EP 10: The Expectation Trap: How Unrealistic Ideals Impact Our Dating Life with Jeremiah Carter
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In this candid conversation, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Jeremiah Carter (what a strong name!). If you're seeking a male perspective on dating and relationships, look no further. The good guys do exist, I promise.
Together, we delve into the male experience navigating today's complex dating landscape amidst cancel culture. Jeremiah opens up about his personal journey with therapy, providing valuable insights into the challenges and growth he has encountered. Our conversation also explores societal expectations placed on both men and women, shedding light on the nuances of these dynamics. Jeremiah shares candidly about his own dating journey, offering a genuine and relatable perspective. We even talk about toxic relationships and why they are so intoxicating.
About Jeremiah Carter
Jeremiah Carter, a former athlete, navigated through diverse career paths prompted by injuries that altered the trajectory of his professional life. Presently, he dedicates his time to nurturing the growth of Street Kings FC, his street soccer brand designed to positively impact the lives of children. Alongside his commitment to community development, Jeremiah engages in the art of storytelling through his voice acting and acting endeavors. Hailing from Nashville, Tennessee, he humorously admits to not having a fixed geographical anchor for his home base, embodying the dynamic and adventurous spirit that characterizes his journey.
https://www.instagram.com/jmiahcarter/
https://www.instagram.com/streetkings_fc/
00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction
00:35 Discussing the Difficulty of Scheduling the Interview
00:57 How the Podcast Topic Came About
01:15 Discussing the Post that Sparked the Conversation
02:02 The Decision to Record a Podcast on the Topic
02:14 Reflecting on the Initial Social Media Interaction
03:33 Discussing the Challenges Men Face in Modern Relationships
04:51 The Importance of Understanding One's Truth
05:01 The Role of Chivalry in Modern Dating
06:23 The Impact of Unrealistic Expectations in Dating
06:48 The Influence of Dating Apps and Options on Commitment
11:08 The Importance of Shared Principles in a Relationship
12:19 The Challenges of Navigating Modern Dating
13:54 The Importance of Self-Awareness in Dating
17:18 The Dangers of Projecting Desired Traits onto Potential Partners
25:37 The Impact of Fear and Insecurity on Dating Choices
35:05 The Struggles of Dating in a Social Media Dominated World
38:38 The Importance of Self-Reflection in Dating
42:04 The Shift from High to Low Self-Esteem
42:36 The Importance of Humility and Genuine Interest
43:30 The Dangers of High Self-Esteem and Criminal Behavior
44:01 The Power of Engaging with the World
44:56 The Pitfalls of Self-Help and the Enneagram
45:53 The Role of Passion and Giftedness in Life
46:36 The Biblical Perspective on Calling and Purpose
47:28 The Importance of Stepping into God's Calling
48:07 The Power of God in Our Weakness
48:47 The Pursuit of Relationships and Dating
49:38 The Importance of Character in Dating
01:02:06 The Dangers of Love Bombing in Relationships
01:03:29 The Value of Simple First Dates
01:05:33 The Importance of Being Yourself in Relationships
01:11:39 The Power of Time and Truth in Relationships
01:14:02 The Importance of Communication in Relationships
01:14:53 The Role of Expectations in Relationships
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