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In just eight episodes of Happily Even After, you’ll hear a story of a husband and wife who did not ride off into the sunset but found themselves fighting a man’s fierce battle with lust and pornography. Bob and Dannah Gresh are raw, real and honest. Their guests are wise experts in the work of marriage recovery. Some have degrees in therapy and psychology. Others learned their lessons on the hot pavement of life. All of them will tell you the truth—what you need to hear rather than what you ...
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Join Daniel and Christina Im on The IMbetween Podcast for honest and practical conversations on marriage, parenting, faith, and everything in between. With expert insights from Daniel, an author, pastor, and Gallup strengths performance coach, and Christina, a social worker, relationship coach, and Gottman's 7 Principles That Makes Marriage Work Leader, you'll learn how to build a strong, connected, and joy-filled marriage and family. Whether you're struggling to manage difficult in-laws, lo ...
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Every time you confess sin is a victory! But when it comes to confessing a porn addiction or a relapse to your partner, it has to be done well. Otherwise, you’ll do extra damage. Today on the podcast, Bob and Dannah explore tips for making the confession experience as healthy as possible. Guests include Layton and Chelsea Boeve of the Liberator pod…
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Daniel and Christina discuss the intricacies of marriage with Brian and Jen Goins and how marriage is like a living art form that demands creativity, evolves, and requires a blending of different perspectives and experiences. The episode highlights the re-release of "The Art of Marriage" series, which encourages couples to engage in open dialogue a…
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Ever caught yourself scrolling through your phone while your child's voice fades into the background? Yup! Us too. Let's face it, the era of smartphones has us all hooked. But did you know that this habit might be doing more harm than good to our kids? Distracted parenting isn't just about not hearing their stories—it's about the message we send ab…
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Daniel and Christina explore the nuances of apologizing in relationships by discussing the 5 Apology Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman. They delve into the emotional depth of expressing regret, the challenge of accepting responsibility without excuses, the significance of making restitution to show sincerity, and the commitment required for planned cha…
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Daniel and Christina delve into the complexities of resolving conflicts in a marriage, particularly in the presence of children. They discuss the importance of empathy, active listening, and collaboration in handling disagreements, and share personal anecdotes and strategies for effective communication. They also talk about the impact of parental c…
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Daniel and Christina discuss strategies for deepening love in your relationship. They explore how to address complaints constructively, repair conflicts, and avoid contempt. They also highlight the role of physical touch, expressing gratitude, and the power of forgiveness in strengthening marital bonds. The episode provides practical advice and per…
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Jason VanRuler, a therapist and author, discusses the transformative power of facing one's past. He shares his personal journey from a troubled childhood to professional success, highlighting the importance of self-reflection and seeking help to overcome recurring life challenges. Daniel and Christina explore with Jason the various ways individuals…
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Daniel and Christina discuss the importance of discipleship at home. They emphasize the need for parents to set an example in speech, conduct, love, faith, and purity, and discuss how children can sometimes guide and correct their parents. Sharing personal experiences, they explore the significance of aligning actions with words, as children learn …
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You were created to experience connection with God and with others. But sin separates us. Dannah explores how the pathway back to being connected to God and community is radical vulnerability. Through an exploration of her life verse, Psalm 25:14, Dannah explains why honest confession matters so much…not just in our relationship with each other, bu…
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Canadian Certified Counsellor Nadine Crain discusses the impact of purity culture on parenthood. She explains the origins and effects of purity culture, highlighting how it emphasized abstinence and tied a person's worth to their sexual purity. Nadine emphasizes the need to develop a healthier relationship with our bodies. Also, she discusses the i…
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We interview Dr. Bob Paul about the concept of intensive marriage therapy and how it differs from traditional counselling. Bob explains the advantages of intensive therapy, such as addressing core issues and providing a focused environment for couples to work through their challenges. He also discusses the person-centred approach of their program, …
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If you’re having a party, Bob Gresh is the guy to invite. (Dannah might be studying, though.) Bob confesses how he compared himself to Dannah and felt “less than.” But he learned to stop wearing the label of “lazy” when he began to understand the power of believing what God the Father has said about him. You can stop comparing, competing, and campa…
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Dannah Gresh shares her personal story of navigating her husband's addiction to pornography in their marriage. She discusses the impact it had on their relationship and the importance of seeking help and support. Dannah emphasizes the role of faith and the Holy Spirit in the healing process, highlighting the need for God's power in overcoming addic…
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In Episode 173, we interview Christa Hardin about the Enneagram and how this tool can deepen the love you have for one another. We discuss the importance of individual work and creating a safe environment in relationships. Christa explains the concept of seasons in marriage, comparing them to the changing seasons in nature. She emphasizes the need …
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Bonnie Gray knows a thing or two about being stressed. During the first year of the pandemic, Bonnie's once full, black hair began falling out. Overwhelmed by the exhaustion of disrupted routines and pressure to meet expectations at work, parenting, ministry and a bottomless checklist of To Do's, Bonnie focused on meeting everyone else's needs at t…
