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Are you sick of parenting with the ideas of yelling and shame and looking for something that feels better, is different, but still has a sense of boundaries and limits? Welcome to Peace and Parenting! Michelle is a former teacher, counselor, certified parenting coach, mom of two teens, recovering yeller, and perfectionist who parents without using punishments altogether. And guess what? It works! On this show, you’ll learn the how behind having kids who are entirely UNPUNISHED but who are al ...
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Are you a Christian Caregiver overwhelmed by the challenges of dementia or Alzheimer’s? Do you find yourself asking questions like: “How can I survive dementia caregiving?” or “What does dementia caregiving look like from a Christian perspective?” This podcast is designed for you. We offer real hope and help by providing practical, faith-driven solutions to make dementia care easier. Answering Your Most Pressing Questions: How to survive dementia caregiving? Caregiving is a long journey that ...
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Caring for a loved one with dementia often means navigating challenging behaviors and emotional moments. But what if those behaviors, often labeled as "challenging," are actually normal human responses magnified by communication gaps? In this episode, we tackle real caregiver questions about controlling anger, managing paranoia, and determining whe…
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Have you found yourself at a loss, struggling with punishments, rewards, and teachable moments that just don’t seem to work? In today’s episode, we explore the profound shifts we can make to foster deeper connections with our children—changes I wish I had known from the start. Today, I open up about my personal journey of parenting missteps and rev…
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Caring for a loved one with dementia often means facing unexpected challenges—from outbursts to navigating paid caregiver dynamics and difficult decisions about medication. In this episode, we walk through real-life caregiving scenarios and highlight the importance of creating personalized care plans, understanding triggers, and balancing support w…
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What if your teen's 'rude' behavior is actually a cry for help? Could anxiety be hiding behind their tough exterior? In today's episode, we dive deep into the world of teen anxiety with my special guest Monica Crnogorac, a certified teen anxiety coach. We unearth misconceptions about teen anxiety, discuss how parents often misinterpret their teen’s…
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When caring for a loved one with dementia, you may encounter behaviors that seem confusing or unsettling—like paranoia or delusions. How do you respond when your loved one truly believes something that isn’t real or becomes fearful without reason? We discuss the differences between paranoia and delusions and offer faith-filled strategies to help ca…
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What if your child’s defiance wasn’t defiance at all but a powerful sense of self? Parenting strong-willed kids can feel like a battle, but what if the secret lies in less demand and more connection? Today, I dive into the unique challenges (and gifts) of raising strong-willed kids. From their sensitivity to their unwavering sense of autonomy, thes…
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Dementia caregiving can feel isolating and overwhelming, especially when you’re navigating loss, change, and uncertainty. In this episode, we hear powerful stories from caregivers who share their experiences of finding strength, comfort, and practical support through a faith-based caregiving community. This episode is a reminder that you don’t have…
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Today, I speak with Danielle, one of my students in the Connected Parent Mastermind group. We discussed the significance of connection and how providing our children with emotional support during intense moments can positively impact future interactions. During our conversation, Danielle shared a story about an incident that occurred while she was …
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Communicating with a loved one with dementia can feel like learning a new language. The usual ways we reassure and converse may no longer work as their cognitive world shifts. In this episode, we dive into meaningful communication strategies that help caregivers connect with their loved ones, avoiding frustration and honoring the truth in compassio…
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What happens when the desire for order and control in our lives clashes with the free-spirited nature of our children? Today, I delve into the challenges of overcoming control freak tendencies in parenting and finding a harmonious balance that respects both our needs and those of our children. I'll share my personal journey from being a self-confes…
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Is your child a sweet, sensitive kid who hits others? Could your child's aggressive behaviors be a sign of unmet needs? Today, I discuss the complex world of childhood aggression as we explore this topic with Samantha and Phil, parents who are grappling with their six-year-old son’s aggressive tendencies. Together, we unpack how aggression in child…
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As we welcome 2025, many of us are reflecting on how we can make the year ahead better. For dementia caregivers, the question takes on a deeper meaning: how can you manage caregiving challenges while finding peace, joy, and purpose in the journey? In this special New Year’s episode, we explore practical strategies, grounded in faith, to help caregi…
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Have you ever wondered why your loved one with dementia suddenly isolates themselves or acts differently? In this coaching-style episode, we explore the importance of uncovering patterns and triggers behind dementia-related behaviors. By becoming a “dementia detective,” caregivers can better understand the “why” behind the “what” and create a safer…
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What should you do when Grandma threatens to punish your kids during family gatherings? How can we balance the need for extended family connections with our desire to parent consciously? In today’s episode, I explore the delicate art of navigating family dynamics during the holidays—or at any time—while staying true to our ideals of connected paren…
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The Christmas season often brings both joy and challenges, especially for dementia caregivers. How do you balance celebrating this special time while ensuring peace and simplicity for your loved one? In this heartfelt episode, we explore how to center Christmas on Christ, simplify traditions, and create meaningful memories, even during a caregiving…
