Hey gang! Welcome to Your Marriage Matters with Team Jacobus This podcast is dedicated to couples that want to get the most out of this crazy thing we call marriage! Each episode is designed to guide us in a fun and exciting way through the skills, strategies, tactics and mindset we need to build a compelling life together! Our goal is for all of us to create the vibrant and healthy marriages we all dreamed of when we said “I do”. Welcome to Your Marriage Matters with Jim and Christie Jacobus!
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YMM 189 ... The Fundamentals for Building A More Vibrant, Healthy Marriage!
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The Fundamentals for Building A More Vibrant, Healthy Marriage! Hey gang ... Welcome to Your Marriage Matters episode 189 - The Fundamentals for Building A More Vibrant, Healthy Marriage! Since we are doing a new YouTube channel. we felt like it was important to go back to the fundamentals as a reset for everything we are going to be covering in th…
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YMM 188 I Am NOT the Enemy ... The Power of Solving Problems As A Team!
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Problems, struggles, and conflict are signs of a healthy relationship! Two imperfect people working to build a life together in an imperfect world are bound to face struggles. This is due to the mere fact that they: Are male and female Grew up in different households Have different personality styles Have different views on sex, money, household ro…
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YMM 187 ... 3 Life Lessons From the Road!!!
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Join Jim & Christie Jacobus on episode 187 of Your Marriage Matters as they delve into the profound lessons learned from their adventurous journey as full-time RV travelers. In this insightful episode, 3 Life Lessons From the Road, they explore: Beauty Everywhere: Explore the breathtaking landscapes of America through the eyes of seasoned travelers…
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YMM 186 ... The Trust Factor: 5 Essential Keys for a Thriving Relationship!!!
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Welcome back to Your Marriage Matters with Jim & Christie Jacobus! In this episode, we delve into the crucial topic of trust in marriage and why it's the cornerstone of a strong, enduring relationship. Trust isn't just a nice-to-have; it's the foundation upon which emotional connection, communication, stability, and growth thrive. In this episode, …
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YMM 185 ... The 5 R’s of Spring Cleaning Your Marriage!
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🎙️ Join Jim and Christie Jacobus on Your Marriage Matters as they dive deep into "The 5 R’s of Spring Cleaning Your Marriage"! 🌷 In this episode, they discuss practical strategies to revitalize your relationship and create a stronger bond this spring. From reorganizing your time together to renovating your finances, refreshing appreciation, revital…
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YMM 184 ... This 1 Idea Can Be A Game Changer In YOUR Marriage!
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In this episode of Your Marriage Matters podcast with Jim & Christie Jacobus we talk about the one habit that can change your marriage. We are going to introduce couples to the idea of having a weekly meeting. Doing so is a great habit and can help get couples on the same page in a busy day to day life. Weekly meetings can ,,, Improved Communicatio…
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YMM 183 ... Avoid These 5 Relationship Pitfalls or Risk Losing Your Marriage!!!
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Join Jim & Christie Jacobus as they dive deep into the crucial topic of the 5 things that can slowly erode the foundation of your marriage. In this eye-opening episode, they discuss: Communication Issues: Uncover the secrets to effective communication that can transform your relationship. Lack of Appreciation: Discover the power of showing gratitud…
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YMM 182 ... Unlocking the Secrets of a Thriving Marriage Through Worship!
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Join Jim & Christie Jacobus on a transformative journey in this episode of Your Marriage Matters. Discover the profound truth that a great marriage is deeply rooted in worship, illuminating three essential facets of worship: Worship God as Creator: By acknowledging God as the creator of all things, including your marriage, you unlock the door to un…
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YMM 181 ... The Heart of Marriage: Insights from the One Night For Oneness Conference
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Tune in to this episode of Your Marriage Matters, where we reflect on our recent participation at the One Night For Oneness Marriage Conference. Delve into the profound lessons we shared, including the significance of the apple tree analogy in understanding marriage dynamics. Explore why conventional approaches like threats, manipulation, and guilt…
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YMM 180 ... Love's Echo: Insights from One Night For Oneness Marriage Conference!
