Formerly They Can't All be Betty, this is now simply: The Gay Podcast for Everyone™: the LBGTQ+ community, our families, and our allies! In this podcast, I chat with people whose supportive conversations are helping to keep the closet door open, and we'll talk about how we can normalize conversations within our family dynamics. It's possible to choose unconditional love even if you don't understand the journey. Let's talk about. Because awkward conversations are better than none at all. Mont ...
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36. Coming Out Later in Life with Jillian Abby, author of Perfectly Queer
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In this episode, I chat with author, Jillian Abby, as we discuss the topic of coming out later in life, which she chronicles in her memoir, Perfectly Queer: Facing Big Fears, Living Hard Truths, and Loving Myself Fully Out of the Closet. Jillian's story, which she shares in her book, is about her coming out later in life - after a nineteen-year mar…
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35. Ben Greene, author of My Child is Trans, Now What?
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Speaker, author, and an LGBTQ+ inclusion advocate, Ben Greene, joins me on the podcast to chat about his book, My Child is Trans, Now What? A Joy-Centered Approach to Support. Ben is a transgender man who is using his voice and his experience to educate parents and families as they navigate questions regarding their child's coming out as transgende…
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Happy Pride, everyone! For Pride Month, I thought it would be fun to hear some proposal and wedding stories because who doesn't love a gay wedding? In this episode, a few of my past guests share their proposal stories and some of their favorite moments from their weddings. Whether you're in the LGBTQ+ community or an ally, I think you'll enjoy it. …
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33. How to Wear Your Pride as an Ally: a chat with Laura Stuart of jewelry brand Laura Elizabeth
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In 2021, I got a DM from a jeweler designer named Laura Stuart. She reached out, asking for some feedback on a couple of jewelry designs. She was creating some pieces that she was designing at the request of a grandmother whose grandson was being bullied at school for being gay, and the grandmother wanted Laura's help in designing something that wo…
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32. Can Lesbians Say "Gay"? (solo episode)
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"I've noticed more lesbian women referring to themselves as gay... I'm curious as to why." This is something someone said to me recently. An inference that lesbians (like myself) were using the wrong word. At first, I was a bit shocked by the question because I've never known anyone who was bothered by it. Like, this isn't new. Lesbians say gay. It…
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31. The impact of culture, family, and privilege with Israel and Sunem Tovar, hosts of Money Noticias podcast.
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Israel and Sunem Tovar are first-gen Latine siblings and hosts of Money Noticias podcast. If you’ve listened to their podcast, you know that their dynamic is so fun and supportive. That's why I asked them to join me on this episode - to talk about having the support of our family and our siblings as we live out and proud. Although our lens in this …
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30. Steve Silverman, host of World Gone Good Podcast
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Steve Silverman is the host of the World Gone Good podcast, where he talks to everyday people about how they’re making the world a little better and finding the good in it. Steve is on the podcast today to share his coming out story and his journey with his family. On this episode, Steve shares: How having a sibling who is also gay (and came out be…
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29. Two Gay Grandpas Travel (Grandpa Scott and Grandpa Bobby) are life (and travel) goals!
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Grandpa Scott and Grandpa Bobby (Two Gay Grandpas Travel) did not set out to be YouTube sensations. But in December of 2023, thanks to a shout-out from a social media influencer, Scott and Bobby's YouTube travel channel took off! Their YouTube channel (Two Gay Grandpas Travel) now has 98,000 subscribers (and counting) and chronicles their many trav…
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28. Charly Stoever (aka Traveler Charly) of Millionaire Unicorn podcast talks about top surgery, chosen family and personal and financial independence.
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Charly Stoever (he/they, aka Traveler Charly, ) is a non-binary latinx money coach, speaker, and host of the Unicorn Millionaire Podcast. On a recent post on their Instagram, Charly wrote about everything they wish they had known before getting top surgery and aligning with their true self. The post was honest and inspirational, and I asked them to…
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27. Why a supportive family makes all the difference, with Surviving podcast host, David Keck
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David's family told him these words: we cannot fully love you if we don't know all of you. Talk about unconditional love. Today's guest, David Keck (host of Surviving podcast), quite literally came out with the help of his family. Just as he was grappling with his religion and his sexuality, yet going through the motions of life (girlfriends, break…
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26. Solo episode: Awkward Conversations. Stronger Connections.