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What makes empathy a powerful tool in setting limits with your kids? What if letting go of control could transform family dynamics? In today's conversation with Raley, a mother of three teens, she shares her remarkable journey from a disconnected, tumultuous household to one filled with empathy and connection. Raley opens up about her struggles wit…
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Have you noticed your loved one with dementia having outbursts or aggressive responses? Do you feel like you're constantly walking on eggshells around caregivers or family? In this episode, we explore why these behaviors happen and practical strategies to address them, so you can navigate this journey with confidence and faith. Caregiving is overwh…
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Having a teen is as hard as having a newborn! All the firsts and all the angst, let’s face it, the stakes are really high, and we parents worry tremendously about our children, and the teen years can really exacerbate our worry and stress. What I know works is connection, but many times, parents pull away from their teens because the teens are tryi…
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Is Your Toddler Testing Your Limits? Here’s How to Turn No into Cooperation. Have you ever resorted to reverse psychology just to get your strong-willed toddler to brush their teeth? What if there were a kinder, more effective way to gain their cooperation? In today’s episode, I share some practical strategies to foster a harmonious and cooperative…
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Have you ever told your loved one they have dementia, only to be met with anger or disbelief? It’s one of the most challenging situations caregivers face—trying to explain something their loved one simply can’t understand. In this episode, we uncover the concept of anosognosia—a condition where the brain doesn’t recognize the reality of cognitive d…
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Do you ever feel frustrated when caring for your loved one with dementia? It’s easy to forget that their brain no longer processes information the way it used to. In this coaching episode, we explore how adjusting expectations and understanding your loved one’s cognitive reality can help you manage frustration and improve the caregiving experience.…
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Is your approach to restricting electronics actually fostering sneaky behavior in your child? What if instead of wrestling over electronics, we focused on fostering genuine moments of togetherness? In today’s episode, we venture into the intricate relationship our kids have with their devices and discover practical, connective ways to navigate this…
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Caregiving for a loved one with dementia can feel like navigating an emotional maze without a map. How do we find strength when challenges keep piling up? In this special episode, real caregivers from around the world share their heartfelt struggles, victories, and the game-changing role their Christian faith plays in their journey. Are you feeling…
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Are you caught in the cycle of correction and control in your parenting journey? Today, I am joined by Nadia, a parent who bravely shares her journey from a place of control to discovering the impact of connective parenting. Nadia candidly shares her experiences of shedding the instinct to correct and control and embracing empathy and connection in…
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Have you ever thought about how many decisions go into something as simple as brushing your teeth? For dementia caregivers, these micro-decisions highlight the challenges their loved ones face daily. In this live coaching session, we explore practical strategies to help caregivers support loved ones with cognitive impairments while maintaining thei…
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Can we truly control our children, or are we simply deluding ourselves? Imagine a world where we don't force our kids to do things, but instead, they genuinely want to cooperate because of the loving relationship we share. Today, I explore why letting go of control can lead to a more harmonious and joyful parenting journey. Many believe that trying…
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Araminta was struggling with her child's behavioral issues when she discovered Peace and Parenting, which proved to be a lifesaver for her. After signing up for personal coaching the most important lesson she gained was that her son understood the difference between right and wrong, but lacked the ability to regulate his emotions. With this knowled…
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One of the most challenging aspects of caregiving is telling your loved one they have dementia. How do you approach such a sensitive subject with love and clarity, especially when denial or lack of awareness plays a role? In this episode, we address this question and offer compassionate guidance rooted in both practical wisdom and faith. Are you st…
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Caregiving is a journey of constant learning, adapting, and advocating. In this special live coaching session, we hear from Vicki, a caregiver for her husband, Bob, who faces Parkinson’s and cognitive challenges. Her story reflects the resilience and resourcefulness required to navigate the complexities of caregiving while leaning on faith and comm…
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What if the everyday moments with your kids held the secret to building a stronger bond? Imagine transforming those challenging instances of whining, fighting, or acting out into opportunities for deeper connection and understanding. Today, I’ll share with you some subtle yet powerful ways to enhance connection with your children without adding ext…
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As Thanksgiving approaches, how can you cultivate gratitude even amidst the challenges of caregiving? In this special episode, we explore how Christian caregivers can embrace thankfulness in their role, drawing from Scripture and a Kingdom-focused perspective. This Thanksgiving, consider what it means to be a caregiver from a Kingdom-focused perspe…
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What happens when a teen’s risk-taking behavior leads to serious injuries? Balancing safety and freedom is a challenge many parents face, especially when dealing with sports-loving teenagers. Today, I sit down with Kelli, a mother from Utah, who navigates this tricky landscape after her son suffered a string of concussions. How do you keep your kid…
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Have you ever thought about how you view dementia caregiving? Is it a challenge to overcome or an emotional struggle that tests your faith? In this episode, we explore how caregiving can be both an obstacle to tackle and friction that shapes your spiritual growth. So, which is caregiving for you right now: an obstacle to solve or friction to overco…
