#35 Anecdotes - Am I still me if I behave differently in specific situations?

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For this episode, Tim talked about behaving differently in specific situations and how he sometimes question himself whether he’s being authentic or faking it. Listen on for more.

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SHOW NOTES

0:55 - Tim’s reflection on his behaviour: Am I still me if I behave differently in front of specific people and

4:50 - What does it mean if my behaviour depends on their responses too?

6:00 - Vance thinks it’s about adapting to social situations - we bring out the parts of us that are necessary for the specific situation

7:40 - Vance thinks our personalities are a mixture of personality traits that overlap with one another

8:25 - Tim’s reason for asking and reflecting is his worry about offending others when he gets too comfortable and straightforward

9:30 - Random motorbike revving engine and Tim’s iPhone’s notification tone

10:35 - If someone really wants to deepen the friendship or relationship, he or she has to accept the other person’s flaws

12:50 - How Tim used self-deprecating humour to approach potential clients for mortgage loans

14:20 - If you’re comfortable with a person, does it mean you like the person?

15:55 - Tim’s summary: At the end of the day, which version of yourself are you most comfortable and happiest with?

17:30 - Tim is grateful for the fortune of meeting someone whom he can relate to and bring to the next phase of his life; these people shaped his personality along the way too

18:50 - Mentioned James Altucher’s Reinvent Yourself and Choose Yourself

19:50 - Bloopers

Important links mentioned

James Altucher’s Reinvent Yourself and Choose Yourself

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