Each week this podcast talks about some aspect of personal relationships. Phil and Maude believe that conflict-free relationships are possible for everyone, and talk about how they achieve that between them.
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Why It’s Important to Support Each Other in Your Relationships
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The extent to which you have a feeling of support in your relationships will determine your sense of calm, serenity and peace. It consists of both giving and receiving. There is joy in this sense of mutual support. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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It’s Important to Feel the Connection in Your Relationships
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All too often, people become so used to the contact and connection in their relationships that they start to take them for granted. You stop really noticing the experience of that connection; how it makes you feel, why you treasure it, why it’s so important. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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How to Find Peace and Hope Through Your Relationships
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Watch for the dangers we all face every day of succumbing to doubt, loss of hope, or just plain tiredness. Turn to your relationships. Listen to the quiet and strength of hope you can find within yourself and each other. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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Why It’s Important to Speak Your Feelings in Relationships
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Speaking your position that has two benefits. The fact of putting it into words makes it much clearer, and the more specific the words are the clearer you can be. And having spoken it, you can start to move past it. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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How Tone of Voice Creates Peace in Your Relationships
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Peaceful relationships can come down to whether or not you speak with respect, love and kindness in your tone of voice and basic attitude, as this kind of communication creates an environment of calm, openness and comfort. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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You know the feeling of being at odds with another person? Don't go there in the first place, and if you're in there, get out. Don’t just look at what the other person is doing; look at what you are doing, too. Focus on finding a resolution that works for both of you. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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Peaceful Relationships Really Do Exist: Make Yours One Of Them
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We have a direct experience of a peaceful relationship, we’ve had it since our early days, and it has remained completely consistent. It is so different from our previous relationships that we feel compelled to write about it. Our message is that it exists, therefore it is possible. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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How Trust and Peace go Hand in Hand in Your Relationships
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Trust comes from openness and sharing, being interested in who the other person is, interacting without being defensive, wishing the best possible outcome for each other, and coming from love, not fear. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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When you are in a conflict, stop, center yourself, breathe, and ask yourself what is important here. This pulls you into the present and gives you the opportunity to stop being reactive, and instead, choose a better way to respond. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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It is a common belief that conflicts are inevitable even in the most loving of relationships, but when the underlying needs are examined, it is nearly always possible to find a mutual solution. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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The sense of loving connection between two people is the heart of every relationship. It is important to take the time to feel and recognize the connection, and to develop the sense of what makes each one precious and unique in its own way. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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Why aren’t people totally honest with each other? Maybe they think it will cause strife in the relationship. But strife isn’t the only reason for not being honest; shame is, too. There is something you are uncomfortable sharing, but you need to regard honesty as more important than shame. Read more ›…
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Why It’s Important to be Present in Your Relationships
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When you are in the present with another person, it is a palpable experience. You can strongly feel when someone is actually there with you, just as you can feel when they are not. Share your inner life with the other person for the best possible relationship. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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How to Strengthen Your Relationships with Appreciation and Acknowledgment
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The importance of letting people know you see and appreciate them carries into all encounters. You can make a person’s day just by saying thank you or smiling at them. It doesn’t take much effort and makes a world of difference. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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How To Fix The World Through Our Relationships
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The more you have the experience of peace, the living experience of it, the more you will be attracted to it. It is such an exquisite sensation that it’s very attractive. The more you experience it, the more you know the path to get to that place. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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Why Respect is Important for a Happy, Loving Relationship
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We show respect by the way we treat each other: by our tone of voice, our willingness to listen, to accept the inevitable differences of personality and behavior. We show it by our love and our kindness; by the empathy we feel and the warmth, safety and comfort we give. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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It’s Not About You; Avoid Misunderstandings In Your Relationships
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One of the things that often causes misunderstandings in relationships is perceived slights. These are small things, but if you are not communicating openly and honestly, these presumed slights may slowly turn into a mountain of accumulated wrongdoings. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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How to Deal With Decisions and Disagreements in Your Relationship
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There are multiple ways to solve a problem. Once you share the same values with someone, you can deal with decisions and disagreements without generating rancor, and by exploring, you can find a solution that works for both of you. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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How to Create Peace Instead of Conflict in Your Relationships
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A close relationship is fundamentally different from others as it is built upon openness and honesty, both in sharing and accepting. This creates trust, which allows you to be more open, which creates more trust, and so on. When you are not actively creating conflict, you can actively create peace. Read more ›…
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How To Deal With Differences In Your Relationships
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For an enrichment of your relationships and a more joyous way of being together, ask yourself, “What stops me from embracing differences?” “Why am I rejecting or trying to modify what seems different?” and “What will it take for me to move into trust and acceptance?” Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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How Recognizing and Celebrating Uniqueness Helps Your Relationships
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Understanding the quality of uniqueness holds a key for peaceful relating. There is only one of each person. That means that each of you has contributions and insights and ways of being to offer that can only come from you, and the same for each other person. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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Why Are Core Values Important in All Your Relationships?
