If you’re anything like I was early in my Nice Guy recovery, you have a hard time setting boundaries. Especially with women. We tend to let a pretty woman walk all over us, afraid if we set boundaries she will walk away. Over the years, working with hundreds of Nice Guys, I’ve noticed they struggle with boundaries too. I used to think boundaries we…

In this podcast, we’re going to explore Is Being Vulnerable Unattractive To Women? Now, there are a lot of messages fed to men that being vulnerable is key in relationships, but this is also confusing as some men as they report that when they are vulnerable, she pull away, look disgusted or become upset. So, should you be vulnerable in a relationsh…

Why do so many men struggle with social skills? Why do so many men struggle to understand women? Why are so many men isolated and lonely? Why are so many men hypersensitive? These questions come up regularly with nice guys I work with. Some then ask me, does this mean I’m on the autism spectrum? Am I just wired this way?…

In this podcast, you will learn how you can still date successfully even if you have kids. I will share my experience, mid 40s I date women in their early 30s and how they treated me and my kids.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

In today's episode, we'll explore the self-limiting beliefs that Nice Guys carry, beliefs that keep them stuck in life. We'll uncover the origins of these beliefs, how they take hold, and most importantly, how we can break free from them. We'll delve into the steps to transform these beliefs, empowering you to live with integrity, confidence, and p…

Ever found yourself saying, 'Of course I'll take care of the dishes,' to your spouse, only to conveniently 'forget' later? Or maybe you’ve caught yourself saying, 'Sure babe, I’d be happy to weed the entire yard while you go take a bath! Whatever you want,' then ruminating and secretly planning their demise in a revenge fantasy straight out of the …

Have you ever seen two people in a relationship that you know is dead but somehow they didn’t get the memo? You probably know on a gut level what I’m talking about - you see two people who do nothing but argue, complain about each other, or completely ignore each other. I believe that a relationship is a living thing with its own life force that ca…

In this podcast, you will discover How To Be More Social & Create a Social Circle even if you are shy, an introvert or an nerd… and If you find yourself spending too much time isolated working from home and don’t have many guy friends to hang out with nothing to do over the weekend and feel LONELY a lot this podcast is for you. And for the guys who…

Today we’re going to delve into a polarizing topic. No, not which direction should the toilet paper hang. Not does pineapple belong on pizza. I’m talking about friends of the opposite sex if you’re in a committed relationship. Gasp! What do you do if you’re in a relationship and she has a lot of male friends? Are you okay with that? Or are you just…

A lot of men want to know, will I be a nice guy forever? The conventional wisdom in nice guy coaching is that you will always be recovering from vestiges of the syndrome, that you are always susceptible to falling back into nice guy patterns. But can some or all nice guy patterns be fully resolved or eliminated? Just how much can someone change?…

Have you ever had a woman say to you: You are not listening to me. You are not empathic. You don’t get it or understand me. Wait a minute, what about you guys? Let’s hear it for the men. Do you find women listen to you? Do you feel understood and respected? Well, let’s find out if only men are bad listeners. In my book, that may not always be the c…

Why are men’s groups so critical for a man? When I started my journey of becoming a conscious man, I did it through books and 1 on 1 coaching. And I made a lot of progress. I learned more about how to lead in my relationships, set boundaries, and get out of my comfort zone. But I didn’t realize that I had actually hit a wall in my growth. If you wa…

Have you ever had a woman who’s constantly nagged, complained about you all the time and criticized everything you did, and no matter what you did, it never resolved the complains. Then this podcast is for you and I we will share why women complain and what you can do to stop the complaining.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Welcome to the Nice Guy Show. With Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff and Chuck Chapman. The three of us are coaches dedicated to helping nice guys because we are recovering nice guys ourselves. Together, we have decades of experience helping men level up. Our mission is to help men develop the confidence and the skills to get the love, sex, and success the…

An anxiety I’ve often had in the past when it came to my relationships was that my partner might leave me. This only contributed to my Nice Guy Behavior in, well just about every area of the relationship. This fear that “she may leave you” is fuel to the Nice Guy Syndrome. I’ve seen this pattern over and over again with the men that I work with in …

What is it about bad boys women can’t get enough of? Why do women keep going back to bad boys they know they are trouble? What type of men are they? What type of women bad boys? Why do nice-guys finish last? Do nice-guys need to become bad boys?By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

There is one stereotype about the nice guy that he is needy and clingy and stays in a bad relationship no matter what. And yes, I’ve been guilty of that. But what about the nice guy that can’t commit? Can’t commit to a woman or a job or a hobby or even meeting your friend for dinner?By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Recently I was complaining to my personal men’s group about being tired, about being disappointed in the ambivalence in some of the men I work with and men in general aren’t interested in self-development, and just uninterested in anything other than sex, sports and video games. I’ve been doing men’s work for almost 20 years both as a participant a…

