Hosted by Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. and Megan Hunter, MBA, It’s All Your Fault! High Conflict People explores the five types of people who can ruin your life—people with high conflict personalities and how they weave themselves into our lives in romance, at work, next door, at school, places of worship, and just about everywhere, causing chaos, exhaustion, and dread for everyone else. They are the most difficult of difficult people — some would say they’re toxic. Without them, tv shows, movies, ...
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Annette and Megan of NJ1015.com are taking life as it comes — exploring relationships, pop culture, health, families and how to make the most of every day.
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Some dreams do not have textbook definitions or instruction manuals. Driven by faith and blind will, grit and gumption, these dreamers embark upon a journey that terrifies, exasperates, and strengthens them, which ultimately leads them to self discovery - an end destination that they didn’t initially set out to find. “Dare to be Bold” is a podcast by J.Forks Designs that tells the stories of people who chased their wildly profound dreams when living boldly was their only option.
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REBROADCAST: Co-Parenting by Design with Lawyers Annette Burns and Nicole Siqueiros-Stoutner
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With the recent release of "Co-Parenting by Design: The Definitive Guide for Divorced or Separated Parents," we're excited to revisit our enlightening conversation with authors Annette Burns and Nicole Siqueiros-Stoutner. In this episode, Megan sits down with these experienced family law attorneys and parenting coordinators to discuss the challenge…
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REBROADCAST: Holiday Harmony: Keeping The Peace at Family Celebrations
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As we approach the holiday season, we thought it would be the perfect time to revisit one of our most popular episodes from last year. In the spirit of the season, we're rebroadcasting our timely discussion on maintaining harmony and peace during holiday gatherings. Whether you're hosting or attending a get-together with family and friends, the tip…
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Safeguarding Seniors: Protecting the Elderly from High Conflict Personalities
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Protecting the Elderly from High Conflict Personalities In this episode, Bill and Megan explore the challenges faced by the elderly population in dealing with high conflict personalities. As the global population ages and birth rates decline, it's crucial to understand how to identify and manage individuals who may pose a threat to the well-being o…
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More High Conflict Questions Answered: Self-Discovery, Court Battles & Family Dynamics
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Navigating High Conflict Relationships: Your Questions Answered In this ask-and-answer episode of It's All Your Fault, hosts Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter from the High Conflict Institute tackle three key listener questions about managing challenging relationships and dealing with high conflict personalities. First Question: "What do you suggest for s…
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Family Court Q&A: Parental Alienation, Abuse Claims, and When to Stop Fighting
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Tackling Listener Questions on High Conflict Personalities in Family Law In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter address questions from two listeners about high conflict personalities in family law. They dive into the complexities of parental alienation, domestic violence allegations, and when to stop fighting in court. L…
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Paranoid Personality Profiles: 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 7)
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Paranoid High Conflict Personalities: Navigating Mistrust and Suspicion In the final episode of their "Five Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life" series, Bill and Megan explore the world of paranoid high conflict personalities. They offer insights on identifying and managing these challenging relationships, explaining that individuals with parano…
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Histrionics Unveiled: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 6)
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The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life Series: Histrionic High Conflict Personalities In this installment of "The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life" series, Megan and Bill explore the world of histrionic high conflict personalities. They discuss the key characteristics of histrionics, including exaggerated emotions, a constant need for…
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Unmasking the Narcissist: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 5)
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Navigating Narcissistic High Conflict Personalities In this revealing episode of "It's All Your Fault," part of the Five Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life series, Megan Hunter and Bill Eddy explore the world of narcissistic high conflict personalities. They delve into the key traits of narcissists, the distinction between grandiose and vulnera…
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Asked and Answered: Your Questions on High Conflict Personalities, Relationships, and Self-Improvement
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Megan Answers Your Questions About High Conflict Personalities In this special "Asked and Answered" episode of It's All Your Fault, Megan Hunter flies solo to address listener questions about dealing with high conflict personalities. She shares expert insights to help listeners navigate challenging relationships, from understanding and overcoming h…
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Empowering Domestic Violence Victims: Law Enforcement Strategies for High Conflict Situations with Nick Hartbauer
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Domestic Violence: A Closer Look from the Perspective of Law Enforcement In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan are joined by special guest Nick Hartbauer, a law enforcement officer with 16 years of experience, to discuss domestic violence calls and how understanding high conflict personalities can help victims and law enforcement n…
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High Conflict and Intimate Partner Violence: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 4)
