
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Mikaela (24 w pansexual solo-poly cis femme switch sw) loves receiving weird presents, being worshiped, praised and is obsessed with exploring other peoples’ fantasies, both for work and fun. As a legal courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch, an adult entertainer and content creator, she has a thing for exhibitionism, butts and all things bang-related, and sha…
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#369 Ethical Non-Monogamy - with Taylor Sparks
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What is ethical non-monogamy and how does it differ culture to culture? Why is it important to consider how BIPOC folks experience ENM, marriage, and sexuality as a whole? What cultural stereotypes about sexuality still exist to this day for BIPOC folks? And what are some tools and top tips for people who are new to ENM? About our guest: Taylor Spa…
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252 | Fantasies, Fetishes & Freedom: Camille Davis’ Stories
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Camille (27 w cis F single-ish bisexual nurturing Dominant sw) has a background caring for others as a nurse—and more recently has discovered how much she enjoys the experience of mutual care as a legal courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch, a legal brothel near Las Vegas. She talks about how she makes her partners and clients alike comfortable, why she loves…
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#368 Is Porn (and Sex) Addiction Real (Round Two)? - with Neuroscientist Dr. Nan Wise
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This episode is intended to continue the conversation we had on #359 with Gigi Engle. You asked us to host a neuroscientist to discuss what’s happening in the brain during compulsive use of sex and porn, and repeat guest Dr. Nan Wise is the perfect fit for this discussion. Dr. Nan shares her definition of sex and porn addiction and whether or not i…
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251 | Seek the Risk: Adam’s Stories
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Adam (53 non-monogamous het recently single cis male from NYC) comes on to share how he was pulled into wild and kinky New York City culture by the woman he fell in love with. We learn what it’s like to be a dude who’s a threesome magnet, about his high sex drive, love of being objectified, and how he’s learned to discover each new partner’s person…
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#367 Sexual Confidence and the Best Sex Positions from the Internet's Resident Sexpert - with Dr. Tara
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Why is sexual confidence so important in great sex and relationships? How can I gain more sexual confidence? What is body neutrality and how is it different from “loving yourself”? What if I don’t think I’m hot or sexy? How can I discover my inner sexy beast? The internet's resident sexpert Dr. Tara answers all this, and to add a little more spice …
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Dr. Amber Hull (44 cis queer F physician in private practice who is a solo-polyamorous free agent) returns to share how she’s revamping sex ed, cultivating honest conversations about healthy human sexuality with clients, and supporting them wherever they are in their journey through her Confidential Consults. She shares stories of teaching fellow d…
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250 | How Do You Love? February Bucket List Wishes
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Wyoh shares updates and answers listener emails & questions. 01:01 Wyoh’s January Recap + Podcast Updates 17:25 February Bucket List Wishes 29:37 Lovely Listener Messages 29:46 Camera shy—how do I get comfy in front of the camera? 47:08 My partner shoots me down, what do I do? 58:27 Am I really straight? 1:04:55 Why doesn’t Wyoh talk about her work…
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#366 Erotic Bucket Lists and How to Handle Rejection - with Wyoh Lee
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What is... The “Whorearchy” and how is it related to the social expectations that drive sex-related commerce? A secrecy kink and how is it connected to our creative and sexual expression? An erotic bucket list and how can people create their own? The benefit of experiencing rejection, and how can people learn to better handle it when it comes? Abou…
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249 | Super Shameless: Amy Baldwin's Stories
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Amy (30’s white cis F straight non-monogamous, partnered, submissive brat) comes on to share about her love of receiving, oral, sensual Domination, and her tried-and-true method of drive-by-Daddying. We learn through stories of how she always wins in a power dynamic, bratty topping from the bottom, a moment of erotic epiphany, how being straight is…
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#365 How to Say F to the Dating Myths and Live Your Own Love Story - with Damona Hoffman
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Where did the idea of “happily ever after” or “finding the one” even come from in the first place? Is it even obtainable? What are some of the common myths that people buy into regarding dating and relationships? What are some of the ways people can break free from those dating myths and create the dating or love life they truly desire? About our g…
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Mercedes (19 white nonbinary queer partnered switch) returns to discuss D/s dynamics, strap-ons, exhibitionism, and oviposition. We learn through stories of their gender journey, favorite parts of partners to play with, navigating discomfort and jealousy in an open relationship, literotica sessions, favorite new toys with straps and vibrations, kin…
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248 | Naked: Fancy Feast’s Stories & Book
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#364 Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections - with Emily Nagoski, PhD
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Why is sex in long term relationships heavily misunderstood? What are the myths most people have been taught about sex - particularly in LTR’s? What is the truth about spontaneous desire? What are some of the best ways partners can talk about sex and desire with one another? And what can people do with mismatched desire or when someone isn’t “in th…
