The Hot Widows Club Podcast chronicles Crystal & Allie's grief journey, navigating a life they didn't choose. Widows who are tired as hell from raising kids, wiping asses, making decisions & being both parents; if you know, you know. Speaking freely about why being a widow sucks, they are simply pining for the love of their lives to come through the door one more time. Madly in love with their dead husbands, the duo fills the conversation with humor, life lessons, & a path forward. Yes, they ...
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Welcome to Hot Widowed Mess with your host, Heather! This podcast is dedicated to normalizing grief and embracing the wild ride of being a young widow. Join Heather as she explores the unfiltered realities of loss and healing, sprinkled with dark humor and candid discussions. She’ll shine a light on the unexpected challenges and experiences no one talks about, all while raising awareness about the importance of mental health during difficult times. Expect explicit content and raw honesty as ...
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Trafficking in equal parts movie spoilers and d*ck jokes, Paul Caiola and Erika Villalba explore nostalgic films and discuss how they've aged. 80s Movies! 90s Movies! Come dive into yesterday's pop culture today (and connect with the show on Instagram, BlueSky, and Threads)!
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In this episode of the Hot Widows Club podcast, Ally and Crystal welcome back Connie, the hot widow of Ryan and new to The Club Reagan, the hot widow of Todd as they share lighthearted banter, discuss the challenges of navigating life after loss, and reflect on the growth that comes from shared experiences. The episode also features a heartfelt sto…
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Honey, I Shrunk The Kids (1989) - Documentaries, Duran Duran & a Balanced Breakfast
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2:04:28From technology that kinda-sorta makes sense in The Net, Paul and Erika head into full on sci-fi territory for the Rick Moranis smash Honey, I Shrunk The Kids! The film inspires them to offer thoughts on fishing and camping, fall in love with an animatronic ant, and wonder at the different potential applications of a Shrink Ray…all while giving the…
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Mental Health Matters: Candid Conversations on Trauma and Healing
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54:58Send us a text In this powerful episode of Hot Widowed Mess, hosts Heather and special guest Lacey delve into the complex world of mental health and trauma. Join them as they candidly share their own experiences with trauma, exploring how it has shaped their lives, affected their interactions with the world, and influenced their perceptions of them…
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The Net (1995) - Email Attachments, Local News Reports & a Strangely Aggressive Furry
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2:04:21After a brief detour to Ancient Greece, Erika and Paul return to the present (kinda) to kick off Tech Month with Sandra Bullock and The Net! We can all revel in the nostalgia and the hilarity of the technology in this film…but are we prepared for what the film got right? That’s a question that can only be answered by listening to this episode! You …
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Finding Your GLOW: Grief, Growth, and the Beautiful Mess in Between
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1:01:38Send us a text Join host Heather along with special guests Ellen and Kelly for this heartfelt and transformative episode of Hot Widowed Mess. Together, they share their personal journeys through grief, unveiling the messy yet beautiful process of finding your glow again after loss. Discover how three incredible women, armed with their unique storie…
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300 - Corpse Walls, Hot Gates & a Wife Guy
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1:55:30All previous podcast rules are thrown out as Paul and Erika celebrate their 300th episode the only way they know how: by talking about Zack Snyder’s 2006 action epic 300! Your hosts have never offered their particular hilarious brand of film critique to such a recent release. Come journey back to Sparta with Gerard Butler, Lena Headey, Rodrigo Sant…
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Send us a text In this riveting episode of We Are Not the Same, we delve into the high-stakes courtroom drama surrounding Johnny Bravo. Charged with eight counts of stealing and trafficking Heather's stolen property, Johnny has perplexingly entered a plea of not guilty, after admitting to the detectives he in fact committed the crime, all the while…
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Only You - Heroic Nuns, Ouija Strategies & a Wig
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2:13:47The finale of romance month came so quickly (which is so not romantic)! But, nevertheless, here we are with our final film of February: 1994’s Only You starring Marisa Tomei, Robert Downey Jr, and, most importantly, BONNIE HUNT! After years, the Hunt For Hunt returns and your hosts have no choice but to celebrate. You can follow That Aged Well on B…