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The Intersection of High Conflict Personalities and Domestic Violence In this compelling episode, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter dive into the complex relationship between high conflict personalities and domestic violence. They explore how individuals who have borderline personality disorder (BPD) and antisocial personality disorder (ASPD) may contribu…
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The High-Conflict Borderline Personality: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 3)
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The Love You Hate You Types - High Conflict Borderline Personalities In this episode of "It's All Your Fault," Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter explore the world of high conflict borderline personality types, also known as the "Love You Hate You" types. They provide insights and strategies for dealing with these challenging individuals who can quickly tu…
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The Antisocial Personality: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 2)
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The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life Series: Unmasking the Cruel Con Artist In the second episode of the "5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life" series, Bill and Megan focus on one of the most challenging and dangerous high conflict personality types: those with antisocial personality traits, also known as cruel con artists. They explore…
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Recognizing High Conflict Patterns: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 1)
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Introducing the 5 Types of High Conflict Personalities: Who Can Ruin Your Life? (Part 1) In this thought-provoking first episode of a new series on It's All Your Fault, Megan Hunter and Bill Eddy, co-founders of the High Conflict Institute, embark on an exploration of the five types of high conflict personalities who can wreak havoc in your life. D…
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The High Conflict Personality Experience: Insights from Joe Rogan and Dr. Andrew Huberman
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Joe Rogan and Dr. Andrew Huberman Discuss "5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life" In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan discuss a recent Joe Rogan Experience podcast episode featuring Dr. Andrew Huberman. The episode, number 2195, focuses on Bill's book, "5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life," and delves into the topic of hi…
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Navigating High Conflict Loved Ones: Answering Listener Questions
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Navigating High Conflict Relationships In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan from the High Conflict Institute tackle two listeners' questions about managing challenging relationships with high conflict personalities (HCPs). They provide insights and strategies for setting boundaries, managing expectations, and maintaining a healthy…
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Transforming High Conflict Co-Parenting: Raising Thriving Teens with Kevin Chafin
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In this insightful episode of "It's All Your Fault", Megan is joined by special guest Kevin Chafin, a licensed professional counselor from Kansas City, Missouri. With Bill away for the month, Megan and Kevin dive deep into the complexities of co-parenting, particularly when it comes to dealing with teenagers in high conflict situations. Together, t…
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Co-Parenting by Design with Lawyers Annette Burns and Nicole Siqueiros-Stoutner
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Navigating the Challenges of Co-Parenting: Insights from Annette Burns and Nicole Siqueiros-Stoutner In this episode of "It's All Your Fault," Megan is joined by two special guests, Annette Burns and Nicole Siqueiros-Stoutner, co-authors of the upcoming book Co-Parenting by Design: The Definitive Guide for Divorced or Separated Parents. Annette and…
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Asked and Answered: Navigating High Conflict Personalities with Practical Strategies
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In this solo episode, Megan Hunter dives into the world of high conflict personalities. With co-host Bill Eddy away, Megan takes the opportunity to answer listener questions and provide valuable insights on identifying and dealing with individuals who exhibit high conflict behaviors. Throughout the episode, she offers practical strategies for manag…
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REBROADCAST: Red Flags in Adult Relationships: Understanding Relationship Violence, Part 1
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This is a rebroadcast. This episode originally aired February 8, 2024. Visit our site to hear part two, or find it on your podcatcher. Bill and Megan explore the complex issue of relationship violence, focusing on factors that may predict aggressive behaviors and how to identify potentially abusive relationships. In this first part of a two-part di…
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REBROADCAST: Setting Limits Without Going Over the Line
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This is a rebroadcast. This episode originally aired February 1, 2024. Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter tackle an important but tricky topic in this episode - how to set healthy boundaries with others when tensions run high. Whether it's a contentious divorce, difficult coworker, or suspected lies, Bill and Megan provide realistic examples and actionable…
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This is a rebroadcast. This episode originally aired August 3, 2023. Some relationships with high conflict people reach a point where the only one getting frustrated and hurt is YOU. It is okay to walk away? Are some relationships so damaging that staying in them is damaging to you? Will the guilt draw you back under their spell? Will it trigger ab…
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REBROADCAST: Let a Win Be a Win in High Conflict
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This is a rebroadcast. This episode originally aired May 11, 2023. The definition of a “win” is different in high conflict situations as opposed to ordinary conflict. Not recognizing that a win looks quite different can inadvertently escalate conflict or take a few steps backwards. In today’s episode, Megan and Bill talk about: defining what it mea…
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World of Bullies #5: Strategies for Dealing with Bully Neighbors
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Dealing with Bully Neighbors: Strategies for Resolving Conflicts In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter dive into the world of bully neighbors and explore effective strategies for managing these challenging situations. As co-founders of the High Conflict Institute in San Diego, California, Bill and Megan share their expe…
