Best Anelse Podcasts (2024)

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In conversation with Zingiswa Losi 1:02:25

1h ago1:02:25

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In this episode TimesLIVE digital politics editor Lizeka Tandwa talks to COSATU president Zingiswa Losi about the formation and the SACP stance on the government of national unity, the ANC’s path of renewal, and the party’s drop in the election results.By TimesLIVE Podcasts

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Helen Zille will collapse government of national unity, Mantashe tells Sunday Times 30:34

4d ago30:34

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ANC chairperson Gwede Mantashe tells Sunday Times politics editor Sibongakonke Shoba that DA federal chair Helen Zille will collapse the government of unity. “We are not going to have a parallel government run by Helen Zille. There’s one president here and that president is President Cyril Ramaphosa.…

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ACTING SOS with Daria Episode 4: Interview with Croatian actor Ivica Marc 35:50

5h ago35:50

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Journey of a Croatian Actor: Ivica Marc's Inspiring Story Hi friends, In this episode, we sit down with Ivica Marc, a Croatian-born actor who has spent the last 17 years in the USA, carving out a career in both acting and journalism. Ivica shares his experiences, from starting as a dancer in Croatia to winning a green card lottery and moving to New…

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82. For You: The Body Image Talk You Needed a Long Time Ago 1:20:45

7d ago1:20:45

1:20:45

This episode is sponsored by Shopify. Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at ⁠shopify.com/notforeveryone/⁠.___This week, Jess and Caroline add to a conversation that seems to affect just about everyone: body image. They go through some listener DMs and cover topics like acknowledging the variability of body image, accepting your body when you’r…

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81. Not for Meet Cutes + How "Sex and the City" Lied to Us 1:13:33

2d ago1:13:33

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Welcome back to Not For Everyone, where this week, Jess and Caroline think people need to cool it. They discuss how people don’t know how to be properly annoyed anymore, how people can’t stop demeaning Americans on the internet, and how people go insane in the comment sections. This leads to some deeper conversations about how we get lost in what a…

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ACTING SOS with Daria Episode 3: Interview with Playwright and Actress Anel Carmona 37:33

9d ago37:33

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An Inspiring Journey: From Mexico to NYC - Interview with Playwright Anel Carmona In this episode, Daria interviews Anel Carmona, a multi-talented artist from Mexico who has made her mark as a playwright and actress in New York City. Her website: www.anelcarmona.com Anel shares her journey from discovering her passion for acting in middle school to…

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80. Not for Eye Contact + Stop Chasing the First Date Spark 1:06:22

10d ago1:06:22

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In today’s episode, we’ve got just about every Segment™ in the book for you. Jess and Caroline’s scientific minds put together a theory on attractiveness, a reason we say “you know?” so much, and a realistic take on disappointing people. Also, there’s a NEW segment, folks: Lady Snapple Facts, the first of which brings an often forgotten revelation …

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79. Hater Hour: Deep Friendship Betrayal, Manipulative People, and Getting Closure 1:16:52

17d ago1:16:52

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This episode is sponsored by Zocdoc. Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠zocdoc.com/notforeveryone/⁠⁠⁠⁠ to try it today. This episode is sponsored by Shopify. Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at shopify.com/notforeveryone/. __ It’s Hater Hour, kooks—and Caroline is ready to bear it all. She jumps into a WHATADO about a deep friend betrayal: can they make it right? Or…

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78. Not for Empaths + The Bizarre Stigma Around Couples Therapy 1:14:29

25d ago1:14:29

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It’s a miracle: Caroline is healed. But the source of her healing is so unexpected that it leads Jess and Caroline down dangerous conversation roads, like discussing dreams and someone identifying as an ~empath~. They talk about how to handle dark mental health days and discuss the difference between self love and self worth, and what to do when th…

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ACTING SOS with Daria_Episode 2_History of Acting 10:03

