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74 The Real Issue, Finding Love and Fulfillment with Ben Tyler
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Looking back on the past 15 years of your life…
Are you in the same spot? Have you regressed?
Maybe you’re coming off of rock bottom?
Nearly 13 years ago, I was coming off of rock bottom…
And there were many dips, dives, and mountains along the way.
Some of those dips were with alcohol…
Some were with drugs…
Some were with infidelity…
This episode reminds me of snorting some of that rock bottom off the hood of a car…
Blind, unable to see what I’m doing, and doing it anyway…
Maybe I was empty inside then… Looking for something to fill me up.
Not feeling good enough… Lack of self-worth… And blaming everyone else for the situation I created…
The situation I was living in… If you call that living.
My compass was spinning in circles…
I didn’t know where to go or what to do…
Ben Tyler describes his daily life in New Orleans as Mardi Gras 24/7.
Drinking… Drugs… Work… Rinse and repeat.
Putting that into perspective, even his rinsing was wild…
As that would happen with a garden hose in his apartment…
Because, even though he was making good money as an engineer…
He didn’t have electricity, heat, or running water.
“I told myself that the reason I’m not doing good in my job is because of my boss…”
“The reason I can’t hold a relationship with a woman is because women are messed up in the head.“
Ben continued, “You’re the issue here.”
“I knew that I didn’t love myself… And I had to change that.”
Creators, Ben goes deep on this episode and provides a ton of value after getting very vulnerable.
He talks about how he started to turn it around…
Became successful again… And was on the right track… Until…
Until he realized chasing money wasn’t what provides you, me, or anyone true happiness…
The greatest feeling in the world…
Which is being fulfilled by the work you are doing…
And being that positive difference in others’ lives.
Are you ready to become that difference?
Ben breaks it all down for us in this episode…
Here’s how to connect with Ben and the resources mentioned in this episode…
Connect with Ben on Facebook
And on his website at Benjamin-Tyler.com
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I couldn’t find that I Am A Beast video on YouTube. There are a ton of videos like that out now around bodybuilding…
But they’re not the real, original deal.
If you do find it, the video is just a still image of Mike Tyson, with quotes that pop up every so often, and the Requiem for a Dream soundtrack intertwined with Mike Tyson, Chael Sonnen, and other motivational messages…
Until next time Creators
Your Partner in Love and Creative Success
P.S. Why not start loving yourself today?
There’s no better time than now…
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