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Hotwife, Nudist, Entrepreneur: Casey Donatello’s Update
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Casey (41 straight cis F Hotwife in a Stag-Vixen marriage) returns to share how she has been educating people about the mental and emotional aspects of being in the Lifestyle, and we learn through stories of the evolution of her online offerings, the difference between nudist and swinger camping, how co-hosting a podcast her husband is bringing the…
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Bonus Episode: Vibin' at the Vibe Sex Toy Show
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This episode is from a live Q and A at the Vibe Show in Hollywood, CA. It's two days filled with sex toys, badass educators like Dirty Lola, Tyomi, and Susan Bratton, as well as awesome humans who want to learn more about sex and pleasure. Listening on or before January 13th, 2024? AND in or near Hollywood? Well you're in luck because there's one m…
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247 | Sin-Eating & Stranger Sex: Jupiter Jetson’s Stories
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Jupiter (30’s white cis F non-monogamous bisexual pansexual kinky switch sw) comes on to share about being a legal courtesan and adult performer, and we learn through stories of stripping, being trained by Dungeon ProDommes, industry-standard STI practices, the health-and-safety procedures at the legal brothel where she works, what it was like to g…
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#363 Fingering, Finger-banging and Hand Sex - with Darshana Avila
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This episode is all about fingering and hand sex on orifices - specifically pussies and assholes. Repeat guest Darshana Avila teaches us all about how to use your hands on all the holes for more pleasure (and even better orgasms). About our guest: Darshana is nurturing a culture of Erotic Wholeness. Many know her from her groundbreaking work on Net…
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Bonus Episode: Retired Elite Rhythmic Gymnast Turned Kinky Poly Nudist Healer
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In this ad-free bonus episode we get to know Meesh, a badass retired elite rhythmic gymnast who is now a kinky poly nudist healer. Meesh shares how she utilized sex as part of her personal healing journey from CPTSD, what it means to her (and how it enriches her life) to be a nudist and how this differs from being an exhibitionist, as well as how s…
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246 | The Year of Irresistible Invitations: January Bucket List Wishes
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Wyoh and Kimberly do updates, listener emails and reflect on FIVE YEARS OF SEX STORIES!!! 04:29 Wyoh’s December Recap 08:28 OF & Patreon Updates 10:21 Sexy Learnings Book Club 13:05 Five Years of Sex Stories: Learnings & Noodles 22:49 January Bucket List Targets 26:11 Lovely Listener Messages 26:21 Vacuum Kink followup + favorite brands for vacuum …
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#362 Sex and Psychedelics - with Dr. Cat Meyer
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Can psychedelics (mushrooms, ayahuasca, MDMA, ketamine, etc) help with sexual healing? If so, how? Can they enhance eroticism and pleasure? What is psychedelic therapy? How can someone find the right therapist or practitioner for them? About our guest: Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT is a licensed psychotherapist #88224 specializing in sex, trauma, and k…
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Alex (29 single gay cis male) returns to discuss taking a break from Grindr to look for love, new explorations with anal play, and noodles with Wyoh on being our full selves with our parents and what satisfying connection in a love relationship might look like. Original Episode from July 2021 | Bite-Loving Bisexual: Alex’s Sex Stories ⚡️WORK WITH W…
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245 | What Makes A Good Lover: Tom’s Stories
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Tom (56 white male bisexual, mental Dom) comes on to share how he facilitates deep subspace for his submissive and what he’s learned about cross-dressing, swinging, floggers, and anal play. We learn through stories of how he builds gentle sensuality with his Dominant practices, the difference between having sex vs making love, the divide between a …
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#361 Seven Psychological Hacks for Stronger Erections - with Dr. Nazanin Moali
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What are some of the main causes of erectile issues for penis owners? Are they usually physiological or psychological? And when it comes to psychological erectile issues, what can people do for better, stronger firmer erections? What if I try all the "hacks" and nothing works? What are my other options? About our guest: Dr. Nazanin Moali is a sex a…
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244 | Good & Loud: Veronica’s Stories
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Veronica (21 pansexual woman, non-monogamous, partnered for 3 years long distance, kinky data analyst in the midwest) comes on to discuss threesomes (& more-somes), voyeurism, anal play, and giving cunnilingus. We learn through stories of simultaneous multiple makeout partners, exploring her voyeuristic curiosity, kinky switching, three-ways, her f…
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#360 Stepparent Fantasies, Daddy/Bratty Girl Dynamics, and Age Play - with Heather Shannon
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What are “kink roles”? What is age play? Why are some people into age play and what do they get out of it? What if someone wants to bring age play into the bedroom? Where do they start and how can they talk to their partners about it? About our guest: Heather Shannon is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist who helps queer, kinky and/or non-monogamous …
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Neptune (24 transmasc queer latino, partnered and dating separately, tattoo apprentice) returns to share how their self-love journey has led to getting back into dating and sex. We learn through stories of embracing self-confidence, kinky connection two days after meeting on apps, hot communication, being on top, verbal foreplay, edging, and new he…
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243 | Foursome for Christmas: Nova’s Stories