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In this highly anticipated episode, Jim & Christie Jacobus take you on an enlightening journey through the heart of marriage. Fresh from their engaging presentation at the One Night For Oneness Marriage Conference, they delve into profound truths that form the bedrock of enduring relationships: Romance as a Result, Not a Cause: Discover why Jim & C…
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YMM 179 ... Love IS: Unlocking the Secrets to Lasting Love With Paul Tripp!
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Welcome back to Your Marriage Matters! As we wrap up February, the month of love, we're diving into the profound wisdom of Paul David Tripp's "Love is" statements. Join us as we break down these five powerful statements to help strengthen and deepen your relationship. Being Committed to Unity: Learn why it's more important to prioritize unity and u…
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YMM 178 ... One Size Doesn't Fit All! How To Custom Fit YOUR Marriage
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In this week's episode of Your Marriage Matters, hosts Jim and Christie Jacobus dive deep into the dynamics of relationships, armed with insights from The 5 Love Languages, Relational Needs, and DISC personality profiles. Discover how understanding and embracing our differences can strengthen the bond between partners. By recognizing and honoring e…
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YMM 177 ... The 5 Stages of Marriage: Embracing the Journey of Growth
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Welcome to Your Marriage Matters with Jim & Christie Jacobus! Embark on a journey through the dynamic stages of love with us as we explore the intricacies of relationships and the beauty of enduring commitment. Join us as we delve into the fascinating phases every couple encounters: · Infatuation/Honeymoon Phase: Experience the exhilarating rush of…
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YMM 176 ... Three Ways To Make This Your “Best Valentine’s Day Ever”!!!
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Your Marriage Matters Podcast with Jim & Christie Jacobus: Pre Valentine's Day Edition! Are you ready to elevate your Valentine's Day experience? Join the dynamic duo, Jim and Christie, on this week's podcast episode, where they unravel the secrets to making this romantic occasion truly unforgettable. • Be Proactive: Don't settle for ordinary! Jim …
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YMM 175 ... Beyond Beliefs: Crafting a Love-Filled Marriage with Positive Habits!
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Welcome to another episode of the Your Marriage Matters podcast with Jim & Christie Jacobus! In episode 175, we dive into the essence of building critical habits in your marriage. 🌟 Building upon our recent discussions on how core beliefs shape thoughts, actions, and ultimately habits, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to create posi…
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YMM 174 ... Believe, Think, Act: How To Create a Positive Marriage Mindset!!!
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🚀 Join us in this eye-opening episode of "Your Marriage Matters." Together, let's delve into the fascinating interplay between our core beliefs, thoughts, and actions within the intricate tapestry of marriage. 🔄 The Core Belief Cascade: In this episode we unpack the profound impact of core beliefs on the trajectory of a marriage. We will unravel ho…
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YMM 173 ... Going Beyond Beliefs: Crafting the Right Mindset for An Awesome Marriage!
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In episode 173 of Your Marriage Matters podcast, Jim and Christie Jacobus delve into the critical importance of cultivating the right thoughts about marriage, oneself, and one's partner. This episode serves as a follow-up to their previous discussion on how core beliefs significantly impact our thoughts. Jim, drawing on his expertise as a professio…
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YMM 172 ... The Marriage Blueprint: How Core Beliefs Shape Our Life Together (Both Good and Bad!)
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Welcome to another episode of "Your Marriage Matters" with Jim and Christie Jacobus, where we dive deep into the foundations of a healthy marriage. In today's episode, we're exploring the significance of core beliefs in fostering a strong and lasting marital bond. Core beliefs are the fundamental convictions and principles that shape our perspectiv…
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YMM 171 ... Ask Yourself These 4 Questions To Make 2024 Your Best Year Ever! Part 2
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This is part 2 of our "4 Questions" annual process we go through to make sure 2024 is going to be the best year ever. We trust you will enjoy questions 3 and 4! Repeat of last week's show notes ... People often ask us how we manage to stay in sync as a couple and maintain that synchronization over time. The key to our success lies in one word: comm…
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YMM 170 ... Ask Yourself These 4 Questions To Make 2024 Your Best Year Ever!
