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Have you been looking for a kind, warm, non-judgmental parenting community? Join MegAnne while she shares stories, tools, and tips from her nearly 20 years of helping parents enjoy raising strong-willed children! As the creator of The C.L.E.A.R. Method of parenting, her mission is to build a community of parents who are ready to stop yelling and enjoy raising their strong-willed children by supporting parents in taking action to create a calmer home environment. Welcome to Be Kind Coaching, ...
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This episode dives into 3 factors impacting the attachment bond. Grab your notebook and get comfortable, because we're getting deep! Picking up where we left off, let's explore what affects attachment. We discussed attachment qualities and how they build trust (or not) through repeated cycles of the child expressing needs, the caregiver interpretin…
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Welcome to the final episode of our 8-part series on Attachment Theory, where we learn that a good relationship is a secure relationship. This episode is a recap of everything we've learned so far. Grab your notebook and get cozy – we're about to dive in! A big thank you to the listeners who followed along! If you've been listening to the entire se…
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We are on the final episode of this eight-episode stretch, examining the difference between showing up in trusting ways and showing up in non-trusting ways through the aspects of feeling safe, feeling seen, feeling secure, and feeling soothed. We've been exploring these foundational steps to building a healthy relationship. When discussing attachme…
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In today's episode, we will be chatting about the qualities and characteristics of a secure parent. Whether this is your first time listening or you've been on this entire journey with me, we are nearing the end of our eight-episode stretch exploring the four qualities of secure attachment. So, I invite you to get cozy, grab your notebook, and let'…
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We have made it to episode six of this episode stretch, talking through attachment theories and the quality of attachments, and how parents can show up to create a sense of trust or distrust. We've been going through, just talking about the foundations of what creates that connection in a relationship, and we are coming off of the foundation of att…
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We will look at unsafe parenting. The topic of this series is delving into attachment theory and breaking down this complex theory. Strong relationships are likened to a dance between rupture and repair. In my positive parenting class, I discuss this concept using the visual of a pothole. Living in a downtown area, I often encounter potholes that c…
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Inside this series exploring the four qualities of a secure attachment bond, we're discussing the dance between rupture and repair. Ruptures are mistakes, moments of dysregulation, outbursts, frustration, or anger. These moments are natural and human. In a secure relationship, we come back together and do the repair work, recovering from those rupt…
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What is insecure parenting? Let's explore the underlying factors contributing to insecurity in parenting and gain valuable insights into overcoming challenges and fostering a more confident and nurturing approach. Learn from me, a certified parent coach who teaches Positive Parenting Methods and coaches you to create a home environment that you can…
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In this series of videos, we delve into various parenting styles, aiming to provide a comprehensive understanding of what secure parenting entails. One fundamental aspect highlighted is the establishment of boundaries and limits within the parent-child relationship. These boundaries serve as essential tools in the toolkit of a secure parent, contri…
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🧠 Let's unveil the truth, uncover the nuances, and debunk common misconceptions between attachment theory and an attachment parenting style. Whether you're a seasoned parent or just beginning your journey, this insightful content empowers you to navigate parenthood with confidence. #AttachmentTheory #AttachmentParenting #BeKindCoaching 🌟 🔗 Take act…
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Ponder the realities of the struggles that naturally come with parenting. Through insightful discussions, we shed light on the importance of acknowledging and embracing the challenges, fostering resilience, and nurturing authentic connections within our families. With a special segment where parents engage in transformative exercises from the Clear…
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Today's episode will focus on separating who we are from what we do and discussing how being a parent shapes your identity and the methods you use. I invite you to get comfortable, grab your journal, and let's begin. Welcome to "MegAnne is Not a Parent, But..." the podcast where I, your host MegAnne Ford, a former Early Childhood educator turned po…
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Addressing the challenges parents face, acknowledging that feelings of inadequacy often stem from a lack of skills rather than inherent shortcomings. Emphasizing the learning and practice involved in parenting, offering understanding and support to parents navigating the complexities of raising children. I am a former misunderstood child turned par…
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Maternal emotions are real and valuable. What are the nuances of mom guilt? Let's uncover the reality behind it—revealing, relatable, and reshaping our perspectives. Join us for a shame-free journey to empowered motherhood! 🔗 Take action with Be Kind Coaching https://www.bekindcoaching.com/positive-parenting-links 🌐 Visit the Be Kind Coaching websi…
