In this episode js and I discuss our experience at FetishCon 2023. Spoiler Alert... We had a great time!!! We got to meet and visit with some great vendors and meet some very interesting people. Links to some of the vendors mentioned in this podcast: For some great latex products check out The Latex Store: https://thelatexstore.com/ For amazing cor…

Well after a few months of absolute craziness your favorite Owner/property couple are back and dusting off the podcasting equipment and getting back into the swing of things. In this episode you will get some insight into our evolution in both thoughts and actions as well as some of our upcoming plans including FetishCon 2023. We hope that you will…

What do we consider extreme??? Well in this episode we discuss our thoughts on what or what is not extreme in the BDSM, D/s or Owner/property realm. Although we don't cover every topic nor do we get too in depth on each, we do share our thoughts on a multitude of subjects regarding extremes. How we are able to move each others opinion's on each by …

Well, well, well... After a few months of too much work and no play, your favorite Owner/property couple have finally returned. In this episode, js. discusses her latest epiphany, "enjoying and relishing the journey" while her Owner discusses his shortcomings in keeping the relationship moving and developing in the right dynamic. The moral of the s…

In this SEVERELY delayed episode js and I take on listener questions and other banter. We cover topics like locks, "funishment", playing when you have teens around the house, and going on dates. All in all it is just a fun conversation. Thanks for listening and as always you can follow the fun at the following: Twitter: @jssontrou @jssontrousowner …

A look back at the fun and frolic of FetCon 2022. Thanks for listening and as always you can follow the fun at the following: Twitter: @jssontrou @jssontrousowner @objectifymyloveBy JS Sontrou and her Owner

Do you have the discipline to listen to us banter about discipline? In this episode we dig into the idea of discipline from the standpoint of having, or creating, the discipline to do what it is we strive for in our relationship (we don't go disciplining js for her infractions, however fun that might be). Discipline is at the heart of what we do to…

In this episode we explore Power Exchanges and our differing definitions of them. We discuss our relationship, the way we practice our power exchange while looking at others to determine what their exchanges might be like. j.s. reads an offer she made to her Owner many years ago that has become the definition of our Total Power Exchange relationshi…

We're back!!! We are finally back at it. Sorry for the long delay. All sorts of stuff going on but all good. In this episode js and I explore our affinity for playing in public, both "public public" and "play party public" We share some of our adventures and our thoughts on how to navigate each situation. Public play is something we truly enjoy and…

Because we have been gone for so long... We are treating you to not one but two episodes in one day!!! BONUS!!! In this episode js and I discuss our fantasies, how they have evolved, which ones we would like to explore and js's idea that many should not see the light of day. As you would expect I disagree and push to fulfill many of her deepest and…

In this episode we discuss our journey and how we came to the Owner/property dynamic and what it means to each of us. We ramble and get off track a few times but all in all; the conversation is fun and gives some insight as to how we see our relationship and how it has developed over the years. As always you can find us on the following: Twitter: @…

Hey everyone... We're finally back. After a few weeks of illness, both of us being sick with "colds" and coughs to the point where there was no way to create a podcast we are back!!! In this episode we take on the discussion of mistakes, sharing our personal experiences and mistakes we've made over the years. js shares one experience where she had …

In this episode we play a little game called "Truth or Truth"... In reality it's just us asking each other questions that neither of us knew were going to be asked. js tries to spice the game up by adding a drinking game. Which turns out to be just js drinking for no other reason than to enjoy. This makes for some fun interaction between her and he…

Does a Dominant treat a submissive different if they have a loving or caring relationship outside of their BDSM experience? Would a Dominant push someone further if it is a "one-time" encounter? Owner and js try to take this on. Using their years of experience they discuss their thoughts on how a connection that is developed outside of the D/s pers…

Pony Play is on the agenda... js and I took some time this week to explore pony play, using the theme throughout the week in our 24/7 Owner/property relationship. js muses on the week including how much fun she had shopping for pony gear and accessories. She even makes a fun analogy between my role as an owner and a yoga instructor (you'll need to …

Its all about chastity today. We discuss chastity from a few different angles including some history regarding chastity also debunking a few myths that have circulated for years. Then its time to discuss our history with chastity, where js exposes why not all chastity belts work; specifically the selection we currently have on hand. We both give ou…

In this latest episode we discuss traits or attributes that we think are important for either the Dominant or submissive to have. The conversation focuses on what is important to us, and how we might demonstrate these in our relationship. As the conversation develops, there are a few moments we banter quite heavily regarding definitions or importan…

My Lover and i discuss (between my giggles) the ways to mark a submissive. Bare handed, flogger, crop, cane, or more permanent markings, and the pleasures they hold (or don't) are discussed. We dive into how each have been applied and my love or distaste for each. It is a fun lighthearted look into our preferences and views on each scenario. If you…

On this episode of the Objectify my Love Podcast, we look back at a full week of long-term bondage for js. We highlight some of the challenges she was asked to endure while she shares how each of these challenges played in her beautiful mind. Then we move the discussion towards a failure in our journey this past week. We discuss what happened and h…

This week we discuss books and movies that influenced our BDSM perspectives. We share our thoughts on some popular books and movies as well as those not so well known or popular. js gives us some insight regarding her earliest movie influences as well as how much she loves movies with a mental push/pull dynamic. It is a spirited discussion that giv…

This week we explore objectification. What is objectification? How can you objectify someone? js shares some very intimate fantasies involving objectification, one of which she had never shared previously with her Owner. We also go on to discuss the ways Owner enjoys objectifying js as well the ways js likes to be objectified. Thanks for listening …

In this episode js and I explore the moment or moments when we realized that we were into BDSM. js shares some stories from listeners who were gracious enough to share. We further discuss our own journey and the additional moments that shaped our views as we continue to explore our own wants needs and desires. Thanks for listening and as always you…

In this episode js and her Owner discuss rituals in BDSM. They have a discussion regarding the word itself and other words that js thinks are more appropriate. After a brief interaction where they explore some of the "standard" rituals in BDSM, the discussion continues as they share the many rituals they have within their relationship, discussing t…

In todays episode we explore BDSM Checklists. The types, their value and how we have used them in our relationship to create boundaries and grow trust. We later go through a list (link below) and ask js where she stands on some of the activities. We think it is a fun conversation and hope you do as well. Checklist Link: https://www.scribd.com/docum…

In their first podcast; js and her owner explore collars. The discuss a bit of their history and how they came to be in the BDSM community. They also share feel about them and what they instill within their relationship. Thanks for listening and as always you can follow the fun at the following: Twitter: @jssontrou @jssontrousowner @objectifymylove…