1M ago10:03

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Hi friends, I made this second episode so that we can all learn more and maybe remind ourselves about history of Acting. It is called 'From Dionysus to Digital: The Evolution of Acting" Join me on this episode of Acting SOS as I take you on a whirlwind journey through the history of acting, from its origins in ancient Greek rituals dedicated to Dio…

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77. WHATADO: Flaky Friends + The Lie We Tell About Work/Life Balance 1:12:28

2M ago1:12:28

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We know you’ve been wondering what to do lately, and we’re here to deliver. Get ready to dive into some friendship-related WHATADOS: how to handle that flaky bff, what it means to cling to the idea of someone, tips for hosting old friends, and strategies for helping a friend stop talking about their ex. But first, let’s talk work troubles. What doe…

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ACTING SOS with Daria_Episode 1 9:28

2M ago9:28

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Hi friends, In this episode I am talking about why I am starting this channel and podcast. I share my story, my acting journey and how I want to learn more about acting, writing, storytelling, directing... Everything connected to the theatre and film industry. I am excited to share my knowledge, to gain more knowledge and to learn from my future gu…

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Crew: Anele Lundborg's Testimony 1:02:48

2M ago1:02:48

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On this CREW episode of Disciples Make, Corban and Anele Lundborg, the current crew behind Disciples Make, Corban interviews Anele in regards to her testimony. We learn more about Anele, the managing director of Disciples Make and CALM Collective (the creative agency that produces Disciples Make). Corban goes as far back as Anele's childhood as we …

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ANC opts for GNU – governing models and coalition partner options it had – and implications 1:13:56

1M ago1:13:56

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Political analyst Dr Sithembile Mbete and Lizeka Tandwa from the Sunday Times politics team define and scrutinise the ANC’s options for governing models, such as government of national unity [which the party announced as its choice on Thursday evening], a grand coalition and a minority government. They also look at the party's conflicting ideologie…

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76. Not for Chafing + Perfectionism is Making Your Relationship Harder 1:10:16

2M ago1:10:16

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It’s summer, ya kooks! Except…is it? Caroline and Jess debate when summer actually begins before launching into a WHATADO: how to dress for summer when you’re a curvy honey. Personal style is the conundrum that will never die. They cover wearing color, anti-chafing tips, and their mother’s thoughts on their changing bodies. Plus, Jess has a relatio…

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75. Not for Cocktail Parties + How to Stop Micromanaging Everyone in Your Life 1:08:42

2M ago1:08:42

1:08:42

Jess and Caroline start out silly this week with some thoughts on oral talents (not what you think) and boobs as birthstones. In classic Not For Everyone style, this leads into deep conversations about knowing when difficult periods of life will end, how to achieve mindfulness, and the mania of babysitting your partner at social events. Plus, work …

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74. Not for Enabling Negative People + An In-Depth Recap of Our Trip to LA 1:15:15

2M ago1:15:15

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This week, Jess and Caroline discuss all things couple culture, like when baby talk is appropriate, putting on non-sexual performances for your partner, and engaging in bits that, sincerely, only you and your person will understand. They also get into their couple culture with each other while recapping their recent trip to LA—which is full of gene…

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Crew: Corban Lundborg's Testimony 1:02:48

2M ago1:02:48

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On this CREW episode of Disciples Make, Corban and Anele Lundborg, the current crew behind Disciples Make, share their plans for the podcast and Anele interviews Corban in regards to his testimony. We learn more about Corban, the creative director of Disciples Make and CALM Collective (the creative agency that produces Disciples Make). Anele goes a…

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Maimane says SA is responsible for influx of Zimbabweans 1:00:12

2M ago1:00:12

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South Africa allowed Zimbabwe to be run into the ground, says Mmusi Maimane on the Sunday Times Politics Weekly, blaming the government for the influx of Zimbabweans into SA. “If it wasn’t for the ANC’s policy on the government of national unity when [late former president of Zimbabwe Robert] Mugabe had lost elections we wouldn’t have this influx o…

