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Part 3 of 3 – Let’s talk about deepening security relationally

Curiosity, emotional honesty and discernment… magic ingredients to preserve and express your security.

Ann and Sue focus on context over the intrapsychic in this episode, which expands on the last thrid of the ideas from their book, Secure Relating Holding Your Own in an Insecure World.

Moving from individual to interpersonal and then societal levels, we discuss the complexities of human connection. Ann and Sue touch on the dark side of empathy and oxytocin, explore leadership and the need for nuance in navigating today’s challenges while aiming to expand beyond just the Western lens. Whether it be with your partner or even how you navigate your community – building security helps every single one of us. They hope to help you do your part in this crucial work of deepening your connection to the goodness of yourself and others and mobilizing your voice to stand up for those who need us.

“Our growth does not just happen in the therapy office, it happens through all of our relational experiences and is enhanced by interpersonal risk we take safe people throughout our lives.” – Sue Marriott

Time Stamps for Security Individually, Relationally, and in Community

1:55 – Deeping security among us

4:23 – What is a primary?

9:31 – Why we don’t use the word “treatment”

18:37 – Empathy and Oxitocyn aren’t always good

24:19 – Why receiving opposing feedback is important

Resources for Security Individually, Relationally, and in Community

Click here to secure your spot in the Secure Relating Reading Pod – starting soon!

You can get your copy here!!

Please consider giving to Mental Health Liberation

We support mental health access to those traditionally left out of mainstream healthcare and use a portion of the income we receive from corporate sponsors to do just that! We can only do that with the help of our Patrons – joining as a TU Neuronerd Podsquad premium subscriber, you support this mission and get a dedicated ad-free feed plus occasional very cool and unique study opportunities, reading groups, and unique surprises! We invite you to join our community. Click here to join!

Thanks for listening! If you haven’t yet please do drop us a rating/review wherever you get your podcasts. It helps us spread the word about secure relating far and wide – thanks friends for being on this journey with us!

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Content provided by Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP & Ann Kelley PhD, Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP, and Ann Kelley PhD. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP & Ann Kelley PhD, Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP, and Ann Kelley PhD or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://player.fm/legal.

Part 3 of 3 – Let’s talk about deepening security relationally

Curiosity, emotional honesty and discernment… magic ingredients to preserve and express your security.

Ann and Sue focus on context over the intrapsychic in this episode, which expands on the last thrid of the ideas from their book, Secure Relating Holding Your Own in an Insecure World.

Moving from individual to interpersonal and then societal levels, we discuss the complexities of human connection. Ann and Sue touch on the dark side of empathy and oxytocin, explore leadership and the need for nuance in navigating today’s challenges while aiming to expand beyond just the Western lens. Whether it be with your partner or even how you navigate your community – building security helps every single one of us. They hope to help you do your part in this crucial work of deepening your connection to the goodness of yourself and others and mobilizing your voice to stand up for those who need us.

“Our growth does not just happen in the therapy office, it happens through all of our relational experiences and is enhanced by interpersonal risk we take safe people throughout our lives.” – Sue Marriott

Time Stamps for Security Individually, Relationally, and in Community

1:55 – Deeping security among us

4:23 – What is a primary?

9:31 – Why we don’t use the word “treatment”

18:37 – Empathy and Oxitocyn aren’t always good

24:19 – Why receiving opposing feedback is important

Resources for Security Individually, Relationally, and in Community

Click here to secure your spot in the Secure Relating Reading Pod – starting soon!

You can get your copy here!!

Please consider giving to Mental Health Liberation

We support mental health access to those traditionally left out of mainstream healthcare and use a portion of the income we receive from corporate sponsors to do just that! We can only do that with the help of our Patrons – joining as a TU Neuronerd Podsquad premium subscriber, you support this mission and get a dedicated ad-free feed plus occasional very cool and unique study opportunities, reading groups, and unique surprises! We invite you to join our community. Click here to join!

Thanks for listening! If you haven’t yet please do drop us a rating/review wherever you get your podcasts. It helps us spread the word about secure relating far and wide – thanks friends for being on this journey with us!

  continue reading

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