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Johnny Bravo: From Conman to Convict
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1:09:50Send us a text In this episode of We Are Not The Same, join hosts Lacey and Heather as they dive into the wild saga of Johnny Bravo's fall from grace! 😲 Hear Heather's firsthand account of being ensnared in his con and how the Spokane PD delivered some serious justice! 🚓✨ But hold on—there's more! Stick around for part two where we unveil fresh upd…
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Some Kind Of Wonderful - Teen Night Clubs, Stalkerish Behavior & a Tater Tot
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2:12:43It’s been a minute since Erika and Paul have looked at a John Hughes film, so come join them as they take on 1987’s Some Kind Of Wonderful! It’s a long-time favorite of Erika’s that, surprise surprise, Paul has never seen…will he agree with Erika’s nostalgic take? Or is the stage set for a battle royale?! You can follow That Aged Well on Bluesky (@…
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The Day My Husband Died: Heathers Heartbreaking Journey into Widowhood
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56:30Send us a text How do you honor a life lost in a split-second heroic act? Together with my best friend Laci, we unravel the deeply personal story of becoming a widow—a side of my life I've seldom shared. We journey back to the fateful day of June 26th, 2020, when an unforeseen river tragedy forever altered the course of my life. Through candid and …
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Ever After - Codpieces, Road Pirates & a British Da Vinci
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1:57:50We had to have a fairy tale during Romance Month, and we landed on a doozy: 1998’s Ever After! You know Paul and Erika are going to be giddy over any film that features a Barrymore, a Huston, AND a Lansbury (it’s true, look it up)! So, how does this Cinderella retelling age? Listen and find out! You can follow That Aged Well on Bluesky (@ThatAgedWe…
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How Grief Shapes Us and Laura’s Campground Dating Theory
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1:01:35Send us a text Join us in this enlightening and hilarious episode of Hot Widowed Mess as host Heather and guest Laura explore Laura’s unique Campground Dating Theory! They delve into the messy intersection of grief and dating, discussing how all forms of loss shape who we are and how we approach relationships. With humor and poignant moments of sel…
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City of Angels - Hot Shouldering, Smudges & a Rolling Rock
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2:10:54After a lovely month spent taking the piss out of TV shows, Erika and Paul are back on their usual beat: taking the piss out of movies! That Aged Well is celebrating romance all month and starting with 1998’s fantasy melodrama City Of Angels. “How do you talk to an angel?” you might be think-singing. Well, we don’t know, but thanks to this movie we…
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In this episode of the Hot Widows Club podcast, hosts Crystal and Ali are back after a long and deserved rest for the holiodays! They share personal updates, discuss the challenges of parenting during the holiday season, and reflect on their experiences with grief and loss. They explore the dynamics of sibling relationships, the pressures of co-par…
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From Grief to Growth: Mallory’s Journey into the Widows Club
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58:50Send us a text Join host Heather as she welcomes Mallory to the Hot Widowed Mess! In this heartfelt episode, Mallory shares her unique journey into the Widows Club and the challenges and triumphs of navigating life after loss. Hear her inspiring widow story of resilience, as she talks about embracing her new role as a solo parent while rediscoverin…
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ER - Makeshift Tracheotomies, Nurse’s Oaths & a Lippy Schoolteacher
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1:26:51Well, well, well, we’ve come to the end of January and our final nighttime soap (for now)...the medical drama that took the 90s by storm, ER! And this episode has everything, except the majority of the main cast of ER. But instead, it’s got Ewan MacGregor! Not a bad trade, overall! You can follow That Aged Well on Bluesky (@ThatAgedWell.bsky.social…
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Navigating the Hot Young Widows Club: Love, Laughter and Loss
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1:08:39Send us a text In this heartfelt yet hilariously candid episode of Hot Widowed Mess, host Heather welcomes special guest Mallory as they dive deep into life as members of the Hot Young Widows Club—yes, the club nobody wants to join but here they are, making the best of it! Join them as they share their personal journeys of resilience, awkward momen…
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7th Heaven - Doobying, Teen Widowers & a Weed-Dispensing Dog
