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Pleasuring yourself: Compulsive Masturbation and the Case of the Women's Shoes

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After Milt introduces the show, their 50th, he mentions their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, which has just been released, and which they again talk about certain topics in their Compatibility Checklist. Milt, “Family Involvement: Set limits on family involvement. When you marry a person with a large family, you may also be marrying their vast family and inviting them all into your lives.” Mia, “It's a huge issue, especially in some cultures where they do not know how to separate the family. The idea is to make your own rules and not allowing your family to make your decisions. When you marry someone, you're forming your own family, but when you allow your mother, say, to move in or make your decisions, you're selling yourself out.” Milt, “Time management: Learn to manage the time you have and not wasting it or shutting each other out with trivial activities. Facebook, Twitter and Smart-phone absorption has to be balanced with time together away from your devices or idle pursuits.” Mia, “You can get so easily lost in what everybody else is doing, is that what you want? It's a great tool for distant families, I'm not against it, but people get lost and all their time gets wasted. People don't know how to separate their cell-phones with reality. Ask yourself what kind of life you want to live, then go live it.” Milt, “Overcoming Fear together: Fear is the enemy of Love and the root of all our problems. Helping each other overcome and surmount Fears is what we come to rely on each other for, as Fear limits Togetherness and makes every problem larger than it needs to be.” Mia, “Fear is like an infectious disease, it's so easy to be afraid of everything. Have confidence in yourself and live your life; never stop living your life because of fear.” Milt, “You want to find a partner that helps you overcome and doesn't help feed your fears.”

Milt then introduces their show's theme, compulsive masturbation and indulging in isolated fetishes. Milt, “Am I wrong to be concerned that men are training themselves in non-intimacy by jacking off all the time?” Mia, “It's often easier just to live a fantasy, you look at a gorgeous woman in porn and wonder, 'when am I going to get a woman like that?' You can get lost in it.” Milt, “One of our surgeon generals insisted that masturbation is totally healthy, so is there practical side to it?” Mia, “Yes, you're not going to get diseases, and you diffuse some aggressive male energy by releasing it. I think a little masturbation is good and safe, but the problem is when you keep doing it and before you know it, you're not working and you're daydreaming and fantasizing all day.” Milt, “In the old days, a man who pleasured himself was known as a malthacos, or malaca, and was never allowed to fight in war because he was considered soft-brained, useless and weak.” Mia, “The problem is when you become a certain age and all you do is masturbate instead of being with a woman.”

Milt then reads an email, from a man who admits he's a compulsive masturbator, some days 5 times or more, and yet has a girl who's interested in him and he's worried he won't be able to perform. Mia, “He's doing the right thing, he needs to date a woman and once he does, he'll start feeling much better. There is nothing better than 2 people having that exchange. Be honest with her, tell her your situation and don't worry about you coming early, work on pleasing her with long foreplay and exploring who she is. There is no mistake you can make, everything is experience and this is what you need.” Milt, “I think you need to take the focus off of you and put it on her, have foreplay for hours.”

Milt reads another, from a man who collects and masturbates into women's shoes and who's wife just found them and him 'in the act' and is worried he's a pervert. Mia, “Number One, be honest with her, 'Would you rather have me jacking off in shoes or having sex with another woman?' Tell her everything about this fetish but tell her counseling isn't gonna help. What bothers her is it's not her shoes, so in away, you're betraying her! In her mind she's wondering, 'who's shoes are they? Is he enchanted with this woman?' I suggest she get some sexy shoes for him and model them, rather than counseling or being in denial and disgust.” Milt, “Yeah, include your wife and you may have found your solution!”

Milt then sends everyone to their website with its MiltnMia Show Store, before he closes the show.

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After Milt introduces the show, their 50th, he mentions their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, which has just been released, and which they again talk about certain topics in their Compatibility Checklist. Milt, “Family Involvement: Set limits on family involvement. When you marry a person with a large family, you may also be marrying their vast family and inviting them all into your lives.” Mia, “It's a huge issue, especially in some cultures where they do not know how to separate the family. The idea is to make your own rules and not allowing your family to make your decisions. When you marry someone, you're forming your own family, but when you allow your mother, say, to move in or make your decisions, you're selling yourself out.” Milt, “Time management: Learn to manage the time you have and not wasting it or shutting each other out with trivial activities. Facebook, Twitter and Smart-phone absorption has to be balanced with time together away from your devices or idle pursuits.” Mia, “You can get so easily lost in what everybody else is doing, is that what you want? It's a great tool for distant families, I'm not against it, but people get lost and all their time gets wasted. People don't know how to separate their cell-phones with reality. Ask yourself what kind of life you want to live, then go live it.” Milt, “Overcoming Fear together: Fear is the enemy of Love and the root of all our problems. Helping each other overcome and surmount Fears is what we come to rely on each other for, as Fear limits Togetherness and makes every problem larger than it needs to be.” Mia, “Fear is like an infectious disease, it's so easy to be afraid of everything. Have confidence in yourself and live your life; never stop living your life because of fear.” Milt, “You want to find a partner that helps you overcome and doesn't help feed your fears.”

Milt then introduces their show's theme, compulsive masturbation and indulging in isolated fetishes. Milt, “Am I wrong to be concerned that men are training themselves in non-intimacy by jacking off all the time?” Mia, “It's often easier just to live a fantasy, you look at a gorgeous woman in porn and wonder, 'when am I going to get a woman like that?' You can get lost in it.” Milt, “One of our surgeon generals insisted that masturbation is totally healthy, so is there practical side to it?” Mia, “Yes, you're not going to get diseases, and you diffuse some aggressive male energy by releasing it. I think a little masturbation is good and safe, but the problem is when you keep doing it and before you know it, you're not working and you're daydreaming and fantasizing all day.” Milt, “In the old days, a man who pleasured himself was known as a malthacos, or malaca, and was never allowed to fight in war because he was considered soft-brained, useless and weak.” Mia, “The problem is when you become a certain age and all you do is masturbate instead of being with a woman.”

Milt then reads an email, from a man who admits he's a compulsive masturbator, some days 5 times or more, and yet has a girl who's interested in him and he's worried he won't be able to perform. Mia, “He's doing the right thing, he needs to date a woman and once he does, he'll start feeling much better. There is nothing better than 2 people having that exchange. Be honest with her, tell her your situation and don't worry about you coming early, work on pleasing her with long foreplay and exploring who she is. There is no mistake you can make, everything is experience and this is what you need.” Milt, “I think you need to take the focus off of you and put it on her, have foreplay for hours.”

Milt reads another, from a man who collects and masturbates into women's shoes and who's wife just found them and him 'in the act' and is worried he's a pervert. Mia, “Number One, be honest with her, 'Would you rather have me jacking off in shoes or having sex with another woman?' Tell her everything about this fetish but tell her counseling isn't gonna help. What bothers her is it's not her shoes, so in away, you're betraying her! In her mind she's wondering, 'who's shoes are they? Is he enchanted with this woman?' I suggest she get some sexy shoes for him and model them, rather than counseling or being in denial and disgust.” Milt, “Yeah, include your wife and you may have found your solution!”

Milt then sends everyone to their website with its MiltnMia Show Store, before he closes the show.

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