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People often ask us how we manage to stay in sync as a couple and maintain that synchronization over time. The key to our success lies in one word: communication. We firmly believe in the power of open, transparent and frequent communication, which allows us to be on the same page. One of the effective processes we've implemented is what we call "T…
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YMM 167 ... The Wedding Chronicles: Joy, Surprises, and Lessons Learned From 2 Recently Married Couples!
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In this exciting and fun episode, join our hosts as they sit down with two extraordinary couples, Mindy and Chris Harris, and Hannah and Austin Pierce. Get ready to delve into the depths of married life and uncover the invaluable experiences and wisdom these newlyweds have to share about their wedding day and everything that went into it!. Discover…
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YMM 166 ... The Power Couple Blueprint Part II: 3 Core Skills for an Extraordinary Marriage!
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Last week we discussed Jim's favorite topic for a great marriage - mindsets! This week we look at Christie's fav topic - skill sets! One is worthless without the other so we trust you will enjoy! In this podcast you will discover the secrets to a thriving relationship on the latest episode of Your Marriage Matters podcast! Join relationship experts…
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YMM 165 ... The Power Couple Blueprint: 10 Mindsets for an Extraordinary Marriage!
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Welcome to YOUR Marriage Matters, where we explore the essential mindsets for a thriving and enduring marriage. In this episode, we'll dive into the 10 critical mindsets that form the foundation of a successful partnership. Commitment: Approach marriage with unwavering dedication and understand that it requires effort and perseverance. Cultivate a …
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YMM 164 ... The Power of Shared Faith: Strengthening Your Marriage Through Spiritual Habits!
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Of all of the habits we have been discussing this series just how important are the spiritual habits we develop? We believe they may be more important than all of the rest! In this episode of Your Marriage Matters, Jim and Christie Jacobus explore the importance of cultivating spiritual habits within a marriage. They discussed a variety of practice…
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YMM 163 ... Love, Trust, and the Almighty Dollar: The Essential Guide to Financial Well-Being in Your Relationship!
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Are you ready to take your relationship to the next level? Join hosts Jim and Christie Jacobus on their podcast, Your Marriage Matters, where they share valuable insights and practical advice on building a strong and prosperous marriage. In this episode, they uncover the secrets to healthy financial habits for engaged or seriously dating couples. M…
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YMM 162 ... Preparing for a Lifetime Together: Strengthening Emotional Health In Your Relationship!
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Welcome to another episode of Your Marriage Matters, the podcast where we explore the keys to a successful and fulfilling marriage. I'm your host, Jim Jacobus, and I'm joined by my wonderful co-host and partner, Christie Jacobus. Summary: In today's episode, we dive into the essential elements of a healthy relationship. We'll discuss effective comm…
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YMM 161 ... Wellness Warriors: Uniting as a Couple for Optimal Health and Happiness!
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Does your physical health impact the health of your relationship? Simple answer - absolutely! Join us on a journey to prioritize your physical health as a couple and strengthen your bond like never before. We are thrilled to present ten essential habits that will revolutionize your approach to physical well-being. Are you ready to embark on this ex…
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YMM 160 ... The Relationship Blueprint: Mastering 5 Habits for Sustained Success!
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Welcome to "The Relationship Blueprint: Mastering 5 Habits for Sustained Success!" with your hosts, Jim and Christie Jacobus! Join us for an exciting podcast episode where we explore the fascinating world of habits and how they can shape your life. In this special series spanning five weeks (and possibly more!), we'll guide you on a journey towards…
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YMM 159 ... Tired of Struggling to Get Things Done Together? Try This!!!