Are you hard on yourself and others? Do you tend to criticize and judge harshly? Do you always see life as half empty instead of half full?By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Are you a nice guy who has been diagnosed with ADHD? Or do you suspect you have ADHD? Why does it seem like every man with nice guy syndrome has ADHD too? In this episode we are going to break down just what is happening here and what are the differences between ADHD and nice guy syndrome.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Want to know the best and easiest places to meet attractive great women without dating apps or loitering around nights club? And especially if you are shy. Stick around for this episode Where To Meet Attractive Women If You Are Shy And Without Coming Across Creepy EP and I will reveal where you’ll find abundance of single women and hardly any compe…

Can you relate to this; you’re going along in your relationship, everything is fine and then you say something, something pretty innocent and maybe even a little funny. To you at least. And then suddenly like a dormant volcano erupting she explodes. Expletives are flying, accusations are being hurled and you find yourself like a deer caught in head…

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari share their insights on handling breakups like a man. They discuss practical tips and strategies for navigating the end of a relationship with resilience and self-respect, helping Nice Guys keep their cool even when faced with heartbreak.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari explore the concept of raising your standards and how it can make Nice Guys more appealing to women and boost their financial success. They discuss the transformative power of self-respect and setting higher expectations in various aspects of lifeBy Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari dish out advice on how the Nice Guy can navigate those moments when his woman is feeling ticked off. They share tips and insights for handling conflict in relationships.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari tackle the issue of dealing with a woman's flakiness, offering insights and strategies for Nice Guys navigating unpredictable behavior in their relationships.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss why the Nice Guy often finds it challenging to attract womenBy Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari get real about the importance of discovering and owning your 'why'. They explore how understanding your purpose can fuel personal growth and lead to a more fulfilling life.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari break it down: they discuss how penis size truly isn't that big of a deal when it comes to women.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss how Nice Guys often struggle when it comes to the art of seduction, exploring the reasons behind their lame performance in this area.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss how Nice Guys often fall short due to their tendency to slack off and play it easy, holding themselves back from reaching their full potential.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari talk about dudes who fire off dick pics, why it doesn't turn women on (and how they truly DON'T understand women!)By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss why the Nice Guy often lacks integrity, defining what integrity truly means. They also provide insights from Chuck's latest book, "Find Your Way Without Losing Yourself: The Path To IntegrityBy Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Porn addiction is a reflection of Nice Guy shame. Chuck, Faisal, and Ari show how porn is doing more damage than you might think.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

The Nice Guy's world revolves around his woman. Chuck, Faisal and Ari show why it is essential to have good male friends and how making your partner your best friend kills attraction.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

In this conversation, Ari, Faisal, and Chuck discuss the concept of victim mode and its impact on personal growth and relationships. They share personal experiences and explore the reasons why people fall into victim mode. The conversation highlights the role of self-awareness and language in recognizing and overcoming victim mode. The speakers als…

The conversation explores the concept of the integrated man as the opposite of a nice guy. It delves into the tendency of nice guys to overcorrect and swing from passivity to anger and aggression. The importance of tempering rage and finding balance is discussed, along with the role of shame and the need to integrate the shadow side. The conversati…

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari dissect why the Nice Guy needs more than just a relationship for fulfillment in life.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari lay it out plain and simple: when it comes to the Nice Guy's relationships, if it's bad, it's on him. They drive home the message that it's time to stop blaming others and start taking responsibility for the kind of relationship you want. Learn more at niceguyshow.comBy Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss the significance of dressing well for the Nice Guy. They discuss how personal appearance can be pivotal in garnering attention and commanding attraction.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss the Nice Guy's inclination towards self-help consumption, emphasizing the crucial step of translating knowledge into action.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari delve into the Nice Guy's tendency to get easily hurt and introduce the concept of the Spoiled Brat Reflex (SBR). They explore how this reflex affects relationships and offer insights on managing emotional reactions more effectively.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Have you ever had a woman tell you to grow some balls? Maybe your boss takes advantage of you. Maybe you let your kids run the house. Maybe you still go to your mommy for approval of your decisions. Maybe you let your woman step all over you. These are some of the most cutting, painful things you can say to a man. You’re weak. You’re a coward. You …

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari address the common trait of frugality or being 'cheap AF' in Nice Guys, and they explore the underlying reasons behind this behavior.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari delve into the transformation of the Nice Guy into a high-value man. They discuss the essential steps and mindset shifts required to evolve beyond Nice-Guy tendencies and cultivate a more confident and fulfilling life.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari tackle the Nice Guy's tendency to walk on eggshells in relationships. They share practical strategies and advice on how to break free from this patternBy Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari engage in a thought-provoking conversation about the Nice Guy's predicament, often caught in the 'too good to leave, too bad to stay' dilemma in their relationships.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari explore the concept of Nice Guys and the transformative process of taking women off the pedestal, shedding light on how this shift in perspective can lead to more balanced and authentic relationships.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari engage in a candid conversation about their own journey with therapy, delving into both the advantages and potential challenges that arise along the path to personal growth and self-discovery Learn more at NiceGuyShow.comBy Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari explore the intricate connection between the Nice Guy, their relationships with their mothers, and how this pops up in dating and relationships in some unattractive ways . Learn more at NiceGuyShow.comBy Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman