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Linzey Beister - Waiting is suffering (Episode 5)
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Waiting is suffering
Linzey Beister is an initiated man who is dedicated to men's work, mental health, building mature masculine traits. Linzey currently runs in person and online men's groups, offers somatic therapeutic mentoring and currently offering THE ORDER - a 5 week integration to have men claim what they want in life. He is a man on a mission. https://www.linzeybeister.com/the-order-program
On this episode we take a deep into fear, grief and what it means to be a man today:
“it's knowing, what do I need right now? Who do I need to be being not? What do I want? So who do I need to be in this moment to get the results that I want in my life? And it's having that articulation or what I call the emotional intelligence”
“We do it and we judge and we and we compare and then we potentially shame ourselves, guilt ourselves, make ourselves less than whatever part of us that is wounded or. Tender, vulnerable, and then what do we do with that? We stuff it down and make a partner, try and love that part of us that we don't love in ourselves”,
“How do you know you love something until you've lost it?”
“Fear of if I look inside of myself, I might not be able to. Keep working. I might not be able to keep this relationship or keep it all together. And then my whole cardboard cut out version of myself being some heroic leader of my family or boss or whatever it is, it's just the most flimsiest little facade that you know, I can't stop. I can't change anything that I'm doing right now because it would mean death. You know, the literal death of me or my death of my ego, which is so often the case. And so it's the I'm just going to pack it up even more or I'm just going to drink or I'm going to take some substance to make myself feel better”.
"Sadness is an emotion that we need to feel so we can feel grief. So then we can feel love because we don't get to just do up all the time.”
“Yeah. So the work, you know, the work never ends. It's just layer upon layer. How deep do you want to go? How well do you want to know yourself and know others?”
“There's fear there. You know, there's fear to just moment to moment, take that. Take that leap every day, lean into that edge every day, you know, and I want that. So. I call men forward, and that's what I'm doing this year”
Linzey’s latest program coming out on the 11th of Jan. Get on it men
https://www.linzeybeister.com/the-order-program
Books discussed:
Joseph Campbell : The Power of Myth
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/35519.The_Power_of_Myth
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