Best Datingafter40 Podcasts (2024)

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"State of Date" Meditation/Prep Talk 5:35

5h ago5:35

5:35

If you have found value in this podcast or in this meditation, please consider supporting and keeping The Later Dater Today ad-free here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/later_lakshmi Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and culture podcast PIVOT with Kara Swisher & Scott Galloway. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/best-friend…

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#45 How to Get Into a "State of Date" 13:38

4d ago13:38

13:38

Lakshmi is taking a one month hiatus. Want to support her milestone of 45 episodes and keep The Later Dater Today ad-free? Consider throwing her a few bucks. https://www.buymeacoffee.com/later_Lakshmi Stay tuned for a Bonus Episode with the meditation pulled out for easy use. Later Dater today episodes referenced in this meditation Everyone's a Mus…

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#44 How to Play the "Mid-Range" Game 17:44

11d ago17:44

17:44

We assign moral judgment to ideas of how long or short a relationship goal is. But what if distance has nothing to do with whether or not a trip is worth it? A great companion episode to this is "Longer Doesn't Always Mean Stronger." Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and culture podcast PIVOT with Kara Swisher & Scott Gallow…

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#43 How To Do A "Crush Audit" 23:45

18d ago23:45

23:45

The companion episode to this is Episode 19: The Death of The Crush Crushes are an incredibly important part our heart's history. As a Later Dater you may not have looked closely at people at moments where you developed a crush. It's worth taking a minute to look closely as these as you embark or keep on keeping on in your dating journey. Ditch the…

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#42 How to Set Yourself Up & The Lodge Line 11:50

26d ago11:50

11:50

This episode includes tips on how to help the people who want to set you up, describe you in way that is about more than simply how great you are. One that paints a picture that might stick with someone long before they meet you. For more detail and color on crafting a set up story listen to Lakshmi's interview on the Pivot Podcast! Lakshmi was nam…

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#41 The Unlisted Approach 18:30

1M ago18:30

18:30

It's understandable that we make lists to keep us organized and focused on what we want. But where does that kind of approach actually help and where is it actually inefficient? References in this episode Episode 39: Finding Connection In Contrast Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and culture podcast PIVOT with Kara Swisher …

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#40 "Will I Ever Feel That Way Again?": Listener Question from Gabe, 57 18:20

2M ago18:20

18:20

After 20 years of marriage, Gabe, 57 is a year into his dating journey and he's wondering if he'll ever feel "that way" again. Let's get clear on all the kinds of experiences, moments and feelings that you have to look forward to as a Later Dater. Breaking these down and getting clear can change how you date. Mentioned in this episode: "I haven't d…

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#39 Finding Connection in Contrast and Differences 21:35

2M ago21:35

21:35

Share this with anyone who thinks that they "must" date someone who has the same relationship history as them (divorced, kids, didn't marry, widowed) etc. The best part about Later Daters today is the diversity of choices that were made by people. Listen in as Lakshmi walks you through how you think about connecting even if you lived very different…

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#38 Ask For Focus Instead of a Relationship 16:08

2M ago16:08

16:08

Be sure to follow on Instagram as we begin bringing concepts from the podcast to life. https://www.instagram.com/the_later_dater_today In this episode we'll walk you through a plan for how to ask for focus - which might actually make more sense in today's world where our attention can be splintered across devices, screens, thoughts and yes, people.…

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Valentine's Bonus: The Afterlife Set-Up 32:37

2M ago32:37

32:37

A much longer format and style than the Later Dater Today podcast, we bring you the true story of two 80 somethings who reconnected and fell in love during the pandemic after 40 years apart. This is more "Golden" than "Later" but a true and hopeful story has no age. Enjoy! To read more about the precursor podcast to The Later Dater Today, read Vani…

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#37 The Root of Finding the Right Person 13:06

2M ago13:06

13:06

It's been a big week and it will be a big week. Why might it be more important to think of reasons to root for someone rather than trying to figure out if they're right for you? It's time to mention the relationship of the year without having them be the central spectacle. There is honestly something to be learned from the unfolding of their relati…

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#36 Signs of Success vs Signs of Striving 15:37

2M ago15:37

15:37

Success seems like a quality we should look for in.people we date. But what is success and what if something like the quality of striving is more important now? Maybe you're wondering what striving is. Listen in as Lakshmi talks about the difference and offers tools on how to assess the degree to which someone is striving in their life. Mentioned i…

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#35 Artificial Intelligence And The Later Dater 22:55