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World of Bullies #4: Recognizing and Confronting Bullying Behavior in Leaders
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Bullies as Leaders in Organizations In this episode, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter explore the topic of bullies as leaders in organizations. They discuss the ancient personality traits that drive bullies to seek leadership positions, the impact they have on their organizations, and strategies for addressing their behavior. Recognizing and Addressing B…
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World of Bullies #3: Unveiling the Invisible Enemy - Confronting Family Bullies
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Bullying in Families: How to Spot It and What to Do In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan dive deep into the hidden world of family bullies. As co-founders of the High Conflict Institute in San Diego, CA, they share their expertise on identifying and dealing with high conflict personalities within families. Through real-life exampl…
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World of Bullies #2: Unmasking Bullies in the Workplace and Mediation with Michael Lomax
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Confronting Bullies in the Workplace and Mediation with Bill Eddy and Michael Lomax In the second episode of the World of Bullies series, Bill and Megan welcome Michael Lomax to explore bullying in the workplace and mediation. As co-founders of the High Conflict Institute and an esteemed speaker, respectively, they share their expertise on handling…
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World of Bullies #1: Navigating the New World of Adult Bullying
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World of Bullies: Bill Eddy's Groundbreaking New Book In this first episode of our new "World of Bullies" series, based on Bill Eddy's new book, Our New World of Adult Bullies: How to Spot Them, How to Stop Them, Bill and Megan dive into the timely topic of adult bullying. As co-founders of the High Conflict Institute, they provide invaluable insig…
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Bringing It to Life #6: Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder Part Two with Guest Amanda Smith
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In the second part of their conversation with Amanda Smith, Bill and Megan explore the challenges faced by families of individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). They discuss the importance of education, self-care, and strategies for navigating high conflict situations. The Importance of Family Support and Self-Care Amanda emphasizes t…
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Bringing It to Life #6: Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder Part One with Guest Amanda Smith
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In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Megan Hunter and Bill Eddy are joined by special guest Amanda Smith to discuss Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), continuing our Bringing It to Life series. They explore the common experiences of individuals with BPD, such as intense emotions, impulsive behaviors, and self-destructive tendencies. The Powe…
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Bringing It to Life #5: Navigating Money and Corporate Complexities in High Conflict Divorces with Guest Kate Merrill
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High Conflict Cases and Money: Navigating the Complexities In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan are joined by special guest Kate Merrill, a California attorney specializing in complex divorce cases involving stock options and other business and corporate issues. As part of the Bringing It to Life series, they explore the intricaci…
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Bringing It to Life #4: Dealing with High Conflict Personalities in Academia
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Surviving Academia: Navigating High Conflict Personalities in Higher Education In this episode of "It's All Your Fault," the fourth installment of the Bringing It to Life series, Megan Hunter and Bill Eddy tackle the unique challenges of dealing with high conflict individuals in academia. Drawing from a listener's question about a bullying boss in …
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Bringing It to Life #3: Dealing with Parental Alienation
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Parental Alienation: What It Is and How to Handle It In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan dive into the complex topic of parental alienation in divorce and separation cases. They answer a listener's question about an extreme case of alienation and provide insights on what alienation is, how it differs from estrangement, and most i…
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Bringing It to Life #2: Dealing with High Conflict Personalities in the Workplace
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Bill and Megan continue their “Bringing It to Life” series, discussing how to identify and manage high conflict personalities in the workplace. They provide insights and strategies for leaders to improve workplace culture. Bill and Megan aim to help listeners learn skills to keep conflict small and maintain healthy work environments. In this episod…
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Bringing It to Life #1: Navigating High Conflict Mediation Part Two
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In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan continue their "Bringing It to Life" series with special guest Elaine Richardson, a solicitor and mediator from the UK. Continuing their conversation from the previous episode, they dive deep into the challenges of managing high conflict personalities in family law and mediation, offering pract…
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Bringing It to Life #1: Navigating High Conflict Mediation & Poll Results
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Poll Results, Case Studies, and Strategies: Navigating High Conflict Mediation In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan kick off a new periodic series called "Bring It to Life," where they dive into real-life case studies and provide practical strategies for navigating high conflict situations. They also share the results of recent po…
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Exploring the Path to Mediation: A Conversation with Sonja Wood
