Sexual Integrity & Men's Leadership - with Mischa Byruck

Sex Upgraded

This episode is a deep journey into the PRACTICE of sexual integrity. It's one of the most important episodes on this podcast so far, so please take your time with it - and note the chapters below too. Also, please read the important note below before you finish the episode.
⚠️ IMPORTANT NOTE: While this conversation is in-depth and provides great options for moving forward in healthy ways, it does not cover all the nuances of sexual harm, integrity and accountability. There will always be scenarios that do not fit into what has been discussed here (for example, we did not talk about when people weaponize the idea/accusation that someone has caused harm to them when they haven't. Those instances are rare, but they're very real when they do happen).
🔴 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.
✅ IMPORTANT TOPICS:
0:00 Intro/Welcome
2:17 Introducing Mischa (Work & Harm)
10:22 We Can ALL Cause Harm...
15:31 What is Power? (How to Lead More Effectively)
25:41 Reevaluating Consent Violations and Sexual Harm
32:34 Harm Reduction in Sex-Positive Communities
36:23 Ecstatic Dance, Consent & Community Impact
41:34 How to Dance Wild & Crazy with Positive Impact
43:08 How Our "Energy" Impacts Others (In Ecstatic Dance and Life)
45:55 The Art of Attunement
48:13 Sexual Integrity VS Subjective Harm
55:04 Sexual Liberation REQUIRES a Deeper Look at Justice & Accountability
1:03:52 Navigating Feedback, Cancel Culture & Public Call Outs
1:13:55 The TEST of Men's Sexual Integrity & Accountability
1:17:59 Men's Responsibility in Leadership Roles
1:24:21 The Power of DIGNITY vs Shame & Self-Victimization
1:33:48 The Art of Apologizing
1:45:52 Men are Good
If you have any questions or feedback about this episode, please feel free to get in touch with Mischa and I. You can find our contact info below.
Thank you for being part of this conversation!
-Taylor
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• Mischa's Website: www.evolve.men
• Mischa's Instagram: @mischabyruck

🔶 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:

• Taylor's Website: www.taylorjohnson.life
• Taylor's Instagram: @taylorclarkjohnson

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Chapters

1. Intro/Welcome (00:00:00)

2. Introducing Mischa (Work & Harm) (00:02:17)

3. We Can ALL Cause Harm... (00:10:22)

4. What is Power? (How to Lead More Effectively) (00:15:31)

5. Reevaluating Consent Violations and Sexual Harm (00:25:41)

6. Harm Reduction in Sex-Positive Communities (00:32:34)

7. Ecstatic Dance, Consent & Community Impact (00:36:23)

8. How to Dance Wild & Crazy with Positive Impact (00:41:34)

9. How Our "Energy" Impacts Others (In Ecstatic Dance and Life) (00:43:08)

10. The Art of Attunement (00:45:55)

11. Sexual Integrity VS Subjective Harm (00:48:13)

12. Sexual Liberation REQUIRES a Deeper Look at Justice & Accountability (00:55:04)

13. Navigating Feedback, Cancel Culture & Public Call Outs (01:03:52)

14. The TEST of Men's Sexual Integrity & Accountability (01:13:55)

15. Men's Responsibility in Leadership Roles (01:17:59)

16. The Power of DIGNITY vs Shame & Self-Victimization (01:24:21)

17. The Art of Apologizing (01:33:48)

18. Men are Good. (01:45:52)