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1:48:18That Aged Well is in the midst of Nighttime Soap Month, and after taking on two famously crazy ones, Paul and Erika are taking a left turn to watch an episode of the long-running family soap 7th Heaven. And not just any episode…they’re talking about the famous one that all revolves around a mystery joint that appears in the family home! Come one, c…
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Young Widowed & Dating: A Comedy of Misadventures and Mishaps
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46:44Send us a text Join Heather, your fearless host of "Hot Widowed Mess," as she welcomes fellow young widow Janelle for a candid conversation about dating after loss. In this episode, Heather and Janelle tackle the often-taboo topic of life as young widows navigating the dating scene. They share their personal experiences, highlighting the hilarious,…
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Dynasty - Servant Uniforms, Koi & a Vision In Plum
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1:26:31Nighttime Soaps Month continues with another fabled subject: all those scheming Carringtons over on Dynasty! Erika and Paul have again bypassed the pilot and gone straight for the good stuff…season 5, episode 29, titled Royal Wedding! Come along as they attempt to explain 5 seasons of soap opera nonsense to themselves, each other, and you all at on…
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The Widow Files: Embracing the Journey with Janelle
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49:22Send us a text In part two of "The Widow Files," host Heather continues the heartfelt discussion with guest Janelle, diving even deeper into their journeys of widowhood. They explore the significance of shared experiences and the power of connection during a time of profound loss. From uplifting moments of joy to the challenges of navigating life a…
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Melrose Place - Marinades, Hooker Business & a Courtyard Pool
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1:35:38Happy New Year, listeners! Paul and Erika thought they’d kick off with a TV month, so we’re doing nighttime soap operas all week, and starting with one of the titans…Melrose Place! And they’re not even doing the pilot this time, they’re diving right into one of the most infamous episodes in the whole show…the one with the wig reveal (you know what …
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The Widow Files: Resilience and Hope Through Loss
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45:45Send us a text Join Janelle as she opens the door to the raw and real world of widowhood. In this episode, she sits down with Heather, a fellow young widow, to reflect on the unexpected journey of grief and resilience. Together, they peel back the layers of their stories, shedding light on the heartbreak of sudden loss while discovering the glimmer…
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Hot Frosty - Nipple Accuracy, Small Towns & a Full John Waters
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1:06:43Happy holidays listeners! Paul and Erika take you on their annual trip all over the world to read their international reviews (and offer some alternate titles for the show) before discussing Netflix’s Hot Frosty! You can follow That Aged Well on Bluesky (@ThatAgedWell.bsky.social), Instagram (@ThatAgedWell), and Threads (@ThatAgedWell)! SUPPORT US …
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Welcome the New Year with Psychic Medium Tesa
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44:43Send us a text Join us as we step into 2025 with open hearts and minds! In this special episode, Tesa, a certified psychic medium, will guide us through the cosmic energies of the New Year, sharing insights on what the universe has in store for us. 🔑 Discover: - Key trends for 2025 - How to set intentions that resonate with your soul - Personal ane…
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Bridget Jones’s Diary - Toxic Exes, Turkey Curry & a Casting Coup
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2:00:07*perfect British accent* Well, here we are, chums…Erika and Paul are chuffed to be taking a lookie-loo at 2001’s Renée Zellweger vehicle Bridget Jones’s Diary. Does it leave them simply knackered? Or do they think it’s bloody brilliant? Don’t be a numpty…download this episode onto your mobile immediately and find out! Cheers! You can follow That Ag…
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Send us a text In this episode, join host Heather and special guest Lacey as they tackle the wild and sometimes wacky world of dating in 2024! From the latest trends to the hottest new lingo, they explore everything from bread-crumbing to cobwebbing, while Lacey introduces her revolutionary term that's even better than ghosting! Get ready for hilar…
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Scrooged - Toilet Seat Covers, Vodka Tabs & a Masterpiece
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2:07:56Can we make doing some adaptation of A Christmas Carol a yearly tradition? Maybe, ‘cause this is now two years in a row! Paul and Erika are talking about 1988’s Scrooged and are taking the chance to helpfully explain VCRs, Xerox pranks, and Tab to the youth. Teach the children! You can follow That Aged Well on Bluesky (@ThatAgedWell.bsky.social), I…
