How to Get Over a Breakup


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“After going through a tough breakup, realize that you can choose to go through it in a way that's disempowering, or it can become the most empowering phase of your life.”

We often experience many negative emotions after a breakup. In this episode, learn how to get over a breakup and use your experience to fuel your personal growth and long-term happiness. While moving away from your breakup and back toward happiness, consider this:

“When you have a breakup, it's time to learn. Don’t blame, don’t be mad, don’t try to get back together, and don’t try to recover everything. If the breakup is definitive and it is done, then let go. But it's impossible to let go unless you accept you’re in phase two now. Phase one was the breakup, phase two is the new you.”

This is a MUST LISTEN episode for anyone who is going through a tough breakup and wants to transition into a new version of themselves.

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