Podcast 289 Where are you being reactive instead of proactive and is that hindering you in THRIVING!

Thriving at sixty

light not our darkness that most frightens us) Part of a quote from Marianne Williamson

Go for it! I want on my grave stone she burned out instead of rusted out! What do you want them to say about you?

Do you keep reacting to the same people or similar people over and over? Whats it going to take to become proactive?When we keep reacting we are emotionally victims. While reactive victims are primarily known by their “against” stances. proactive people do not demand rights, they live them. The ultimate expression of power is Love; it is the ability not to express power, but to restrain it Proactive people are able to “Love others as themselves” They have mutual respect. They don’t have to dish back what they receive. They have gotten past the reactive stance of the law and are able to love and not react and put healthy boundaries in place.

Ask yourself are your actions and speaking in alignment with what you are committed to? Look at what are the habitual patterns that have that commitment thwarted? Are you willing to take responsibility for when it doesn’t go that way you want or the way you expected and clean up your part? Are you willing to let go of Expectations of yourself and others? What are you not being truthful about to yourself and others. Do you know that we have secrets we loose power. I’m not saying share everything with every body, I am saying you need to speak with some one you trust a mentor, a counselor and good friend that will validate your feelings and help you gain freedom. I assert when we have no secrets we start on the road to freedom, we become un mess able. No one can harm us! Try it out. Keeping secrets keep us separate and alone, isolated from reality. We think we are the only ones. I can’t share that what will they think of me. When we start sharing with safe people we hear I went through that too, this is what I did when that happened.

Our thoughts can be like a junk drawer-we need to take inventory and get rid of what is not useful! (wendy b)

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