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Do you want to learn how to achieve big things in your life without putting your relationship at risk? Well, you're in luck! In this podcast, we reveal the secret behind our success in working together as a couple. We call it the I D E A process, and it's a simple yet powerful tool that can help you achieve your goals without sacrificing your relat…
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YMM 158 ... 10 Key Moments In A Wedding Day You Absolutely Want To Get Right"!
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What moments in a wedding day are critical to your personal enjoyment and the enjoyment of your guests? Well, Jim did a wedding this past weekend and on our way home we started discussing all of the great moments that were had by the couple and the guests and we had so much fun reliving the event we thought ... "why not do a podcast about it"! So, …
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YMM 156 ... Unlocking the Potential of a Shared Vision for Your Life Together!
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What is one of the most important skills a couple can develop to keep their lives together vibrant and exciting? That is learning to create a shared vision for their futures both as individuals and as a couple. We always talk about being intentional. In this podcast we discuss how important it is to have: A clear mission! A clear vision! A clear se…
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YMM 157 ... Becoming Your Best Self: The Key to a Strong, Fulfilling and Lasting Relationship!
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Ever wondered what it would be like to be in a relationship with or marry someone who is fully committed to being the best version of themselves and is always growing and improving in every aspect of their life? It would be pretty awesome, don't you think? There's a quote that we often use to guide our search for the right person to share our life …
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YMM 155 ... Cultivating Emotional Intelligence: Empowering Tools for Managing Conflict and Challenges in Your Marriage!
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Let's get this straight ... you will have problems, challenges and outright conflicts in your relationship! It is inevitable!!! How you handle them will be the key to the success in your lives moving forward! Handling them well will actually enhance the strength of your connection as well as creating a deeper level of intimacy you won't be able to …
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YMM 153 ... Mastering the Power of Great Communication In YOUR Relationship!
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Is there any more critical in a relationship than being able to effectively communicate openly and transparently with each other? NOPE!!! There is not! That is one of the reasons we are constantly doing podcasts about communications, teaching workshops that always include communications and, work very hard about improving our own communications. It…
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YMM 152 ... What Is It Like To Be Engaged?
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What better way to answer that question than going straight to two "Nearlywed" couples that are just weeks away from saying :I do" and interview them? Hannah and Austin Mindy and Chris In this week's episode we ask these guys some great, even tough, questions about what their seriously dating and engagement phases have been like! You will hear them…
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YMM 151 ... The 4 Foundations of A Great Relationship!
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Hey gang! In this podcast episode we preview a series we have entitled The 4 Foundations of A Great Relationship! It is intended to do exactly what the title says. As you are seriously dating or engaged we want you to begin working on the 4 things that will become the backbone of you experiencing everything you hope for if/when you walk down the ai…
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YMM 150 ... 5 Reasons To Absolutely Hit the STOP Button On Getting Married!
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Are we excited about you getting married? Yes, we are! Are there reasons to hit the STOP Button on getting married? Absolutely! Are these "life sentences"? Now way! But, if not dealt with before you walk down that aisle and say "I DO" they will cause you a world of hurt. If not dealt with now they could very easily lead to a divorce at a later date…
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YMM #149 ... 5 (at least!) Good Reasons To Get Married!!!
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Why get married? That is a question we have been asking our seriously dating and engaged couples for years. Their answers are as varied as there are colors in a sunset! Some of those reasons are clearly well thought through while some give reason for pause. The good reasons do not guarantee success nor do the not so good reasons mean certain failur…
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YMM #148 Happy Valentine's Day ... And AN Exciting New Direction For YOUR Marriage Matters!!!
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We have two awesome things to share with you this week!!! First, happy Valentine's Day!!! In this podcast we cover the 5 Love Languages and give you some ideas on how to use them to make Valentine's Day, or any day, very special this year! And then we share with you a new direction we are taking with the YOUR Marriage Matters podcast! We have a new…
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YMM 147 ... What's The One Thing You Can Do To Change the Trajectory of YOUR Marriage?