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How do you navigate the emotional and physical challenges of caregiving when life throws you unexpected storms? In this episode, we hear from Cheryl, a caregiver facing not only the demands of caring for her mother but also the aftermath of a hurricane that disrupted her life. Through a live coaching session, we explore practical tips and faith-bas…
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What happens when you choose not to engage in a fight with your child? Can you handle a power struggle with your child without losing your temper? We all want to navigate those heated moments with grace, empathy, and understanding, even when your child is completely offline. In this episode, I discuss the multifaceted approach to maintaining a harm…
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What do you do when caregiving feels overwhelming, and every task is met with resistance or uncertainty? This episode offers real-life insights from caregivers navigating the complexities of dementia caregiving during a live “Ask the Dementia Coach” session. Through practical advice and faith-centered guidance, we learn strategies to help caregiver…
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Are your children constantly fighting and you’re at your wits' end on how to handle it? What if the key to resolving sibling rivalry doesn’t lie in punishments but in fostering deeper connections? Join me today as I welcome Sandra, a mother from Egypt who seeks advice on improving her two daughters' tumultuous relationship. In this episode, we dive…
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Have you ever wondered how faith can reshape your caregiving journey? This episode marks the one-year anniversary of the podcast and serves as a heartfelt reflection on its growth, mission, and vision for the future. Rooted in Ecclesiastes 3, we are reminded that there is a time for everything, including the sanctifying journey of caregiving. Are y…
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What does it take to navigate the ups and downs of caregiving with faith and resilience? In this episode, we hear from Tracy, a caregiver balancing the demands of caring for her aging mother. Through a live coaching session, we explore the emotional struggles, practical challenges, and spiritual growth that come with caregiving. Are you a caregiver…
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Are you feeling at the end of your rope, wondering how to keep calm when everything around you is chaotic? You’re not alone. In this episode, I’ll give you some practical strategies for those moments when staying calm seems impossible. From the importance of recognizing when a situation is truly an emergency to the value of walking away momentarily…
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Ever wonder what it truly feels like for your loved one living with dementia? In this episode, we explore the sensory and cognitive challenges they face daily through an eye-opening dementia simulation experience. By understanding these challenges, caregivers can adapt communication strategies to better support their loved ones. Living with dementi…
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How can playing more and disciplining less lead to a happier household? Today, you'll hear Ashlena's remarkable journey to connected parenting as she shares how her family transitioned from turmoil to tranquility. In this heartfelt episode, Ashlena, a dedicated member of our community, opens up about her challenging yet rewarding transformation. Sh…
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Have you ever considered that there might be two ways to approach caregiving—either by default or by design? In this thought-provoking episode, we discuss the importance of intentionality in dementia caregiving. Are you reacting to daily challenges as they come, or are you actively shaping your caregiving journey with purpose and planning? Understa…
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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiver anxiety? In this episode, we explore strategies to reduce stress and find peace while caring for a loved one with dementia. Drawing inspiration from Psalm 127, we are reminded that God offers us rest and strength to face each day, even when anxiety feels all-consuming. A balanced caregiving journey involves nurturin…
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Do boundaries and limits really matter in parenting? Have you ever wondered if the secret to a more harmonious parenting journey lies in how we set and manage boundaries with our children? Today, I tackle the often confounding topic of boundaries. I’ll unravel misconceptions about boundaries and explain that they aren't about controlling our childr…
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Are you a caregiver balancing family relationships while trying to support a loved one with dementia? In this special coaching session, we meet Tommy, a devoted grandson who wants to help his grandmother with dementia but isn’t the primary decision-maker. His journey offers insights on how to navigate complex family dynamics, communicate effectivel…
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What happens when empathizing with your child seems to backfire? Should we apologize when they have big feelings? Is it possible that our efforts to validate their feelings might actually increase their frustration? Today, I'm joined by Nandini, a passionate mom to a 7-year-old daughter. Nandini shares her experiences and parenting dilemmas, sparki…
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Does hearing the same distressing words from your loved one with dementia leave you feeling helpless? For caregivers like Cheryl, managing repetitive, emotionally charged phrases such as “Help me, I’m dying” is a daily struggle. This glimpse into our group coaching program shares practical ways to handle these difficult moments with more peace and …
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Have you ever considered that the way you think could transform your caregiving journey? In this episode, we explore the power of your mind—specifically the reticular activating system (RAS)—and how it can help you find peace, purpose, and even self-love in the midst of dementia caregiving. Our RAS is part of God’s intricate design for our minds, h…
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Are you fighting an uphill battle with your child's “defiance”? What if defiance wasn’t something to squash but an invitation to connect? Today, I’m turning the traditional parenting playbook on its head and exploring how to respond compassionately to our kids when they push back. Often, when our kids push back, we instinctively react with frustrat…
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