Candice and Mette talk about what the podcast has meant to them.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

We talk about what makes us feel safe and what doesn't.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

Two recovering perfectionists talk about the contining temptation.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

Can you become more fun and if so, how?By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

When you know you shouldn't do too much, why do you keep doing it anyway? What are you winning? What are you avoiding?By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

What do you keep, literally and metaphorically, after a major life change?By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

Do you give advice? Why or why not?By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

If no one has ever told you before, it sucks getting old.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

All the things we've learned to do since our divorces.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

What do you regret? How do you let go of regret? What regret is it useful to hold onto, if any?By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

Taking a good hard look at how we self-sabotage

How good are you at taking feedback? Should you always?By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

Yes, we're talking literally and metaphorically hereBy Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

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What can I take out of my life that will add to my life?By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

Are you allowed to get what you want? That's the first step in getting it. Other thoughts on the same.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

How do you learn to ask for help and not give up your sense of independence?By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

When you have nothing left, you hit the wall. Sometimes that can be a very good thing.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

We talk about avoiding the binary of this type of thinking.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

Sometimes you worry if there will be enough time, but there is.By Mette Ivie H

Is self-care bath bombs and chocolate or is it more than that?By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

What is money for? How do you use money properly? How do you feel less guilty about money? How do you use money for happiness?By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

What do you do when anniversaries about things you're still processing come up?By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

What if "because I want to?" is not a selfish thing to say, but actually the only reason any of us do anything?By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

Why divorce isn't the worst thing in the world. If you're up for that discussion.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

It's time for us to own our anger.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

Do you think we can solve all the problems? Because we definitely do.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

Can you experience pain without suffering. Your two hosts argue charmingly about this.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

Women and mothers are often invisible. We would like to stop being invisible, please.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

People might change, but it doesn't seem to happen very often, or at least not on a character level.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

Do you hate the love language paradigm? Is it useful at all?By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

Everyone says this, but how can you really learn how to not care about their business and believe it's really what you think about yourself that matters?By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens

If it's going to get done, it has to be by me. Ever feel like this? We do.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens

We take a little quiz to see how optimistic we are. We are both surprised (though you may not be).By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens

What is forgiveness? Is it letting things go or is it something more?By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens

We have both been through changes in our religious beliefs, but have also ended in very different places.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens

Some people hate birthdays. Some people love birthdays. Guess which of us is which?By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens

How do you feel about your changing physical appearance after age 50? Wrinkles, gray hair, sagging--um, other parts. We chat frankly about these issues.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens

What is happy? How is happy? Is happy?By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens

How do yout rust yourself when you are the one who has always minimized and betrayed you?By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens

Trying to figure out how to reconcile the different versions of ourselves, offering them all grace.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens

Women tend to put their own needs on hold. We talk about how to not do that anymore.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens

Mette and Candice talk about the pain of losing people as your life changes, and the choice to lose people, as well.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens

Depression is scary and lonely. It isn’t something I would wish on my worst enemy. But it is something that I’ve ended up helping dearest friends through. Sometimes I’m even grateful for my depression because it has allowed me to understand something I never understood before and to help articulate the thoughts that depression whispers to you.…

In high school, one teacher who only ever saw us when we were together called us "Mettice," Candice and Mette. Here is our origin story, even though it took us a decade to remember the first time we truly met.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens

Do you think brooms are not things of joy? Well, listen to us discuss why they can be.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens

There are wonderful things about being alone. Here are some of them.By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens

We all seem to enter into relationships with the idea that there are certain rules, but when other people don't follow the same rules, we're angry. And discover that they never had the same rules in the first place. How could they not?By Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens