Season 8 Episode 4: 8-year Friends with Benefits

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Season 8 Episode 5: Saved by the Bell (Pepper)47:19

7m ago47:19

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Kiran shares one of his quirkier dates that stood out over the years – and the awkwardness that occurred along the way. We discuss making the most of the situation, when to introduce friends to your dates, and how to determine when it’s time to cut your losses.

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Season 8 Episode 4: 8-year Friends with Benefits59:52

5d ago59:52

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Julie and Andrew tell us about their 8-year journey from friends with benefits to a fully committed relationship. We discuss the evolutions that happen over time, navigating the ups and downs, and how a change of perception of the “right” person may reveal someone who’s been there all along.

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Season 8 Episode 3: PSA to Women41:35

13d ago41:35

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Leon shares a PSA to women about how men will run all over them if they aren’t smart about dating. We discuss the tactics used to take advantage of a situation, discerning disingenuous from authentic behavior, and how to be trusting without being a doormat.

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Season 8 Episode 2: Gold Standard51:51

19d ago51:51

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Caroline tells us about her first love that made such an impression on her that no one else can ever live up to it. We discuss why some people make such an impact, different types of love at different stages of life, and how to prevent living in the past in order to move forward.

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Season 8 Episode 1: The Exit Interview1:02:43

28d ago1:02:43

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Jason shares how he’s had hundreds of first dates that didn’t go anywhere – and will now hear live feedback from 5 of his past dates about why things didn’t progress. We discuss some simple ways to make big changes, how to stay confident despite past rejection, and why feedback is a gift.

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BONUS: Top 10 Date Ideas that aren't basic for 201919:21

2M ago19:21

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Before we start Season 8, tune in for our Top 10 Date Ideas that aren't basic to help you come up with more fun and unique ways to connect with your date(s) in 2019.

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BONUS: Top 5 Dating Resolutions for 201916:56

2M ago16:56

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Before we start Season 8, tune in for our top 5 dating resolutions for 2019 to help you become happier, healthier, and smarter daters.

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BONUS: Check in with Past Guests Part 241:28

3M ago41:28

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Listen as we chat with more past guests about their dating lives. We talk to Kat who set out for new adventures abroad in Season 5, Sheel who's online persona didn't reflect his readiness in Season 4, Bottle Ned who preferred to date outside of the city in Season 5, and some of our own updates!

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BONUS: Check in with Past Guests Part 144:14

3M ago44:14

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Tune in as we catch up with some of our past guests to hear about what's happening in their love lives. We chat with Shelby who we set up on a blind date in Season 7, Chris who met his girlfriend in an Uber in Season 6, Farah who got breadcrumbed in Season 5, and past co-host Michael Vargas!

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Season 7 Episode 22: Marriage 10154:28

3M ago54:28

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Dr Alexandra Solomon shares how to build loving and lasting relationships from her popular course at Northwestern University: Marriage 101. We discuss navigating conflict in relationships, the changing views of marriage, and how to develop healthy emotional and sexual intimacy.

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Season 7 Episode 21: Single and Lovin' it49:43

3M ago49:43

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Robert, Jade, and Larry tell us why they love being single and how they embrace it instead of feeling societal pressure to settle down. We discuss the benefits of staying single, why it’s important to grow as an individual during this time, and how to enjoy life while staying open to future possibilities.…

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Season 7 Episode 20: The Manfunnel53:46

4M ago53:46

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Megan Weks tells us how she started dating like a well-oiled machine which led to meeting and marrying her husband in less than a year. We discuss the “manfunnel” method, why linear dating can be problematic, and how it’s important not to be afraid to rock the boat.

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Season 7 Episode 19: Venmo John Tells All48:39

4M ago48:39

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John Graham from the Bachelor in Paradise and the Bachelorette tells us what it’s like to date on reality TV.. We talk about what really happens behind the scenes, life dating before the show, and what to learn (or ignore) about dating from the experience.

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Season 7 Episode 18: Just Keep Going43:23

4M ago43:23

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Valerie tells us how she met her now-husband Rob first online, only never to meet, and then reconnected with him through a chance encounter. We talk about persistence when you are dating, the paths both people are on, and the magic when things just suddenly line up.

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Season 7 Episode 17: Mental Health & Dating57:56

4M ago57:56

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Jonathan from Reflect talks to us about the impact of mental health when it comes to dating and relationships. We talk about the change in stigma over the years, how anxiety and depression show up when dating, and why mental health is the crisis of our generation.

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Season 7 Episode 16: At My Service47:59

5M ago47:59

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Ms. Emilie tells us what it’s like to be a pro dominatrix and how she transitioned from software engineer into this role. We discuss the range of services of a dom, the reasons and motivations of people seeking this out, and how technology continues to change the sex industry.

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Season 7 Episode 15: The Average Joe37:42

5M ago37:42

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Vince talks to us about his experience from the deep end of the dating pool as a middle-aged short guy with no game. We talk about how men also face societal pressures with their looks, how to make the most of what you got, and why average joe’s can be anything but average.

