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097: How to Eliminate Self-Hate + Start Accepting Yourself

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Content provided by Brittney Moses and Ranela Kaligithi. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Brittney Moses and Ranela Kaligithi or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://player.fm/legal.

This week's solo episode with Ranela is all about how to eliminate self-hate and start accepting yourself. Including:

  • Ranela's backstory of identity crisis, self-hate, and rebuilding an authentic life
  • How stories turn into identities
  • The detriment of comparing ourselves to other people
  • Giving ourselves the permission to GRIEVE the loss of identities, people, and beliefs that we thought would stick around forever
  • Forgiving ourselves for not being where we thought we “should” be by now.
  • Giving ourselves permission to DREAM
  • Create a life we love
  • The importance of living by our values
  • and more!

Ranela Kaligithi is a marriage and family therapist, clinical counselor, and digital creator in Southern California. While completing her graduate work in Psychology at California Baptist University and developing a trauma treatment program. Ranela pursues practical ways for individuals to rise above their circumstances, transform their relationship with themselves, and be effective managers of their mental health.


Timestamps:

18:30 - I started realizing how much I didn’t love myself

23:38 - “I hate myself for not being where I thought I’d be by the time I was 27”

28:41 - What is self-love?

31:25 - Questions to ask yourself to stop hating yourself

37:05 - Why you can’t compare yourself to anyone

43:00 - This is where you begin on your self love journey

45:25 - Why putting yourself first isn’t selfish


Subscribe to the Speaking Our Minds Newsletter to get updates on the latest episodes, upcoming topics, and insider inspo!: https://mailchi.mp/361c1d35da39/pod-newsletter-sign-up


Connect with Ranela:

Connect with me on IG & join my Broadcast channel: @lifewithranela

Facebook: www.facebook.com/ranela.kaligithi

Website: www.lifewithranela.com


Download Ranela's Self-love Mini Workbook: https://lifewithranela.myflodesk.com/self-love


1:1 Coaching with Ranela + more: https://www.lifewithranela.com/socials


Join her Membership Waitlist: https://lifewithranela.myflodesk.com/um24no8tpm


Connect with us on social media for more:

Podcast Instagram: @SpeakingOurMindsPod

Tik Tok: @SpeakingOurMindsPod

Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-faith-mental-wellness-podcast-with-brittney-moses.



Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Manage episode 395486383 series 2434472
Content provided by Brittney Moses and Ranela Kaligithi. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Brittney Moses and Ranela Kaligithi or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://player.fm/legal.

This week's solo episode with Ranela is all about how to eliminate self-hate and start accepting yourself. Including:

  • Ranela's backstory of identity crisis, self-hate, and rebuilding an authentic life
  • How stories turn into identities
  • The detriment of comparing ourselves to other people
  • Giving ourselves the permission to GRIEVE the loss of identities, people, and beliefs that we thought would stick around forever
  • Forgiving ourselves for not being where we thought we “should” be by now.
  • Giving ourselves permission to DREAM
  • Create a life we love
  • The importance of living by our values
  • and more!

Ranela Kaligithi is a marriage and family therapist, clinical counselor, and digital creator in Southern California. While completing her graduate work in Psychology at California Baptist University and developing a trauma treatment program. Ranela pursues practical ways for individuals to rise above their circumstances, transform their relationship with themselves, and be effective managers of their mental health.


Timestamps:

18:30 - I started realizing how much I didn’t love myself

23:38 - “I hate myself for not being where I thought I’d be by the time I was 27”

28:41 - What is self-love?

31:25 - Questions to ask yourself to stop hating yourself

37:05 - Why you can’t compare yourself to anyone

43:00 - This is where you begin on your self love journey

45:25 - Why putting yourself first isn’t selfish


Subscribe to the Speaking Our Minds Newsletter to get updates on the latest episodes, upcoming topics, and insider inspo!: https://mailchi.mp/361c1d35da39/pod-newsletter-sign-up


Connect with Ranela:

Connect with me on IG & join my Broadcast channel: @lifewithranela

Facebook: www.facebook.com/ranela.kaligithi

Website: www.lifewithranela.com


Download Ranela's Self-love Mini Workbook: https://lifewithranela.myflodesk.com/self-love


1:1 Coaching with Ranela + more: https://www.lifewithranela.com/socials


Join her Membership Waitlist: https://lifewithranela.myflodesk.com/um24no8tpm


Connect with us on social media for more:

Podcast Instagram: @SpeakingOurMindsPod

Tik Tok: @SpeakingOurMindsPod

Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-faith-mental-wellness-podcast-with-brittney-moses.



Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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