2M ago22:55

22:55

An important overview of what to expect as AI continues to unfold itself into modern dating culture. The Later Dater Today is about more than how to date today - it's also about understanding what's happening in dating and where it's headed so that you can navigate it all. To hear more in depth coverage of AI and the Future of Dating check out the …

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#34 The Issue With Dating "Goals" 16:38

3M ago16:38

16:38

Listen in on a new way to think about the dating goals that matter today for a Later Dater. It was way less to do with how much you date but rather how you interact with the world - keeping your interaction and connection muscles strong. A few episodes are referenced to revisit and actually apply the lesson outlined in the episode in addition to si…

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#33 Go Ahead and Age Yourself 18:09

3M ago18:09

18:09

Let's discuss one dimension of "age" culture around the idea of what it means to "age yourself". Lakshmi dives into these common expressions that can feel more like we should hide our rage rather than use it as a point of connection; especially between Later Daters. And you'll hear a practical way to rewire whatever you think about your age as she …

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#32 Organic Connections Today and The Power of Tupperware 28:45

3M ago28:45

28:45

Let's dive into the gradual decline of everyday organic moments instead of any "resolution" type content, This isn't meant to be a bummer, it's meant to remind you of things we've lost along the way. It's not just tech and the pandemic. And if we understand a bit more about what happened we can tap into some of our 20th Century wiring:) Lakshmi was…

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#31 Rethinking Wasted Time In Dating 21:30

4M ago21:30

21:30

Conversations about modern dating can often revolve around an intense desire to "not waste time". Let's dig into it. As we get older, we might feel like time is not on our side, but maybe it's on our side in a new way. If you have some time to think more about time, we recommend Episode 15: "Longer Doesn't Always Mean Stronger" Lakshmi was named am…

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#30 The Heartbreak Plan For Later Daters 26:49

4M ago26:49

26:49

After many conversations with Later Daters, Lakshmi heard something to the effect of "I just can't get hurt or risk having my heartbroken as I date." We get it. So let's take a look at this common concern and talk about it before, instead of after, it happens. Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and culture podcast PIVOT with …

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#29 What Gen Z Understands About Dating, Why It Matters and Why They Love Gen X 14:15

4M ago14:15

14:15

Between the introduction of Tinder and the 2020 pandemic we have a decade of swiping behind us. Tinder made its mark because it brought an influx of singles (20 somethings) into a dating pool that nobody ever thought they'd find themselves in. Now that same demographic but a different generation is rejecting it. What can we learn about how to bette…

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#28 What Do You Find Attractive...Today? 15:25

4M ago15:25

15:25

Listen in as Lakshmi shares how Later Daters are rethinking and revisiting what they even think is attractive. This is about more than just exploring other "types" this is about taking a look at what might be attractive today...what attributes, traits and qualities matter to you more now? They may or may not be what they used to be. Lakshmi was nam…

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#27 Beyond "The Gratitude" Question: A Thanksgiving Episode 8:13

5M ago8:13

8:13

Not to knock the tradition of asking "What are you grateful for?" at Thanksgiving but with all we now know about the importance of questions there's got to be something better. Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and culture podcast PIVOT with Kara Swisher & Scott Galloway. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/best-friends-of…

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#26 The Role of Place And Space On A Date 8:01

5M ago8:01

8:01

Ever think: I need to come up with better date ideas? Before you begin googling "novel date ideas" first consider the role of space and how to make the circumstances around you work for you. In this short 9 minute episode Lakshmi discusses how environment might affect your ability to get to know people and how you can make this work for you. Lakshm…

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#25 It's Easy To Meet But Harder To Connect: A Key Later Dater Insight 17:38

5M ago17:38

17:38

This simple but important insight lives at the center of The Later Dater Today: It's Become Easy To Meet But Harder To Connect. Later Dater Today Host, Lakshmi walks you through the difference between meeting and connecting and how simply understand this difference can make all the difference. Learn more at www.thelaterdatertoday.com Follow us on I…

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#24 Meg Ryan's New Movie and Reconnecting With Someone From Your Past 14:37

6M ago14:37

14:37

What Happens Later Trailer, Starring Meg Ryan & David Duchovny https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zceSigCGWSQ The Afterlife Set-up: Two 80-somethings reconnect in the pandemic after being set-up by a spirit from the beyond. Hear the incredible story here: https://www.pairedbythepeople.com/featuredepisodes/project-three-x6djm-dz7lj Who's a Later Dater?…

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#23 "I've Never Been Married And Feel Like It's A Mark Against Me": Listener Question from Susanna, 46 18:34

