Sharing challenges and solutions for growing up with Complex PTSD. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Current events --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Just a few points about this podcast.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Trauma and coping mechanisms--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Thoughts of self-harm related to entitlement
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When feelings of entitlement (stemming from being spoiled) lead to thoughts of self-harm. And knowing where your depression is coming from.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support…
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How narcissists waste their own time, due to their narcissist defect.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Thinking more rationally, book recommendations
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Four book recommendations from books I've personally read, that I think help people think more rationally.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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A follow-up to my recent episode about antagonizing people.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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The PTSD brain and narrow-minded thinking
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I give 5 scenarios where our PTSD brain might cause narrow-minded thinking and why that Middle Ground is so important.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support…
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How I think cults can easily be like compounds for creating Complex PTSD --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Unexpected events in relation to thinking more rationally --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Engaging with the Middle Ground. It's one of the hardest things for us to do with Complex PTSD.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Having similar qualities as your abuser doesn't mean you are also abusive --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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A personal revelation I came into this week and why situations that don't make sense are like a crime I must solve.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support…
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How coping mechanisms play into relationships
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How me being spoiled plays a role in my relationships as an adult --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Mental awareness in childhood, and how trauma impacts you
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How our mental maturity in childhood might impact our trauma level. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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How trauma can make us more prone to certain things --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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How growing up in trauma can make us prone to being negative.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Insecure attachment style, and positive feedback
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The important role we play in accepting positive feedback --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Are we prone to dating people who "pull a fast one" on us?--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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How to handle antagonizing people --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Are you getting your identity from media influences? I used to be influenced in this way, and I provide a possible remedy.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support…
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A quick rant about deconstructing and stress
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I read a book about deconstructing concepts and I wanted to share a little rant about it. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Aggressive vs Assertive and healthy boundaries --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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When things are intentionally hidden from you.
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Having a trigger related to when information is intentionally being hidden from you.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Abuse, spoiling in youth and relationships
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How being abused and spoiled in your youth can impact your view of being in a relationship.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Find a Fan Club and enjoy the hell out of it. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Complex PTSD, abuse and being spoiled, and finding your Fan Club.
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Complex abuse is just that, it's Complex. Were you abused while simultaneously being spoiled, like I was? Also, find your Fan Club, it's liberating! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support…
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Are you spoiled too?--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Take a vacation, do something fun for yourself.
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Importance of taking a vacation, or simply doing something fun for yourself.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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A book I recommend for when you feel hopeless. The Novel Cure, by Ella Berthoud and Susan Elderkin.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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When you finally figure out something you've always wondered about.
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I finally figured something out that I had wondered about for years. It is somewhat off topic. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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How keeping a journal on the crazymaker in your life might help with stress.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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A possible remedy for feelings of depersonalization.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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The power of satire if you grow up in an ignorant environment.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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The concept of "Worlds colliding" and how to cope with this. Also some tips related to my hobby of coin collecting.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support…
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When symptoms blur your ability to get a diagnosis
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When depression sucks up all the attention and blurs what's really going on.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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When someone catches you out --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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How isolating might be perpetuating being single.
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How isolating can be the invisible culprit that is keeping you single.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Typical scenarios that lead to feelings of incompetence.
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I describe a few typical scenarios that lead to feelings of incompetence, and some possible solutions for them.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Do you tend to think the worst and be impulsive? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Article about why relationships don't last.
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An article about why relationships fail and how it might be related to your trauma.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Attracting overbearing people, and trauma.
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Why people from trauma attract overbearing people.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Is what you're struggling with most related to what could make you happy?
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Value, in the form of a hobby, is helping me appreciate money. This might be a telltale sign of what's going on with my overspending. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support…
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When someone's behavior frequently doesn't make sense.
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What I decided to do in response to someone's behavior not making sense.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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A big clue as to why my "Cure for Boredom" is working.
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I just read something that might be a big clue as to why my "Cure for Boredom" is working so well.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Does having a monotone voice relate to severe depression?--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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A few key points about despair that we might not think about when we are feeling despair.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Celebrating your accomplishments and how neglect can deprive you of this.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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How stress on the brain plays a key role when we're distracted and feel drained of energy. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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How my thoughts on euthanasia have changed since December.
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I came across a story regarding a topic I had researched back in December.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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