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How can we use our emotions to our benefit? Do you think there are bad and good emotions? What if we could shift our thoughts about emotions to just allowing them to be messages! 🔗 Take action with Be Kind Coaching https://www.bekindcoaching.com/positive-parenting-links 🌐 Visit the Be Kind Coaching website https://www.bekindcoaching.com/ 📨 Subscrib…
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Are there 'Bad' emotions? What would life be like without emotions, and the impacts of emotions on our experiences? Get ready to reframe your perspective, embrace every feeling, and dive into a world without 'bad' emotions! 🔗 Take action with Be Kind Coaching https://www.bekindcoaching.com/positive-parenting-links 🌐 Visit the Be Kind Coaching websi…
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Let's challenge the notion of anger as the "bad guy" and advocate for listening to anger cues, just as we heed the signals of hunger, thirst, and sleep as a path to self-discovery and transformation. 🔗 Take action with Be Kind Coaching https://www.bekindcoaching.com/positive-parenting-links 🌐 Visit the Be Kind Coaching website https://www.bekindcoa…
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Explore the transformative role of self-awareness in personal growth. We reflect on the satisfaction derived from our best efforts and the distinction between change and growth. With a focus on awareness, we uncover blind spots and consider the impact of our upbringing. We'll address the fear often associated with awareness and introduce the concep…
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Dive into the profound world of trauma healing with our podcast as we explore essential books like 'The Deepest Well' by Dr. Nadine Burke Harris, 'Healing Developmental Trauma' by Heller and LaPierre, 'What Happened to You?' by Oprah and Dr. Bruce Perry, 'It Didn't Start With You' by Mark Wolynn, and 'When the Body Says No' by Dr. Gabor Maté "Heali…
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Explore what happens to our bodies when we come in contact with a threat and how this information will help us understand our own reactions to the children in our lives. Our bodies are actively trying to protect us, but what happens if there really is no threat? Do you over apologize, have difficulty saying no, are you a people pleaser? Have you ev…
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Do you know when you are in freeze mode? Explore what happens to our bodies when we come in contact with a threat and how this information will help us understand our reactions to the children in our lives. Our bodies are actively trying to protect us, but what happens if there really is no threat? Trigger warning: We are working through, from a bi…
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Do you know when you are in flight mode? Can you escape the lion? Or is it just a cat? Are you aware when you pick up children in love or anger? Explore what happens to our bodies when we come in contact with a threat and how this information will help us understand our own reactions to the children in our lives. Our bodies are actively trying to p…
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Is your child quick to fight you? Are you quick to anger? It might interest you why that is happening. Trigger warning: We are working through, from a birds-eye view, what trauma is and its effect on the body. Listen to your body. You could get triggered, which is normal. You are safe here to take a break and come back. Learning about these things …
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Our brain’s main focus is to adjunct our bodies to navigate circumstances. If the circumstance becomes dangerous, we become protective so we can survive. That is when our brain can make assumptions about our environment. Is the animal that is in front of us a tiger or a cat? Trigger warning: We are working through, from a birds-eye view, what traum…
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Do you know what your ACE score is? I will share what ACEs is and share with you my ACE score. Trigger warning: We are working through, from a birds-eye view, what trauma is and its effect on the body. Listen to your body. You could get triggered, which is normal. You are safe here to take a break and come back. Learning about these things can only…
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Listen to MegAnne and Jennine Jacob discuss together what is empathy and how it relates to her work, and her parenting. In her book's introduction, she writes: "I have always felt like an outsider but it wasn’t until later in life that I learned I have ADHD. Both my father and my step-father were in the Navy so we moved around a lot adding to the f…
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VALUE CONNECTION OVER GRADES! The Podcast interview I had was with Dr. Kimberly Douglass whom I met on TikTok and it was a message I want to deliver right into this community- as it relates DIRECTLY to the message I have shared before. Become empowered in a system that creates a division between you and your child. Crowdfund Book Development by Dr …
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Healing is not linear; understanding trauma's impact empowers parents to create a safe and supportive environment for their children. Trigger warning: We are working through, from a birds-eye view, what trauma is and its effect on the body. Listen to your body. You could get triggered, which is normal. You are safe here to take a break and come bac…
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Co-regulation is a vital aspect of fostering emotional well-being and resilience. The concept of co-regulation is important in maintaining healthy relationships and supporting individuals in managing their emotional states effectively. But, what does that mean? 🔗 Take action with Be Kind Coaching https://www.bekindcoaching.com/positive-parenting-li…
