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This is anchored. A show about marriage, relationships, personal growth, and a few random topics here and there. Hosts Charles and Von know that there's no “one size fits all” solution to life. So they offer their perspectives in hopes it helps you anchor yours. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/anchoredthepodcast/support
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Von and Charles are back in the saddle and ready to update you on what going on with them and what's next for the show! Don't forget to SHARE and LEAVE A REVIEW Connect with us Instagram: @Anchored_Podcast Facebook: @AnchoredPodcast Twitter: @AnchoredPod Connect with The Lanes: Von's Instagram: @Von__Lane Charles' Instagram: @Charles_Lane Thanks fo…
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Celibacy: Why We Did it And How It Could benefit Your Relationship - Part 4
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The final week of the Lanes celibacy story. In part 4 Von and Charles discuss how abstaining from sex helped them to learn each other on a deeper and more intimate level. Talking Points in this episode include: Why Sex CAN'T be the backbone of your relationship How Celibacy helps you focus on your partner What Von and Charles did to help one anothe…
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Celibacy: Why We Did it And How It Could benefit Your Relationship - Part 3
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This week is part 3 of the Lanes celibacy story. They discuss the camaraderie needed to combat negative people that try to dictate how and what their relationship SHOULD be. Talking Points in this episode include: How engagement can show you who your friends really are Recognizing when mentors have no more to give How keeping thing between you and …
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Celibacy: Why We Did it And How It Could benefit Your Relationship - Part 2
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The quarantine train moves on! This week the Lanes continue their discussion about their decision to become celibate. In part 2 they talk about they're most critical step. Counseling. Talking Points in this episode include: How past family experience could effect you perception of relationships The Benefits of premarital counseling And More... Don'…
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Celibacy: Why We Did it And How It Could benefit Your Relationship.
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Another week of quarantine down! This episode the Lanes open up about their decision to become celibate during their engagement and the lessons God gave them as a result. GOOD and BAD. Talking Points in this episode include: Reasons why Celibacy could be a good idea How NOT to initiate the decision to stop having sex Understanding how God moves on …
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Bar Chat: The Dos and Don'ts With Special Guest Mixologist & Bartender Darkisha
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Another week in quarantine down! This episode Von and Charles sit down with their friend and personal mixologist Diakisha to talk about bar culture and how you can get better acquainted with it. Talking Points in this episode include: What bartenders see that most people don't think they do! How to order a drink and tip your bartender correctly Wha…
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6 Ways to Create A Safe Emotional Space for Your Relationship
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Its still Carona time! However the show must go on! This episode Von and Charles talk about how they created a safe emotional space for their relationship and how it can absolutely benefit yours. Talking Points in this episode include: What a Emotional Safe Place is Steps needed to create the Safe Place The Golden Rule of relationships And More... …
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Rona, Is That You!?!?: The Lanes During The COVID-19 Pandemic Shutdown
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Its Crona time! In this episode the Lanes answer questions from their listeners about how The Rona, Cronavirus, or COVID-19 is effecting them. Charles also adopts the "lil shooter" title with an opinionated rant of his own concerning the global pandemic. Talking Points in this episode include: How the government shutdown can be beneficial to your r…
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The Rules Of Engagement: A Guide To Resolving Conflict In Your Relationship
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Ever wonder why you and your partner continue to go around in circles about a particular issue in your relationship? This episode Charles and Von give incite to why it happens and how you can gain traction to a resolution. How? With Charles' sure fire "rules of engagement." Also, the Lanes try out a new segment with a very opinionated Von Lane read…
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Remembering Kobe Bryant While Being Black In America
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This episode the Lanes take time acknowledge their condolences for the loss of an icon in the sports world and the black community. Kobe Bryant. Also, Von, the "lil shooter," loads her clip to "blast" her opinion on the media's handling of Kobe's past allegations while Charles gripes over Twitter's ridiculousness. Talking Points in this episode inc…
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6 Signs Of Toxic People And What To Do About It
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We've all seen the memes and motivational videos on the internet. Toxic people are bad for you. But what exactly is a toxic person? How do you deal with them? More importantly, if you can't deal with them how can you remove them from your top 5 or your life. This episode is all about understanding toxicity in people and yourself and how to detox. T…
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Ways to Escape Cultural Conditions AKA Generational Curses
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This episode the show finally has its first interviewee Dwayne Gibson Jr MSW LSW! Not only is he a close friend of Charles', he's also certified mental health therapist and a ordained minister. They're talking about generational curses known in the clinical world as cultural conditioning. Dwayne give incite to how the family unit is being throttled…
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Welcome to Season 2 of Anchored and Happy New Year! Charles and Von want you to be ready to crush your 2020 goals and ambitions. This episode they want to give you the secret sauce to making it happen. Your "Why" or the anchoring reason you need to keep on track for success! Talking Points in this episode include: Understanding the concept Why and …
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This episode The Lanes, with the help of freshlymarried.com, asked each other 23 questions from a list of 100 CONVERSATIONAL QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR SPOUSE. The goal is to demonstrate how to "spot check" your relationship to see if you're are on the same page or if something new reveals itself. Talking Points in this episode include: Learn more about…
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Is Being Submissive Necessary In 2019?