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Season 7 Episode 14: Nothing to Lose46:52

5M ago46:52

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Amanda shares how she took her dating life into her own hands by making the first move with men. We talk about low-risk yet bold ways to approach in real life, taking initiative on dating apps, and how the “rules” of gender roles continue to dwindle every passing generation.

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Season 7 Episode 13: Do Unicorns exist?51:23

5M ago51:23

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Ellis and Charlotte share their experiences dating a couple where they were the ones entering the relationship as the third. We discuss the terminology of unicorns and unicorn hunters, how perceptions differ from the reality of personal situations, and how these configurations can work or not.

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Season 7 Episode 12: Rock Bottom43:44

6M ago43:44

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Melissa shares a disastrous hookup story that made her re-examine her dating life and realize it was time for a change. We discuss the importance of self-respect, not letting others control your emotions, managing your alcohol intake on dates, and how to learn from your experiences.

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Season 7 Episode 11: Do nice guys finish last? with Tripp Kramer of Tripp Advice44:36

6M ago44:36

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Tripp from Tripp Advice and the "How To Talk to Girls" podcast talks to us about the “nice guy” syndrome and how to confidently meet and attract women. We discuss why being nice isn’t enough to spark attraction, how to break out of this mentality to lead with masculinity, and some tips on how to talk to girls.…

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Season 7 Episode 10: Rewriting the Rules Part 21:06:32

6M ago1:06:32

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Margot is back to share the most surprising and awesome twist in her love life: how she has fallen in love with a woman – with her girlfriend Elisa. We discuss being open to finding love in different forms, the journey from dating men to dating women, and experiencing love at first sight.

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Season 7 Episode 9: Rewriting the Rules Part 144:50

6M ago44:50

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Margot tells us about her new approach to finding love and how she’s breaking the “rules” of dating. We discuss social constructs that disadvantage women, how to cut through the BS of dates that don’t go anywhere, and the necessity of direct up-front communication.

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Season 7 Episode 8: Friends with (other) benefits42:33

7M ago42:33

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Bobby shares how he stays friends with girls he meets on dating apps – and also their current boyfriends. We discuss why being the “nice guy” can lead to dating fatigue, how to date with conviction, and differentiating between what you want vs risks you’re afraid to take.

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Season 7 Episode 7: Dating as a Black Woman44:36

7M ago44:36

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Yelitsa and Sofaya tell us the struggles of dating as black women in modern times. We discuss racial discrimination in online dating, the judgment formed from extreme stereotypes, and the impact of interracial dating with black men and ones of other races.

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Season 7 Episode 6: $25K Reward for Love52:13

7M ago52:13

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Ricky Chachra shares why he is baring his soul on his blog and offering a [now] $25k reward to find his beloved. We discuss a radically different approach, the importance of character in a match, and having the confidence that it’ll happen when the time is right.

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Season 7 Episode 5: Marathon Dater35:26

7M ago35:26

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Eliza tells us about her intense 24 hour date that fizzled just as quickly. We discuss the false sense of intimacy after a long date, how to keep your expectations in check, the difference between connections and companions, and why communication wins over speculation.

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Season 7 Episode 4: Diaper Fetish Part 236:30

7M ago36:30

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David responds to our episode last season about adult baby diaper lovers as someone with the fetish. We discuss what exactly goes down, why it's such a turn on, how to broach the subject to a significant other, and why this is just a small part of who you are.

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Season 7 Episode 3: Therapy for a Therapist48:30

8M ago48:30

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Dr Rachel shares what it’s like dating as a therapist and gets real about her own mishaps in dating which has allowed for her to practice what she preaches. We discuss breaking patterns, the importance of self-work, and how to become a more mindful dater.

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Season 7 Episode 2: What it means to be a man44:02

8M ago44:02

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Mark Greene from the Good Men Project, Remaking Manhood, and Think Play Partners talks to us about the evolving definition of masculinity. We discuss expanding the traditional “rules” of being a man, the impact of gender roles in dating, and how to relate to one another better.

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Season 7 Episode 1: 2 Blind Dates59:47

8M ago59:47

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Shelby shares her experience going on two blind dates with Matt and Beau and we also hear their perspectives. We talk about the impressions you give off on a date, ways to form a deeper connection, and how perceptions may differ greatly.

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Season 6 Episode 15: Meeting your half-orange55:43

10M ago55:43

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Amy Spencer, the author of Meeting your Half Orange, shares how she rewired her way of thinking with dating optimism to attract her perfect other half. We talk about what you put out into the universe, why being so available often backfires, and how to become so happy that the right person will naturally be drawn to you.…

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Season 6 Episode 14: So I went to a sex party...55:57

10M ago55:57

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Natalie takes us through her first experience at a sex party where we recorded an Organ House event and talked with other partygoers as well. We discuss what brings people to this community, why a strong consent culture is so essential, and what exactly happens at a play party.

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Season 6 Episode 13: The White Horse47:41

10M ago47:41

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Lori shares how she prefers to date Asian men as a white woman and how she has been the “white horse” even in the US. We talk about cultural perceptions, the differences between healthy interracial relationships vs fetishes, and judgements that are still happening in 2018.