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Communication is not always about talking... Your body is giving you away. 🔗 Take action with Be Kind Coaching https://www.bekindcoaching.com/positive-parenting-links 🌐 Visit the Be Kind Coaching website https://www.bekindcoaching.com/ 📨 Subscribe Right Nowhttps://www.bekindcoaching.com/subscribeBy MegAnne Ford
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What if your child's behavior was communication instead of your annoyance? What if your behavior was only communication? 🔗 Take action with Be Kind Coaching https://www.bekindcoaching.com/positive-parenting-links 🌐 Visit the Be Kind Coaching website https://www.bekindcoaching.com/ 📨 Subscribe Right Nowhttps://www.bekindcoaching.com/subscribe…
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There are four different listening styles (informational, bias, defensive, and active). I’m sure either you've been told this, or you've heard this “you're not listening to me.” My inner raging teenager comes out when I think about this phrase. Can you hear the difference between these two phrases? “You are not listening to me!” Vs “I am not being …
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There are four different listening styles (informational, bias, defensive, and active). I’m sure either you've been told this, or you've heard this “you're not listening to me.” My inner raging teenager comes out when I think about this phrase. 🔗 Take action with Be Kind Coaching https://www.bekindcoaching.com/positive-parenting-links 🌐 Visit the B…
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When did your parent-child relationship start? I would like you to think about the moment you discovered that you would be a parent. Be it a pregnancy test, the moment you decided to adopt a child or any other way, you began the process of bringing a child into your life. That was the beginning of your side of the parent-child relationship. What ab…
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Why do we make assumptions? Three assumptions I make about every parent. 🔗 Take action with Be Kind Coaching https://www.bekindcoaching.com/positive-parenting-links 🌐 Visit the Be Kind Coaching website https://www.bekindcoaching.com/ 📨 Subscribe Right Nowhttps://www.bekindcoaching.com/subscribeBy MegAnne Ford
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Strive for Positive Impact, not Positive Intentions Feeling Like a Bad Mother? In those moments, your response can either deepen disconnection or foster repair and connection with your children. As you navigate these emotions, remember that your choices influence how your children navigate their own challenges and relationships. Embracing connectio…
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You are already co-creating your Parenting Manual. Are you happy with it, or would you like to revise it? You can steer clear of power struggles and foster a thriving connection with your child. Explore Carpenter vs. Gardener parenting styles, addressing fears and solving common issues through trust and respect. 🔗 Take action with Be Kind Coaching …
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How do you connect with your loved ones? Listen actively? To create deeper, more meaningful bonds. Strengthen your relationships by learning how to be engaged and attentive in your interactions with others. 🔗 Take action with Be Kind Coaching https://www.bekindcoaching.com/positive-parenting-links 🌐 Visit the Be Kind Coaching website https://www.be…
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Stop fueling the power struggle with your strong-willed child and regain control, connection, and cooperation this summer. Replace the tools that are fueling the struggle with your strong-willed child. Learn the five most effective love-based steps to bring peace and harmony into your home. 🔗 Take action with Be Kind Coaching https://www.bekindcoac…
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Have you noticed that your child uses the same tools on you as you use with them? Do you like what is being reflected? 🔗 Take action with Be Kind Coaching https://www.bekindcoaching.com/positive-parenting-links 🌐 Visit the Be Kind Coaching website https://www.bekindcoaching.com/ 📨 Subscribe Right Nowhttps://www.bekindcoaching.com/subscribe…
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Tami Hackbarth is the host of the 100% Guilt-Free Self-Care podcast. In her work as a life coach, she works with women who want to get their time and energy back so they can go after their big dreams and create the world they want to live in. Find Tami at: Instagram @tamihackbarth Facebook 100%GuiltFreeSelfCarewithTamiHackbarth Pinterest - @tgbts W…
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What advice would I give a parent trying to change generational bad parenting behaviors and soothe their younger selves? 🔗 Take action with Be Kind Coaching https://www.bekindcoaching.com/positive-parenting-links 🌐 Visit the Be Kind Coaching website https://www.bekindcoaching.com/ 📨 Subscribe Right Nowhttps://www.bekindcoaching.com/subscribe…
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Let's dig into how our brains help protect us- but without awareness, we can become stuck in this survival state. 🔗 Take action with Be Kind Coaching https://www.bekindcoaching.com/positive-parenting-links 🌐 Visit the Be Kind Coaching website https://www.bekindcoaching.com/ 📨 Subscribe Right Nowhttps://www.bekindcoaching.com/subscribe…
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How do you motivate a strong-willed child? We can not force motivation, so what can we do? 🔗 Take action with Be Kind Coaching https://www.bekindcoaching.com/positive-parenting-links 🌐 Visit the Be Kind Coaching website https://www.bekindcoaching.com/ 📨 Subscribe Right Nowhttps://www.bekindcoaching.com/subscribe…
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"What to do on the days where you're not 100%" Oh friends, I have been there- and was there just yesterday! I have some thoughts about this and am so excited to share some resources! 🔗 Take action with Be Kind Coaching https://www.bekindcoaching.com/positive-parenting-links 🌐 Visit the Be Kind Coaching website https://www.bekindcoaching.com/ 📨 Subs…
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