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Your core values affect everything that you do and decide, including how you feel and respond to other people. Having matching or complementary core values with another person is necessary for a peaceful relationship. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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The Five Fundamentals of Peaceful Relationships
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For the last few weeks, we have been writing about subtle aspects of peaceful relationships. It is now time to describe the five principles for creating peaceful relationships, of which these subtle aspects are a part. These are: Knowing and … The Five Fundamentals of Peaceful Relationships Read More »…
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How to Create Peaceful Relationships by Balancing Your Differences
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PHIL: I suggested that we write about the sense of equality between us, but Maude said that she sees equality as a measuring word, a counting up of who has done what, so she doesn’t relate to it, and it’s … How to Create Peaceful Relationships by Balancing Your Differences Read More »By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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How to Find Your Shared Reality and Create Peaceful Relationships
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PHIL: We were talking about why we have a peaceful relationship and came up with the idea of a shared reality. This seems to fit what happens when we talk about us, about how we are. One of us will … How to Find Your Shared Reality and Create Peaceful Relationships Read More »By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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How to Make a Better World Through Your Relationships
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MAUDE: Recently a dear friend wrote to me describing an experience she was having with the people helping her repair her house after severe rain damage: I have enjoyed deeply spiritual experiences this week with the various tradesmen I have … How to Make a Better World Through Your Relationships Read More »…
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Fearless Truth is One of the Important Threads of Any Peaceful Relationship
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What are the threads of a peaceful relationship? They lie in the steadfastness of that connection. In every peaceful relationship, whether a friendship, relation, or a romantic one, there has to be both a feeling that the connection is solid and a lack of any need to question that. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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How to Use Relationship Disagreements in a Positive Way
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Phil and I hit a bump the other day. It was to do with the allocation of funds, although the subject really isn’t the important part. It was a rough one. That was so unusual that we took a look at it together afterwards, and had this conversation. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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How Total Honesty Makes For Harmonious Relationships
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Total honesty is a major part of a harmonious relationship. Holding back in the sense of not presenting yourself totally means that you are not quite yourself when you’re with the other person. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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Formulating your values and having an ever increasing awareness of what they are gives you a strong tool to move toward inner peace and peace within your relationships. The more you know your values, the easier you will find it to build relationships that bring satisfaction and fulfillment. Read more ›…
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How To Create Relationships Where Peace Reigns
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If you want peace in the world, and believe it is possible, then the same should be the case in your relationships. Come from a place of mutuality, rather than individuality. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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How to Really Listen and Connect in Your Relationships
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This blog describes the experience of listening to another person with an effortless attention; without any judgment or comments on what is being shared. It is taken in for its deep value, as one heart speaking to another. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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How to Have the Spirit of Goodwill All Year Round
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It is the season of peace on earth and goodwill to all. We won’t go into where this is falling short; instead, we want to say that good will is not just for the holiday season, so let’s look at what it involves. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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Why Little Things Like Thank You are Important in Relationships
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Whether it is your lover, your friend or a customer service representative, you can change someone’s day, with the acknowledgment that you see them as a person, and offer acceptance and love. After all, it really comes down to the little things. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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Why Is Sharing So Important In Your Relationships?
