Ep. 281 - The Doctor Is In Series - Sticks, Stones, Words and Broken Bones

The Social-Engineer Podcast

Welcome to the Social-Engineer Podcast: The Doctor Is In Series – where we will discuss understandings and developments in the field of psychology.

In today’s episode, Chris and Abbie are discussing Bullying. They will talk about what bullying is, the difference between bullying and just being mean and the psychological impact it can have on people, as well as what we can do about it. [Nov 4, 2024]

00:00 - Intro

00:16 - Dr. Abbie Maroño Intro

00:42 - Intro Links

• Social-Engineer.com - http://www.social-engineer.com/

• Managed Voice Phishing - https://www.social-engineer.com/services/vishing-service/

• Managed Email Phishing - https://www.social-engineer.com/services/se-phishing-service/

• Adversarial Simulations - https://www.social-engineer.com/services/social-engineering-penetration-test/

• Social-Engineer channel on SLACK - https://social-engineering-hq.slack.com/ssb

• CLUTCH - http://www.pro-rock.com/

• innocentlivesfoundation.org - http://www.innocentlivesfoundation.org/

03:50 - The Topic of the Day: Bullying

04:17 - Defining Bullying

09:04 - Them or You

11:39 - Understanding Consequences

14:54 - Dehumanizing as an Excuse

17:18 - Symptoms of Being Bullied

21:10 - The Power of Support

23:40 - PTSD Similarities

31:04 - Names Can Hurt Me!

34:14 - Some Things to Help

37:00 - The Problems in Schools

41:41 - Reading, Writing & Empathy

42:50 - Wrap Up

43:17 - Next Month: Flow State and Self Compassion

43:34 - Outro

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• www.innocentlivesfoundation.org

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• LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/dr-abbie-maroño-phd

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• Twitter: @humanhacker

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