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73. Beauty Hot Takes + Reframing Your Professional Path with YouTuber Alexandra Anele 1:29:06

3M ago1:29:06

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This week Jess and Caroline sit down to record together live in LA, where they are joined in studio by a very special guest: Alexandra Anele! Alex is a talented makeup artist, content creator, dedicated NFE listener, and Caroline’s first YouTube friend – so it was a delight to have her on to share tips and hot takes on all things beauty and persona…

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DA should have burnt the ANC flag instead, says Herman Mashaba 1:02:08

2M ago1:02:08

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The DA should have burnt the ANC flag instead of the national flag, says ActionSA leader Herman Mashaba says in a wide-ranging interview on the Sunday Times Politics Weekly podcast. The party stirred controversy earlier this week when it launched its election campaign advertisement showing the national flag in flames. The DA has defended the advert…

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72. Not for Unspoken Expectations + How to Hack Your Mood Swings 1:04:14

3M ago1:04:14

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This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to ⁠⁠⁠https://www.betterhelp.com/notforeveryone/⁠⁠⁠ to get 10% off your first month.__Jess and Caroline are back together. <3 They jump right into some hot topics with some hot takes: how tracking your energy can work to your benefit, how our feelings tell the truth no matter the trigger, navigating diffe…

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Why independent candidate Anele Mda is fearlessly taking on the 'big guns' 52:31

2M ago52:31

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Anele Mda, an independent candidate vying for a seat in parliament, says political parties will be chasing after independents but she won’t work with any party. She is our guest on the Sunday Times Politics Weekly podcast with Sunday Times deputy editor Mike Siluma. We kick-start the conversation by asking her why it was important to publicly rebuk…

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71. Hater Hour: Interrogating My Boyfriend + Career Fulfillment and Dating Crimes 1:22:39

3M ago1:22:39

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In this special edition of Caroline's alleged "solo" episode, she is joined by her boyfriend, Justin. Justin chimes in to share a male perspective on all your questions - including what it’s like to date our resident hater, his perspective on dating apps, when it might make a little sense to “sell out” in your career, and so much more. They also de…

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70. Jess Thots: Defining Creativity + Living Up to Family Expectations 56:30

3M ago56:30

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Sound the alarms: we’ve got a solo ep from Jess this week! She talks all about creative bursts, and how the past two weeks specifically have been glorious for her. But when the burst fades away...Jess reflects on what should happen next. She turns to Instagram DMs to learn how listeners conceptualize the idea of “being a creative” and how that look…

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Zuma is out for revenge and has nothing to lose 37:38

3M ago37:38

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One of the big election stories has been the Jacob Zuma factor and his uMkhonto weSizwe Party. According to polls and by-election results, the party has outshone parties such as the EFF and the IFP. In this episode of the Sunday Times Politics Weekly we explain and hopefully demystify the Zuma/MKP phenomenon in our politics, and how it might impact…

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69. IYKYK: All Your Sex Fantasies Revealed + Making Dating Apps Work for You 1:30:10

3M ago1:30:10

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It’s the one we’ve all been waiting for…the milestone of the century…the 69th EPISODE. Join Jess and Caroline (and a special guest??) to talk all your kookiest sex fantasies, including respected older gentlemen, tears as foreplay, marketplace porn, pod sex, and…Catwoman? And then one person’s fantasy gets Jess and Caroline in rumination mode: is yo…

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68. Not for Perfectionism + When to Start Your Passion Project 1:15:50

4M ago1:15:50

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This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to ⁠⁠https://www.betterhelp.com/notforeveryone/⁠⁠ to get 10% off your first month. __ Jess and Caroline are ready to jump right in, and they start with some important thoughts on starting a business that might be in direct competition with somebody else. Learn from these certified experts on what makes a …

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67. Not for Breakup Texts + The Part of Female Friendships We Don’t Talk About 1:06:12