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Welcome back to a new season of the podcast! Awkward Conversations. Stronger Connections. That's the vibe for this episode and this podcast season because, sometimes, good things come from uncomfortable conversations! When I came out to my family, it wasn't an easy conversation. But it definitely built a stronger connection. And, over time, it allo…
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25. Dr. Jen Towns, author of Our Deepest Roots: Navigating Past Trauma to Build Healthier Queer Relationships
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In her book, Our Deepest Roots: Navigating Past Trauma to Build Healthier Queer Relationships, Dr. Jen Towns (aka Your Queer Therapist) discusses the intersection of trauma and relationships in the queer community. In this episode (season 2 finale), we chat about: how our experiences shape our sense of safety and affect how we handle situations (li…
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24. Solo episode: Be PROUD of your progress. Happy Pride-365
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This is a quick episode about celebrating Pride and the progress we've made in our journey. Sometimes it's easy to forget how much progress we've made and how much positive change we've designed for ourselves, but hopefully this episode serves as a reminder of all the steps it took to get to where you are today in your Pride journey. Happy Pride - …
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23. BONUS: Is it coming out or is it just stating a fact? A conversation with LGBQ+ podcaster, Holly Krivo
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In this episode, I chat with Holly Krivo, host of the Sober-ish Uprising podcast, about our shared experiences moving out of Austin and into new cities/neighborhoods. We're both openly gay women who have been out for many years, but we have different experiences coming out to our neighbors and new people. In our community, we often say that we come…
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22. You Are Loved. A message of unconditional love with life coach, Anna K. Morris
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In today's episode, one of my favorite people joins me for a chat about unconditional love, advocating for the LGBTQ+ community, and how to find your superpower (aka just be yourself). Anna K. Morris is a life and transformation coach and LGBTQ+ ally who is using her voice to advocate for her local LGBTQ+ community. In August of 2022, her non-profi…
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21. Mini-Episode: a podcasty chat about self-publishing with author Lisa Brennan
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Part 2 of my chat with Lisa Brennan, author of The Auditorium in My Mind: Treasuring My Transgender Child. In this mini-episode, Lisa joins me to talk about the process of writing your first book and navigating the world of self-publishing. If you're interested in writing a book, Lisa gives some great tips on self-publishing and how to stay dedicat…
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20. Lisa Brennan, author of The Auditorium in My Mind: Treasuring My Transgender Child
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In her book, The Auditorium in My Mind: Treasuring My Transgender Child, Lisa Brennan opens up about her experience of having her child come out to her as a transgender woman. She openly talks about her journey from sadness and grief to unwavering pride, and shares how it's possible to give your child unconditional support while navigating your own…
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19. BONUS: Stumbling through topics and conversations and learning as you go with guest, Lori Briones
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In the trailer for this podcast, I mentioned the acronym LGBTQ without the "+" at the end. I panicked about it. Was I unintentionally excluding a section of my community from the conversation? Because that wasn't my intention. Certain topics cause us to pause and ask ourselves if we said something right, or if there might be a better way to say som…
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18. LGBTQ+ therapist, speaker, and mindset coach, Bhavna Raithatha
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Bhavna Raithatha is a therapist, a public speaker, and a personal coach. This episode discusses how the messages we get as children affect us in our adult lives. Many times, we live out the expectations of others rather than ourselves, and Bhavna reminds us of the importance of designing a life of your own. Bhavna came out later in life, after a lo…
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17. Mini-Episode: a podcasty chat with Nichole Abshire, co-host, Go Behind the Ballot podcast about the realities of podcasting
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Part 2 of my chat with Nichole Abshire, co-host, Go Behind the Ballot podcast. In this mini-episode, Nichole Abshire joins me to talk about the process of podcasting and creating a podcast. If you're interested in podcasting or just wanna take the leap to do something creative, we hope you'll find some motivation in this episode! For podcasting blo…
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16. How to be a supportive LGBTQ+ parent while you're still on your own journey with Nichole Abshire, co-host, Go Behind the Ballot podcast
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Nichole Abshire is a writer, an actor and co-host of the podcast Go Behind the Ballot. In today's episode, Nichole chats with me about why she decided to share her journey as an LGBTQ+ parent on her podcast, the ways in which her children have expanded her mindset, and how she found community in other LGBTQ+ parents and local organizations. You can…
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15. Joselyn Martin of Breast Cancer is Boring Podcast: Bachelor-ish chat and a whole lot more
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Whether you're a fan of The Bachelor or not, you're gonna want to dive into this episode! Joselyn Martin of Breast Cancer is Boring podcast joins me to talk about more than just The Bachelor, as we also dive into her POV as a nurse and how she tries to create a safe space for her LGBTQ+ patients. In part one, we chat about Becca Tilley of The Bache…
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14. Season 2 Intro Episode: A recap of New Year's Eve
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New Year. New Season. Not-so-new name. Welcome (back) to The Gay Podcast for Everyone! In this episode, I share about a New Year's Eve party in my neighborhood. I posted about it on Instagram and mentioned that I would recap the "before and after" on the podcast. New neighborhood, new neighbors...new people to come out to. Topics in this episode: H…
