In this episode, Bruce is reflecting on Fatherhood and what it means to him. He invites you to their dining room table as all NINE little Paynes join the conversation to reflect on their favorite family traditions and give some honest feedback to their dad about areas he can grow. Scripture References: "As a father has compassion on his children, s…

In this episode, Bruce and Kaila address their children's many accomplishments and the drive for wanting to be the best by giving your best and, as parents, the importance of having expectations for effort. Scripture Citations “A slacker’s craving will kill him because his hands refuse to work.” (Proverbs 21:25 CSB) “There is profit in all hard wor…

In this episode, to commemorate Mother's Day, Bruce and Kaila talk about the importance of the role of moms in a family, the impact their moms have made in their lives, and Kaila shares her purpose as a mom raising her children into adults. Scripture Citations “About this time, a man and woman from the tribe of Levi got married. The woman became pr…

In this episode, Bruce and Kaila answer some of their most frequently asked questions by others and give a little bit of insight into their lives as parents of nine and how they have had to adapt to meet the needs of their family. FREE EVENT: Controlling your Chaos (Sign-up) [01:45] What kind of car do you drive? [04:09] Did you always want a lot o…

In this episode, Bruce and Kaila talk about the busyness of their schedule and open up about the vulnerability that comes from being busy and tired, when you feel like you’re running on fumes and have very little to give. Life can weigh you down, but it doesn't have to if you keep your eyes fixed on Jesus who rejuvenates our souls. Episode 10: Q&A …

In this episode, Bruce and Kaila talk about how they have shifted their perspective on parenting to reflect God’s love for sinners as they raise children who are being tempted by the devil and the cravings of the world. They talk about the importance of keeping your own spiritual walk strong, how to show God’s love and grace through patience and un…

In this episode, Bruce and Kaila are joined by their 16 year old daughter, Zoe, to talk about how people use their words, including cursing and putting others down, but how God wants us to use words to build up others, share our testimony, and give life to those around us. [01:27] Intro to Topic [03:24] Meet Zoe & talk about cursing [07:55] Account…

In this episode, Bruce and Kaila talk about the importance of setting a personal growth plan so that we can reach our full potential as individuals, which allows us to pour into our children, helping them to grow into productive adults who value a growth mindset, create measurable goals, and value learning from mistakes. [01:54] The Laws of Growth …

In this episode, Bruce and Kaila share their own Christmas message and a reminder that, regardless of the emotions felt during this season, Christmas is a time for redemption and a time for giving. As Bruce reflects on the story of Mary and Joseph, he shares of how God led the Paynes to Texas in an unlikely time and in unlikely circumstances only t…

In this episode, Bruce and Kaila return, this week of thanksgiving, to offer their own thanks and talk about the importance of being thankful for all that God has provided for us, even in difficult times. Acknowledging the ways God is good allows us to have an attitude of gratitude, changing our perspective on current situations that may be bringin…

In this episode, Bruce and Kaila talk about anger and discipline, the importance of controlling our anger as parents, how to stop taking things so personally, and leading your children to better choices through gentleness and kind teaching. Connect with the Paynes: www.growingpaynes.org [00:46] Intro to Anger [04:28] What gets under my skin (Kaila)…

Connect with us! Check out the site! www,growingpaynes.org In this episode, Bruce and Kaila use scripture to define what unshackled is, what it means to us, and how we can show unshackled love as parents to our children. Music Intro/Exit: Unshackled by David Upton (listen on Spotify) Thanks Sabrina! [02:22] Definition of Unshackled [03:33] Unshackl…

Welcome to the FIRST episode! This project is the “ours” of the “His, Hers, and Ours” ministry that is “Growing Paynes Family Ministry” In this first episode, Bruce and Kaila take the time to introduce themselves, their family of eleven, and the ministry God has put on their hearts to make an impact in the next generation by growing parents to be t…