4M ago1:06:12

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This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to ⁠https://www.betterhelp.com/notforeveryone/⁠ to get 10% off your first month. --- Look, we’re all about a good segway here, and in this episode you’ll smoothly transition from looking cute at the gym to butt-cinching leggings to a childhood ass-slapping conundrum. But that also gets Jess and Caroline i…

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Understanding Elections with Ebrahim Fakir 34:58

4M ago34:58

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Mike Siluma sits down with Election expert Ebrahim Fakir to discuss the upcoming South African elections and what you need to know from how they work, to how they are calculated and what you need to do!By TimesLIVE Podcasts

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66. For You: How to Start Showing Up for Yourself 1:07:18

4M ago1:07:18

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This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to https://www.betterhelp.com/notforeveryone/ to get 10% off your first month. --- This episode is for you, dawgs! Jess and Caroline set the stage with an Uber debacle and a few linguistic complaints and then move straight into this week’s theme: showing up for yourself. They dive deep into codependence, …

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65. Not for Being a Prisoner to Your Job + We’re All Baby Sometimes 59:36

4M ago59:36

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Anyone else feeling strangely… “baby” this week? Jess and Caroline coddle each other’s thoughts as they discuss imaginary friends, creepy children, and celebrities they can see themselves being friends with. They grow up a little (sigh) to talk through how to quit a job where you genuinely love your coworkers, answer a haunting would-you-rather, an…

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Backing Zuma my worst mistake: Zwelinzima Vavi 1:41:51

4M ago1:41:51

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Veteran trade union leader Zwelinzima Vavi has had his setbacks, but the “tragic mistake” he is still kicking himself for was to support Jacob Zuma in becoming president of the ANC and the republic. The only mistake, and the biggest mistake, is that I was convinced by some members of both Cosatu and the SACP that the then deputy president of the AN…

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64. Hot Takes Only: Staying Friends with Your Ex, Period Sex, and Shrek 1:18:36

5M ago1:18:36

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Is it getting hot in here? Jess and Caroline confront some hot takes with even spicier answers, but first: they talk the perils and plights of internet feedback—on YouTube and Instagram. Then, get ready to discuss the correct pronunciation of “espresso,” the unspoken meaning of “likes,” the one that got away, Venmoing friends after dinner, staying …

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63. Not For People Pleasing + Other Obvious Realizations That Changed Our Lives 1:03:42

5M ago1:03:42

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This week, adult friendships are back on Jess and Caroline’s minds. They talk through how to schedule a girl's trip, their qualms with hosting, people pleasing breakthroughs, and how they each put on a show in social situations. They get to the bottom of this realization: are you really an introvert—or are you draining your social battery by perfor…

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62. Not for Botox + A Snail Story You’ll Never Forget 1:11:48

5M ago1:11:48

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Not For Everyone is basically a beauty podcast now. Jess and Caroline discuss venturing into the Botox world, witnessing the aging process, and parents' chaotic relationship to their children’s acne-ridden faces. They also consider life’s deepest questions, like how did we learn to do makeup without YouTube? Caroline is weirdly obsessed with smell …

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61. Hater Hour: How to Survive Your Anxiety + WHATADO One-Sided Friendships 1:05:38

5M ago1:05:38

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In a solo recording, Caroline opens up about the big thing she has been avoiding talking about on the podcast - including the tips and tools for surviving the worst of your anxiety. She also responds to a listener WHATADO about what to do when you find yourself stuck in a one-sided friendship, with major boundary violations and messy complications.…

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S5E3 - Valentine's Special 2:30:15

6M ago2:30:15

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What is this Valentines about? Well what started out as just a ten-minute solo episode expanded with the wings of love into a two-plus hour yarn with Dj and Steve. This episode is rich, meaty and full of "that's what she said". Hope you all found a little love on this day and a whole lotta loving in this episode. ...now go jump rope by the bed (it'…

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60. WHATADO: Friends with Benefits, Boundaries with Your Boss, and Wedding Season 1:15:57

