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Episode 200: The Illusion of Control

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Are you a control freak? Do you coerce, threaten, use scare tactics, or manipulate in order to get people to "behave?" If so, you are fighting a losing battle. Control tactics may work for a while, but eventually, people will do what they will do, and all you've done is prolong the inevitable. Control isn't really about other people, it's about you, because if they're okay, then I'm okay. It's time to get rid of the illusion of control because the only person you are required to control is ... you.

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Think About It:

1. Controlling every aspect of your child's life ends up tieing their hands behind their back.

2. Control creates an environment of fear and chaos.

3. Trying to control others creates a lot of stress for the controller.

Check Out Our Course: https://the-soul-gym.teachable.com/

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Are you a control freak? Do you coerce, threaten, use scare tactics, or manipulate in order to get people to "behave?" If so, you are fighting a losing battle. Control tactics may work for a while, but eventually, people will do what they will do, and all you've done is prolong the inevitable. Control isn't really about other people, it's about you, because if they're okay, then I'm okay. It's time to get rid of the illusion of control because the only person you are required to control is ... you.

For more information about Carla Shellis: Home | Carla Shellis

Contact Us: soulgymsisters.com

Think About It:

1. Controlling every aspect of your child's life ends up tieing their hands behind their back.

2. Control creates an environment of fear and chaos.

3. Trying to control others creates a lot of stress for the controller.

Check Out Our Course: https://the-soul-gym.teachable.com/

--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/crystal14/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/crystal14/support

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