6M ago18:34

18:34

Why you should listen to this episode: Not getting married isn't and shouldn't feel like a mark against you. But it's easy to feel or think that it is. But EVERY Later Dater can potentially feel like there is a label slapped on them (divorced, never married, widowed, married multiple times). It's what we make it mean that matters. Who's a Later Dat…

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#22 Don't Date Someone You Like 11:42

6M ago11:42

11:42

Why you should listen to this episode: Being so focused on "liking" someone might actually be getting in the way of connecting with them. Who's a Later Dater? Anyone who feels they are dating later in life, or feels like they are just getting their head wrapped around how they want to date in today's world. Dating later in life has changed. And Lat…

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#21 Later Dater Labels and Stigmas 10:33

6M ago10:33

10:33

Why you should listen to this episode: Stigmas can be ways that we label and categorize people and ourselves in the modern dating world. But what are stigmas really and how can they be something that might even bring you closer to people you meet? Who's a Later Dater? Anyone who feels they are dating later in life, or feels like they are just getti…

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#20 The Shape of Your Heart vs. Your Relationship History 10:40

6M ago10:40

10:40

Why you should listen to this episode: As a Later Dater you might be looking for different ways and words to describe where you've been and what you're looking for now. The idea of taking a look at the "shape" of your heart might actually tell you more than the standard question "what's your relationship history?" Who's a Later Dater? Anyone who fe…

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#19 The Death of The Crush: And Why Your Past Crushes Matter Today 15:27

7M ago15:27

15:27

Why you should listen to this episode: As a Later Dater tapping into memories of crushes can offer clues to who you were and what you found attractive before a dating culture driven by dating apps. Who's a Later Dater? Anyone who feels they are dating later in life, or feels like they are just getting their head wrapped around how they want to date…

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#18 Top Traits of Later Daters Today 11:36

7M ago11:36

11:36

Why you should listen to this episode: Being a great Later Dater means way more than building a good profile. We've become a culture so obsessed with marketing ourselves that we sometimes forget what it means to actually be good at dating. Who's a Later Dater? Anyone who feels they are dating later in life, or feels like they are just getting their…

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#17 How Do I Meet Women If I Don’t Want To Use Dating Apps?: Listener Question from Graham, 56 12:37

7M ago12:37

12:37

Why you should listen to this episode: The idea of meeting people outside of the apps is being asked more and more while it feels like there are fewer and fewer options for it. But as Later Daters you might actually have the skill and experience to be less reliant on the apps. Who's a Later Dater? Anyone who feels they are dating later in life, or …

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#16 "Being Open" as a Later Dater 14:28

7M ago14:28

14:28

Why you should listen to this episode: It's worth taking the time to think about exactly what you mean by "being open" when it comes to dating.Otherwise, "being open" can turn into concessions you're willing to make rather than possibilities you're willing to invite. Who's a Later Dater? Anyone who feels they are dating later in life, or feels like…

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#15 Longer Doesn't Always Mean Stronger: Better Ways To Measure Romantic Impact 11:10

8M ago11:10

11:10

Why you should listen to this episode: Length of time doesn't always equal strength and depth. Go ahead and have a little laugh, but this is an important thing to remember as a Later Dater so that you don't project to far into the future. Who's a Later Dater? Anyone who feels they are dating later in life, or feels like they are just getting their …

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#14 "I Haven't Dated Since 1999": Listener Question from Jennifer, 48 16:19

8M ago16:19

16:19

Why you should listen to this episode: A tendency among Later Daters is to let numbers get in the way of moving forward. Numbers seem like facts and simple true statements until we kick them around a bit. Whether its age, height, weight or years, it's worth building a solid relationship with the numbers in your life. Who's a Later Dater? Anyone who…

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#13 "I Don't Want To Repeat The Past": Listener Question from Mark, 52 11:30

8M ago11:30

11:30

Why you should listen to this episode: A common thought and block among Later Daters is "Will I repeat the past?" And while this seems like a smart high level strategy, it can actually keep you in confusion, swirl and wrap you in a nice cloak of judgmental energy. Who's a Later Dater? Anyone who feels they are dating later in life, or feels like th…

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#12 Heartbreak And The Later Dater Part 2: The Overlooked Value of Heartache 13:21

8M ago13:21

13:21

Why you should listen to this episode: In this 2nd part on heartbreak and heartache, Lakshmi goes into one of the easy-to-overlook benefits when you're moving through hurt and disappointment. Our culture talks more about heartbreak and heartache as things we must "get over" rather than things we might "get into." This refreshing perspective might h…

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#11 Do I Want To Deal With This? How to Listen to Someone Else's Less-Than-Perfect Past 9:19