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This episode Charles And Von answer another listener's question: "Is a woman being submissive and sticking to old school traditional values too old fashioned and ineffective?" (Paraphrased) Talking Points in this episode include: Understanding how submission works biblically Knowing what male leadership looks like The difference between "Old School…
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The Reason Why He HAS NOT Popped The Big Question
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This episode Charles And Von answer a listeners question. "Why do men stay in committed relationships for 7 plus years and NEVER pop the big question?!? Please gimme some insite!" Talking Points in this episode include: Addressing insecurties Gauging Maturity Matching Value Systems Identifying Nagging And More... Don't forget to SHARE and LEAVE A R…
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6 Things That You're Wasting Your Money On
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There is nothing worse than realizing you don't have the amount of money you thought you had. We've all been there. This episode Von and Charles have a clue to where it disappeared to. Thanks for Listening! If you haven't already, dont forget to subscribe and leave a review of what you thought! Also, follow us: Instagram: @anchored_podcast Twitter:…
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Von and Charles want to take the sting out of failure. This episode discusses how it has helped them grow and become better versions of themselves. As well as tips to leverage failure to your benefit.Thanks for Listening! If you haven't already, dont forget to subscribe and leave a review of what you thought!Also, follow us:Instagram: @anchored_pod…
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5 Ways To Strengthen Your Bond With Your Spouse Or Mate.
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This episode Charles and Von discuses the importance of building a bond with you spouse or mate and offer 5 pointers that they think can help couples build it. Thanks for Listening! If you haven't already, don't forget to subscribe and leave a review of what you thought! Also, follow us: Instagram: @anchored_podcast Twitter: @Anchoredpod Facebook: …
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How To Add Effective Self-Care To Your Life
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Charles and Von are real self-care advocates. This episode follows them as they go down the list of actionable steps that can jump start or refine your own self-care practices. Thanks for Listening! If you haven't already, dont forget to subscribe and leave a review of what you thought! Also, follow us: Instagram: @anchored_podcast Twitter: @Anchor…
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Secrets to Starting A Long-Lasting Relationship: The Lane's Love Story.
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This episode Von and Charles dish on how they met and what their first date was like. They also talk about the things that they did on their first that helped them to be the happy couple they are today. They hope that by sharing the techniques that helped them can helpfull other people's first date or the re-kindling of a long standing one. If you …
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This episode Von and Charles try to tackle the popular social media hashtag #relationshipsgoals. What the internet says it is versus what they actually believe it to be. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/anchoredthepodcast/support
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Starting Over: A Married Millennial's Guide
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Today Von and Charles answer their first listener question! It just so happens that the question fits the theme of the episode: Starting Over. Listern as the Lanes go in depth about what it take to ignore the pressure of typical society and start fresh. If you think the Lanes give good advice subscribe to the show. Also, follow them on social media…
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5 Ways Nonverbal Communication Is Effecting You
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In this episode Von and Charles further expand on their thoughts about communication. Except this time the focus is not on what you're saying, its what your body is doing while you're saying what your saying. Dont forget to subscribe! Also, follow us on Instagram @anchored_podcast --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/an…
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Understanding the State of Your Communication Skills
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For our inaugural episode we wanted to discuss a topic that we thought was extremely important. It’s often overlook, down played, or misunderstood. Communication. Over time we adopt a style in which we decide to communicate with one another pending on our state of being. Understanding our own personal approach in real time and gaining the ability t…
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