Emotional Intelligence


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By Richard & Kaitlin Fergeson and Kaitlin Fergeson. Discovered by Player FM and our community — copyright is owned by the publisher, not Player FM, and audio is streamed directly from their servers. Hit the Subscribe button to track updates in Player FM, or paste the feed URL into other podcast apps.

The greatest fear in the world is the opinion of others, and the moment you are unafraid of the crowd, you are no longer a sheep, you become a lion. A great roar arises in your heart, the roar of freedom.” - Osho
When I was younger I thought others had to lose for me to win.

I had a weird dichotomy, I believed in abundance but that it was in scarce supply.

I've learned that what I thought was a abundant mindset actually was quagmired in scarcity.

It seems silly now but I believed there wasn't enough for us all and I was going to get mine.

I've learned there is more than enough for everyone that seeks more.

You don't have to lose for me to win and vice versa. Even if we have the exact same business, we aren't competitors, there is plenty for us all.

The problem with worrying about your competitors failure is you becomes so focused on that you miss success in your life.

I don't want you to lose, I want us both to win.

I'm not in competition with anyone, but myself.

I'm my only competition. My ego, my selfishness, my pride, those are the things I'm competing against.

I saw such a fundamental shift in my life when I wanted others to win as much as myself.

I cheer for my circle, I clap the loudest for them. If your circle doesn't clap the loudest for you, it's time to find a new circle.

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