9M ago9:19

9:19

Why you should listen to this episode: Lakshmi shares a strategy for Later Daters on how to skillfully listen and respond to a person's less than perfect past. Discover how to best build a connection when someone opens up about their perceived "baggage" and turn it into a connective experience you can feel good about. Who is a Later Dater? Anyone w…

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#10 Heartbreak and The Later Dater Part 1: Why You Never Want To Outgrow It 13:49

9M ago13:49

13:49

In this episode, Lakshmi explores one of the most universal human experiences - heartbreak - and why it is different for a Later Dater. Whether you're currently going through heartache or have in the past, this episode will provide insight and perspective for those looking to process and own this challenging and humbling experience. Learn more at w…

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#9 Baggage or Luggage? How To Think About Your Past 16:18

9M ago16:18

16:18

Lakshmi explores the idea of “baggage” in today’s dating culture and the sneaky way it can show up for Later Daters in particular. Sometimes weighing people like an anchor rather than filling them up with momentum and excitement about the future. Even terms like divorce, widow, infidelity, never married; they're not just words, they can shape our e…

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#8 The Problem With "The Numbers Game" 13:07

9M ago13:07

13:07

You've probably heard it before..."You have to get out there and play the numbers game." Lakshmi sheds light on why this belief can actually hurt your chances in dating. Listen to learn a different numbers game worth playing that will truly help Later Daters. Learn more at www.thelaterdatertoday.com. Be sure to follow The Later Dater Today on Insta…

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#7 From Sitting To Swiping: A Quick History of The Dating Industry 20:23

9M ago20:23

20:23

Making the most of dating today as a Later Dater means understanding how we got here...in episode 7, Lakshmi offers a short 20 minute history of key watershed moments in recent dating history and why they matter. For a much deeper look at what's happened in the past ten years, listen to episode one of Vox Media's Land of The Giants: Dating Games, w…

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#6 When Dating Feels Overwhelming: Intergalactic Dating Part 2 12:38

10M ago12:38

12:38

Dating has changed significantly in the past 10-20 years. Part 2 looks at an aspect of Intergalactic Dating that may be unique to Later Daters. Learn more at www.thelaterdatertoday.com. Be sure to follow The Later Dater Today on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_later_dater_today/ Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and…

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#5 Why Most Dating Advice is Sh*tty 13:25

10M ago13:25

13:25

Learn more at www.thelaterdatertoday.com. Be sure to follow The Later Dater Today on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_later_dater_today/ Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and culture podcast PIVOT with Kara Swisher & Scott Galloway. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/best-friends-of-pivot/id1073226719?i=1000639439…

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#4 When Dating Feels Overwhelming: Intergalactic Dating Part 1 18:23

10M ago18:23

18:23

In part 1 of this insightful 2-part series, Lakshmi invites Today's Later Daters to rethink the cosmic and often surreal experiences of modern dating through the lens of...Star Trek. Listen in on how lessons from voyaging in the vastness of outer space can help you better understand your own dating journey. Learn more at www.thelaterdatertoday.com.…

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#3 Everyone Is a Museum and Most of Us Stay in the Lobby 17:33

11M ago17:33

17:33

Stop with the "Give People A Chance". Listen in to how this simple metaphor can change your perspective on dating. It's another foundational Later Dater insight! Dating later in life has changed. The Later Dater Today is reimagining and rethinking what it means to date later in life. There are MANY reasons why someone might be dating later in life.…

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#2 We're All Dating All The Time 11:17

10M ago11:17

11:17

Dating Later in Life has changed. We are reimagine and thinking what it means to be dating later in life today. Learn one of the foundational concepts for Today's Later Dater, "We're All Dating All The Time". Lakshmi walks you through this key principle she brings to all her work around connection but especially when it comes to dating. Dating is n…

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#1 The Later Dater Today: Who, Why and What To Expect 16:17

10M ago16:17

16:17

An exciting introduction to The Later Dater Today, who that is, why now and what to expect. Learn more at www.thelaterdatertoday.com. Be sure to follow The Later Dater Today on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_later_dater_today/ Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and culture podcast PIVOT with Kara Swisher & Scott Gal…

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Welcome To The Later Dater Today 1:49

10M ago1:49

1:49

Why The Later Dater Today and Why Now. This short manifesto offers an overview and sneak peek behind the inspiration and thinking for The Later Dater Today. Be among the first for the super soft launch of the Later Dater Today. Learn more at www.thelaterdatertoday.com. Be sure to follow The Later Dater Today on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/…

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