016 - Dr Rhoberta Shaler - "Hijackals" Among Us

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Are you dealing with relentlessly difficult people in life, at home and at work? Dr Rhoberta Shaler discusses recognizing the traits of these folks she calls "Hijackals" and the strategies for changing your perspectives and stopping the crazy-making.

About Dr Rhoberta Shaler

Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor. provides urgent and ongoing care for the partners, exes, and adult children of the relentlessly difficult people she calls Hijackals™. She helps them save their sanity and stop the crazy-making. Even the United States Marines have called on her for help!

As a relationship consultant, educator and author, Dr. Shaler reaches worldwide to help those in troubling relationships. She defines “Hijackals™” as people who hijack relationships for their own purposes while relentlessly scavenging them for power, status, and control. She offers the insights, strategies, and support you need to reclaim hope, confidence--and your sanity--when dealing with the constant uncertainty and jaw-dropping behaviors of Hijackals in your life, at home and at work. She is the author of sixteen books, including her new ebook series, Escaping the Hijackal Trap: The Definitive Guide to Dealing with Relentlessly Difficult People. Follow her blog and join her membership program at ForRelationshipHelp.com

Show Highlights

  • All "Hijackals" drink from the same pool of traits
  • How we become Hijackal bait
  • Uncover, discover, and do something to change the pattern
  • Are you setting boundaries or issuing ultimatums?
  • It's hard to see red flags when you're wearing rose-coloured glasses
  • The importance of self-reflection and enjoying spending time by yourself
  • Shifting your focus to defining and acting on what you want in life
  • You can't give a gift you don't have!

Connect with Rhoberta

OFFER: After hearing this interview you may be wondering if the difficult person in your life actually is a Hijackal? Knowing that can make a huge difference in how you manage your relationship. Her gift to you is her ebook, How To Spot A Hijackal. https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/shalerbonus/ Enjoy!

SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:

On iTunes: http://ForRelationshipHelp

Blog: http://www.ForRelationshipHelp.com

YouTube Channel: http://www.YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp

Speaker Site: http://ForRelationshipHelp.com/work-with-Rhoberta

Facebook: http://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor

Twitter: http://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LinkedIn: http:// www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

Join her closed Facebook Group: http://Facebook.com/groups/Hijackals

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Thanks for joining me this week on Broken to Blissful Podcast. If you any questions you would like to ask or have a topic you would like us to talk about. Write to me susan@susanball.ca.

If you have left an abusive or toxic relationship and you’re looking to step into your courage and take the first bold steps to creating a life you love, I want you to go ahead and book your complimentary 45 minute VIP session with me, where we will dig deep into healing and recovery to rise above victim and step into your Blissful Thriver.

Remember to do this as soon as possible as I book out quickly. Go to http://www.susanball.ca/be-my-v-i-p/ to book yours.

See you next week on Broken to Blissful podcast.

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