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Today Bob and Dannah Gresh bring you more advice from their sex therapist, Joyce Penner. You’ll get practical encouragement for how to rebuild your intimacy along with a book recommendation that’ll help you feel like you’re not alone if you’re experiencing barriers in the bedroom. Buy the Happily Even After book by Dannah Gresh Use the coupon code …
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Anyone feeling tired, stressed, and overwhelmed? Are you looking for a tool to simplify your life and bring back the calm, peace, fun, and love in your home? Us too! In this episode, you will discover how brain science can increase the connection with your spouse and your children. We interview author and speaker Cherilyn Orr on the stoplight appro…
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Do you ever wonder if what’s happening in your marriage might classify as abuse? Sometimes a husband is guilty. Sometimes a wife is. Why do you need to know? So you can get the right kind of help. Learn five red flags that are tell-tale signs of abuse. And meet two experts who can guide your learning curve. Buy the Happily Even After book by Dannah…
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In this episode, you will learn about the benefits of couples therapy and discover practical steps to inspire your spouse to attend therapy. You will also learn how to approach your spouse who may be resistant to attending therapy, and how you can present therapy as an opportunity rather than an obligation. Overall, this episode emphasizes the impo…
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What is an affair, how do they start, and how can you affair proof your marriage? In Episode 169, we interview Braden and Kristen Hafner on common reasons marriages are susceptible to affairs, the role of trust in affair-proofing your marriage, how to identify potential vulnerabilities in your marriage, and how to rebuild trust and recover from inf…
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It’s one of the most common questions couples ask: “should we tell the kids?” Opinions vary. Bob and Dannah tell you where they landed and how a conversation with Bob’s current therapist, Phil Herdnon gave them confidence that it was the right one for them. Buy the Happily Even After book by Dannah Gresh ATTEND: Join us for a marriage weekend in th…
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You are not alone. Our entire culture is experiencing great unhappiness due to the sexual revolution. With the help of John Mark Comer, we’ll grapple with the lies our culture tells us about sex. Dr. Juli Slattery will explain why Jesus is the only hope for overcoming them. And we’re gonna tell you the truth about why some men hate church. We’re ex…
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How do you rebuild your sex life after trust is broken? We called a Christian sex therapist to get some gritty and practical advice for episode #6 of the Happily Even After podcast with Bob and Dannah Gresh. We’ll talk about everything from female orgasm to pelvic floor therapy to the tender topic of abuse. We’re exploring Truth #6: intimacy is abo…
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Can you ever experience trust in your relationship again? It’s one of the most pressing questions couples face. In episode #5 of the Happily Even After podcast with Bob and Dannah Gresh you’ll hear from the hear some oft-neglected biblical Truth about trust. You’ll hear why Bob and Dannah like a full “cookie jar.” We’re exploring Truth #5: trust is…
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Dannah gets radically vulnerable in episode #4 of the Happily Even After podcast with Bob and Dannah Gresh. You’ll hear a Spirit-empowered story of one couple’s disclosure day as you explore Truth #4: forgiveness is a supernatural act that produces freedom. It’s one of seven beliefs every marriage needs to experience God’s redemption. Buy the Happi…
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Divorce is a complex and emotional experience and not a "fuzzy feeling" topic. No one wants to think about the possibility of their marriage ending in separation or divorce. However, understanding the potential factors that may contribute to a marital breakdown can help you work to strengthen your relationship and avoid potential pitfalls. In this …
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In episode #3 of the Happily Even After podcast, Bob and Dannah Gresh unpack the cycle many couples find themselves in of constance confession and relapse. They’ll introduce a powerful team approach to breaking the cycle with Truth #3: boundaries can bring holiness and health to your life. It’s one of seven beliefs every marriage needs to experienc…
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In episode #2 of the Happily Even After podcast, Bob and Dannah Gresh talk about the gift of full disclosure—how to do it well and mistakes they made along the way. They’ll help you gain clarity about how significant your problem is—or isn’t. Together, you’ll explore Truth #2: honest confession is the beginning of healing, one of seven beliefs ever…
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Have you ever felt like you're constantly pushing yourself to change, but it never seems to stick? Maybe you've been told that you'll finally see the results you want if you try harder. But what if that's not the case? In Episode 167, we interview Neal and Carly Samudre about what happens when you start with joy. They will challenge the idea that p…
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In episode #1 of the Happily Even After podcast, Bob and Dannah Gresh talk about how important it is not to shut off your emotions . . . even though you might want to. They introduce you to Truth #1: emotions are essential ingredients of intimacy. (Bob will transparently share how he feels about telling their story!) Let’s begin to explore seven be…
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Friendship can enrich your life in many ways. Good friends teach you about yourself and challenge you to be better. They encourage you to keep going when times get tough and celebrate your successes with you. But friends do a lot more than give you a shoulder to cry on; they also positively impact your health. Some research even says friendships ar…
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A child dealing with anxiety can be a challenging and unpredictable experience, much like a rollercoaster ride with its ups and downs. Some days may feel manageable as their parent, while others may feel overwhelming. In Episode 165, we interview Licensed Profession Counselor Justine Froelker about how we can connect with our children who deal with…
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In this pilot episode of the Happily Even After, Bob and Dannah Gresh explain how they got here—on a podcast for marriages impacted by lust and pornography. They explain the clinical complexities of addiction and how they got the right kind of help. (Dannah might confess to throwing things!) This is your invitation to explore seven beliefs every ma…