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Send us a text Join your favorite podcast duo, Heather and Lacey, in THE CON Part 2, as they dive back into the whirlpool of drama surrounding none other than the iconic Johnny Bravo! Just when we thought we'd seen the last of him, shocking new developments have emerged that you won't want to miss! Tune in for all the laughs, gossip, and jaw-droppi…
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The Family Stone - Chekhov’s Nap, In-Law Etiquette & an NPR Tote Bag
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2:10:20Erika and Paul are later in the timeline than ever before as they dive into 2005’s The Family Stone, starring Diane Keaton, Sarah Jessica Parker, and…like, so many more people! Why go so late? Well, if you’re asking, you’ve probably never seen The Family Stone. You can follow That Aged Well on Bluesky (@ThatAgedWell.bsky.social), Instagram (@ThatAg…
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Messages from Beyond: Connecting with Tesa
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48:43Send us a text Join us this week as we delve into the mysterious world of the afterlife with Tesa, a certified psychic medium! In this episode, Tesa shares her remarkable journey of connecting grieving souls with their loved ones who have passed on. Discover how Tesa uses her unique abilities to bring comfort and closure, and hear stories that prov…
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Planes, Trains, And Automobiles - Airport Reading, Holiday Celebrations & a Bus Sing-Along
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1:59:29Out with the old and in with the…less old? Paul and Erika are leaving Classic Movie Month behind for the year (sob!) and heading right into Holiday Movie Month with the Steve Martin-John Candy two-hander Planes, Trains, and Automobiles! A true relic from the time when people had jobs like “Shower Curtain Ring Salesman,” join That Aged Well as they …
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SOBER REFLECTIONS; Utilizing alcohol to cope?
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1:01:51Send us a text In this episode your hosts Heather and Lacey dive deep into the complex relationship they had with alcohol and the ways it impacted their lives while exploring the fine line between enjoying a drink and using alcohol as a coping mechanism. Featuring candid conversations, personal stories, insights, and struggles, that highlight a jou…
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TALES OF DECEPTION: The Con of Johnny Bravo
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47:25Send us a text WELCOME TO SEASON 4 Join Lacey and Heather as they explore the ULTIMATE CON—an insane story that’s got Netflix clamoring to make it their next true crime hit. Imagine the look of Johnny Bravo paired with the smooth charm of the Tinder Swindler. This tale is packed with twists and turns you won't want to miss!…
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All About Eve - Gowns With Pockets, Preparation Martinis & a 17-Year-Old From Wisconsin
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2:18:16It’s the final week of November, and That Aged Well’s Patrons have spoken…it’s time to do a dive into 1950’s classic All About Eve! Bette Davis! Celeste Holm! Thelma Ritter! And, of course, the one and only Anne Baxter! Look, y’all know Erika and Paul love an Anne Baxter performance, and trust that they looooooooove this Anne Baxter performance! Yo…
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Willy Wonka And The Chocolate Factory - Life Lessons, Fudge Rooms & a List of 64-Year-Olds
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1:58:31Paul and Erika leave Hitchcock and the 40s behind to take a deep dive into 1971’s Willy Wonka And the Chocolate Factory! Quick question, was anyone out there terrified by this trippy adaptation of Roald Dahl’s novel? Because that would track… You can follow That Aged Well on Twitter (@ThatAgedWellPod), Instagram (@ThatAgedWell), Threads (@ThatAgedW…
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Rope - Nut Boys, Candelabras & a Terrible Dinner Party
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1:59:401948: the year Alfred Hitchcock’s Rope was released, and also the approximate number of homosexuals featured in Alfred Hitchcock’s Rope. Ah, we kid, we kid…there’s five at the most. Two at the least. Three at the most likely. But hey, three homosexuals in a 1948 movie? And one of them is Jimmy Stewart?? What more could you hope for??? You can follo…
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Darling, you fill every room with Laughter
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59:38In this episode the Hot Widows welcome Dan, the very hot widower of Melissa. The Hot Widows Club Podcast chronicles Crystal & Allie's grief journey, navigating a life they didn't choose. Widows who are tired as hell from raising kids, wiping asses, making decisions & being both parents; if you know, you know. Speaking freely about why being a widow…
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Some Like It Hot - Madonna Puns, Buttermilk & a Tuck For The Gods