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Welcome to another insightful discussion with Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter as they welcome mediator Sonja Wood. Bill and Megan chat with Sonja about her fascinating journey from chemistry to mediation. Sonja discusses her experiences facing discrimination and a lack of conflict training in Europe that pushed her to study mediation. She shares navigat…
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Defusing Workplace Drama: Expert Advice for Managing High Conflict Personalities
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Navigating High Conflict Personalities in the Workplace In this episode of "It's All Your Fault", Megan Hunter and Bill Eddy are joined by special guest Cherolyn Knapp to answer listener questions about dealing with high conflict personalities at work. As experts in the field of high conflict resolution, Bill and Megan provide valuable insights and…
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The Great Custody Debate: Sole vs. Joint in High Conflict Divorces
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Is Sole Custody Ever Warranted Over Joint Custody? In this episode, Bill and Megan dive into the controversial topic of sole custody versus joint custody in divorce and child custody matters. They aim to answer the question: Is sole custody ever warranted, or is the principle of equal time with both parents always the best policy? Presumptions for …
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Married or Divorced? Examining Women's Happiness in Relationships
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Are Women Happier Married or Divorced? In this thought-provoking episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter dive into the complex topic of women's happiness in marriage. They explore recent research and articles that suggest women should get divorced to find happiness, and then offer their own insights and experiences to provide a b…
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Navigating Concerns of Factitious Disorder: When High Conflict Distorts Perceptions
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Navigating Factitious Disorder and Child Custody Disputes In this informative episode, Bill and Megan explore the complicated intersection of factitious disorder, child custody disputes, and high conflict personalities. Bill and Megan start by explaining what factitious disorder is, how it manifests, and its implications in child custody cases. The…
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Drawing the Line: Setting Boundaries for External Conflicts at Work
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Keeping the Peace: Managing High Conflict Issues at Work On this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan tackle how employers and managers can set healthy boundaries around discussing divisive societal issues at work. They provide guidance on creating a respectful, productive environment when employees have strong, differing opinions. Bill a…
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Red Flags in Teen Relationships: Understanding Relationship Violence, Part 2
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Navigating the Storm of Teen Relationships In this eye-opening episode of 'It's All Your Fault', hosts Megan Hunter and Bill Eddy from the High Conflict Institute dive into the turbulent world of teen dating and relationship violence. Aimed at understanding and influencing the complexities of young people's interactions, this installment sheds ligh…
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Red Flags in Adult Relationships: Understanding Relationship Violence, Part 1
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Bill and Megan explore the complex issue of relationship violence, focusing on factors that may predict aggressive behaviors and how to identify potentially abusive relationships. In this first part of a two-part discussion, they examine relationship violence through the lens of adult intimate partner relationships. The second part will focus speci…
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Setting Limits Without Going Over the Line
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Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter tackle an important but tricky topic in this episode - how to set healthy boundaries with others when tensions run high. Whether it's a contentious divorce, difficult coworker, or suspected lies, Bill and Megan provide realistic examples and actionable advice to constructively handle high-conflict situations. Tune in to l…
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Holiday Harmony: Keeping The Peace at Family Celebrations
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Keeping the Peace This Holiday Season Bill and Megan share tips for avoiding and defusing conflict at holiday gatherings. They offer insights from their work at the High Conflict Institute. In this timely episode, Bill and Megan explain how to prevent and de-escalate heated arguments that often arise when families reconnect after time apart. Listen…
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Pulling the Plug on a Hostile Conversation
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Ending Hostile Conversations Bill and Megan share strategies for defusing tense conversations and exiting hostile interactions. They provide insights from the High Conflict Institute. Bill and Megan explain how to stop aggressive confrontations through limit-setting and agenda control. Listeners gain techniques to redirect heated exchanges into con…
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Falsely Blamed? How to Protect Yourself and Respond
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Exploring Targets of Blame and How to Best Manage Them Bill and Megan tackle the challenging topic of being a target of blame from a high conflict individual. They provide insight into protecting yourself and managing difficult accusations. In this eye-opening episode, Bill and Megan define what it means to be a target of blame and how this manifes…
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Civil Communications for Lawyers and Law Offices
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Effective Communication for Legal Professionals Bill, Megan, and their guest Rehana Jamal – and Bill’s co-author – dive into strategies for clear, civil communication in the legal field. They aim to provide practical tools that lawyers, court staff, and anyone interacting with the justice system can use right away. The episode focuses on BIFF, the …
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Grief Over the Death of a High Conflict Loved One
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In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan provide guidance for coping with the complicated emotions that can arise when a high conflict person passes away. They cover the confusing mix of grief and relief family members often feel, how to handle being blamed after the loss, and the destabilization that can occur when a high conflict ad…
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