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We are going to give you a framework to be able to set your family's weekly rhythm. You can establish a routine for your family, despite how chaotic or busy your lives are. Just as you may create a family budget to direct where your money goes, you can establish family rhythms to direct where your time goes. If you do not take authority over your t…
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No area of a couple's life offers more potential for embarrassment, hurt, and rejection than their sexual relationship. On the other hand, when everything is connected...when relational transparency and emotional honesty meet physical desire...wow...that’s a recipe for great sex. Great sex helps produce greater relational and emotional intimacy, an…
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Are you raising kids who are kind and compassionate? It is critical to demonstrate to our children what it means to include others instead of excluding them. In episode 162, we share with you some ideas of how we can raise kids who are “includers” by modelling what that looks like. For the full show notes, including date night questions and journal…
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Perhaps you are familiar with Dr. Gary Chapman's The 5 Love Languages. It has been revolutionary to individuals, couples, and families worldwide. Truity, a company that offers a variety of online personality quizzes, wanted to build on Dr. Chapman's work. They surveyed over 500 000 people about what makes them feel loved and discovered that there a…
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We were recently asked about what advice we would give to younger couples, and so that’s what we want to unpack today. If we were to write a congratulations card to your wedding or sit down together to chat with you about those first precious years of your marriage, here’s what we would say… For the full show notes, including date night questions a…
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Hope can seem like such an elusive thing. In Episode 159, Drake Farmer unpacks for us what hope is, where we should put our hope when we are going through a difficult season, and how to be full of love, fueled by faith, and addicted to hope. For the full show notes, including personal journal prompts and discussion questions for you as a couple, go…
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Sometimes our spouse can feel like our best friend. And, other times, they can drive us crazy! In episode 158, we want to give you 4 ways to stick together when you feel bored, irritated, or frustrated with your spouse. For the full show notes, including date night questions and journal prompts about this episode, go to IMbetween.org/episode158 Con…
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No one wakes up and decides, "I’m going to ruin my marriage, neglect my kids, and cause mistrust in my family." Yet, sometimes our spouse and children can feel like they have taken second (or last) place to our personal goals and busyness. In Episode 157, Dr. Josh and Christi Straub share with us how seven core decisions can help us put what’s most…
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With the rising costs of gas, groceries, and pretty much everything in life, are you feeling the financial strain like we are? In Episode 156, we’re so thankful to be talking with the founders of SeedTime money, Bob and Linda Lotich. They answer the tough question, "Finances are killing my marriage. What do I do?" Bob and Linda Lotich have spent th…
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The gift of Enneagram for relationships is that it offers us insights and perspectives of others. If you've ever found yourself questioning why your spouse does certain things in some ways or reacts to certain triggers in other ways, this episode is for you. In episode 155, we interview Enneagram coach, Dani Cooper, about how the Enneagram can help…
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Whether you're a bride-to-be, a mother-in-law-to-be, or a woman who has been braving the in-law relationship for decades, every daughter-in-law and mother-in-law needs help navigating their relationship sometimes. In Episode 154, we chat with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law duo, Barbara and Stacy Reaoch, about practical ways the in-law relationsh…
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Known as 40 days to give up chocolate, alcohol, social media, or a "quick" way to diet before Easter, the Lenten season can easily be misunderstood. It’s not in the Bible and Jesus never told us to do it, yet the ancient Church declared the months before Easter a fasting season, and millions of Christians still observe it today. In Episode 153, we …
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Whether you realize it or not, parenting happens in habits. We make meals, we get in cars, we answer SO many questions, we discipline, and we do bedtime. So much of our relationship with children happens through these ordinary rhythms of the day, and yet how often do we go through these motions as if they were meaningless? How often do we just blaz…
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Today, we’re going to be discussing how to support your hurting spouse when you are hurting too. This topic hits close to home because we’ve lived it this past year. In May of last year, we said goodbye to Daniel’s dad after a brave 16 month battle with cancer. Thankfully, we were literally there to say goodbye to him. We had flown into Daniel’s ho…
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Marcus and Chris have spent years studying human relationships and were previously on our podcast talking about the connection between joy and marriage. Now they offer parenting principles derived from the way our brains are hardwired. As you'll soon find out, joy isn’t some abstract concept, but a neurochemical reality that arises from the choices…
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This episode is just in time for the holidays! Are you looking for the PERFECT gift to give to your loved one, friend, co-worker, or neighbor? Are you tired of dropping hints to your loved ones about what you want, only to be disappointed by their gift-giving? If you want to give or receive the perfect gift, the Enneagram can help guide you. Dr. Dr…
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In Episode 149, we chat with Scott James about Celebrating Jesus in the Advent season with your family. For those of you that would like to observe Advent together as a family, but don’t know where to start, this episode is for you. Or, if you have been celebrating Advent together as a family for a number of years, but looking to do something a lit…
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