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Welcome to the second season of They Can't All be Betty. This is the Gay Podcast for Everyone! Did you like the episode? Wanna share some feedback? Click HERE to reach out and lemme know!By They Can't All be Betty
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13. The Final Episode(?): A look back (and what's to come) with guest host, Lori Briones
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Joined by my sister, Lori (Episode 1: Siblings and Allies), we talk about how the Betty podcast series has opened up each of our viewpoints, what's next for the podcast, and also share some exciting news! update: You're on Speaker podcast is pending. Stay tuned! Transcript available. Did you like the episode? Wanna share some feedback? Click HERE t…
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12. Rick Clemons, Podcast Host of Life (UN)Closeted and 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk
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Rick Clemons is a podcaster, international speaker, and a men's coming out coach who inspires gay men to live life with no excuses, no fears, no apologies. Rick was a late bloomer coming out of the closet and uses that experience to motivate and inspire audiences to break out of the closets of their lives. Follow Rick at www.rickclemons.com Did you…
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11. Deborah Miranda: Gen X Money Coach and LGBTQ mom
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Deborah Miranda is a Seattle-based Gen X Money Coach, blogger, and LGBTQ mom. In this episode, we discuss how our Hispanic/Latino culture tends to avoid sensitive topics, such as money and sexual orientation, how she advocates for her LGBTQ child, and how to navigate the use of different pronouns when your child identifies as non-binary. Deborah ca…
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10. BONUS: Let's talk about The Bachelor (the Colton Chronicles)
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Join me and my co-host for this episode, Joselyn Martin of Breast Cancer is Boringpodcast. We discuss Colton Underwood's coming out and our frustration with the fact that every recent Bachelor contestant has no idea what they want. Ben Higgins... Pilot Pete... Colton Underwood...Matt James.... why were they on this show?! If you're a fan of The Bac…
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9. Chris Tompkins, author of Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground
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Author Chris Tompkins joins me to discuss his upcoming book, Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground. We also discuss the topic of internalized homophobia, and how heteronormative language creates harmful long-lasting subconscious messages. This episode isn't just for parents. It's for everyone who has be…
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8. BONUS: Let's talk about "Jenny's Wedding"
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Joined by my fellow friends and writers, this is a deep dive into the 2015 film, Jenny's Wedding, a coming out film that focuses on the parent POV. With a Rotten Tomatoes score of 25%, it didn't get a lot of love from audiences or critics, but it's one that just might deserve a second chance. This episode is for writers and film fans who love to ta…
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7. Solo Episode: Quick check-in, and thoughts on stereotypes, labels, and Selena
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A quick check-in episode, including thoughts on making judgments based on stereotypes and assumptions. Mentioned in this episode: Simple Habits by Matt D'Avella So Money Podcast/ Farnoosh Torabi Go-to Gals Podcast/ Jaclyn Mellone Did you like the episode? Wanna share some feedback? Click HERE to reach out and lemme know!…
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6. When your child comes out (and wants a coming out party)
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Meet two parents whose 10 year-old son recently came out to them and asked for a coming out party. Still very much at the beginning of their journey, they have a lot of questions and fears, but their one constant is to always foster a space of unconditional love and support. Recorded via Zoom. Did you like the episode? Wanna share some feedback? Cl…
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A conversation with family friends -- a mother and son -- who discuss how a parent's unwavering support makes all the difference in the journey. Recorded via Zoom. Did you like the episode? Wanna share some feedback? Click HERE to reach out and lemme know!By They Can't All be Betty
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This episode is with a mom who has always been supportive of whoever her children were and whoever they wanted to love. For her, it was simply a different, but equally beautiful journey. In spite of the open door, the conversation was still slow to evolve. Podcast recorded via Zoom. Did you like the episode? Wanna share some feedback? Click HERE to…
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3. Siblings and Allies: a chat with my sister, Lori Briones
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In the first episode of They Can't All be Betty, I chat with my biggest LGBTQ ally -- my sister, Lori. In this conversation, we'll talk about what it's like for me to be out to our family and how, gay or straight, our views about PDA -- especially around our parents -- isn't about sexual orientation, but rather about how we were raised. Recorded vi…
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2. Intro Episode (Part 2): What it means to "Be a Betty."
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Who is Betty? What does it mean to "be a Betty"? Inspired by Betty DeGeneres, a "Betty" is the ideal parent/person in the coming out journey. Someone who, in spite of fear, shows up with unconditional love. Unconditional love doesn't mean you still don't have questions, concerns, or fears. It just means we have to help each other through that conve…
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1. Intro Episode (Part 1): The beginning isn't supposed to look like the middle.
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Welcome to They Can't All be Betty. This is the LGBTQ podcast that invites our families and allies into the conversation. This is the gay podcast for everyone! Did you like the episode? Wanna share some feedback? Click HERE to reach out and lemme know!By They Can't All be Betty
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