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Nova (21 kinky genderfluid polysexual person, in a partnered poly relationship for 2 years) comes on to share what they’ve learned about BDSM, breeding kinks, puppy and anal play. We learn through their stories of being a twitter Dom, making a Dungeon’s & Dragons personal adult film, six inch heels that inspired their Domination journey, being a br…
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#359 Is Porn (or Sex) Addiction Real? - with Gigi Engle
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What are the pros and cons of watching porn? How can porn enhance someone's (sex) life, and how is it harmful? Is porn or sex addiction real? How might someone know they have an issue with viewing porn? What if I feel like porn is affecting my sexual and personal life and I want to work on it? Also, does the type of porn I watch matter? And if I on…
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242 | Red Ring of Death with Milla of One Condoms
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Milla (Marketing & Communications director for the sponsor of this episode: ONE Condoms) comes on to share about MyONE Custom Fit and FLEX One Condoms and being in the sex industry for 14 years. She shares how she’s learned through open conversations about sex, how she’s helping people overcome penis anxiety, talks about condom fashion shows, her d…
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#358 Why You Should F*** First (and other sex tips) - with Dan Savage
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We are on a roll for all-time fangirl moments! In this episode we interview podcast icon Dan Savage of the Savage LoveCast! We learn all about the changes in the field of human sexuality Dan has witnessed as a sex columnist since the 90’s (and podcaster since 2006), as well as his thoughts on the ever-shifting language around sex, gender and orient…
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Jenna (29 gay Jewish solo-poly top-leaning switch) returns to share how she’s been helping people find rope joy by educating in her local kink scene: teaching rope classes, body education, and chaotic topping. Jenna gives an update on her forthcoming book—Anthology of a Slut—and its evolution into two separate projectss, and shares juicy details ab…
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Bonus Episode: Come Have Witchy Orgasms With Us!
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This episode was recorded during Shameless Sex Podcast's first women's retreat in Costa Rica. We talk all about how to extend orgasms, anal sex safety, witchy "orgasms", and finding sexy like-minded community - all via questions and comments from actual retreat participants. Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for the next Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash …
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241 | A New Era: December Bucket List Wishes
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Wyoh and Kimberly share updates and answer listener emails & questions. 00:53 Wyoh’s November of Bucket List Surprises 07:11 Celebration! Possible Sponsor 08:39 Irresistible Invitations: A Tease 09:40 December Bucket List Targets: Strap-Ons, Retreats, Organizing the Bucket List, Foot Fetish Date, Toy Roulette, Wyoh’s Wishlist, Vintage Playboy-Inspi…
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#357 DTF, Dirty Talk, and Is Anal a Big Ask? - with Double Teamed Podcast
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In this episode four badass women come together from Double Teamed and Shameless Sex podcasts to talk all things casual sex, anal sex, DTF, secondary erogenous zones, dirty talk, non-monogamy, kink, cheating and affairs, cone dicks, spitting during sex, and beyond. Get ready to laugh and learn while getting Double Teamed by Shameless Sex. About our…
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240 | Kink & Sex-Positive Leadership with Noa Elan of Bloom
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Noa (CEO of Bloom Community) comes on to share how she’s combined her favorite hobby (sex) with her talents (tech) into a space for open-minded people to build relationships and form kinky community. We learn through her stories of early enlightenment on AOL, opening her relationship, Bay Area adult parties, being a trophy wife for a night, finding…
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#356 Sex Toys with the Queen - with Dr. Carol Queen
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Another major fan girl moment for Shameless Sex! In this episode we interview another one of our idles, Dr. Carol Queen. If you thought April was a sex toy mogul then be prepared to be wowed by the queen of sex toys and sex education. In this episode we discuss the meaning of sex-positivity, the evolution of pleasure products and sex ed, as well as…
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239 | Lube to Connect with Cheryl Sloane from Überlube
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Cheryl (63 white partnered cis woman, brand director for Überlube) 🔗 CHERYL LINKS | uberlube.com / LinkedIn ⚡️WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity wyohlee.com/links 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ANSWER OR ASK A QUESTION | See the question lists and record up to a five minute story at xstoriespodcast.com 🤩 PATREON | Exclusive updates and stori…
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#355 Sexual Mastery (for Dudes) From an Adult Film Star Turned Coach - with Erik Everhard
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What did working as an adult film star teach Erik Everhard about sexual mastery? Can porn teach someone to become a great lover? Why is the path to mastery is as much strategy as it is skill? What's the ultimate move or skill a man can master in the bedroom? Why is knowing when to pivot so important? And how does getting creative with different arc…
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238 | Ravenous Date: Isabella Bloom’s Stories
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Isabella (20’s white F monogamous single pansexual sw from Chicago) 🔗 ISABELLA LINKS | linktr.ee/theisabellabloom ⚡️WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity wyohlee.com/links 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ANSWER OR ASK A QUESTION | See the question lists and record up to a five minute story at xstoriespodcast.com 🤩 PATREON | Exclusive updates and…
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