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1:56:47Welcome to November, aka Classic Movie Month on That Aged Well! We’re kicking it off with another Billy Wilder film, 1959’s Some Like It Hot…has this man ever made a bad film? If so, Erika and Paul haven’t found it yet. Come listen (and maybe unwind just a bit…it’s a stressful week) as the silliness rises to extremely high levels while your hosts s…
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BONUS EPISODE! Perfectly Good Moment (w/ Amanda Jane Stern)
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50:10What is this? A treat the day after Halloween? Please enjoy this bonus episode with the lovely Amanda Jane Stern, who was kind enough to join us and discuss her film Perfectly Good Moment (available now on VOD)! You can follow That Aged Well on Twitter (@ThatAgedWellPod), Instagram (@ThatAgedWell), Threads (@ThatAgedWell)! SUPPORT US ON PATREON FOR…
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I Know What You Did Last Summer - Plural Possessives, Exclamation Points & a Shipping Container Gym
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2:09:34Well, it’s everyone’s favorite time of year…that special Monday where Paul watches a slasher film! But still, he just got through Jaws, so surely a silly little lark like I Know What You Did Last Summer couldn’t be too scary, right? After all, Sarah Michelle Gellar is there, and what is Buffy Summers if not a comfort, right? In any case, come liste…
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Jaws - Vengeance, Sharkenkägen & a Brave Little Dildo
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2:00:11Okay, we had our fun last week and now we are back to horror classics with 1975’s Jaws, a film that Paul swore up and down he would never watch. Well, the thing about Paul is that he’s easily swayed by public opinion. A bunch of requests combined with Erika’s enthusiasm got Paul to watch Jaws! Did he like it? Is he furious with Erika?? Is the podca…
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Haunted Honeymoon - Donald Duck Play, Polka Dot Ruffles & a Minimum Amount Of Drag
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1:57:53We came back hot with a classic and followed up with…well, I don’t think anyone is going to confuse this film for a classic. But it features classics! Classics like Gene Wilder and Dom DeLuise and GILDA RADNER! So who could complain? It’s possible you’ve never even heard of this film, but fear not…Paul and Erika will do their level best to explain …
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From Dallas, Texas, Tim, the hot widower of Jill and former Nebraskan, joins Allie and Crystal on the Hot Widows Club Podcast. | The Hot Widows Club Podcast chronicles Crystal & Allie's grief journey, navigating a life they didn't choose. Widows who are tired as hell from raising kids, wiping asses, making decisions & being both parents; if you kno…
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Carrie - Majestic Hair, Locker Room Fantasies & a Heavy Metal Jesus Figurine
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2:01:34Well, WELCOME BACK!! The long September break is over! Erika and Paul have returned just in time for Spooky October, and they have brought with them a horror classic: 1976’s Carrie! It’s not just that Sissy Spacek, Betty Buckley, Amy Irving, Nancy Allen, PJ Soles, and Piper Laurie are SERVING, it’s that the film raises so many important questions. …
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In this episode the Hot Widows welcome Mark , the very hot widower of Alison. / The Hot Widows Club Podcast chronicles Crystal & Allie's grief journey, navigating a life they didn't choose. Widows who are tired as hell from raising kids, wiping asses, making decisions & being both parents; if you know, you know. Speaking freely about why being a wi…
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Can’t Hardly Wait - Yearbook Quotes, Heart Breasts & a Frosted Pot Brownie
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2:02:44Y’all, it’s finally time…Paul and Erika are watching Can’t Hardly Wait, a film about a high school graduation released the very same year that your hosts graduated high school! We like to think that the hosts have aged beautifully, but how about this movie? The jury is out, the opinions are flying, and your hosts are headed out on vacation after th…
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Stand By Me - Scrot Leeches, Blueberry Pie & a Working Definition of “Fun”
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1:58:06The year is 1986, the film is Rob Reiner’s Stand By Me, and the hosts are crying (again). Seriously, are Erika and Paul crying a lot more lately? Do they both need to toughen up, or should they be celebrated for letting their emotions run so freely? In any case, enjoy this episode on the movie that gave us Jerry O’Connell, Corey Feldman, Wil Wheato…
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Summer School - Stoner Alcoholics, Wondermutt & a Damned Good Heterosexual
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2:01:55We asked for summer vacation movies, and y’all answered, and y’all agreed on one film and one film only. Paul and Erika are nothing if not eager to please their listeners, so they are diving into the Carl-Reiner-directed, Mark-Harmon-starring, reality-defying production that is 1987’s Summer School! You can follow That Aged Well on Twitter (@ThatAg…
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