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What's The One Thing You Can Do To Change the Trajectory of YOUR Marriage? Well, when we started thinking about it we couldn't come up with just one ... we came up with four of them!!! Each of these in their own way can make a huge difference in your marriage. If you can, do it together even if you both choose a different one. If your spouse isn't …
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YMM 146 ... 3 Great Ways To Invest In Your Marriage!
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"You Are Not Likely To Protect YOUR Marriage If You Don't Believe There Is Any Danger" Rick Reynolds - The Affair Recovery Center Last week we did our podcast on The 5 Early Warning Signs That Your Marriage Could Be In Trouble! A lot of the feedback was ... what can we do to get ahead of these early warning signs?!? This week we are going to give e…
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YMM 145 ... 5 Early Warning Signs YOUR Marriage Could Be In Trouble!!!
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YOUR Marriage, just like your health, has early warning signs when something isn't just right! Identifying what those signs are, looking to see if they are present in your marriage and then taking action to fix them can save you and your partner a whole lot of grief!!! 5 Early Warning Signs YOUR Marriage Could Be In Trouble!!! In this podcast we lo…
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YMM 144 ... Someone Is Getting Called Out! It Could Be You!!!
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We are calling YOU out! But, we are calling ourselves out first!!! We are frustrated, mostly Jim is frustrated, by what we perceive as a lack of interest people have in investing in their marriages! That is until they get into a crisis situation. That has made itself real to us many, many times through the years. That is why we began this podcast i…
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YMM 143 We Made A BIG Decision! Another Life Lesson "From the Road"!!!
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To live the "life of your dreams" you are going to have to make some big decisions! You may also have to change direction sometimes ... even when the direction you are going is exciting and compelling!!! The question is how do you go about making these types of decisions and/or change direction? For a while now we have been using, and teaching, a p…
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YMM 142 ... Travel Day With Team Jacobus! (Some "Lessons From the Road")
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What is "travel day" like with Team Jacobus? What can we learn about marriage from how these two live out their full time RV'ing lifestyle? Travel Day With Team Jacobus! (Some "Lessons From the Road") It turns out, in this raw and uncut podcast, that there is a tone we can learn about the power of living out a dream and a shared vision! We can also…
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YMM 141 ... If I Am Not the enemy ... Then What Am I?!?
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As we wrap up our "I Am Not the Enemy" series we look at what role do we play when it comes to dealing with conflict and struggles in a healthy and productive manner! In this podcast we will share with you 6 positive roles we each play in the lives of our spouse and in the life of our marriage! Each of these roles lead to us successfully navigating…
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YMM 140 - A Professional Counselor's Wisdom for Dealing With Conflict!
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Challenges come at our relationship from one of two directions - outside forces of life just happening or inside the marriage where two imperfect people struggle with the give and take of growing up as a couple together! In this Your marriage Matters episode 140 we get A Professional Counselor's Wisdom for Dealing With Conflict! Christie has been a…
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YMM 139 ... Two Great Problem Solving Strategies You Can Use TODAY!
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This week we continue the "I Am Not the Enemy" series with YMM 139 ... Two Great Problem Solving Strategies You Can Use TODAY! The are our two favorite , real world, techniques we use regularly when Team Jacobus is working our way through a difficulty or a when a not so clear decision needs to be made! Struggles are part of the deal! Disagreements …
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YMM 138 ... Our Best Marital Advice? Fight NAKED!
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When asked what is our best marital advice we always answer the same ... "Fight Naked"! While taken literally it can be a very effective methodology ... after all, who wants to fight with a naked person! All kidding aside the NAKED part is an acronym for 5 great things to remember to keep our disagreements both civil and productive at the same time…
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YMM 137 I Am NOT the Enemy ... The Power of Solving Problems As A Team!
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Problems, struggles and conflict are signs of a healthy relationship! Two imperfect people working to build a life together are bound to have struggles by the mere fact that: They are male and female Grew up in different households Have different personality styles Have different views on sex, money, household roles and responsibilities, parenting …
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