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Season 6 Episode 12: Romance ISN'T Dead53:16

10M ago53:16

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Brian and Jakara aka Team BJ tell us about their elaborate engagement proposal and how they got together – including the hurdles that came their way. We discuss the importance of courage, how to handle one person not being ready, and what equal partnership really means.

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Season 6 Episode 11: Diaper Fetish51:07

11M ago51:07

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Samantha shares her reaction about being propositioned for a diaper fetish and what was actually involved. We talk about different fetishes, how to respond when someone shares a desire that may seem out of the ordinary to you, and ways to present a kink of your own.

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Season 6 Episode 10: F*CK Tinder48:29

11M ago48:29

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David tells us about his experience with Tinder that resulted in many dates, many stories, and ultimately the creation of F*ck Tinder: a love story. We talk about the good, the bad, and the ugly of dating apps, strategies not to become jaded, and how it can be ultimately worth it in the end.

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Season 6 Episode 9: Gender Blender53:45

11M ago53:45

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Ariel, founder of Gender Illumination, shares what it’s like to date as someone trans, gender queer, and gender non-conforming. We discuss her own personal journey, all the terms and pronouns, challenges in dating in the trans community, and how to be open and educated.

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Season 6 Episode 8: Open to being Open39:56

11M ago39:56

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Jasmine tells us about being in an open relationship from the perspective of someone that never thought about non-monogamy before. We discuss making your own rules in dating, why different relationship setups can work, and how good things come from staying open to possibilities.

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Season 6 Episode 7: A Foreign Way of Dating48:38

12M ago48:38

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Quino shares his struggles with modern dating culture of dating multiple people at once. We talk about the differences in US dating culture vs other countries, the universal problems many face, and how to make dating work for you despite the times or your location.

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Season 6 Episode 6: The List45:25

12M ago45:25

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Kirra tells us about her project, The List, where she interviews and photographs all the women her friend “K” has slept with to paint a picture of him through the eyes of his former lovers. We discuss your own perceptions vs. how others see you, the impact of every sexual encounter, and how to grow from your experience.…

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Season 6 Episode 5: An Unexpected Ride48:23

12M ago48:23

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Chris tells us about his chance encounter that led to meeting his girlfriend in an Uber, while sharing his personal journey to becoming boyfriend material. We discuss looking inward opposed to blaming modern dating, the progression one goes through, and opening yourself up to all the possibilities.

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Season 6 Episode 4: Weeding them out55:15

1y ago55:15

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Heidi, founder of Cannabis Tours and Puff, Pass, Paint, tells us about her slew of weird dates as we figure out why this may be happening to her. We discuss how your dating profile may be representing you, getting what you put out into the universe, and embracing all the weird that comes with dating.…

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Season 6 Episode 3: The Player Meets His Match1:03:32

1y ago1:03:32

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Josh shares how he mastered all the pickup techniques from The Game only to end up with Megan, a dating coach, who told him to loose all the lines. We discuss trying new ways to meet people, gaining confidence during the process, and ultimately attracting someone by being yourself.

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Season 6 Episode 2: When Dating IS Your Job43:23

1y ago43:23

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Meredith from The League tells us what it’s like being a dating professional by day and actual dater by night – and how through that process she met someone awesome. We discuss optimizing dates for experiences, learning about your preferences, and how to actually enjoy dating!

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Season 6 Episode 1: The Great Love Debate In Every State1:02:01

1y ago1:02:01

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Brian Howie from the Great Love Debate shares with us what he’s learned from talking to single men and women across the US and beyond. We discuss the differences between cities, the overarching issues nationwide, and the changing gender dynamics especially with the #metoo movement

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BONUS: Tech & Dating with Coffee Meets Bagel, The League, Luvidya, and Three Day Rule1:02:59

1y ago1:02:59

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Coffee Meets Bagel, The League, Luvidya, and Three Day Rule join us at General Assembly where these industry experts tell us the best ways to navigate the paradox of choice, messaging black hole, superficiality in dating apps, lack of mystery/romance, accountability, and how to leverage tech to work for us when it comes to finding love.…

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Season 5 Episode 16: Just Say Yes52:04

1y ago52:04

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Sheryl talks to us about a shift of attitude that instrumentally changed her dating life – and ultimately led her to her husband. We discuss the importance of energy and being approachable, the benefits of dating outside of your type, and how options equate to opportunity.

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Season 5 Episode 15: In Sickness and in Health55:09

1y ago55:09

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Judy and Pablo tell us about their experience with Pablo battling cancer and the impact it had on their relationship. We discuss what commitment really means, how to truly be there for your partner, and how overcoming difficult times can make you a stronger couple.

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Season 5 Episode 14: Three's Company1:15:31

1+ y ago1:15:31

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Jupiter, Dylan, and Sean share with us their experience being in a triad relationship. We discuss what this actually means, the dynamics between the three of them, the logistics of dates and events, and of course what goes down in the bedroom.

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