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HAM Episode 56 - Emasculasian?!

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Brandon is back! After a few solocasts, Seibo welcome Brandon back to the podcast to talk about Asian emasculation. We talked about A LOT of stuff in this episode from vulnerability to shame, and even including if Brandon is gay! We decided to start doing some show notes so it would help you guys find the interesting parts of the podcast but truthfully, the whole thing is awesome. Please leave us a rating or share this with a friend, we really appreciate it!

4:15 Difficulty of Dating Apps

7:35 Deductive belief formation

9:00 White names 10:30 No Chinese Accent 10:45 Chinese Exclusion Act 11:34 Feminine jobs 13:40 "I'm an introvert" excuse 14:00 Hypermasculine Identity 15:00 Overcompensation to get out of comfort zone 18:35 Friendzone real? 21:30 Brandon's Overcompensation 23:20 Masks attracting other masks 24:41 Brandon's Pick Up Artist experiences 25:10 Bad strategies 29:35 Mark Manson's "Models" book 30:15 Vulnerability and Brene Brown 32:20 Inner vs. Outer Game 33:17 Is Brandon Gay? 33:55 Two guys read the same dating book 35:00 Seibo's stories that women love 36:40 Sharing your real story 38:04 Guy friends not having sex with you 40:00 Permission to be vulnerable 40:45 Brandon gets sex coaching 41:52 Marriage Counseling 44:08 Seibo's previous paradigm 45:35 Asking for what you want 46:35 Polarizing people towards you 48:47 White Belt Advice: Approval? 49:27 Blue Belt Advice: Vulnerable Conversation 50:00 Black Belt Advice: Somatica Skills 52:01 Beliefs are placeholders 53:45 Helping yourself first
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Archived series ("Inactive feed" status)

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Brandon is back! After a few solocasts, Seibo welcome Brandon back to the podcast to talk about Asian emasculation. We talked about A LOT of stuff in this episode from vulnerability to shame, and even including if Brandon is gay! We decided to start doing some show notes so it would help you guys find the interesting parts of the podcast but truthfully, the whole thing is awesome. Please leave us a rating or share this with a friend, we really appreciate it!

4:15 Difficulty of Dating Apps

7:35 Deductive belief formation

9:00 White names 10:30 No Chinese Accent 10:45 Chinese Exclusion Act 11:34 Feminine jobs 13:40 "I'm an introvert" excuse 14:00 Hypermasculine Identity 15:00 Overcompensation to get out of comfort zone 18:35 Friendzone real? 21:30 Brandon's Overcompensation 23:20 Masks attracting other masks 24:41 Brandon's Pick Up Artist experiences 25:10 Bad strategies 29:35 Mark Manson's "Models" book 30:15 Vulnerability and Brene Brown 32:20 Inner vs. Outer Game 33:17 Is Brandon Gay? 33:55 Two guys read the same dating book 35:00 Seibo's stories that women love 36:40 Sharing your real story 38:04 Guy friends not having sex with you 40:00 Permission to be vulnerable 40:45 Brandon gets sex coaching 41:52 Marriage Counseling 44:08 Seibo's previous paradigm 45:35 Asking for what you want 46:35 Polarizing people towards you 48:47 White Belt Advice: Approval? 49:27 Blue Belt Advice: Vulnerable Conversation 50:00 Black Belt Advice: Somatica Skills 52:01 Beliefs are placeholders 53:45 Helping yourself first
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