LIVE Q&A // Spirited Kids, too rough w/ baby sibs, breaking consent, resisting medical procedures, when husbands/partners don't handle kids' feelings well


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- Kids’ personality types - worth analysis through the enneagram or Gretchen Rubin’s 4 tendencies?

- 4yo too rough with little sib, constantly picking up

- Teaching kids “consent”, modeling consent + boundary-setting, circling back when consent is broken

- Inhibiting kids’ physical impulses like hitting, touching things they shouldn’t, etc

- Kid resisting medical necessary procedures

- How kids’ bodies/nervous systems store trauma and how to help purge and process it

- Why conventional discipline is physically, mentally and emotionally unhealthy for kids

- How kids (and adults!) learn best - connection vs correction

- 6yo and husband have physical conflict - how to support their relationship?

- How parents can work on their triggers + beliefs

- The book How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t with Your Kids: A Practical Guide to Becoming a Calmer, Happier Parent

- Upbringing Podcast: Caregiver Clashes - Upbringing podcast: My Partner Doesn't Discipline Respectfully

- Positive words/phrases for during conflict to de-escalate the situation - YES or OK

- 2.5 yo throwing sharp toys when dysregulated + parent removed them all, kid mad

- When kids attack us - what's a "natural consequence"?

- When to use the RESIST Approach

- Sibs fighting - parent creates space/safety but they won't stop!

- Our own self-reg and "forcefield" that helps us support our kids in conflict

- How to not pass co-dependency onto our kids?

- To incredible power of exploring + expressing NEEDS + BOUNDARIES

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