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Ep. 27 - Kinky Dating vs. D/s Practitioners & Mentors

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Hey there all! One of the questions I get asked the most is "How do I find a Mistress or Dom as a life partner?" and quite often, there is a misunderstanding of the differences between looking for a romantic life-partner who will share a D/s dynamic with you vs. a trained practitioner who works with you, mentors you, or engages in a more contractual D/s dynamic, but is not in a romantic relationship with you. Here, I'm going to cover some of the differences, and ways you can incorporate a subtle nod to your desired lifestyle or identity while in the dating scene.

Links for this episode:

Follow Dating Kinky on IG at https://www.instagram.com/datingkinkyofficial

Visit the blog articles on dating in kink and D/s on the NCSF Site

Kasidie (primarily swingers but many kinksters can be found here too and events are regularly updated for kink/play parties)

Swing Lifestyle (again, primarily swingers but many kinksters can be found here too)

Cosmopolitan released a list of kink/fetish/BDSM couples and dating aps located HERE that's worth a look.

Twitch with me!

Video Podcast YouTube Version

Resources:

Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)

About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.

Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech

Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K’s Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing!

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Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!

Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world!

The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear

Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance

SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!

Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover

Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room

Social Links

Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links

  continue reading

54 episodes

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Hey there all! One of the questions I get asked the most is "How do I find a Mistress or Dom as a life partner?" and quite often, there is a misunderstanding of the differences between looking for a romantic life-partner who will share a D/s dynamic with you vs. a trained practitioner who works with you, mentors you, or engages in a more contractual D/s dynamic, but is not in a romantic relationship with you. Here, I'm going to cover some of the differences, and ways you can incorporate a subtle nod to your desired lifestyle or identity while in the dating scene.

Links for this episode:

Follow Dating Kinky on IG at https://www.instagram.com/datingkinkyofficial

Visit the blog articles on dating in kink and D/s on the NCSF Site

Kasidie (primarily swingers but many kinksters can be found here too and events are regularly updated for kink/play parties)

Swing Lifestyle (again, primarily swingers but many kinksters can be found here too)

Cosmopolitan released a list of kink/fetish/BDSM couples and dating aps located HERE that's worth a look.

Twitch with me!

Video Podcast YouTube Version

Resources:

Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)

About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.

Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech

Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K’s Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing!

_________________________________________________

Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!

Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world!

The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear

Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance

SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!

Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover

Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room

Social Links

Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links

  continue reading

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