HC048 - Apologising For Being Awkward and Killing Neediness Through Text.
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Hey guys, its Brett with another Q and A! Here are the questions:
1) How do I apologize after making things really awkward with a girl? Or is it worth my time? Is there a correct way?
"A year ago I made a really awkward mistake with a couple of women. I would've brushed off like normal people would do, but they've been very persistent with trying to talk to me, but I just can't idk why. I get so scared because I don't want to make things awkward again, or I'm afraid I'll escalate things in a really bad way and since the only time I see them is in a public setting. I don't want to make a scene.
Is there a correct way to apologize to girls because I know I made a mistake, and they know too. So is it worth apologizing? Ik saying "I'm sorry for x" but I feel like that won't cut it."
2) Where do you go other than bars to meet women?
"I don't like picking up women at bars. Where else would you go?"
3) Need to shift my text game to kill my neediness right now, post suggestions please
"Long story short, I have been on a few dates with this girl, my intentions are obvious but I have been showing far too much neediness. It needs to stop right now. We have been texting every day, multiple times day in between dates. She is clearly the one leading the chase right now.I am going on a 5 day vacation starting tomorrow and I need to shift the chase from me chasing to her chasing. She has far too much power over this situation currently and I need to fix it now before I get friendzoned or blown off entirely.
Please send suggestions ASAP! Feel free to ask questions if you need more detail of the situation."
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