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Sharing is an important component of harmonious relating. Sometimes we get so busy with the doings of life that we miss the opportunity to let another person know how important they are to us. The feeling that another person is interested in you and values you is deeply meaningful. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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Why is Balance Important in Your Relationships?
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Balance is not about equality, it is about being in harmony with another, about recognizing that you are partners working together, not competitors. This is the source of balance in your relationships. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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How to Experience Peace as a Living Reality in Your Relationships
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Peace is sometimes regarded as an absence or a state of inertness, like the peace of the dead, but thinking that way obscures that it is an actual experience. Just as you can be in a state of agitation, worry or panic, you can also be in a state of peace. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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Why Respect is the Small Word With Big Importance in Relationships
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A relationship without respect is like sand in your salad. Respect need not be based on accomplishments or be earned. It is something we offer arising from an awareness of our kindred nature. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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Why Relationships Last: Acceptance, Acknowledgment, Appreciation
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Celebrating differences is a choice. When two people relate to each other in this manner, they become a powerful force for peace in the world. When there is no undercurrent of criticism, you can have an attitude of openness. This is where the feeling of connection comes from. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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Promoting Peace: What Can You Do to Make a Difference?
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If you want peace, you have to be peaceful. If you want to spread peace, find peace within yourself. This is a process and takes a conscious dedication to observing and opening yourself to finding the peaceful solution in any given event. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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How Can You Delight in the Differences in Your Relationships?
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Coming to terms with the fact that people are different from you can be a challenge. An important way to treat differences is to see their benefits. They bring diversity and broaden the possibilities available to you. They add to what you have, rather than taking away. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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You Have the Power to Spread Peace in All Your Relationships
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In the face of all the dissonance and conflict in our world, it is easy to become despondent and to feel hopeless. We are not powerless! Peace is a real, livable and discernible experience. Every time you respond peacefully, you raise the chances of peace. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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How to Recognize That Each Relationship is a Unique Treasure
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The sense of connection between two people is one of those things that we don’t see, but when we look at it, it has a tangible nature. The relationship we have with one person is unique; it is not like the relationship we have with any other person. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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Why Respect and Equality are so Important in Your Relationships
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Equality means treating another person as a complete human being, and respect is equality in action. When you accept the uniqueness of expression of another, you are showing respect. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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What Have We Learned About Peace And Harmony Through Our Relationship?
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This week was our wedding anniversary and it brought us to reflect on what we have learned about the potentials of all relationships from the experience of ours. Here are our musings on just that for our blog this week. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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How Acceptance Creates Peace Within Your Relationships
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We believe that relationships, deep ones, with family, friends and romantic partners are the arena for the realization of peace. In learning that it is possible to live this way with those we are close to, we become ever more capable of treating the greater group in the same way Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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How To Make Sure You Keep Your Relationships Alive
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Relationships, all relationships, only thrive when you take the time to keep them alive, vital and present. Often, long term relationships with romantic partners, family or friends, get taken for granted, become background to the challenges and daily occurrences we all deal with in life. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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How Being on the Same Side Strengthens Your Relationships
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You don’t need to feel tension around differences when you are on the same side and both want the best possible outcome. Even when handling bigger issues, know you can find a way to handle things that will make both of you feel right about it. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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Don’t interrupt! I’m talking! How to Keep the Peace in Relationships
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We do well with deep listening and lack of interruptions when consciously working to solve something. And yet in day to day conversations we encounter a different behavior. Not only do we burst into each other’s talking, but we each point out the other is doing it and feel irritated. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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Why Trust is so Important in All Your Relationships
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How do you develop trust in a relationship? Regardless of how another behaves, there is always an important option open to each of us, and that is to be trustworthy. We can bring the behavior of how it is when someone can be trusted into each and every relationship. Read more ›By Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships
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