6M ago1:15:57

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It’s everybody’s favorite time: when Jess and Caroline give non-expert advice on a wide array of topics. This time, listeners wrote in with a friends-with-benefits conundrum, workplace boundary issues, and the problem with an influx of wedding invitations. Plus, find out who has the softest butt around, if going to therapy equals enlightenment, and…

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59. Not for the Luteal Phase + Feeling Stuck After Years of Therapy 1:01:27

6M ago1:01:27

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Another episode full of lukewarm takes, cyclical insights, and "that's so funny" reactions, this week Jess and Caroline show up with nothing to give but complaints and bad jokes. First, Jess is no impressionist - and also apparently no standup - as she *corporate gulps* her way through a series of failed jokes that forced her to quit her comedy cla…

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58. Not for Codependent Patterns + The Problem with Imposter Syndrome 1:08:58

6M ago1:08:58

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Jess and Caroline are just two sporty girls who are too busy collecting baby teeth and committing to unnecessary extracurriculars to keep a busy schedule. But here they gather on a Sunday morning ready to repeat to you exactly what their therapists said this week. First, Jess is thinking about quitting a hobby that no one told her to pick up. Who k…

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S5E2 - The Usual Suspects 1:54:18

6M ago1:54:18

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Fun with the whole gang! A free-for-all chat with Hector, Dj Darren and Steve...he finally showed up. We talk celebs, resurrecting my ball business, weather variants and the quality of life in jail. Follow us and enjoy the episode.

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57. Not for Self Doubt Spirals + Our First Fight 1:07:10

6M ago1:07:10

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Jess has been spiraling, and she has her ear acne to show for it. But with Caroline's help, she's coming out of her seasonal sadness live on the pod - and this episode has the giggles to prove it. The two talk about navigating conflict with their boyfriends, who both happen to be calm/cool/collected, while our co-hosts are emotional and reactive fo…

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Feature: Let's Grab Coffee | John O's Testimony 1:03:07

6M ago1:03:07

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Anele sits down for a chat with John Onwuchekwa who is one of the co-founders of Portrait Coffee in Atlanta, Georgia. As stated on his website Johno.co, everything in John’s life hinges on the power of words, both spoken and written. Whether it’s preaching, writing books, speaking into other people’s lives, framing new narratives through ventures l…

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56. Not for Instagram + Choosing Between Ambition and Self Care 1:05:09

7M ago1:05:09

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The hater and lover are reunited after a month of doing absolutely nothing besides sending each other bedtime texts. Caroline does have one more thing to show for her break, though: a new sport she’s invented. Or at least a concept that will improve the sporting experience for her? The details aren’t important. The two move onto bigger topics as Ca…

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S5E1 - Hot Shot with Chef Hector 1:24:28

7M ago1:24:28

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Our good friend and favorite Texan, Chef Hector is back for the infamous Hot Shot episode. What better way to celebrate the first episode of SEASON 5 than hot sauce, shots and trivia! Chef Hector is an all star chef and in-demand caterer in the Texas area. His culinary excellence and creativity speaks for itself. Hector specializes in weddings, cor…

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55. Jess Thots: Ins and Outs for 2024 + Less Mothering More Mommying 52:58

7M ago52:58

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Join a sick Jess on the couch as she cozies up to our first episode recorded in the new year. She kicks off with her list of ins and outs for 2024, which turns into an aspirational sort of roast that points blame at everyone except her. Next, she takes on a couple listener-submitted questions: first, Whatado when you feel like a mother to your part…

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54. WHATADO: Breakups, Hookups, and Burning It All Down 1:10:49

7M ago1:10:49

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It’s Whatado time—and this time Jess and Caroline host an unexpected theme: all things dating. They discuss how to let him down easy, how to hook up when you’re living alone, and what to do when it seems like everyone except you is finding love. Plus, a Hot Take turned Whatado: when should you burn it all down? Get a peak into what Jess and Carolin…